Virat is Emotionally Gullible??? - Page 3

I'm not following your first point. I also do not agree with your assessment about Virat because you are saying he has to look at the lens of an IPS office when looking at his personal matters. I think there is only a partial truth to that. To look at it only from that prospect would be to ignore everything else about him as a person that contributes to his perception, however false or wrong it may be.

As to my Steve Jobs analogy, it is well documented he had early stage cancer and it was fully treatable, so again I am not sure what point you are seeking to make.

Hi, good to see you back after a long time.

You know me for a long time in the forum and have known about my views on the Virat too. I have come to the below conclusion at the end of everything.

I can see it as just one thing that Virat is highly self absorbed and doesn’t care about what others feels or thinks. He would want everyone to understand him but he wouldn’t care to try to understand anyone. This includes Pakhi as well. He will act clueless when everyone have issues with him because he believes that he is not wrong and that’s the end of the conversation for him. He has expectations from Sai, from Pakhi and from Samrat too as a brother but he doesn’t give a damn to what should be his code of conduct as an ex, as a husband and as a brother too.

He gets emotional support from Pakhi, he will accept it. If he has to support Pakhi, he will do it. He has soft corner for Pakhi for various reasons. She agrees with him many a times, empathises with him, acts nice with him when many go against him, speaks against Sai when he is also upset with Sai and when others support Sai. Guilt used to be a reason for him to do certain things in the past but these things are also another reason for why he is with Pakhi the way he is. If we look at Pakhi as Sunny, then we won’t find it wrong and that’s what Virat wants from everyone. But both Sai snd Samrat can look at Pakhi as his ex who still wants him, still likes him, who hates his wife, who hasn’t accepted his brother as her husband and so they would not be able to see her as his friend or Sunny. Virat is least bothered about it since he has made up his mind. He says they are and can be friends and no one should have issues with it. If he feels Sai’s friend shouldn’t enter their room, they shouldn’t. If he feels he can enter Pakhi’s room or Pakhi can enter their room at any time of the day, she or him can. He basically will do whatever he wants and whatever he thinks or feels is right. He has no regards for Pakhi too. He uses her to humiliate Sai and lets her lead his war against Sai whenever he needs it. If he becomes uncomfortable with Pakhi and her expectations from him, he will let her know not to expect anything from him but at the same time, he will expect her to support him emotionally. He sets the terms and conditions in all relationships, be it Sai or Pakhi. Samrat and him shared a nice bond which seems to be breaking and he doesn’t like it. He can’t see Samrat or Devi or Ashwini supporting Sai especially going against him. He will want all of these when things are okay between him and Sai but when things aren’t, he will want all of them to support him and not Sai. He is a very demanding person. Whoever is his partner, will always be burdened due to his emotional needs. They will always have to understand him, love him, care for him even when he fails in many ways. He would never introspect. He doesn’t find a need to do it in first place. People associated with him, will always be made to live according to his perspectives, his terms and conditions. At the end of every thing, he will win by playing a victim.

Originally posted by: Tiptione

I'm not following your first point. I also do not agree with your assessment about Virat because you are saying he has to look at the lens of an IPS office when looking at his personal matters. I think there is only a partial truth to that. To look at it only from that prospect would be to ignore everything else about him as a person that contributes to his perception, however false or wrong it may be.

As to my Steve Jobs analogy, it is well documented he had early stage cancer and it was fully treatable, so again I am not sure what point you are seeking to make.

Yes he has to look at his personal life with that professional lens as criminal lives in his family.. his father is a abuser, his kaku is no less than his father, he himself witnessed his omi kaku to be criminal, for the same crime he threw a girl out in the middle of night but his omi kaku is free from any punishment,, is this right being an IPS he ignore these things, he turned blind eyes when devi’s nd bhavani kaku’s truth came out.. ek achi ladki mentally challenged ho gayi just coz of his kaku nd it is not a crime, separated an infant from her mother is not crime for IPS virat chavan,,, one mistake of sai nd she has to bear all taunts nd insult but his family’s can walk free even after doing kidnapping, not going to talk about virat nd pakhi anymore but yes you asked to see him as person then my answer will be same virat failed as person too,, for example now a days of hospital episodes we can see him full of himself I, Me and Myself,, he is such a cry baby that he can see only his pain not even his aai, devi tai or sai or most importantly his best friend pakhi,, he is wrong as a person to force or ask a girl who loves him to love his brother, there is an option of divorce as samrat doesn’t feel same like before for pakhi,,, he is selfish to hide whole truth from samrat,, he is a spineless brother who can not defend his devi tai from being called as an outsider,, and he is a big failure as a husband,,, he is khud ka favourite like kareena style

He supported her two times as per my knowledge when she was going to take admission and at the time of laddak trip, at that time he tried to stand for sai nd asked others to not hate her this much but his talk was so casual nd easy that nobody took him serious nd continued their hate for sai and it happens always no one from his family take him serious his stand for sai is so thanda that is why

There are 7 types of Narcissists defined... Virat if at all he is one...he seems to me a covert narcissist. Here we have a basic meaning.

The Covert Type

Sometimes referred to as "narcissistic vulnerability," this type of person tends to be passive-aggressive but comes across as very helpless. They tend to present themselves as victims and are quick to cry or stage a crisis to gain attention. They also tend to struggle with anxiety and or depression.

Wow, such an interesting breakdown & take👍🏼