Manhandle!!

This, actually almost every single one of my posts, is dedicated to MHRW99..meri kamini BTS dost! ❤️ Honestly if she was not around, you guys would have been spared numerous tortures 🤣!!

Lately I have been feeling like a child, jisske mummy daddy ladne mein itne busy hain ke kissine homework kiya..yeh tak nahin puchcha!! We all feel like anaaths, orphans !! I promise its getting harder!! Newton's law totally taking over...action and reaction are equal and opposite!! The more I try to make u guys laugh, the more Raghav and Pallavi sponsor water works!! Paaglo..ab rulaoge kya!!

Opening...Pallu ..sigh..if only you caress your hubby with such love and emotion..india-pakistan mein shanti ki lehar daud jaati!!

And then enters Dev D or Talli Taandav or Bewada Barood, whatever you like to call him!! I just read that The Alcoholic Beverages Association of Hyderabad is going to honor Raghav as their most valued customer. Ek akela banda saari daaru industry ko single handedly sponsor kar raha hai!! And within a few months..The Saving Liver Association of Doctors will honor him for being their biggest patient...samaaj seva!!

And what he says next is the living proof..that the 1000s of pages and hours we have spent here making fools of ourselves, khaaing family ki gaaliyan, and trying to prove to ourselves and the world that we are not paagals.. is not wasted...they are listening!! Seriously, forum waasio..if only we had made some copyrights on our discussions..sicku jail mein chakki peesing and peesing!!

So Raghav becomes our official spokesperson and Pallavi becomes officially speechless!! Aaj main bolunga..khaak bolega...bolega toh tab jab do minute khada reh paaega..I just realized that its really hard to fight with someone when u are lying down..or falling down!! Hows the Josh?? Leta hai Sir!! 😆

And he says it all!! He could have said plenty and plenty more!! Statutory Warning..It gets serious from here...Its written in bold so the ones not interested can take a bypass..

Words vs actions..what is more hurtful!? Today the forum is an uproar about Raghav's words and tomorrow it will be worse. As hard as it is to believe..I love them both!! So if you can please spare me your graciousness and patience and trust..I will just say a few things:

Yes, he uses harsh words..he always has!! And we all know that!! But Pallavi uses harsher actions!! Today and for the last few episodes I see a man who is drinking himself to oblivion. He seems self-destructive, on the edge!! His pain is overflowing. If the words are hurting Pallavi, her actions are killing Raghav!! Everytime he looks at her he sees her clothes, a constant reminder that he is not taking care of his Pallu, not keeping her happy, not pampering or spoiling her like he has always desperately wanted to. Everytime he sees her eating the food..usske gale se khana nahin utarta..how can he eat good food when his love is barely feeding herself. I bet the food tastes like ashes..his house feels like ruins and his whole life's hard work, an empty waste!!

One word that has stuck with me through these episodes..Raghav Rao is a loser!! And he said it himself!! In essence Pallavi's actions are negating his life's hardwork, his struggles, sacrifices and success!! She is killing the man's honor, pride and dignity!! And if you have men in your lives..be it father or husband or in any role..u do know what it means to them..right??!!

In spite of everything, he did not call her employer cause he can't hurt her..simple!! And loving Pallavi has been the hardest thing in his life..it has torn him apart, shredded his esteem, broken his confidence to bits, tested his patience to the limit and made him an object of ridicule in the eyes of near and dear one...if he says that loving her has been a mistake..is he wrong in this context and scenario?? I know we have quite a few married friends here..just ask them about fights in a marriage..contrary to belief..the fights are massive and ugly!! These words are meant to hurt!!

Pallavi is not wrong, never was but I feel that the way she is going about this is not right!! And Raghav is wrong..whatever the justification, the reason, the whole world does the same argument.. does not change one simple fact..what is wrong is wrong!! But in her place if my man is suffering like this..if he is in so much pain..if my marriage is at a point of no return..I would reconsider my stand!! There are better and less confrontational ways of handling this..but again..she is a puppet in the cvs hands and a fictional character ..main bhi kahaan phasi!!

