Sai and... 💕💑

While we are busy with breaking down Virat's complex nature this is my little effort to demonstrate Sai's state of mind.. Though I am not a good observant as most you guys.. 😆

This girl is struggling to fit into a joint family where so called rules and norms are kept above anything.. She is extremely idealist that for her honesty and transperancy matters the most.. . why she wouldn't sit for the pooja and or join family for the breakfast arranged by pp..Because she knows the ulterior motives behind this charade.. Another incident she didn't inform Virat about her surprise for Ninad which almost landed her into trouble.. She doesn't know how to play along ...And Why so?..She hasn't been introduced to any family dynamics since the girl was born.. On top of that her father only taught her to be truthful and honest irrespective of any situation.. Sadly her these character traits often gets questions.. Often she is being gaslight by her husband and the family....

I love Sai because she is represented most of the modern teens of today's time.. She doesn't believe in changing herself for others but she changes others according to her..

Now coming to her relationship with her husband.. It started off as a deal and they meant to be cordial with each other.. And she was abiding by the rules set by both...Slowly she has developed an attachment towards him.. And rightly so because he is the only man after her father's death with whom she could open up herself...And bang she is back to face the harsh reality when she was thrown out of by her husband in the middle of the night.. When she was finally managed to gather herself and was trying to get used to live alone again she had to go back the family where hardly anyone values her presence...Hardly anyone bothers about her well being yet she tries to be affectionate to them with a hope one day she might get accepted, one day she would be treated like anyother family members..

She yarns for their love no matter how vile they are only because she has no one to call her own.. She is very much greatful towards Virat that she atleast has a family knowing it has a expiry date.. But with Samrat's return her status is at risk because she may have to leave Virat before that moment comes.. She is living the worst fear of her life.. One side she may have to loose the only man on whom she keeps undying trust.. Unfortunately her faith gets shattered once again when her husband teams up with his ex and bang she is back to reality....She can't fathom his sudden change but his indifference has broke her bit by bit.. She was made to feel unwanted and unloved....Little did she knew her behaviour back in their anniversary trip and many unfortunate turns of events landed her to this ultimate destruction..No one understands her impulsiveness that's natural for her age..Everyone expects too much from her but she is misunderstood often for her naiveity..

She just met with another fatal accident.. But the question is whether she will come back Sai Joshi or Sai Virat Chavan.. Ideally she should rise again as Sai Joshi who has better calls in her life to become a doctor and treat people..

Enough blabbering lol 😂

Tagging few whom I remember ❤️

But everyone is welcome lol.. You guys are better at articulation..

So nicely put. The values her father has given is amazing. However she needs someone who can show her ways of changing and growing with time and also point out her mistakes.

When we are 18-20, our families continues to teach us good values and what is right vs wrong even if we don't want to listen to them.

Sai did many mistakes too, but no one could help her understand why that is wrong and where she needs to change. I feel that Ashwini and Shivani failed here bigtime as a parental figure. Sai listens to them if explained logically. Kaku-Ninad etc think they are instilling good values in her by taunting or punishing etc, but all that is not helping Sai coz it makes her even more firmly believe she is right.

Dealing with Sai is not hard if you figure her out. Sai usually bends if people get her to calm down n understand. Ashwini told virat that during the alta kaand....she doesn't like having impositions or force used in any way. But she is always willing to bend for those she cares about or just out of insaniyat or just to do the right thing- as evidenced by her bringing pp back just for virats sake and apologizing to pp and asking her to go on trip to ladakh with virat alone, apologizing to pp just so she'd eat....Sai has no malice towards anyone. But shes headstrong n comes across as brash but underneath it all shes a really sensitive soul. She w

Virat in all this time should've figured her out but sadly he has not. In between during the post pool incidents on several occasions, i thought that virat could see past Sai's brash exterior and understand her real feelings. For example He had a knowing smile when she acknowledged feeling affected by him-pp. There are few more instances too. So all that gave the impression that Virat could read Sai. But he cant. He keeps saying Sai misunderstands him, doesnt grasp his feelings for her etc etc but he is the same. Infact as the older/more mature one, he is expected to have more of a handle on such things but he is no better. He gives pp full leeway to interfere in his married life but wants his wife to be cool with it. Virat is a major disappointment. The Virat they set up was not this guy, he was patient, kind, understanding- but this guy is all I, me, myself!

