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Posted: 4 years ago
#31

My thoughts echo yours..thanks for putting them in words!! This is actually driving such a deep wedge between the two..how is this helping!! How is this making Raghav a better person when clearly he is at his worst ever!!

This is like killing their marriage..they have gone through so much but have never been this bitter and hurt!!

How can the end here justify the means??

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I like shocking titles..Sicku se sikha hai..Tadka!!

Promo should be different and real story different!! 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

One thing I am very firm on..no compromises on self respect or dignity..be it Pallavi's or Raghav's!! If tomorrow he asks her to leave..I would love Pallavi to walk out on him and let him stew in his own acids!!

There are some boundaries no one should cross..but I m talking about today and it seems the forum is hell bent on reacting about tomorrow 🤣


You know it's difficult to not react to the precap. My entire discussion with my friends is based on 2 aspects. One with considering precap and one without.🤣


It's like achanak se waqt Badal diye jazbaat badal diye 😆


I agree that respect in a marriage supercedes love. At times a compromise is ok but not all the time.


You know since the promo, I've been dreading they will make R say things like the precap which I won't be able to forgive (P is a easier cookie to melt tho).


Mera kal kya hoga.... You may have to come up with another post defending him (I want to hear his side which I don't clearly see). Main bahut barasne wali hoon kal.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#34

I have been a silent reader of your posts.

But today I want to thank you for this update.

After today's circus of reviews, bashing etc I thought I'd skip the episode.

But your write up has given me a new perspective 🙂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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🤣..kal main kya tujhe samjhaungi..if that pre cap does come true..main khud jhadu uthaungi..just watch!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
#36

Don't go by my words.main toh paagal hoon..do share your thoughts after the episode!! Would love to hear them!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: eveline

🤣..kal main kya tujhe samjhaungi..if that pre cap does come true..main khud jhadu uthaungi..just watch!!


Nai yaar sometimes a different perspective does help. Jo bhi ho kal bhi post chahiye.🤗

I already feel so conflicted between like yeh dono bacchon ke beech main hum fase.


Like today it helped me understand Raghav better though I still don't condone his actions or words

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

This, actually almost every single one of my posts, is dedicated to MHRW99..meri kamini BTS dost! ❤️ Honestly if she was not around, you guys would have been spared numerous tortures 🤣!!

Lately I have been feeling like a child, jisske mummy daddy ladne mein itne busy hain ke kissine homework kiya..yeh tak nahin puchcha!! We all feel like anaaths, orphans !! I promise its getting harder!! Newton's law totally taking over...action and reaction are equal and opposite!! The more I try to make u guys laugh, the more Raghav and Pallavi sponsor water works!! Paaglo..ab rulaoge kya!!

Opening...Pallu ..sigh..if only you caress your hubby with such love and emotion..india-pakistan mein shanti ki lehar daud jaati!!

And then enters Dev D or Talli Taandav or Bewada Barood, whatever you like to call him!! I just read that The Alcoholic Beverages Association of Hyderabad is going to honor Raghav as their most valued customer. Ek akela banda saari daaru industry ko single handedly sponsor kar raha hai!! And within a few months..The Saving Liver Association of Doctors will honor him for being their biggest patient...samaaj seva!!

And what he says next is the living proof..that the 1000s of pages and hours we have spent here making fools of ourselves, khaaing family ki gaaliyan, and trying to prove to ourselves and the world that we are not paagals.. is not wasted...they are listening!! Seriously, forum waasio..if only we had made some copyrights on our discussions..sicku jail mein chakki peesing and peesing!!

So Raghav becomes our official spokesperson and Pallavi becomes officially speechless!! Aaj main bolunga..khaak bolega...bolega toh tab jab do minute khada reh paaega..I just realized that its really hard to fight with someone when u are lying down..or falling down!! Hows the Josh?? Leta hai Sir!! 😆

And he says it all!! He could have said plenty and plenty more!! Statutory Warning..It gets serious from here...Its written in bold so the ones not interested can take a bypass..

