Paani sar se upar

Paani sar se upar ja chuka hai. This is gonna be a long rant coz I mean I just cant anymore. Pent up frustration. You have been warned. Read if you like.

So I pretty much am a silent reader here but have never posted in this forum. I have been watching this show since it started and often I have to skim it because I cant stand some of the scenes. Anyway, for the first time today I got so pissed off watching a show that I actually screamed at the screen. And I am not the kind to get pissed about a show because its silly because they are just characters but oh boy when that disgusting thing said "main kya kar rahi hoon," I just couldnt contain my anger. It was like all the months of watching her (bad word) around finally got me. Patralekha is so disgusting. She has no manners. She completely barged in on a private conversation then kept egging the situation. Not having manners is the least of her crime...she is the kind of character that you really just want to punch so hard that she cant get back up...maybe she ends up having a concussion and then goes into a coma for years. I am so irritared by her. Like I cant stand it anymore which is why Im here ranting. I actually cannot recall any other character from all the hundreds of shows I have watched (Indian/british/amercan/korean etc) that has pissed me off like this to make me scream out loud. Patralekha has single handedly dont that. Someone give this lady an award. I think I need to just stop watching this crap. Who can blame sai for wanting to leave...i mean if it pissed off a viewer that skims the show every day then imagine how pissed off sai would be to have to deal with patralekha everyday.

So many things I am pissed off about...Virat what can we even say about this man. So because the girl you claim to love doesnt love you back...you have the right to punish her constantly and be pissed of at her all the time and blame her. How can anyone love you dude when you allow every tom dick and harry to speak shit about your wife including your ex who is also your bhabhi who walks all over your wifes pride and you dont say much in support of your wife..you know the woman you claim to love who also happens to almost be a minor fyi. Shes only what 18 or 19 and this POLICE OFFICER is here harrassing a woman. To be fair...virat does say a little bit in sais support but it depends on how happy he is with sai in the moment...you know if she does something bad to piss him off then forget it...he will let anyone come into his room and let them say whatever they want in front of him to his wife and he will joint them in taunting her. I mean for the past year...anyone in this family says whatever they want to sai and yet virat doesnt shut them up because ofcourse parivar ki maryada and parampara and sanskar and mature and all this shit.

Now Im not saying sai is perfect. Shes very headstrong and has gotten involved in things she really should not have gotten involved in including getting devi tai married when she is mentally handicapped. I mean can a mentally handicapped person consent truly? I get it devi tai is happy and everyone is happy so great. But sai doesnt understand boundaries but then neither does patraleka. U know the so called sanksari bahu. What kind of disgusting sanskar is this ki pyaar ek bhai se aur shaadi dosre bhai se. She is so vile...like speaking to her would impure me and I would need a shower to clean myself after talking to such a lowly disgusting human being. She is so pathetic...has absolutely no self respect for herself. Does she never feel from inside that man I have some pride too and I shouldnt do this. Hell nawwww. Its sad samrat has a wife like this...i mean hes a decent bloke and for his wife to be such a morally deficient woman is sad. Do I need to tell any of yall what we call a woman who physically and/or emotionally wants her devar? I am not sure what the forums rules are so I wont say it...but Im sure you guys can fill in the blank. You know...as a woman...I have also had heartbreak and more than once so I can understand the hurt...it takes months or even years to get over sometimes so I understand but you know what I dont understand...this level of bitterness patralekha insists on shrouding herself in and shrouding sai in as well. Its like she is miserable so she will come hell or high water...make everyone else miserable. And I literally cannot stand it anymore how this crazy freaking family treats her like she is some goddess when she is so far from it. She wouldnt even be allowed entry into the temple since she cannot even maintain her own dignity and pride. As humans beings...we cant control much but whether we walk around with our head held high or not is in our control. Our actions, and our morality is in our control. Heartbreak does not turn you into this horrible disgusting sorry excuse of a human being unless you probably were horrible to start with or unless you allow it to mkae you miserable. So she is an absolute failure as a human being for me.

