A few questions on Sai - Page 3

Originally posted by: jyothijssager

she spoke about it to shivani and sunny what she saw and feels but she was sure that Virat doesn't love her. To pulkit she told how pakhi was playing and how Virat was behaving and how she is placed in the house. She was more open to Virat and told him to be clear to Samrat . Without telling to Samrat anything she was clear that he is intelligent and he will see through . What more should she say that your wife and brother are still playing . That his brother is a male chauvinist who plays as his bff or so called lover says. And his wife is playing jealous jealous.please let me know how should she? With knowing everything what is happening in chavan nivas all the elders still see Pakhi as the best bahu including samrats mother then what is her call. She being the reason for Samrat return would she also be the reason for Samrat to leave chavan nivas. What would be the consequences you foresee., Please tell me? Without doing anything her upbringing is blamed, her sheer existence and her presence is questioned? What should she take more

The question is, why isn’t she telling Samrat the truth? Your gossip theory fails because its about his life therefore not a gossip. She is leaving anyway, why would she care about people in that house? She claimed she cares about Samrat, how come you care about someone and don’t tell him the truth?

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I mentioned she has given him enough hints already and now it is for him to understand. Knowing what Pakhi did a year back and also seeing her all lost while she performs a Puja with him and still going after Sai for little of little things, he does not understand then that his issue. Sai has given him enough hints.

No, She has not given him enough hints

The question is very clear, when she can tell Virat in clear words, why not Samrat when she said the reason of her interference is because she cares about Samrat?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

No, She has not given him enough hints

The question is very clear, when she can tell Virat in clear words, why not Samrat when she said the reason of her interference is because she cares about Samrat?

Bhaiya isse jyada kya hints de when she kept quite on being asked if Patralekha stayed in her limits in the last one year or not...I dont think we can come on the same page here.. As per me she has given enough hints already...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Bhaiya isse jyada kya hints de when she kept quite on being asked if Patralekha stayed in her limits in the last one year or not...I dont think we can come on the same page here.. As per me she has given enough hints already...

Two different situations

I am talking about current track where Pakhi is lying to Samrat, To tell him the truth of Pakhi faking it with Samrat like she has told Virat, Shivani. Pulkit and Sunny about it.

Before Samrat gave Pakhi a 2nd chance, Sai asked him to discuss it with Pakhi but didn’t she also lie that Pakhi has been waiting for him while saying the same thing twice to Virat on the same day?

salute to yaar👏You made all the valid questions and these are my questions to sai too

this relationship is going nowhere its going in the path of toxicity instead of running away slilently why not talk abt divorce to him and go separate ways. In real life divorce take time months & years too but in TV world divorce 1 week its done

I agree in real life there are such toxic couples & silent ones living together for a reason or family reputation but Sairat is not those couple who thinks abt family for their married life becos many times virat has ousted sai out thinking nothing abt family reputation what will others think and sai has left too

regards to samrakhi i have nothing more to say you have say it all

deal marriage,koi rishta nahin kabhi tha hai na hoga but than wants wife rights get jealous insecurities angry and does everything that a wife does even when virat ask her to stay away

i don't know what to say🤦🏻‍♀️sab KD ko jai ho🙏🏽

Sai had been clear about her distaste for pp in public and thats not something coming from a place of venom but purely as reaction to what pp does. Samrat can see it clearly and is free to make his decisions. Sai has never hidden what she feels about pp-virat relationship status despite virats public announcement about only being "friends" . She is not going to "interfere" in Samrat's life the way she does with devi/virat because she barely knows him. But they do have a bond despite only recently meetinng each other, she can relate to him n she wants Samrat to be happy. Unlike pp, virat who have painted a picture of "happily moving on" , Sai has been very open about her mistrust for pp. She has not concealed it and Samrat has been watching everything closely. She only mentioned her feelings about pp to virat/pulkit/shivani when she was probed to spill them. It wasnt a voluntary attempt on her part. She has made her inclination to NOT be part of anything pertaining to pp - like pooja/breakfast very clear but at the same time she doesn't want to hurt devi/aai/samrats feelings so she bends when they request her to do something....she doesn't project her feeling about virat-pp onto aai/devi/others. She participates in family rituals thus far out of a sense of obligation that stems from the ehsaan that virat/his family have done on her by providing her shelter, food, opportunity for education at a time when she had no one. Sai is not ungrateful. She will always be indebted to virat for those things.

In the process of one year, Sai has developed a bond with virat. Sai clearly has shown she has feelings for virat, wants to be his wife, has adopted this family that taunts her repeatedly as her own because she craves belonging after losing her only family member, she has developed bonds with his aai/tai/bua/brothers, everyone! She wants to believe him but she can't because pp-virat keep doing something to make her insecure. For every atep forward that she has tried to take, something happens to push her three steps back.