Words vs actions..what is more hurtful!? Today the forum is an uproar about Raghav's words and tomorrow it will be worse. As hard as it is to believe..I love them both!! So if you can please spare me your graciousness and patience and trust..I will just say a few things:

Yes, he uses harsh words..he always has!! And we all know that!! But Pallavi uses harsher actions!! Today and for the last few episodes I see a man who is drinking himself to oblivion. He seems self-destructive, on the edge!! His pain is overflowing. If the words are hurting Pallavi, her actions are killing Raghav!! Everytime he looks at her he sees her clothes, a constant reminder that he is not taking care of his Pallu, not keeping her happy, not pampering or spoiling her like he has always desperately wanted to. Everytime he sees her eating the food..usske gale se khana nahin utarta..how can he eat good food when his love is barely feeding herself. I bet the food tastes like ashes..his house feels like ruins and his whole life's hard work, an empty waste!!

One word that has stuck with me through these episodes..Raghav Rao is a loser!! And he said it himself!! In essence Pallavi's actions are negating his life's hardwork, his struggles, sacrifices and success!! She is killing the man's honor, pride and dignity!! And if you have men in your lives..be it father or husband or in any role..u do know what it means to them..right??!!

In spite of everything, he did not call her employer cause he can't hurt her..simple!! And loving Pallavi has been the hardest thing in his life..it has torn him apart, shredded his esteem, broken his confidence to bits, tested his patience to the limit and made him an object of ridicule in the eyes of near and dear one...if he says that loving her has been a mistake..is he wrong in this context and scenario?? I know we have quite a few married friends here..just ask them about fights in a marriage..contrary to belief..the fights are massive and ugly!! These words are meant to hurt!!

Pallavi is not wrong, never was but I feel that the way she is going about this is not right!! And Raghav is wrong..whatever the justification, the reason, the whole world does the same argument.. does not change one simple fact..what is wrong is wrong!! But in her place if my man is suffering like this..if he is in so much pain..if my marriage is at a point of no return..I would reconsider my stand!! There are better and less confrontational ways of handling this..but again..she is a puppet in the cvs hands and a fictional character ..main bhi kahaan phasi!!

Coming back to the dynamic duo..Raghav is back to his daily jaap..Don't touch me..Pallu ne toh kabhi nahin kaha par yeh chui mui ki kami puri karke rahega...role reversal!! Me thinks daal mein something black!! Or is it beacuse if she touches you, you will lose yourself..you won't be able to stay angry with her or you will melt or you will happily surrender your hathiyaar..hmm!! 😈

What had me hooting with laughter was his word..manhandle!! Wohi toh problem hai..yeh man hai jo kissi se handle nahin hota!! And Pallavi..bechari aaj kal Saatvik Ahaar pe hain..iss piye huye pahaad ko kya kar legi!! Actually not a bad idea..Pallu try n assault the guy..I still remember his reaction when he woke up without his clothes..haay woh bhi kya din they smuggling toh kya, office jaana hi chhod dega...

And he passes out again..and my mind goes...ab Pallu kahaan soyegi?? Pura bed hathiya liya..maybe she should sleep on him like he did a few months back..🤣..!! Insaaf ki pukaar..tit for tat and Pallu letofy on that!!

Farhaad should get the Paramvir Chakra for the bravest employee..kya idea hai..poke the boss in the eye to make sure he is not dead!! May be I should try that with my boss....just checking whether u r human or not!! And Raghav's hat na..was epic!! Kahaan banda was hoping for a red saree wali mrignayani and kahaan samne khada tha suit wala bhoot!! And his very first thought...Pallu!! Ab bolo..jitna gussa aaya tha is idiot par..sab utar gaya..isski daaru ki tarah!!

And the way he runs..honestly..iss ko olympics mein bhejo!! Ek aur medal pakka..of course finishing line pe Pallavi khada hona mangta.. bronze mila toh chumma, silver mila toh rain sequence aur gold mila toh..waah kya intelligent log hai!! Iss mamle mein never have to finish my sentence!! 🤣

So the guy is now drinking in the day too..Pallu darling ..Hyderabad ka Don, pee pee ke ban jayega Hum Aapke Hain Kaun??

And he doesnt want her congratulations ?? Theek Pallavi..give him your strangulations!!

500 crores..200 crores..seriously?? I would have finished this..truly..but I m still counting the zeroes..ek..do..teen..chaar..kal ka din emosional atyachaar..panch chhe saat ..tissue box ab rakhna saath..aanth nau dus..meri bakwaas hui bus!!