Coming back to the dynamic duo..Raghav is back to his daily jaap..Don't touch me..Pallu ne toh kabhi nahin kaha par yeh chui mui ki kami puri karke rahega...role reversal!! Me thinks daal mein something black!! Or is it beacuse if she touches you, you will lose yourself..you won't be able to stay angry with her or you will melt or you will happily surrender your hathiyaar..hmm!! 😈

What had me hooting with laughter was his word..manhandle!! Wohi toh problem hai..yeh man hai jo kissi se handle nahin hota!! And Pallavi..bechari aaj kal Saatvik Ahaar pe hain..iss piye huye pahaad ko kya kar legi!! Actually not a bad idea..Pallu try n assault the guy..I still remember his reaction when he woke up without his clothes..haay woh bhi kya din they smuggling toh kya, office jaana hi chhod dega...

And he passes out again..and my mind goes...ab Pallu kahaan soyegi?? Pura bed hathiya liya..maybe she should sleep on him like he did a few months back..🤣..!! Insaaf ki pukaar..tit for tat and Pallu letofy on that!!

Farhaad should get the Paramvir Chakra for the bravest employee..kya idea hai..poke the boss in the eye to make sure he is not dead!! May be I should try that with my boss....just checking whether u r human or not!! And Raghav's hat na..was epic!! Kahaan banda was hoping for a red saree wali mrignayani and kahaan samne khada tha suit wala bhoot!! And his very first thought...Pallu!! Ab bolo..jitna gussa aaya tha is idiot par..sab utar gaya..isski daaru ki tarah!!

And the way he runs..honestly..iss ko olympics mein bhejo!! Ek aur medal pakka..of course finishing line pe Pallavi khada hona mangta.. bronze mila toh chumma, silver mila toh rain sequence aur gold mila toh..waah kya intelligent log hai!! Iss mamle mein never have to finish my sentence!! 🤣

So the guy is now drinking in the day too..Pallu darling ..Hyderabad ka Don, pee pee ke ban jayega Hum Aapke Hain Kaun??

And he doesnt want her congratulations ?? Theek Pallavi..give him your strangulations!!

500 crores..200 crores..seriously?? I would have finished this..truly..but I m still counting the zeroes..ek..do..teen..chaar..kal ka din emosional atyachaar..panch chhe saat ..tissue box ab rakhna saath..aanth nau dus..meri bakwaas hui bus!!

P.S..I know I might have offended a few friends by stating my pov but maaf kar do yaar..just being my crazy, moohfatt self!!

And this is really important... friends you respond with so much appreciation and love on many of my posts but due to the fact that I don't follow India time and certain responsibilities and limitations, I am.unable to respond, but trust me I read each and every word. Thanks a ton ..words are not enough 🤗

Sigh your post was much needed for my sanity. And your @bold especially made me think about this fight between Raghav and Pallavi in a different light. I understand that Raghav is hurt but like you said maybe he feels like a loser now because his wife is refusing his support and his saath. But still Raghav should talk it out - yelling and hurting is just going in a loop.

I know this is a fiction but sigh Kya kare I really am sold on the couple and the actors are acing the scenes. I know Pallu will be shot and Raghav will go through personal hell - how to make up my poor heart to stand this emotional attyachar.

The writers are picking up the dialogues from online sites but i really hope they give this fight a proper closure because till now anything and everything has just been a band-aid on the gaping wound. It is time they treat the source of pain instead of plastering another band-aid and moving on

Her actions are harsh but I would say life would have been easy had he not been dishonest with her in first place 😆, now after lying he’s not even attempting to try and talk it out calmly , pehle pyaar 🥃 ke pass chala gaya , his approach that Pallavi 2-4 din main maan jaygi on her own is being problem, as if he doesn’t know how equally stubborn Sari ka dukan is 🤣.

So now our lazy writers are simply copy pasting from social media , great , but atleast they should know how to present it properly , asking Pallavi why she is willing to stay mansion made by his money is one thing and out rightly asking her to leave is another .

Thank you for reading and responding, especially for keeping an open mind!!

I have enjoyed this track like hell but I was terrfied from day one cause essentially ideological differences can never be resolved..habits can be broken, circumstances can be changed but ideologies..nope they die with you!!

In real life, either you dissolve a marriage due to such differences, even if one partner is not ready to compromise or as Raghav wisely said, let it go. Life goes on, something happens, a new event, an incident and the couple moves on. Do you really think our grandparents or parents had similar thoughts and beliefs..not possible. But their marraiges lasted..compromise!! And.letting things go..if ever you take things to extreme, there is simply no solution.

