• GHKPM Frustration Thread • DT NOTE P.49, P.83- P.92 - Page 27

Folks,

Show has not shown a marriage between Virat and Pakhi, the only reason why few fans are objecting her being called the first wife. They had an affair prior marriage which continued in Pakhi side after marriage.

Having said that if Actors are deluding the viewers by calling characters as ex saas or whatever, is not to be brought up here unless it’s a show promotion both on SM handle of the channel and actors.

Things based on speculation are allowed as long as they have a reasoning behind it shown in the show and telecasted. Some fans may call Pakhi first wife based on their speculation of the story shown in TV but remember at the end it’s a entertainment package trying to draw you on TV or online to watch them.

Use your reasoning behind viewing these shows because again they will show whatever to get viewership glued to their time slot.

I m sorry bojh & khichad word is used by sai joshi in serial only , in 304 sai said to virat aapko iss bojh se azad karna chahti hoon cross check it used before also by sai , khichad word is used by sai infront pulkit when she went to apply for her transfer, both words r used by sai herself.

If anyone offended I m sorry

Ma ki womb pe kalank , dharti pe bhoj , bhabhi ka pyasa words r not used in d serial by any of d character .

A woman can be bojh for her husband..surely she can...But for her father, she would always be a child..and for a father like Kamal Joshi, she was always his child. One can call themselves "bojh" to a husband because of how they are treated by the husband, however one knows, for her father she was never a 'bojh'.. It took so long , so many revolutions to establish the fact that a child, a girl child is not a bojh to her father, so I request, I can only request the members to not do so, to not call her so... Baaki moral policing is not allowed in any case.. So to each its own...

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

I m sorry bojh & khichad word is used by sai joshi in serial only , in 304 sai said to virat aapko iss bojh se azad karna chahti hoon cross check it used before also by sai , khichad word is used by sai infront pulkit when she went to apply for her transfer, both words r used by sai herself.

If anyone offended I m sorry

Ma ki womb pe kalank , dharti pe bhoj , bhabhi ka pyasa words r not used in d serial by any of d character .

Bhabhi ka pyaasa? 🤣 whaaaaaaaaa

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Bhabhi ka pyaasa? 🤣 whaaaaaaaaa

U r laughing but people used this word did u listen these words in serial plz inform me , bojh & khichad r words very much used by character sai yet people blame other members as they calling her with weird names . Blame writers not members for such name.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

How to block...when you have certain people constantly react/comment/quote you , visit your profile when they have themselves blocked you...Matlab basic ethics hi nahi hai..

It's happening to me as well.. Don't want to get into more details.. But if a certain character behave like a P** and it's getting rightly called out then how it is s* shaming her clothes.. It's a public forum.. Whatever immoral is happening in the show certainly will be discussed...though rules are important because we don't want this forum to turn into war zone for all..

Though my post was about blocking certain actress.. Life will be better.. However I hardly see any good things are being discussed about Ayesha.. Just because she doesn't add tadka to her posts..

Again I'm requesting don't let your hatred take over your positive energy ❤️

Originally posted by: Shaome

It's happening to me as well.. Don't want to get into more details.. But if a certain character behave like a P** and it's getting rightly called out then how it is s* shaming her clothes.. It's a public forum.. Whatever immoral is happening in the show certainly will be discussed...though rules are important because we don't want this forum to turn into war zone for all..

Though my post was about blocking certain actress.. Life will be better.. However I hardly see any good things are being discussed about Ayesha.. Just because she doesn't add tadka to her posts..

Again I'm requesting don't let your hatred take over your positive energy ❤️

Oh I have fun there.. no hatred just pity ..

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

I m sorry bojh & khichad word is used by sai joshi in serial only , in 304 sai said to virat aapko iss bojh se azad karna chahti hoon cross check it used before also by sai , khichad word is used by sai infront pulkit when she went to apply for her transfer, both words r used by sai herself.

If anyone offended I m sorry

Ma ki womb pe kalank , dharti pe bhoj , bhabhi ka pyasa words r not used in d serial by any of d character .

Prostitute - a person, especially a woman, who earns money by having sex with people

There isn't a single person or couple on the show who is sexually active let alone being paid for sex, when did they ever present Pakhi as someone who gets paid for sleeping with men? Therefore this is not a part of storyline nor the word used in show for any character.

This is going to be one long rant because it is really annoying to find threads getting closed where 15-30 odd people might be chatting in a very civil manner following forum rules for 3-4 odd members who might be into an heated argument with unnecessary words. This totally spoils the experience for other forum members who are just in to spend some time of their day on something they like to discuss.

Most people in this forum are very civil in their interactions even if there is a difference of opinion. It is only a matter of approach and words being used that cascade into unwanted arguments that get unnecessarily personal.

Nobody in general insinuates literally that any character is a Prostitute or anything like that at large, if they do use words that are highly unacceptable and if somebody points if out to them most people in this forum rectify and edit their posts if they find it justified. If inspite of that some words are used that are totally unacceptable, there is always the option to report to mods. Constantly generalising and shaming fellow members for a difference of opinion is unwarranted. Right now there is a general anger towards the showrunners for being the No 2 show on TV yet generalising all forms of abuse, family members shown in the show have openly stated that the actions of the ML are domestic abuse and mental harassment. Some people may feel strongly about issues being trivialised based on their personal experiences and some others might not, it is a personal call. Using equally demeaning words for another character does not make an eye for an eye type of context. Shaming is shaming, full stop.

As for this huge debate over the character of Patralekha...the character has openly mouthed dialogues that clearly say she's ready to go to any lengths to have any existence as a lover in her ex and current devar's life. She is married, shows absolute disregard for the sanctity of marriage, openly shows actions and mouths words that indicate that she does not have a moment's forethought for going ahead with cheating. She is pretending to be accepting and falling for one brother so that the other realises his lost love for her. This is not even grey, this is very dark territory. Highly disturbing for many.

Yet calling her a prostitute or other similar names is unacceptable, I agree with this viewpoint but then some words will be used to articulate emotions by forum member's as well! Somebody might politely state it as wanting an EMA/ emotional cheating/Manipulation and some others may go for Devar ki Pyaasi or whatever they relate with based on their preferences of words and language. As long as we can agree to disagree and articulate politely we can all co-exist.

This show completes a year tomorrow & it is really sad to see the state of this forum. Love or hate, every actor & crew member in any show make the show whatever it is!

Apologies for the long blabber.