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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I understand your feelings Lakshmi and I agree with you . During kuch rang we never spoke about Shaheer’s personal during discussions even though many in FD were into Sharica shipping and later assuming things about Shaheer and bashing him for his personal life . Remember our group in kuch rang forum where we didn’t bother about his personal life

I can only say hope Neil takes a right decision related to his personal life . He might know more about Aish than any of the fans so I hoping he realizes what he is getting into

You know what....I didn't fangirl over Shaheer during KRPKAB because I was busy fangirling over a real boy😆.

Regardless, I watched KRPKAB 1 as a normal viewer and stopped when I didn't like the track and then restarted when DevAkshi got back together. I didn't even bother with what was going on with the FD. All I knew was that there was hate for Ishwari. I perhaps wasn't even that excited about S2.

It was during the YRKKH spin-off YRHPK that I started fangirling over Shaheer and then rewatched KRPKAB S1 and S2 during lockdown 1 and I got all this information from the Shaheer FD about his personal life and Sharica shipping and RucHeer.

Shaheer never promoted MishBir; he didn't even give interviews....search YT or Google Shaheer & Rhea interviews you won't get much. DKP wasn't fussed either. They didn't force Shaheer to give interviews. Shaheer isn't Momo and Rajan Shahi understood that I guess.

However, I don't think there is a comparison between him and NB; Shaheer's fandom is on another level altogether.

I had a moment where I disliked Aish too. I took a lot of what what said personally. THEN, I separated myself from the narrative and realised that it wasn't me it was aimed at because I don't even follow her or go searching for her reels. The RIP toxic people wasn't aimed at me because I have never ever left a message on her SM.I wasn't even watching the show when the roka happened. She is annoying, yes. Attention seeking, yes. But hey, if that's what Neil wants then good luck to him. I am no longer bothered by it.

Yes, the who the hell are they irritating BUT isn't that what Sandip Sickand said to his FD just in a better way?

As for what everyone was discussing yesterday, then I agree with @LiveLife321.

There is a difference between fierce, sassy, RUDE & STUBBORN. Sadly, Sai is RUDE and STUBBORN. I understand that all parents bring their daughters up with love and affection. All fathers spoil their daughters to the extent they can....however, I also know that mothers and grandmothers wouldn't want their daughters to be as rude as Sai. I know mine wouldn't. My grandmother would say "abhi bhi waqt hai sudharjaa" or she would say " do you want your sasuraal to say 'kuch sikhaya nahin ma baap ne, baas bhej diya'?. You think any of the TRP aunties giving this show 3.2 - 3.5 TRPs would want their daughters to be rude or obnoxious? No. In fact as a 20 something myself, if I saw someone treat their bf like Sai treats Virat, and belittled him every 0.00001s I would also wonder what he saw in her. Abuse takes many forms. It might take the form of locking someone in a room BUT it also takes making someone feel bad about themselves and their job. It's not like Sai is always praising Virat.

I know that it is about Virat telling Sai that he has no feelings for Pakhi # he has said this and Sai has registered it. Yet it seems that she refuses to budge from her POV/mindset. Perhaps if she had not insulted him like she did at the anniversary surprise, he would have told her more and told her he loved her BUT did she let him?

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

You said it well. I agree he is pre occupied with his own problems. Still I wish he should doubt Pakhi ten percent atleast since she proposed to him only couple of days back.

He need not do much. Least he should do ..ask her not to come to their room any time and very often, specially night time. If he could restrict her visits that will heal half the damage done.

I wish he does that atleast after Sai’s accident.

Iteli,

Hi...i am Sia. For some reason I am unable to tag you in my posts. Not sure why.

Apparently, he will get really angry after the accident. To the extent that Sai finally understands him?

I don't know howbthe screenplay will be though...I find the screenplay is clearly lacking in this show. So what the expectations are from KD are not always fulfilled.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

You know what....I didn't fangirl over Shaheer during KRPKAB because I was busy fangirling over a real boy😆.

Regardless, I watched KRPKAB 1 as a normal viewer and stopped when I didn't like the track and then restarted when DevAkshi got back together. I didn't even bother with what was going on with the FD. All I knew was that there was hate for Ishwari. I perhaps wasn't even that excited about S2.

It was during the YRKKH spin-off YRHPK that I started fangirling over Shaheer and then rewatched KRPKAB S1 and S2 during lockdown 1 and I got all this information from the Shaheer FD about his personal life and Sharica shipping and RucHeer.

Shaheer never promoted MishBir; he didn't even give interviews....search YT or Google Shaheer & Rhea interviews you won't get much. DKP wasn't fussed either. They didn't force Shaheer to give interviews. Shaheer isn't Momo and Rajan Shahi understood that I guess.

However, I don't think there is a comparison between him and NB; Shaheer's fandom is on another level altogether.

I had a moment where I disliked Aish too. I took a lot of what what said personally. THEN, I separated myself from the narrative and realised that it wasn't me it was aimed at because I don't even follow her or go searching for her reels. The RIP toxic people wasn't aimed at me because I have never ever left a message on her SM.I wasn't even watching the show when the roka happened. She is annoying, yes. Attention seeking, yes. But hey, if that's what Neil wants then good luck to him. I am no longer bothered by it.

Yes, the who the hell are they irritating BUT isn't that what Sandip Sickand said to his FD just in a better way?

As for what everyone was discussing yesterday, then I agree with @LiveLife321.