She has never expected virat to stop her from leaving. Everytime she has attempted to leave it has been deliberate, genuine and not a ploy to get attention. But she melts when virat or aai/mohit/etc make her stay. Because she genuinely loves n cares for them. She has stayed because Virat asked her to -because she believed him when he apologized , until recently despite every fight/argument she has always held him in highest regard n always respected him. She believed that even if they were not husband-wife he'd always be a well wisher, a guardian, her only family. Thats why she stayed. And she wants to leave because she feels like now virat has become so frustrated that he has stopped treating her with the respect/regard he used to give her in the past. Pyaar toh kabhi nahi tha but fikr, respect thi. But when she sees that go away, she has taken the call to leave. Until now Sai, and her aabaa in her subconscience have always regarded Virat as this righteous man who would never deliberately hurt her but seeing his recent behavior with her has shaken that belief. Thats why she says my father wouldn't want me to be with a guy that has no love/respect for me. Until recently Sai always saw her aabaa's parchaai in virat n virat knows that. She has always drawn parallels between them. But now he has done certain things that have made Sai second guess everything she once believed to be true.

Virats behavior and the behavior of this pack of hyenas in CN have made Sai feel lost, broken, scared, unloved and lonely. Despite it all she cant help but care for all of them deeply and selflessly n she has always tried to accept them as they are because they are all she has now to call her own. She keeps trying to fit in , find their acceptance without compromising on her self respect n values and her core personality... But now she is reaching the threshold of her tolerance. She wants more than anything for everything to be real, permanent - her marriage, this family, but her illusions keep getting shattered....

These are the answers I think we all want.

There is no denying that Kamal Sir would not want his daughter to stay in a marriage where she is not getting the love or respect she deserves, and she has given Virat one too many chances so why doesn’t she just permanently cut him off, divorce him, free them both of this ‘deal’ marriage.

Is it because subconsciously she has fallen for him and that’s why she forgives all his indecent acts when he utters an apology that means sweet eff all.

In regards to your second point, I have maintained that she should have told Samrat off her suspicions around Pakhis sudden changed behaviour, because it affects him just as much as it affects her. She calls him her brother right? Would she want her brother to ruin his life over a marriage that means nothing to the other party? Then why is she always causing a ruckus over it but not telling the main person this impacts the reason behind it.

The only reason I can see behind it, is that if Samrat finds out then he’ll divorce Pakhi and then they’ll be nothing stopping Virat and Pakhi getting together and again subconsciously she doesn’t want that.

Then Mrs I am always right, goes and does her wifely duty in front of the family, pretending like she has accused Pakhi of doing.

Yes the intention behind the pretence is different, but for someone who says she can’t participate in a charade, the rules miraculously change when it comes to her? That I have just never understood.

Sai needs to decide once and for all what she wants and not keep chopping and changing her mind when it suit her. If this marriage is a deal, then she can’t use her wifely haq when she pleases. If this isn’t a deal for her, then she needs to stop dangling that in front of the family and Virat at every given moment, because it’s getting repetitive and losing its value and honestly speaking getting very annoying.

She's a good individual character over-all but her ending up with Virat won't make her among my top favs of ITV female leads. Sai's best version for me until the time she comes back to Virat when he gets shot.

In between her old spunk was visible again during the hall drama of vaada revelation track.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Two different situations

I am talking about current track where Pakhi is lying to Samrat, To tell him the truth of Pakhi faking it with Samrat like she has told Virat, Shivani. Pulkit and Sunny about it.

Before Samrat gave Pakhi a 2nd chance, Sai asked him to discuss it with Pakhi but didn’t she also lie that Pakhi has been waiting for him while saying the same thing twice to Virat on the same day?

I do think she should tell Samrat considering he called her his younger sister..May be she thinks he will divorce Pakhi and Virat would get with her...her selfish self does not want it to happen...

Originally posted by: -Yaz-

These are the answers I think we all want.

There is no denying that Kamal Sir would not want his daughter to stay in a marriage where she is not getting the love or respect she deserves, and she has given Virat one too many chances so why doesn’t she just permanently cut him off, divorce him, free them both of this ‘deal’ marriage.

Is it because subconsciously she has fallen for him and that’s why she forgives all his indecent acts when he utters an apology that means sweet eff all.

In regards to your second point, I have maintained that she should have told Samrat off her suspicions around Pakhis sudden changed behaviour, because it affects him just as much as it affects her. She calls him her brother right? Would she want her brother to ruin his life over a marriage that means nothing to the other party? Then why is she always causing a ruckus over it but not telling the main person this impacts the reason behind it.

The only reason I can see behind it, is that if Samrat finds out then he’ll divorce Pakhi and then they’ll be nothing stopping Virat and Pakhi getting together and again subconsciously she doesn’t want that.

Then Mrs I am always right, goes and does her wifely duty in front of the family, pretending like she has accused Pakhi of doing.

Yes the intention behind the pretence is different, but for someone who says she can’t participate in a charade, the rules miraculously change when it comes to her? That I have just never understood.

Sai needs to decide once and for all what she wants and not keep chopping and changing her mind when it suit her. If this marriage is a deal, then she can’t use her wifely haq when she pleases. If this isn’t a deal for her, then she needs to stop dangling that in front of the family and Virat at every given moment, because it’s getting repetitive and losing its value and honestly speaking getting very annoying.

You totally nail it right there👍🏼

Didi is no excuse here she is going to be there till sam takes a decision and u can't run away from that fact and u cannot use your wifey rights when u please than degrade it infront of family & virat

Its getting irritating & annoying

take a decision and move on certain things will remain as it is u have no control over it