Originally posted by: ranijain

So nicely put. The values her father has given is amazing. However she needs someone who can show her ways of changing and growing with time and also point out her mistakes.

When we are 18-20, our families continues to teach us good values and what is right vs wrong even if we don't want to listen to them.

Sai did many mistakes too, but no one could help her understand why that is wrong and where she needs to change. I feel that Ashwini and Shivani failed here bigtime as a parental figure. Sai listens to them if explained logically. Kaku-Ninad etc think they are instilling good values in her by taunting or punishing etc, but all that is not helping Sai coz it makes her even more firmly believe she is right.

Agree the value her father has given is amazing.. She is a no nonsense girl.. Kaku and Ninad knows Sai is good human being.. It's all their ego...Kaku's autocratic nature is often at risk due to Sai.. Also Sai isn't from her desired lineage.. And Ninad being Vahini's muse blindly obeys her that's all...

Sai's impulsiveness is mostly because of her age.. Shivani and Aswini certainly can guide her but unfortunately like other they also expect too much from her.. She has everyone yet very lonely

Totally! Would love to see a return by Sai Joshi in essence as a personality. She is flawed but not as badly the show and the Chavan vasis try to project. She is neither the spoilt child they constantly like to call her as. She's been raised to feel and say what she feels and her father knew her well enough to deal with her anger at times. Virat started making her feel important in his life with small things like her father did. Grand gestures count but small things stay in a mind a lot longer, these small gestures made her feel like things could maybe workout between them and over a point she toned herself down to try and be a part of the family & keep everyone happy. When the reason looks lost, these relations also look lost to her.

She is a little young to think as deep as Virat w.r.t the nuances in love or relationship. It's black or white for her and somewhere she is not wrong in what she thinks ...nobody likes their partner's ex loitering around the corner giving strong indications of wanting them back. Normal people would not even be friends with such an ex, here Virat has complicated his marriage with bad choices no matter what the intentions.

The thing is Sai did not ask for a new family or a place of belonging, she was given hope and glimpse into a probably happy future even if she had a time block of 5 years time, this family and relations where to be her support system till she started her own life and so she did so many things small, big and stupid for the CN people. That dream, that support, that fallback for her has crashed along with the hope of something like love, warmth, support and fallback potions.

If this were a movie, Virakhi would be the ideal ending like in Kabhi alvida na Kenna. Here Two losers getting together. They do deserve each other. I am lost as to how with this kind of script they still expect to have Sairst end. No incidents or dialogues have supported this. In yesterday’s epi why was pp and Virat given such a long ss. Every epi has them as the focus. Are they still undecided or are they still trying to prepare the audience for this?

Originally posted by: bookworm2

If this were a movie, Virakhi would be the ideal ending like in Kabhi alvida na Kenna. Here Two losers getting together. They do deserve each other. I am lost as to how with this kind of script they still expect to have Sairst end. No incidents or dialogues have supported this. In yesterday’s epi why was pp and Virat given such a long ss. Every epi has them as the focus. Are they still undecided or are they still trying to prepare the audience for this?

Aila even I was thinking the same thing

AB finds love again ( Sam ) essentially a honest good man who deserves only best

Jealous SK of a more successful wife who engages first emo and then physical affair( Virat)

Successful savage PZ who strives to keep fam happy deserves a safe and happy partner (Sai)

Confused character who has loving caring partner yet goes after delusions RM ( pp) ...I did not understand why RM did not love AB der seemed to be no real explanation , plus she never seemed honest, he would have respected her better if she had been honest and asked for divorce before cheating

Like in the movies it's better virpakhi end up together 🤪