There is a difference between fierce, sassy, RUDE & STUBBORN. Sadly, Sai is RUDE and STUBBORN. I understand that all parents bring their daughters up with love and affection. All fathers spoil their daughters to the extent they can....however, I also know that mothers and grandmothers wouldn't want their daughters to be as rude as Sai. I know mine wouldn't. My grandmother would say "abhi bhi waqt hai sudharjaa" or she would say " do you want your sasuraal to say 'kuch sikhaya nahin ma baap ne, baas bhej diya'?. You think any of the TRP aunties giving this show 3.2 - 3.5 TRPs would want their daughters to be rude or obnoxious? No. In fact as a 20 something myself, if I saw someone treat their bf like Sai treats Virat, and belittled him every 0.00001s I would also wonder what he saw in her. Abuse takes many forms. It might take the form of locking someone in a room BUT it also takes making someone feel bad about themselves and their job. It's not like Sai is always praising Virat.

I know that it is about Virat telling Sai that he has no feelings for Pakhi # he has said this and Sai has registered it. Yet it seems that she refuses to budge from her POV/mindset. Perhaps if she had not insulted him like she did at the anniversary surprise, he would have told her more and told her he loved her BUT did she let him?

Despite his loyal fan base Shaheer got lit of hate during kuch rang days . The forum and Twitter was just like how it’s today for ghum . He was bashed even for breathing and it’s not an exaggeration. Even today in kuch rang 3 forum , they bash Devi’s character.

You know Nitu why fans are frustrated with Neil Bhatt?

He says he is not SM person. he won’t promote Sairat..but

He religiously promotes his partner’s reels and other stuff.

In that dance reel other couples who took the challenge are reel ones but here it is not so.

Now he is posting BTS of their dance. Did he ever bother to give any Sairat BTS?

This is where the angst of fans turned into hatred for him.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I don’t know whether it’s true but this was in my feed sometime back .

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUKnDsIKRCP/?utm_medium=copy_link

I too don't know how far this can be true.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Star plus knows who the leads are.

https://twitter.com/ritushr21194389/status/1441971416430104579?s=20

It's much better to be appreciated by the channel than the makers since if the channel appreciates they will anyhow promote them . So chill. Thanks a lot, Star Plus.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I guess you are referring to the reel that was posted here about some paid promotions. From what I understood, Aish was tagged and since it was dancing with the partner she choose her real life partner and Neil hasn’t posted that on his IG . Honestly, I didn’t find anything controversial.

Lakshmi, like we were discussing the other day . I don’t like Aish but somehow I don’t get effected by them anymore . There was a time it did but now it doesn’t . The way I see it is… Neil is an actor and for him fans are fans whether it’s Sairat or Virakhi or Newarya . On IG , I checked his profile the other day and noticed likes on his single pics are way less compared to ones posted with Aishwarya and unfortunately it has crossed Sairat pics too . He might have a feeling that his real life Jodi is appreciated . Off late seeing the way he is attacked by certain fans , he might be upset and when a person is upset they might react in different ways . Some will try to prove what they are thinking is wrong and some might just stop caring and will say no matter what I do I will be treated this way . I feel Neil has taken the latter approach . I know we might not be on the same page on this . For me actors personal life doesn’t effect me and I don’t watch their reels but even if I end up watching accidentally it doesn’t bother me . I know not many feel this way .

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Very well said Nitu. I honestly don't care about actors off-screen. For me, their performance only matters. If the story and their presentation is good then I don't care about other aspects.

Honestly saying that we should stop bothering them and stop dictating them about their real life preferences. Will we like or accept others interference in our life? They may be actors but they are also human beings just like us with emotions and their choices. We should learn to respect them and choices. Strictly my POV. ❤️

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

You know Nitu why fans are frustrated with Neil Bhatt?

He says he is not SM person. he won’t promote Sairat..but

He religiously promotes his partner’s reels and other stuff.

In that dance reel other couples who took the challenge are reel ones but here it is not so.

Now he is posting BTS of their dance. Did he ever bother to give any Sairat BTS?

This is where the angst of fans turned into hatred for him.

I don’t know about promoting partners reels but he religiously replies to his partners post . I think he might be obligated or since she is family he treats her differently. It’s natural . From a long time , I had a feeling that his account is managed by his real life partner .

Regrading reels , he recently had one reel with Sai and Sanrat and one with Pakhi and Samrat .people still had only negative things to say .Why couldn’t they hype Sairat reel .

Dance reel was not promoted by him , it was Aish who posted through her account. I thinks she was paid to promote not Neil

He is passionate about dancing and self promotion is fine according to me and I have seen other actors of ghum doing it . He never posts Aish and his bts moments either . If you notice in IG his posts are mostly his solo pics and has reduced posting with his real life partner . He doesn’t post in his costumes anymore but yes I agree both Neil and Ayesha don’t post Sairat bts or click pics together . Are they comfortable with each other ? Has fans ever given a thought to this . Why would Neil avoid only Sairat when in the launch party he was the one who made Ayesha comfortable and why would he avoid fans who made him popular . Why does he need to promote his real life Jodi especially when his partner promotes Samrakhi like crazy . Is he on suicide mission ? I don’t think so . This is the reason I feel Neil is being made a scapegoat . If he could support Samrakhi then why would he hesitate Sairat . If he was insecure why would he support Samrakhi ?

Did fans get anything by spreading hate ? It will give someone more reason to play victim card and say she is unnecessarily targeted and her partner is also being targeted because of her .

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

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Very well said Nitu. I honestly don't care about actors off-screen. For me, their performance only matters. If the story and their presentation is good then I don't care about other aspects.

Honestly saying that we should stop bothering them and stop dictating them about their real life preferences. Will we like or accept others interference in our life? They may be actors but they are also human beings just like us with emotions and their choices. We should learn to respect them and choices. Strictly my POV. ❤️

No offense to anyone.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I too don't know how far this can be true.