Lets not forget chavan pras clan...gross so gross. What kind of disgusting lowly people are these. Do families like this exist in India coz man I would be locked up in prison forever for comitting bloody murder coz this family would drive anyone to violence. Heck even virats mom I cant stand these days. Sai sai sai sai sai.. Stop it lady...You did such a horrible job raising a son. Even now...you dont go to your son directly and tell him taht how he is treating his wife is wrong. No one will convince me that locking someone up is right and guess what...virats mom didnt say anything about it. Why doesnt she go and slap her son? But nawww....because at the end of the day raja beta u know.

I cant even talk about the rest of the chavan pras. Whatever man. Im so pissed off after watching that crap. It didnt use to be this bad...I used to like it at one point. What the hell happened? Wow I cant believe im this mad because of a tv show. Time to take a chill pill for me. Need to peace off from this show.

Edit- I think I figured out why patralekha is so irritating to me. She literally has no life outside of Virat. Like crazy stalker lady...get a hobby. And if you are really gonna stalk then why dont you do it urmila matonkar style. Atleast that would be more interesting. Like she is such a whiny sad excuse for a character. What does she even do outside of spying on Virat and sai, taunting sai, and trying to look like the best bahu in front of that crazy family. She has no hobby...no likes. Such a one dimensional character. How can we not be irritated when she literally just sits around all day waiting to overhear something while spying on others peoples rooms then she barges in to to taunt others based on what she heard.

Originally posted by: ---Nisha---

I actually cannot recall any other character from all the hundreds of shows I have watched (Indian/british/amercan/korean etc) that has pissed me off like this to make me scream out loud. Patralekha has single handedly dont that. Someone give this lady an award. I think I need to just stop watching this crap. Who can blame sai for wanting to leave...i mean if it pissed off a viewer that skims the show every day then imagine how pissed off sai would be to have to deal with patralekha everyday.

Exactly! Nowadays relationships fall apart even if one partner catches the other talking to their ex over text. Imagine living in a house with your husband's ex (she's legally his bhabi okay) but your husband gives more more importance to his ex's self respect over you. It would drive any woman mad. Deal or no deal you both are legally married, he can't just keep giving excuses to his ex to walk all over Sai. On top giving unsolicited marriage advice to Virat regarding his marriage. She even dares badmouth Sai in front of him and he's just giving that exasperated look.

Trust me I'm in the same boat as you, after watching that spineless loser of a husband and his ex cum bestie cum pyaari cheez I have so many words I want to use for them but forum rules restricts. Both are sickening to the core yet dares to give Sai character certificate. I agree with you someone like Pakhi shouldn't be allowed to enter a mandir even.

And to think Virat was defended saying he's allowed to have a past and he doesn't have to disclose anything to Sai or that Sai is overreacting to those two, my foot! Pakhi is not a past and she has never been, she's in Virat's present and future both hanging over them like a shani. Any other wife would have killed those two much earlier and gone to jail happily.

If Kusum Dola is copied bit by bit, then there is nothing that remains to be watched. It is going to go downhill. Patralekha won't be punished.

Even if KD is not copied bit by bit, Patralekha will still not be punished.

And what is with this marriage on ITV,, if a couple is married forcefully or without consent but if once they are married they have to nibhao this marriage with whole heartedly, the love, respect, trust every thing is less important than in-laws jayez or najyez wish,, once married then the girl has to accept the man as her husband and his family as her family no matter how much they treat her as trash but she has to show her worth to get back the love from them,, why the husband has to be very very bad or abusive or having EMA then only the girl can move out from that marriage,, why can’t they show a strong girl who can not take unnecessary attitude of husband nd family’s and separation should not be based on degree of abuse, physical or mental harassment both should be treated in a very right way,, coz in our society mostly not all but mostly parents teach their daughter to have patience when they are not happy with their marriage, they teach them to overlook some bad habits of a man if he is not hurting them physically,, and same is happening in this show all the abuse, torture against sai will be overlooked once virat will be shown crying for sai’s life after accident,, virat is not hurting sai physically but sai is getting tortured by his family’s and his ex every now n then and it is a big mental harassment for any girl in her sasural but on ITV they never call out these behaviour bad rather with every passing episode there will be new drama nd past is forgotten like never happened

Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

Exactly! Nowadays relationships fall apart even if one partner catches the other talking to their ex over text. Imagine living in a house with your husband's ex (she's legally his bhabi okay) but your husband gives more more importance to his ex's self respect over you. It would drive any woman mad. Deal or no deal you both are legally married, he can't just keep giving excuses to his ex to walk all over Sai. On top giving unsolicited marriage advice to Virat regarding his marriage. She even dares badmouth Sai in front of him and he's just giving that exasperated look.

Trust me I'm in the same boat as you, after watching that spineless loser of a husband and his ex cum bestie cum pyaari cheez I have so many words I want to use for them but forum rules restricts. Both are sickening to the core yet dares to give Sai character certificate. I agree with you someone like Pakhi shouldn't be allowed to enter a mandir even.

And to think Virat was defended saying he's allowed to have a past and he doesn't have to disclose anything to Sai or that Sai is overreacting to those two, my foot! Pakhi is not a past and she has never been, she's in Virat's present and future both hanging over them like a shani. Any other wife would have killed those two much earlier and gone to jail happily.

@bold exactly my point... yes its ok to have past but allowing your past to insult or taunt your present wife whom you love now is not acceptable and no one can give defending thoughts on having this kind of past,, he has to disclose everything to sai about his past if he wants to have husband wife relationship with her,,, otherwise if he continues to be his guardian only and have no love feelings towards her then yes he doesn’t have to disclose his past to sai but here the scenario is completely different he wants to propose her nd start a new love life with sai so he is bond to clear his past nd to assure his wife from his past ex interference not only by his words but by his actions also then only his past is only past other wise what sai is thinking about him having feelings for pakhi is absolutely justified,,

Its copy & paste nothing much can be done from here its going downhill only

the only way stop watching,after confession & consummation i am out of it even now i have been FF it and finish the epi in mins

Originally posted by: Mages

Its copy & paste nothing much can be done from here its going downhill only

the only way stop watching,after confession & consummation i am out of it even now i have been FF it and finish the epi in mins

Even in this copy & paste they are dragging it so much. But the trps are high and that is what the channel wants. So nothing will be changed as long as the trps are good.

Then this show has no point. The best part about continuing to watch would be to see patralekha suffer for her misdeeds. Isnt there also some track where she pretends to be pregnant with virats child in the future? How could the family not hate her after she lied about being pregnant with her devars child? Ewwwwww.

Originally posted by: ---Nisha---

Then this show has no point. The best part about continuing to watch would be to see patralekha suffer for her misdeeds. Isnt there also some track where she pretends to be pregnant with virats child in the future? How could the family not hate her after she lied about being pregnant with her devars child? Ewwwwww.

I think what’s getting to all of us is the fact that we know this Pakhi will never be punished and she will always be special to Virat and will be more important to him than his wife regardless how bad she is truly.

To beautyful_mess

Umm no. My point was I want pakhi to suffer and if that wont happen then there is no point to this show for me. All the joy out of sai and virat has now been taken out for me due to the daily fights and endless conflict between them and most importantly the disrespect. I dont feel like there is any love there so the reason I am watching the show is to see pakhi being brought down. Regarding virat continuing to be friends with pakhi and not hating her after she pretends to be pregnant..I mean are you even surprised? It goes with his MO. I used to like virat...genuinely I thought he was decent but hes not. I like more sujal garewal kind of characters (atleast the 1st sujal) that can do anything for their lady love but never humiliate their lady love and never allow another woman to take the place of their lady love. I have no such expectations from virat. He is a confused and mislead soul. I dont know how he landed a job with the police. Its really a wonder.

And anyway someone mentioned something about the family always supporting patralekha and that nothing will change in the show to which I mentioned how the family wouldnt hate her after she lies about being pregnant. I was looking forward to the family being disgusted with her the way I am since she seems to love the respect she gets in the family..so that is one way to bring her down.