Barabar Ke Saathi - Page 4

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

I liked ur review Chinta ji.

Really it was frustrating to watch Adi like this. He was asking maafi to imlie but not trusting her. I don't understand how he is normal with Malini? Even though he thinks Malini is not at fault but how can be normal with her? His wife is staying in the same home. He once told if imlie is not OK with Malini staying in T house then Malini should leave. Is he really Adi whom we rooted from the start? He talks too much trust, love, rishta, marriage but his action not showing anything valuable. He is the worst Didi bhakt.

Thank you BookWorm ji for tagging.

He is okay because Imlie is saying she is okay. Imlie also has to learn to stand for her self which NN pointed very beautifully today. Actually there are two separate things are going on: 1.) Adi deleting the proof which they are using for Adi-Imlie dynamics. 2.) Future of these three : Adi, Imlie, Malini ..no one is thinking about that right now. Maybe because its too early and they are all in a fix. They dont want to punish the child for something which he/she didn't do that indirectly means Malini will stay with them. With time they will realize ,its too complicated to continue like this.

Updated on page 1 guys if u are keen

To ub ke baar Malini ko ghar mein rukne k liay bola kis ne imlie ne.

Ma ne phele bhi bola tha first mistake aditya ko M ko ghar nae lana chahea tha

2nd mistake imlie ko ub ke baar usko rukne ko bola.

M C house reh sukte the nae imlie ko rokna tha kyunke usay yad aa gya k whatever happened with her is bachay k sath na ho.

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Hello Everyone.. Super happy at the way Imlie bajaoed Adi today.. He needs that to the power of infinity but I doubt even that will open his mind.

Anyways ,coming back to my observation this episode in a lot of ways was similar to episode after mud spa week.

There Adi had shown all the courage, told Malini truth, had 2-3 NDEs including zameen main zinda gada jana..but when he with so much difficulty brought Imlie back, Imlie continued with her Didi jaap and agar KC didi ki life main nahin hain to hum bhi aap ki life main nahin honge etc etc and everyone including Adi asked ki kahaani to vohin ki vohin reh gayi.

Ditto same thing happened today. Imlie fought hard to prove Adi's innocence and Adi is still not making any progress to kahaani is still at stand stll or so it seems.

But things have started moving at other fronts.. that is some relief... Seeing Aparna guilty and tear-eyed gave some sukoon which Adi has otherwise taken.

Now I am looking forward to scene where whole family accepts Imlie and is ready to move her to Adi's room and Adi is super excited about that but Imlie refuses saying ki jab tak BS ki aankhon se pati nahin hat ti, vo is rishte to aagey nahin baghayegi.

Also, tomorrow I want some college friend to drop Imlie to home and let Adi be with her gehri and sachi dost.

Hey Aarti - completely agree. I am seeing this parallel since the start of this track, and I remember that it took a lot for Imlie to go from "go back to Malini" to agreeing to tell the truth to the family. She had difficulties in accepting her place in Adi's life, while now Adi has difficulties in accepting that he cannot have both ladies in his life. The guy is desperately trying to keep the status quo and ensure nothing changes, so that Malini cannot hold him responsible for whatever happens in her life - though he is not responsible, but he feels she can anytime hang that on him for not telling her about the forced marriage and what followed after. I am not justifying the guy in any way, he deserves a clobber everytime I see him on screen nowadays, but I still cannot seem to get myself to hate him just yet. Also he is getting back his karma in everyway possible, be it directly from Imlie, or indirectly when he was looking for Imlie. Also imagine, he will have tolerate his chep best friend lehraoing that saree and chipko with him on the pretext of being his hone wali bachche ki maa - that itself is traumatic for the guy, that I feel he will be getting comeuppance for ever giving her the benefit of doubt. My biggest happiness is Imlie giving him the cold shoulder despite his saving mission and sunaoing him at every aspect - they guy deserves every bit of it and more.

Can someone tag when the trp Comes in and if it ans our position is decent? I have a meeting and I don’t think it would be appropriate ( if it is not good ) and I start throwing imaginary chapals at the writers heads!

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Can someone tag when the trp Comes in and if it ans our position is decent? I have a meeting and I don’t think it would be appropriate ( if it is not good ) and I start throwing imaginary chapals at the writers heads!

