MHRW Episode Discussion Thread #72 - Page 18

Originally posted by: PSharada

Yeah I really want to see Raghav reassure Pallavi. The writers are heavily lopsided.

That being said today's episode was so much better than yesterday's episode. Looks like ACP is still there in the show. Let's see what they want to show for the ACP.

Idk what's worse - an episode where the wife is lying to her husband about an illness he doesn't have, or an episode where we saw flashback after flashback of the husband with his ex. LOL.

I didn't care for either episode so I can't decide which was better LOL.

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

I want to see Pallavi ‘s childhood and life before her marriage with Mandaar 😒.

Ofcourse i want that too but i always wanted to know why Pallavi chose Deshmukhs over her real brother. How they coped after his death and how she became Beti from Bahu 😔

Just one or 2 FB scenes could have done wonders but we got nothing 😡

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

Pallavi's feelings aren't given enough weight, and I'd like to see her cry in Raghav's arms, as he did , for her struggles as an orphan, meeting ungrateful Deshmukhs , scars left by crazy Mandaar, striving to find her own identity, among other things.

Having said that , Pallavi being insecure of his ex, is not her character. Esha will only have a significant impact on her if Raghav displays conflicting feelings, which I doubt he will.

Yep her feelings are never given enough weight.

But how do we even know if its in or not in her character? When have we seen her in another romantic relationship?

Even the most faithful people waver at times in their faith (obvi i'm talking about her faith in their relationship/love). I don't mean she should doubt Raghav's love for her, but more so maybe an insecurity of not being the first one to make such an impact on R's life. Idk. I think anyone would be a bit off put by seeing their spouse's first love even if the spouse didn't have conflicted feelings (I don't think they'll show Raghav have conflicted feelings either). It doesn't have to be a dramatic insecurity like Raghav's was. But even a slight hint - just enough to get Raghav to reassure for once, would've been nice to see.

Why does Raghav require assurance in the precap?

Even after Pallavi willingly took a bullet for him and he was eager to do the same, he has doubts about her love or their marriage?

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

Why does Raghav require assurance in the precap?

Even after Pallavi willingly took a bullet for him and he was eager to do the same, he has doubts about her love or their marriage?

Fake answer:

bc R is the ML and P is the FL so FL always has to prove her love for ML in ITV land.

Real answer:

Bc he constantly feels like he doesn't deserve Pallavi and her getting shot for him only made that feeling worse probably. It was asked in a way that he didn't want to lose her love not doubting her love for him would stop, if that makes any sense. Plus he clearly has trauma from Esha now so Pallavi now has to deal with a lot of emotional baggage regarding abandonment.

Originally posted by: fria319

Yep her feelings are never given enough weight.

But how do we even know if its in or not in her character? When have we seen her in another romantic relationship?

Even the most faithful people waver at times in their faith (obvi i'm talking about her faith in their relationship/love). I don't mean she should doubt Raghav's love for her, but more so maybe an insecurity of not being the first one to make such an impact on R's life. Idk. I think anyone would be a bit off put by seeing their spouse's first love even if the spouse didn't have conflicted feelings (I don't think they'll show Raghav have conflicted feelings either). It doesn't have to be a dramatic insecurity like Raghav's was. But even a slight hint - just enough to get Raghav to reassure for once, would've been nice to see.

II understand your point, but she was always shown to be unworried about it, so it seems out of character for her, whereas it's normal to be wary of your spouse's first love in general.

Originally posted by: fria319

Idk what's worse - an episode where the wife is lying to her husband about an illness he doesn't have, or an episode where we saw flashback after flashback of the husband with his ex. LOL.

I didn't care for either episode so I can't decide which was better LOL.

I didn't mind the flashbacks because you can see that Raghav was very much invested in the relationship and it was obvious that he got hurt really bad. The flashbacks are from Esha's side na and not from Raghav's side. We saw only 1 flashback from Raghav's side that too after he heard the voice on the call. I feel that Mandar track didn't work that well because they established Mandar as creepy from very beginning and they did not give any flashbacks of why Pallavi was so hell bent on helping Mandar. So maybe that is why the change.

Only thing is they should have hired a good actress. This girl doesn't hold to the standard of Raghav Rao and is damn bad in emoting.

Originally posted by: fria319

Fake answer:

bc R is the ML and P is the FL so FL always has to prove her love for ML in ITV land.

Real answer:

Bc he constantly feels like he doesn't deserve Pallavi and her getting shot for him only made that feeling worse probably. It was asked in a way that he didn't want to lose her love not doubting her love for him would stop, if that makes any sense. Plus he clearly has trauma from Esha now so Pallavi now has to deal with a lot of emotional baggage regarding abandonment.

Yeah I agree with you on bold. Raghav till now doesn't feel that he deserves Pallavi not after the way he treated her. Plus she got shot only because of him. He is damn scared of losing her. That is why he needs this assurance that Pallavi is never ever going to leave him no matter what the case be. He fears abandonment. Even in Hyderabad track he was vulnerable only when he feared he would be abandoned like always and that is when Pallavi sees through his tough exterior.

I don't know why but I was half expecting Raghav to move ahead with starting their family after end of Mandar track - Because he got Pallavi after the scare of almost losing her. He would have wanted to start their family and secure his relationship with Pallavi - because he is territorial and second a child would have made him more secure that his family is always going to be with him. But nope Sickand ko Sunkee ka family dikhana tha.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Yeah I agree with you on bold. Raghav till now doesn't feel that he deserves Pallavi not after the way he treated her. Plus she got shot only because of him. He is damn scared of losing her. That is why he needs this assurance that Pallavi is never ever going to leave him no matter what the case be. He fears abandonment. Even in Hyderabad track he was vulnerable only when he feared he would be abandoned like always and that is when Pallavi sees through his tough exterior.

I don't know why but I was half expecting Raghav to move ahead with starting their family after end of Mandar track - Because he got Pallavi after the scare of almost losing her. He would have wanted to start their family and secure his relationship with Pallavi - because he is territorial and second a child would have made him more secure that his family is always going to be with him. But nope Sickand ko Sunkee ka family dikhana tha.

Raghav has serious abandonment issues and in reality he would need a therapist. But this is ITV so Pallavi is given that role. But they actually have to talk about it for it to be "truly" healed. I just think that's too mature and in-depth for them to go there. MHRW writers have been very surface level lately.

Sigh, we all thought of a lot of things about how the story could go after Mandar track but Siku only focuses on what could cause trouble for them - not about progressing their relationship forward.

Originally posted by: fria319

they need to stop this "i'm in a rage blackout so i'm going to put hands on a woman" thing they have going on for Raghav recently.

it's not cute.

Honestly they should probably stop I'm angry so I'll hit anyone that they have going on for all/most the characters of the show since forever