Manhandle!! - Page 2

And I sell my soul to the devil every single day!! Thank you so much for saying this..like you I slog for hours for my family..the harsh realities of life are not a thesis on ideologies!! They are a bitter truth we swallow each day!!

Respect..the key word. How many times have I heard that a marriage does not last on love, it lasts on respect!!

Pallavi does need to respect first all that he is before changing all that he is not!!

I hear you..its going to be so hard!! I am hoping this forum and my crazy bunch of psychos here can keep me sane!! Lets keep trying to find humor in every situation...

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I agree that he has always swallowed his self respect for her (considering his ghamandi traits it's a big thing) but he keeps insulting her in front of his whole family, uski izzat nai hai?

The other day she sent Rajan out of the kitchen so the servants of the house don't know what's going on. Raghav literally washes his dirty linen in the dining table every night. I understand he's hurting too but Pallavi doesn't disrespect him before others jaise woh karta hai.

Her not using his money is because her idealogy is different not because she wants to hurt him or cause him disrespect.

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Ahhh... I would think you should reconsider that.. 😅😅😅 considering she practically hit him with a broom in front of everyone. Agreed that was dor comic relief... still I don't think it was a very prudent thing to do. She let her so called family trample all over him many a times... yes she stopped Vijay Deshmukh when it went out of limits... but before that she didn't bother. I don't think anyone has ever got slapped so many times as Raghav has.. from Vijay, from Sharda... from Pallavi herself. Okay... Pallavi I understand. He deserved that. But the rest.. i don't think so.

And as far as respect goes. What others think is of least consequence.. to Raghav I mean. From his perspective. But what Pallavi thinks is important. And I am not saying that Raghav hasn't ever insulted her or not... but basically the entire plot line circling around Raghav and Pallavi's relationship is damn f**ked up if you look closely.

Rest I agree with you. The man shouldn't keep speaking whatever comes to his mouth in front of anyone.

Yassss! Why are we even dissecting and analyzing a fictional couple of an itv show. Lets moon over their acting skills and ofcourse looks..☺️🤣

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I agree that he has always swallowed his self respect for her (considering his ghamandi traits it's a big thing) but he keeps insulting her in front of his whole family, uski izzat nai hai?

The other day she sent Rajan out of the kitchen so the servants of the house don't know what's going on. Raghav literally washes his dirty linen in the dining table every night. I understand he's hurting too but Pallavi doesn't disrespect him before others jaise woh karta hai.

Her not using his money is because her idealogy is different not because she wants to hurt him or cause him disrespect.

True, his behaviour always gave free pass to Keerthi and Sunny to insult Pallavi and question her marriage and love life . Even Pallavi swallows insults from Keerthi like bitter pill, reacting only at certain times just because Raghav loves Keerthi.

Raghav has hurt and somewhere disrespected her love (though that was not his intention ) by his constant lies , had he not lied, he won’t be facing such extreme reaction from her . They’d be talking.

Originally posted by: eveline

On a serious note, I would just walk out!!

And the guy would land up in hospital because of excessive drinking !

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I agree that he has always swallowed his self respect for her (considering his ghamandi traits it's a big thing) but he keeps insulting her in front of his whole family, uski izzat nai hai?

The other day she sent Rajan out of the kitchen so the servants of the house don't know what's going on. Raghav literally washes his dirty linen in the dining table every night. I understand he's hurting too but Pallavi doesn't disrespect him before others jaise woh karta hai.

Her not using his money is because her idealogy is different not because she wants to hurt him or cause him disrespect.

Sending servants out is no use when you bring your own groceries to the house or get your food cooked separately or insist on wearing different kind of clothes to prove your point. Staff is neither deaf nor dumb yaar!!

And if my memory serves me right Pallavi has not spared him tongue lash either..yesterday's episode a classic example!! She says plenty in public, in the dining room too!! Like how his money didn't help him much!!.Pallavi has never been one to shut down in private or public..and why should she??