Will do RD.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Hey Aarti - completely agree. I am seeing this parallel since the start of this track, and I remember that it took a lot for Imlie to go from "go back to Malini" to agreeing to tell the truth to the family. She had difficulties in accepting her place in Adi's life, while now Adi has difficulties in accepting that he cannot have both ladies in his life. The guy is desperately trying to keep the status quo and ensure nothing changes, so that Malini cannot hold him responsible for whatever happens in her life - though he is not responsible, but he feels she can anytime hang that on him for not telling her about the forced marriage and what followed after. I am not justifying the guy in any way, he deserves a clobber everytime I see him on screen nowadays, but I still cannot seem to get myself to hate him just yet. Also he is getting back his karma in everyway possible, be it directly from Imlie, or indirectly when he was looking for Imlie. Also imagine, he will have tolerate his chep best friend lehraoing that saree and chipko with him on the pretext of being his hone wali bachche ki maa - that itself is traumatic for the guy, that I feel he will be getting comeuppance for ever giving her the benefit of doubt. My biggest happiness is Imlie giving him the cold shoulder despite his saving mission and sunaoing him at every aspect - they guy deserves every bit of it and more.

I totally agree Aps ji. It too difficult to hate him. Even my gussa on him is like when you are angry on your best friend when they do something stupid but in heart you are feeling bad for them.

But what he did was very very wrong at every level but we got some insight into why did this.He can only think about one person at a time. Mostly that one person is Imlie and when he got to know about preganancy,that unborn child became his priority for few seconds and he wanted to protect that child. He would have done same if it someone else's child. I have no issues with that.

But he has to choose Imlie or Malini. He cannot say that he trusts both of them forever as both are standing in opposite directions. Till now he did not face this dilemma. Initially he was firm in his conviction that Malini didn't do this as there was no proof but now he has seen it.No matter what he says, he cannot unsee it. He has seen Malini was sober thats why he got the shock in first place. If he had thought Malini was drunk too, he would not have been so shocked. Its just that for few seconds he though about kid and did what he did. Then he became occupied with manaooing Imlie.

Its clearly very difficult for him to accept that Malini is at fault that's why he bought the first explanation that was given to him.

But in a way I am glad that they have made this trust thing the main plot point between Adi-Imlie so ideally it should be resolved completely before taking thing forward which means that Adi needs to see Malini's badla hua roop with his own eyes. Though I doubt that he might refuse to believe his own eyes.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Hey Aarti - completely agree. I am seeing this parallel since the start of this track, and I remember that it took a lot for Imlie to go from "go back to Malini" to agreeing to tell the truth to the family. She had difficulties in accepting her place in Adi's life, while now Adi has difficulties in accepting that he cannot have both ladies in his life. The guy is desperately trying to keep the status quo and ensure nothing changes, so that Malini cannot hold him responsible for whatever happens in her life - though he is not responsible, but he feels she can anytime hang that on him for not telling her about the forced marriage and what followed after. I am not justifying the guy in any way, he deserves a clobber everytime I see him on screen nowadays, but I still cannot seem to get myself to hate him just yet. Also he is getting back his karma in everyway possible, be it directly from Imlie, or indirectly when he was looking for Imlie. Also imagine, he will have tolerate his chep best friend lehraoing that saree and chipko with him on the pretext of being his hone wali bachche ki maa - that itself is traumatic for the guy, that I feel he will be getting comeuppance for ever giving her the benefit of doubt. My biggest happiness is Imlie giving him the cold shoulder despite his saving mission and sunaoing him at every aspect - they guy deserves every bit of it and more.

Aps one thing also I didn’t get , even after all this is he doesn’t feel any guilt for not believing imlie? If he has some guilt whether he tried to be so casual with her … by just going around saying sorry…token safety concerns… his silence i will not take as he doesn’t believe her or he trusting M … he at that position by hearing & seeing doctors results he does what he feels out of his humanitarian consideration.… but now video seems irrelevant anyways …. But again & again they showing Adhithya as a 2timer Atleast in this track.

He deleted since he throughly know M get punished, she was impersonating and all just he did to help a pregnant lady… every one is giving token concern to Baby including NN not for baby’s mother…

Chalo Acha ha debate competition aya kuch to different dikhe ga achay lagay ga imlie with her college friends and late ho jae aur he Acha ha BS Rahay is M k sath pakae ache tarah usay.imlie ignore kare BS ko aur friends ke sath enjoy kare 😆

Aur Kea he ho koe college friend he drop kar de usay 😆

Originally posted by: Pearl21

To ub ke baar Malini ko ghar mein rukne k liay bola kis ne imlie ne.

Ma ne phele bhi bola tha first mistake aditya ko M ko ghar nae lana chahea tha

2nd mistake imlie ko ub ke baar usko rukne ko bola.

M C house reh sukte the nae imlie ko rokna tha kyunke usay yad aa gya k whatever happened with her is bachay k sath na ho.

Pearl ji

I can understand imlie's pov here. Because she was in that same situation before. She was called as illegitimate in her whole life. Without SK and Meeti she had no relation in her life. So she didn't want the same situation to any child.

But I don't relate with Adi's stand. He is very normal with Didi.