They don't have a way out now..so instead of resolution they will show a shocking incident and guilt..like Pallavi wqs shocked with Abhishek's death..they hugged and it ended the whole angry Raghav track in a jiffy!!

We are in for some really turbulent times ..hold on!!

They are married 🤣And as u know marriages are made in heaven but maintained in hell!!

On a serious note, I would just walk out!!

Originally posted by: eveline

Thank you for reading and responding, especially for keeping an open mind!!

I have enjoyed this track like hell but I was terrfied from day one cause essentially ideological differences can never be resolved..habits can be broken, circumstances can be changed but ideologies..nope they die with you!!

In real life, either you dissolve a marriage due to such differences, even if one partner is not ready to compromise or as Raghav wisely said, let it go. Life goes on, something happens, a new event, an incident and the couple moves on. Do you really think our grandparents or parents had similar thoughts and beliefs..not possible. But their marraiges lasted..compromise!! And.letting things go..if ever you take things to extreme, there is simply no solution.

They don't have a way out now..so instead of resolution they will show a shocking incident and guilt..like Pallavi wqs shocked with Abhishek's death..they hugged and it ended the whole angry Raghav track in a jiffy!!

We are in for some really turbulent times ..hold on!!

Yes ideological differences are hard to overcome especially when the partners are standing on 2 different extremes - I feel even the creative's are not able to sketch the track properly so they are getting in the shooting scene. That will end Raghav ka gussa track but before jumping on to the next track whatever it might be - I really hope they show a conversation between Raghav and Pallavi. What it is that they want and expect from each other. Hyderabad track was so nice because these 2 had such good conversations. Sigh next few episodes are going to be tough

Your post made me see things in a different light for Raghav🤗. I agree her distancing from his money is making things difficult for him but he was the one who lied to her constantly, he is the one who was angry after the Keerti fiasco but didn't apologize or even introspect his behaviour.

Pallavi is using harsh means but banda isn't willing to understand the consequences. The issue here is their communication isn't very clear. The dialogues aren't giving the right picture and both aren't willing to talk it out. Yeh sab silent treatment aur jhagde main it's not helping.

Both need to rethink their strategies on how to make their point of view known. Insult, taunts aur mudslinging se kuch nai hoga. Raghav really needs to not touch alcohol coz he's not thinking straight.

PS: Being a woman, I think I can relate more to P's pain and perspective so I can be harsh to R due to this.

Thanks a lot for the bold part. This was much needed for my rapidly failing sanity. I as a working member of my family understand what Raghav is going through. The main reason for his anger is because he is hurting. If my husband does what Pallu is doing, I will be tremendously hurt. I have always said I feel somewhere that Pallavi doesn't respect Raghav as much as he deserves. The man has literally swallowed down more humiliation than is possible for a person of his stature, for her. He deserves that bit of respect. The way she is going about this entire thing is rubbing me the wrong way.

Rest your humour as usual is out of this world.🤗

Too good Eve! Keep on making us laugh like this. Cause where this track is heading.. is already giving me a headache.

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

Thanks a lot for the bold part. This was much needed for my rapidly failing sanity. I as a working member of my family understand what Raghav is going through. The main reason for his anger is because he is hurting. If my husband does what Pallu is doing, I will be tremendously hurt. I have always said I feel somewhere that Pallavi doesn't respect Raghav as much as he deserves. The man has literally swallowed down more humiliation than is possible for a person of his stature, for her. He deserves that bit of respect. The way she is going about this entire thing is rubbing me the wrong way.

Rest your humour as usual is out of this world.🤗

Too good Eve! Keep on making us laugh like this. Cause where this track is heading.. is already giving me a headache.

I agree that he has always swallowed his self respect for her (considering his ghamandi traits it's a big thing) but he keeps insulting her in front of his whole family, uski izzat nai hai?

The other day she sent Rajan out of the kitchen so the servants of the house don't know what's going on. Raghav literally washes his dirty linen in the dining table every night. I understand he's hurting too but Pallavi doesn't disrespect him before others jaise woh karta hai.

Her not using his money is because her idealogy is different not because she wants to hurt him or cause him disrespect.