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Hilarious 😂. This post is too good and too funny 😂.

I too had a doubt in the below scene. This way he didn’t even have to feel he is wrong or have to feel guilty. He is acting like a pro but I think it is all happening subconsciously.

Manipulative V: again mai ... Mai chahta hu tu bhi vohi kar vo maine abhi Pakhi 🤢 se kaha hai... Such a close shot but Virat is a pro...👍🏼

Tujhe pata hai tu mere liye kya maayne rakhta hai...🤡

Originally posted by: laksh

Hilarious 😂. This post is too good and too funny 😂.

I too had a doubt in the below scene. This way he didn’t even have to feel he is wrong or have to feel guilty. He is acting like a pro but I think it is all happening subconsciously.

Manipulative V: again mai ... Mai chahta hu tu bhi vohi kar vo maine abhi Pakhi 🤢 se kaha hai... Such a close shot but Virat is a pro...👍🏼

Tujhe pata hai tu mere liye kya maayne rakhta hai...🤡

Thank you❤️

I am confused about what to think about all of it... It's like he subconsciously knows what he is doing... How it is perceived by both their respective partners, he knows P's intentions, but won't stop and always has these defenses ready... Maybe he actually seeks emotional intimacy with P.

I could have let this one go off but after his full dialogue about how much maayne Jeeva keeps in his life... How Sai could not see his parwaah... Again goes back to justifying hand-holding. It was too much at that point. Okay, I get it that maybe at the moment you are too broken that your wife is so critical, you needed emotional support... But in all that you remember justifying handhold with your bhabhi... All the Dialogues in between looked emotional manipulation for Sam.

super funny !! I am so glad you continued your review for today's episode too❤️

When he was talking to Pakhi and brought back zimmedari and KJ, it looks like he was concerned that if Sai dies, then what will people think about him and his promise to KJ. They will think he couldnt nibao his zimmedari properly.

I am not sure if thats what they wnt to convey about Virat, but he does come across as self absorbed man, esp today.

Despite knowing that Sam and Sai does not like him holding Pakhi's hands, he wants them to understand him, but not that he will change his ways. Him justifying handholding to Sam very clearly shows that he knows what Sam's problem is, but he doesnt want to understand Sam.

Originally posted by: ranijain

super funny !! I am so glad you continued your review for today's episode too❤️

When he was talking to Pakhi and brought back zimmedari and KJ, it looks like he was concerned that if Sai dies, then what will people think about him and his promise to KJ. They will think he couldnt nibao his zimmedari properly.

I am not sure if thats what they wnt to convey about Virat, but he does come across as self absorbed man, esp today.

Despite knowing that Sam and Sai does not like him holding Pakhi's hands, he wants them to understand him, but not that he will change his ways. Him justifying handholding to Sam very clearly shows that he knows what Sam's problem is, but he doesnt want to understand Sam.

Thank you...❤️i had to because P fulfilled my expectations... If I hadn't, it wouldn't have been fair...🤣

That Kamal sir and Zimmedaari reference was weird... He still can't make up his mind whether she is still just his zimmedaari or wife... Disappointing...🥺

Another thing I didn't include in the main post in the fear that someone might get offended is that if Sai dies and reunites with KJ in heaven... It would be like he would know what all his daughter had to face after he left. She would have presented her version first... So when image conscious V is goes to heaven, how will he face him and his accusations (weird thought but that came to my mind at that moment, maybe because of too much usage of I, me, myself throughout the episode). For V, his version is supreme and self victimisation is birth right.

That's the main issue, he knows everything... At this moment, it does look like he is seeking emotional intimacy with P.

The problems in their respective marriages due to V-P emotional bond, the doubts their respective spouses have on them, P's intentions everything but repeats the same thing... Is always ready with defenses... At this moment, it doesn't look like it's happening subconsciously because you won't justify your acts then... You won't manipulate the other person... At that moment, I found all that care for Sam and Sai wala Dialogues only emotional manipulation to manipulate Sam... I couldn't see love for Sai too since he had all his senses intact to think logically then too. It's actually just me, myself and I for him... He had time to ask everyone to pray for his wife but did not actually pray for her himself...

when i heard him say tu bhi vohi kar vo me pakhi se kaha - i didnot hear him say "pakhi se kaha" , i just heard tu bhi vohi kar jo maine abhi pakhi " i thought he was asking him also to come and hold pakhi hand. i was shocked i had to rewind and hear again