P.S..I know I might have offended a few friends by stating my pov but maaf kar do yaar..just being my crazy, moohfatt self!!

And this is really important... friends you respond with so much appreciation and love on many of my posts but due to the fact that I don't follow India time and certain responsibilities and limitations, I am.unable to respond, but trust me I read each and every word. Thanks a ton ..words are not enough 🤗

Firstly👏Your post is really good and valid

The way you keep points is appreciable and i agreed and enjoyed reading it really Amazing👍🏼 Teach me also how do you do it yr 😃even i get this in mind but cant pen it down i dont get such words like you do but really appreciable❤️...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

This, actually almost every single one of my posts, is dedicated to MHRW99..meri kamini BTS dost! ❤️ Honestly if she was not around, you guys would have been spared numerous tortures 🤣!!

Lately I have been feeling like a child, jisske mummy daddy ladne mein itne busy hain ke kissine homework kiya..yeh tak nahin puchcha!! We all feel like anaaths, orphans !! I promise its getting harder!! Newton's law totally taking over...action and reaction are equal and opposite!! The more I try to make u guys laugh, the more Raghav and Pallavi sponsor water works!! Paaglo..ab rulaoge kya!!

Opening...Pallu ..sigh..if only you caress your hubby with such love and emotion..india-pakistan mein shanti ki lehar daud jaati!!

And then enters Dev D or Talli Taandav or Bewada Barood, whatever you like to call him!! I just read that The Alcoholic Beverages Association of Hyderabad is going to honor Raghav as their most valued customer. Ek akela banda saari daaru industry ko single handedly sponsor kar raha hai!! And within a few months..The Saving Liver Association of Doctors will honor him for being their biggest patient...samaaj seva!!

And what he says next is the living proof..that the 1000s of pages and hours we have spent here making fools of ourselves, khaaing family ki gaaliyan, and trying to prove to ourselves and the world that we are not paagals.. is not wasted...they are listening!! Seriously, forum waasio..if only we had made some copyrights on our discussions..sicku jail mein chakki peesing and peesing!!

So Raghav becomes our official spokesperson and Pallavi becomes officially speechless!! Aaj main bolunga..khaak bolega...bolega toh tab jab do minute khada reh paaega..I just realized that its really hard to fight with someone when u are lying down..or falling down!! Hows the Josh?? Leta hai Sir!! 😆

And he says it all!! He could have said plenty and plenty more!! Statutory Warning..It gets serious from here...Its written in bold so the ones not interested can take a bypass..

Words vs actions..what is more hurtful!? Today the forum is an uproar about Raghav's words and tomorrow it will be worse. As hard as it is to believe..I love them both!! So if you can please spare me your graciousness and patience and trust..I will just say a few things:

Yes, he uses harsh words..he always has!! And we all know that!! But Pallavi uses harsher actions!! Today and for the last few episodes I see a man who is drinking himself to oblivion. He seems self-destructive, on the edge!! His pain is overflowing. If the words are hurting Pallavi, her actions are killing Raghav!! Everytime he looks at her he sees her clothes, a constant reminder that he is not taking care of his Pallu, not keeping her happy, not pampering or spoiling her like he has always desperately wanted to. Everytime he sees her eating the food..usske gale se khana nahin utarta..how can he eat good food when his love is barely feeding herself. I bet the food tastes like ashes..his house feels like ruins and his whole life's hard work, an empty waste!!

I agree here 👍🏼

One word that has stuck with me through these episodes..Raghav Rao is a loser!! And he said it himself!! In essence Pallavi's actions are negating his life's hardwork, his struggles, sacrifices and success!! She is killing the man's honor, pride and dignity!! And if you have men in your lives..be it father or husband or in any role..u do know what it means to them..right??!!

I so agree on this too … whatever said and done their ego is more

In spite of everything, he did not call her employer cause he can't hurt her..simple!! And loving Pallavi has been the hardest thing in his life..it has torn him apart, shredded his esteem, broken his confidence to bits, tested his patience to the limit and made him an object of ridicule in the eyes of near and dear one...if he says that loving her has been a mistake..is he wrong in this context and scenario?? I know we have quite a few married friends here..just ask them about fights in a marriage..contrary to belief..the fights are massive and ugly!! These words are meant to hurt!!

