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Originally posted by: Stardust91

Lakshmi,

I have asked many times whether I am able to talk about other shows and not just Ghum snd Neetu has said that we can.

This CC is there so we can discuss everything

For me personally, it is very difficult to relate to Sai and has been for quite some time. I have inevitably stood my ground on what I think of that particular character. I do not.mind discussing Virat but there is only so much I can say about his character because he is stuck where he has been since after the anniversary party.

Also I do see the subtle changes in Neil's expressions when he wants to portray that Virat is sad BUT Virat's walls are up and it won't really matter.

Anyways, I thought this CC was for discussing everything. Please feel free to clarify Nitu

Virat is behaving exactly like Sai. Like her he too has put up his walls and he won't lower them unless she confesses and I guess this is the reason Sai is getting irritated because she's not getting his attention.

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Some want blacken virat's face for his non existing EMA 🤪

I do want virat to not accept sai when she will confess her love to him , I hope he remind him all d names he had been called .

Itni negativity ek frictional character ke liye

When is Virat engaging in EMA? I really hate when people use these types of words to trivialise the gravity associated with these words and the victims associated with it.

What Vanraj does is an EMA , Virat didn't get along with Pakhi after his marriage - how did come into EMA. They're reducing the gravity of the words — cheating, EMA into some normal day to day words.

Virat can be come across as a hypocrite (not that he's) but not it's engaging into EMA.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Yes As per Nitu this thread is for discussing anything. She clarified but I expressed my disappointment because I watch only GHKPM just like I used to watch only Kuch Rang.

Probably I expected more from this place since I find a lot left to be discussed about Virat.

But I understand not every one will have the fascination to study Virat like I have since he is not a typical ITV hero.

You carry on with other shows also. Sorry if I said anything hurtful.

I'm fascinated by Virat and would love to discuss about him. That's why I joined this thread because it's not possible in the GHKKPM forum. There's so much negativity against him that I hate going there.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I watch GHKKPM regularly irrespective of the track. I'm not biased with Virat but when he's bashed for no fault of his my blood boils and then I have to litteraly stop myself from saying anything which will be offensive. My problem with Sai is I can't relate to her anymore.

Blue - I too have the same opinion. I don't understand when Virat is wrong everyone abuses him to no extent but when Sai is wrong her mistake is ignored and it's taboo to say anything against her. I too have stopped visiting the forum and I refrain from posting anything. And, yes Virat's subtle expressions can be analysed so well.

Thank you for understanding my point that there is much more to Virat that can be explored and analysed.

Like today he looked so drained and exhausted. He did not have energy to stop Sai. He did previously but reached a point where he understood there is no use at all.

But people find anything he did wrong. If he stops,he will be blamed If he doesn’t bother still he will be bashed.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

When is Virat engaging in EMA? I really hate when people use these types of words to trivialise the gravity associated with these words and the victims associated with it.

What Vanraj does is an EMA , Virat didn't get along with Pakhi after his marriage - how did come into EMA. They're reducing the gravity of the words — cheating, EMA into some normal day to day words.

Virat can be come across as a hypocrite (not that he's) but not it's engaging into EMA.

That's why I'm getting irked. More than half the members are pro Sai and hence to glorify her they use these type of words against Virat. When has Virat ever crossed his limits or when has he even thought of Pakhi as his girlfriend?

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Thank you for watching GHKPM irrespective of the track.

Thank you for understanding my point that there is much more to Virat that can be explored and analysed.

Like today he looked so drained and exhausted. He did not have energy to stop Sai. He did previously but reached a point where he understood there is no use at all.

But people find anything he did wrong. If he stops,he will be blamed If he doesn’t bother still he will be bashed.

Yes, true. He looked exhausted and that's why he didn't want to even talk about it. But, then people want an excuse to bash him for no reason.

Maroon - You're welcome. Just because Virat is in the wrong side which people assume doesn't mean he's not a human. He has reached a saturated point and don't know when he'll break down.

I seriously want virat to plz go away from here from some days he really needs it .

It better he go for some undercover mission .

In diya baati hum I found Sandhya a bit heartless when she went to an undercover mission mahabhaliwhere she declared himself dead & fake an identity to catch criminals thou suraj really slip in depression as he couldn't tolerate it.

I really want to virat to go 4 for such mission thou I wanted memory loss but vo shayad na mile

I want to see how people deal with things in situations in his absence.

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

I seriously want virat to plz go away from here from some days he really needs it .

It better he go for some undercover mission .

In diya baati hum I found Sandhya a bit heartless when she went to an undercover mission mahabhaliwhere she declared himself dead & fake an identity to catch criminals thou suraj really slip in depression as he couldn't tolerate it.

I really want to virat to go 4 for such mission thou I wanted memory loss but vo shayad na mile

I want to see how people deal with things in situations in his absence.

I too want Virat to leave everything and go on a mission. This is the only way Sai will realise his value.

Usually in the main forum , we are not allowed to discuss or compare ghum with other shows but in CC we have the freedom to compare our show with other ones . I can compare Virat with my fav character Dev and similarly talk about how ITV hasn’t evolved over years by citing examples from other shows and how CVs of other shows are doing a better job than ghum . We all are here because other SM has turned into a toxic place where there is no logic in their discussions . The have changed the meaning of words like EMA , abuse , professionalism , and feminism. There is no point discussing with those people who are not open to discussion but what to criticize everything because of blind hatred towards someone . IMO , we all can coexist here as we can share our views freely without being judged and we all have one thing in common , we want a unbiased place to discuss .

Lakshmi, I am in a same boat as you . I only watch ghum for now . I am infamous for my liking towards Virat . I have spend hours sharing his persecutive because I feel he is misunderstood due to various reasons . I will be excited to talk about him but I am restricting myself a bit now because I cannot talk about him without sounding negative about Sai . I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable but at this point I am disappointed with her character. I cannot understand her and it’s irritating to see the way she is kept on pedestal by the makers . Why don’t they call her mistakes and show some realization. It’s like these makers are giving fodder to haters

I agree with you people who say Sai doesn’t deserve Virat yet . I had said this long back in the forum , Sai will never value Virat because she got him easily . She will propose and he will accept . The pain that Virat went through when she insulted him and his efforts will never be understood by Sai .

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I too want Virat to leave everything and go on a mission. This is the only way Sai will realise his value.