I didn't think about it in this manner.... Now I cannot stop laughing about how funny the scene would have turned up... 🤣

Sai aur samart uskeliya kya maayne rakhe hai , how will they know when he himself doesnot know, he lies and manupulate his brother so that he doesnot leave his cheating BFF, he insults torture his wife along with his bff and everytime sai or samrat see them, both this bff will be holding each other hands or supporting each other. He want sai and samrat to over look what is in front of their eyes and read the dilusional feeling he has in his head. Great

At this point it's all about himself... You saw na in today's episode.... Me, myself, I ... He knows everything, he shows bonding with bff.... Knows how it comes across... Then manipulates the spectators and justifies himself... And then the brahmastra of self victimisation, that never goes waste...

wow so at last you were able to read p expression, atleast something good happened .

It feels like an achievement... That's why this post to honour her... 🤣

She would have killed Sam if he was not her legal (muh bola) pati and Pulkit (imaginary pati to Sangeeta Deshpande=Didi) for accusing her another imaginary pati (V).

P.S.: My answers in black...

Bang on post with all the correct points. 👍

You know the funniest thing for me was- Virat didn't say anything (just looked disgusted) when Didi said tum mere liye bahut khaas ho. But the green tea thing upset him. Usko leke baith gaya psychoanalyze karne. Why are you upset that I've changed? Arre baba..green tea hi peene ko bola, zeher nahin. This is Virat's problem. Zero focus on the important issues. His wife is dying and his ex is saying I still khaas you and there are other people in your life apart from your wife. That's all ok. But green tea is what really set him off! 😅

Alexa- please teach ACP the meaning of priorities. 🙏

Originally posted by: nikita05

Thank you...❤️i had to because P fulfilled my expectations... If I hadn't, it wouldn't have been fair...🤣

That Kamal sir and Zimmedaari reference was weird... He still can't make up his mind whether she is still just his zimmedaari or wife... Disappointing...🥺

Another thing I didn't include in the main post in the fear that someone might get offended is that if Sai dies and reunites with KJ in heaven... It would be like he would know what all his daughter had to face after he left. She would have presented her version first... So when image conscious V is goes to heaven, how will he face him and his accusations (weird thought but that came to my mind at that moment, maybe because of too much usage of I, me, myself throughout the episode). For V, his version is supreme and self victimisation is birth right.

That's the main issue, he knows everything... At this moment, it does look like he is seeking emotional intimacy with P.

The problems in their respective marriages due to V-P emotional bond, the doubts their respective spouses have on them, P's intentions everything but repeats the same thing... Is always ready with defenses... At this moment, it doesn't look like it's happening subconsciously because you won't justify your acts then... You won't manipulate the other person... At that moment, I found all that care for Sam and Sai wala Dialogues only emotional manipulation to manipulate Sam... I couldn't see love for Sai too since he had all his senses intact to think logically then too. It's actually just me, myself and I for him... He had time to ask everyone to pray for his wife but did not actually pray for her himself...

@bold - Yes, this makes sense when you put this way.

Redemption or correction of behavior is possible only if he understands what he did wrong.

First of all he doesnt think he did anything wrong. So any amount of crying is wasted until he realizes that his rude behavior and bullying Sai ganging iwht her ex is one of the main cause of Sai to leave home.

Can he be shown having those flashbacks instead of cafe ?

Also he thinks everyone incl Sai misunderstands him and cannot see his parvah. ( he says feelings, zimmedari etc, but note no pyaar , so am not sure if we are misunderstanding everything as pyaar).

Any sane person will think why do everyone have the same problem with me and questions about it. Where am I going wrong that everyone sees the same thing.

Is that deliberate move from writers to show Virat this way or is it just acting/ dialogues am not sure.

Originally posted by: TotallyPagalSai

Bang on post with all the correct points. 👍

You know the funniest thing for me was- Virat didn't say anything (just looked disgusted) when Didi said tum mere liye bahut khaas ho. But the green tea thing upset him. Usko leke baith gaya psychoanalyze karne. Why are you upset that I've changed? Arre baba..green tea hi peene ko bola, zeher nahin. This is Virat's problem. Zero focus on the important issues. His wife is dying and his ex is saying I still khaas you and there are other people in your life apart from your wife. That's all ok. But green tea is what really set him off! 😅

Alexa- please teach ACP the meaning of priorities. 🙏

Green tea supremacy... 😂

Originally posted by: ranijain

@bold - Yes, this makes sense when you put this way.