Yes yes !!!!!


Pallavi is not wrong, never was but I feel that the way she is going about this is not right!! And Raghav is wrong..whatever the justification, the reason, the whole world does the same argument.. does not change one simple fact..what is wrong is wrong!! But in her place if my man is suffering like this..if he is in so much pain..if my marriage is at a point of no return..I would reconsider my stand!!

Absolutely
There are better and less confrontational ways of handling this..but again..she is a puppet in the cvs hands and a fictional character ..main bhi kahaan phasi!!

Yes agreed !!

Coming back to the dynamic duo..Raghav is back to his daily jaap..Don't touch me..Pallu ne toh kabhi nahin kaha par yeh chui mui ki kami puri karke rahega...role reversal!! Me thinks daal mein something black!! Or is it beacuse if she touches you, you will lose yourself..you won't be able to stay angry with her or you will melt or you will happily surrender your hathiyaar..hmm!! 😈

What had me hooting with laughter was his word..manhandle!! Wohi toh problem hai..yeh man hai jo kissi se handle nahin hota!! And Pallavi..bechari aaj kal Saatvik Ahaar pe hain..iss piye huye pahaad ko kya kar legi!! Actually not a bad idea..Pallu try n assault the guy..I still remember his reaction when he woke up without his clothes..haay woh bhi kya din they smuggling toh kya, office jaana hi chhod dega...

And he passes out again..and my mind goes...ab Pallu kahaan soyegi?? Pura bed hathiya liya..maybe she should sleep on him like he did a few months back..🤣..!! Insaaf ki pukaar..tit for tat and Pallu letofy on that!!

Farhaad should get the Paramvir Chakra for the bravest employee..kya idea hai..poke the boss in the eye to make sure he is not dead!! May be I should try that with my boss....just checking whether u r human or not!! And Raghav's hat na..was epic!! Kahaan banda was hoping for a red saree wali mrignayani and kahaan samne khada tha suit wala bhoot!! And his very first thought...Pallu!! Ab bolo..jitna gussa aaya tha is idiot par..sab utar gaya..isski daaru ki tarah!!

And the way he runs..honestly..iss ko olympics mein bhejo!! Ek aur medal pakka..of course finishing line pe Pallavi khada hona mangta.. bronze mila toh chumma, silver mila toh rain sequence aur gold mila toh..waah kya intelligent log hai!! Iss mamle mein never have to finish my sentence!! 🤣

So the guy is now drinking in the day too..Pallu darling ..Hyderabad ka Don, pee pee ke ban jayega Hum Aapke Hain Kaun??

And he doesnt want her congratulations ?? Theek Pallavi..give him your strangulations!!

500 crores..200 crores..seriously?? I would have finished this..truly..but I m still counting the zeroes..ek..do..teen..chaar..kal ka din emosional atyachaar..panch chhe saat ..tissue box ab rakhna saath..aanth nau dus..meri bakwaas hui bus!!


P.S..I know I might have offended a few friends by stating my pov but maaf kar do yaar..just being my crazy, moohfatt self!!

And this is really important... friends you respond with so much appreciation and love on many of my posts but due to the fact that I don't follow India time and certain responsibilities and limitations, I am.unable to respond, but trust me I read each and every word. Thanks a ton ..words are not enough 🤗

Emotional episode tha but still you made me laugh 🤣🤗

Pallavi throwing challenges after challenges on him is making him more violent .. whatever said and done uska ego Aur gussa bahut zyaada hai … I knew this is coming and many more going to come … get out of my house and all … sirf Bolne ke liye hai … Anna knows his skd .. she will never go .. just wants to hurt her that’s it ..

As you said Eve , fights between couples are worst than this .. I have seen my neighbhour couple fight like this .. just ego clash !!!

pls see guys I love Pallavi … I’m hating CVS for making her do this at such rapid speed and taking extreme steps !!! Thoda balance karo !!!


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Thank you for the post Eve .. and mentioning my name .. It’s a pleasure to read your posts and your POV !!
you write really well !!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thanks for such generous words..what can i say?? Just speak your mind and talk your heart!! I would love to hear !! 😊Write what you feel!!

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