Honestly..its a fight and they both are using whatever means they have to hurt each other..par hum kyun argue kar rahey hain and that too for fictional characters!! 🤗

We all are unique, coming from different backgrounds, shaped by different experiences, holding different beliefs..how can all of us have the same pov..not possible but trying to get a different perspective is always a possibility!!

See Pallavi has let her family trodd all over him as well. Raghav has digested a lot for her as well. Both have done that. I am not comparing their love. That wouldn't be good. I would never do that, that's humiliating to both of them. But I donot agree with your perspective.

Both have hurt each other equally, in different situations, in different ways but both were equally harsh. I had written a post on that as well highlighting how people should stop bashing Pallavi during the Mandaar track. I am not biased towards Raghav. I usually tend to see from his perspective cause I can relate with him to a level. Pallavi as all other itv FLs take a higher seat than us normal mortals for us to relate with. 🤣🤣🤣(atleast for me)

But lets be a realist for a change, not an idealist. Ideally whatever Pallavi is doing, saying and striving towards is true. She is right. No doubt about it. She is. But her methods aren't. In real life this won't work.

But then neither will their relationship 😆🤣

Originally posted by: eveline

Hello there buddy..if his words are insulting, her actions are demeaning, whatever the reasons.

Sending servants out is no use when you bring your own groceries to the house or get your food cooked separately or insist on wearing different kind of clothes to prove your point. Staff is neither deaf nor dumb yaar!!

And if my memory serves me right Pallavi has not spared him tongue lash either..yesterday's episode a classic example!! She says plenty in public, in the dining room too!! Like how his money didn't help him much!!.Pallavi has never been one to shut down in private or public..and why should she??

Honestly..its a fight and they both are using whatever means they have to hurt each other..par hum kyun argue kar rahey hain and that too for fictional characters!! 🤗

We all are unique, coming from different backgrounds, shaped by different experiences, holding different beliefs..how can all of us have the same pov..not possible but trying to get a different perspective is always a possibility!!

Just my point. I rest my case. 😌😆

That's where the problem lies..such issues need sense and sensibilities if you do want to address them!! Yahaan toh ek din we can identify with Pallu, next din we feel for Raghav..what is this..a politician's career jahan roz party badli jaati hai!!

Where is the balance here?? Are we taking turns playing the blame game..or can we finally have 2 mature people airing their thoughts, feelings, expectations, disappointments and experiences!!

Originally posted by: eveline

Hello there buddy..if his words are insulting, her actions are demeaning, whatever the reasons.

Sending servants out is no use when you bring your own groceries to the house or get your food cooked separately or insist on wearing different kind of clothes to prove your point. Staff is neither deaf nor dumb yaar!!

And if my memory serves me right Pallavi has not spared him tongue lash either..yesterday's episode a classic example!! She says plenty in public, in the dining room too!! Like how his money didn't help him much!!.Pallavi has never been one to shut down in private or public..and why should she??

Honestly..its a fight and they both are using whatever means they have to hurt each other..par hum kyun argue kar rahey hain and that too for fictional characters!! 🤗

We all are unique, coming from different backgrounds, shaped by different experiences, holding different beliefs..how can all of us have the same pov..not possible but trying to get a different perspective is always a possibility!!

I agree with what you said about the servant business but her insults to him after the reporters were in retaliation to his taunts before the reporters when he spoke to Amma. It wasn't easy for Pallavi to not go to the cops but she swallowed her morals for his love.

I love both the tazbus equally toh it gets very difficult for me to sit and defend both of them... What a difficult spot to be in for anyone.

Actually I've been discussing with my friends that I can let everything he did/said to date slide coz even Pallavi knows he loves her and he doesn't think of it as a mistake. We do say a lot of things we dont mean when we are drunk. I've had first hand embarassing situations in my immediate family so I can let it slide. Again, because of my experience I can be lenient, not all will agree to this.

My major issue with Raghav atm is that the precap has set me off totally (I know your post doesn't cover the precap). That's a line he should not cross. All this makes her feel she has no home of her own.

She's fighting to make him understand but doesn't want to ever leave him. How could he ask her to leave him/ their house. Both need to talk it out. Abhi jab woh death bed pe hogi he will realise nothing he says or earns is more important than her.