Redemption or correction of behavior is possible only if he understands what he did wrong.

First of all he doesnt think he did anything wrong. So any amount of crying is wasted until he realizes that his rude behavior and bullying Sai ganging iwht her ex is one of the main cause of Sai to leave home.

Can he be shown having those flashbacks instead of cafe ?

Also he thinks everyone incl Sai misunderstands him and cannot see his parvah. ( he says feelings, zimmedari etc, but note no pyaar , so am not sure if we are misunderstanding everything as pyaar).

Any sane person will think why do everyone have the same problem with me and questions about it. Where am I going wrong that everyone sees the same thing.

Is that deliberate move from writers to show Virat this way or is it just acting/ dialogues am not sure.

No redemption is possible and planned for him, hence, all this soulmate wala dialogues to whitewash him.

Look, at this point, it comes across his thought process is that he is never ever wrong. He seems too full of himself. For him to feel guilty, Sai should be right... It doesn't matter that he is right or wrong because for himself he is always right. At this point, in his pov Sai is wrong... So no realisation at all.

First time he misbehaved with Sai in DIG track, he corrected his behaviour because Sai was right, she saved his job and he was wrong for wrongly accusing him

Second time, when Pakhi went to her house, sai was again right, he realised by Pakhi and her mom dad's behaviour when he went there, when they misbehaved with him too when he went to get her.

Third time, Aai guided him that he was wrong during hand-holding and that Sai is good... I wasn't convinced by Aai's or his Dialogues but whatever.

Fourth, during ousting, he had to get proof to know that Sai was right and him wrong all along, to realise his mistakes and redeem

Fifth, Character Assassination, again he justified by saying I got possessive... You didn't listen... Tried to prove her wrong but couldn't.

Now to she is wrong, insulted him, cancelled his transfer... His mistakes, if any, are less than Sai's in his eyes.

The bond between P-V is required to be shown by flashbacks, SaiRat ka kya hai... For him, P is holding more importance than Sai, hence getting flashbacks related to her...

I don't think all of this emotional intimacy is subconscious, doesn't seem so because he is ready to defend his actions always, in whatever state he is...

Originally posted by: nikita05

No redemption is possible and planned for him, hence, all this soulmate wala dialogues to whitewash him.

Look, at this point, it comes across his thought process is that he is never ever wrong. He seems too full of himself. For him to feel guilty, Sai should be right... It doesn't matter that he is right or wrong because for himself he is always right. At this point, in his pov Sai is wrong... So no realisation at all.

First time he misbehaved with Sai in DIG track, he corrected his behaviour because Sai was right, she saved his job and he was wrong for wrongly accusing him

Second time, when Pakhi went to her house, sai was again right, he realised by Pakhi and her mom dad's behaviour when he went there, when they misbehaved with him too when he went to get her.

Third time, Aai guided him that he was wrong during hand-holding and that Sai is good... I wasn't convinced by Aai's or his Dialogues but whatever.

Fourth, during ousting, he had to get proof to know that Sai was right and him wrong all along, to realise his mistakes and redeem

Fifth, Character Assassination, again he justified by saying I got possessive... You didn't listen... Tried to prove her wrong but couldn't.

Now to she is wrong, insulted him, cancelled his transfer... His mistakes, if any, are less than Sai's in his eyes.

The bond between P-V is required to be shown by flashbacks, SaiRat ka kya hai... For him, P is holding more importance than Sai, hence getting flashbacks related to her...

I don't think all of this emotional intimacy is subconscious, doesn't seem so because he is ready to defend his actions always, in whatever state he is...

@bold - its so true. Like hi rooh was kamping, but he could justify so patiently the handholding and thought process.

He runs to Pakhi everytime coz she is the only one who gives him free pass for all his mistakes. Others questions him for which he has no answers. He knows she has bad intentions for Sai. Also yesterday by saying u are special, she clearly indicated she has not moved on with Samrat. So what is he trying to do? He cares for nothing else and noone, not even Pakhi.