Originally posted by: myselfriya
I did not really like today’s episode. I am not asking for only Amritam moments or romance yet I really don’t like the Sakhujas emotional family drama. I have observed from 2009 ever since the inception of ITV’s longest ever running show yeh rishta kya kehlata there has been a lot of emphasis on family bond in every other show which came after that. Imo, I really dislike the way the family bond and relations are shown in most ITV shows in the past 7-8 years.
– I mean they are propagating so many wrong notions through this whole drama of family love/bond….In today’s episode I really did not like what Amrita said to Kabir that he is their blood so he cannot ever be a criminal and the same Amrita goes on misjudging Pritam based on some wrong preconceptions and judges him everytime to be a criminal all because he is an outsider? Well it is not really the blood which decides an individual does crimes and becomes criminal it is their circumstances and personal decisions which leads them to commit crimes, same way with Kabir and Pritam.
I agree. Blood has nothing to do with criminal behaviour.
– This is there in all ITV shows the FLs always have all for family, all for family attitude but when it comes to outsiders and especially the the MLs the FLs forget all their manners and everything and act like some beasts. In this serial both the FLs are like that. Amrita is too caring and loving to her family members but a beast in front of Pritam, same way Meera to Angad.
– I have a feeling that almost all the CVs are certainly propagating this wrong message through their FLs that all good manners, discipline and love is only meant for your family and outsiders should be considered as non-humans.
– Imo, this is a really wrong notion to be propagated. Showing family bond, love and values is correct but it should not go to such an extent that in all ITV serials the CVs will keep showing family is family while others are stones.
Yep. All FLs are doormats with family and sherni outside. Would like to see something different.
– The notions of parenting and discipline is also propagated in a very wrong manner nowadays. I heard many opposing Amrita slapping Kabir in yesterday’s episode in twitter. Imo, she did the right thing when after all she has a motherly relation with him she need not have slapped twice yet she did the right thing. Not really agreed that Kabir’s intentions were really pure to get the job. In that way even the murderers, kidnappers and rapists will also start justifying that their intentions are pure. What Kabir did was really criminal and nothing can justify that. Not just Amrita any mother in her place should punish their children severely be it in the form of slaps, beating or scoldings to correct them if their children do such criminal activities.
– I don’t know why many people have problem with parents slapping their own children in ITV. If it is some sort of physical abuse then agreed it is wrong but correcting and disciplining a child is not WRONG even if it is by slapping or beating them yet I don’t encourage beating or physically abusing women in ITV because there it is like women are weaker beings so we can raise our hands on them which is wrong. In present times women are supposed to be respected a lot.
This is where I disagree. A lot of studies show that children who have been hit by their parents have a negative effect of that trauma. In case of criminal activities I think it is ok but for mistakes I don't think you should be hitting your child.
– Again I know there are people who stan Kabir-Meera’s pair but rn all the mess in Kabir’s life has happened all because of Meera and if they become a pair it is going to be very toxic with all the complications which will arise between the relation of two brothers and even the other family members. I wish the CVs of this show don’t subject us viewers to such extreme negative drama. We are already having enough of it in almost all other shows of star plus and colors. Earlier, this nonsense drama of jija-saali and bhabhi-devar romance drama was always there in zee shows nowadays star plus and colors are promoting this a lot.
Hate Kabir-Meera