Is this love? In which planet? - Page 3

Just saw your posts in passing and couldn’t help breaking my self imposed exile to reply to your post

Since Sai came to the mad house, she was subjected to harassment and taunts by Virat’s ex cum bhabhi cum bff and his other family member, and what did Virat *edit by DT* do? Just stood there with his mouth shut! You say he clarified his stand and Sai shouldn’t misunderstand him.

i ask you would you remain chummy with a person and trust him/her who claims to care for you but won’t stand up to defend your dignity?

This is the case with Sai and no this is not in the past. She has to bear this on the daily basis.

Truth is indeed bitter and sometimes people create imaginary world to escape it.

Originally posted by: QNefertiti

Uski absence me bol rahi thi wo to Sai bhi pakhi ki absence me sabko bolti hai 😆 merko bas yahi lagta hai ki jo usko taunt kar rahe the aur jo uske sath galat kiya unko reply kare na Har waqt pakhi hi kyu? Baki log sai ko galat nahi lagte

I agree. Sai pointed out that the family never praises her or Ashwini when they make them food. She called out their double standard behaviour that they praise only their favourite bahu. If you look at it, she didn’t scold Pakhi but was telling the family how they never have given credit to her or Ashwini.

Ashwini doesn’t have a voice, otherwise she would have also said that Kaku only praises Sonali or Pakhi but not her or Sai.

Doesn’t that go for Sai?

Forget loving, if she respects Virat, why is torturing him about Pakhi.

why is her feeling subject what Virat thinks? She should be nice to him, irrespective of what Virat does at the cafe.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Sorry for jumping in. But the problem here is not whether Sai believes him or not. It's how his behaviour is troublesome just coz she refuses to believe him. If a person can be caring and loving only when the opposite person does everything like you want, it isn't love. It's just tyranny. If Virat really loves Sai, her refusal to believe his love or her inability to not love him in return shouldn't make him this cruel or insensitive. He should be able to take that calmly with a broken heart, without hurting Sai in return. This current behaviour of his is so disappointingly inhumane.

Thanks for replying ❤️. I didn’t want to reply due to the remarks. This is exactly what we are trying to say. I had even criticised Sai to have not believed him yesterday.

The problem is with Virat’s behaviour. Whether she believes him or not, he shouldn’t be behaving this way.

Like I said, Sai has also insulted Virat many times. I would never do that. Theirs is mutual

secondly, Sai attracts confrontations. If no one says anything, she will say something to create an issue but gets all the sympathy because she is an orphan

many people want Sai to move out and lead a peaceful life, but believe me she can never do that

Every action breeds reaction. Whatever sai did was in reaction to what she was subjected to. Had virat stood up for her and shut up the hyena gang, she wouldn’t have had to be confrontational.

It’s your problem not sai’s if she didn’t fit the mould of doormat bahu.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

No this isn't love. This isn't how a person who loves somebody would behave, just because they refuse to see and accept your love and love you back. This loathsome Virat is too hard to digest😡. Man, he's just plain insensitive. But all his indifferent behaviour goes for the toss when Pakhi is the one on the receiving end🤬. Why no one says anything to Pakhi when she says all those hurtful things but reprimands Sai for talking back?

Devi was so right about this today. Why don't you think about how Sai is hurt by your words. And these people call her mentally unstable. Seriously? She's the one seeing the truth clearly without a bias lens unlike the elders and Virat too. The haughty looks and words for Sai, but only concern for Pakhi even after all the tricks and taunts she pulls off against Sai? Seriously this isn't love.

Even Neil isn't looking convincing these days. He's either being emotionless or haughty or overacting like the Ajinkya track. Hate the way they've ruined Virat.

@bold that is another big issue. How will Sai even be able to understand his feelings when all she would be thinking is the same? How can Virat feel bad only when Pakhi is at the receiving end?

Very true, these people are calling Devi mentally unstable and shushing her. No one wants Devi to hate Pakhi or speak to Pakhi in a rude way but Devi keeps noticing how Pakhi behaves with Sai and she calls it out.

@green I just couldn’t take it today. Not anymore. His looks, his mock, his hmm when Sai said that she will always support Sai. What was that even? I stopped looking at this as love a few days back. This was too much. I can’t watch him cry anymore for her or for her to not understand him. That will even more horrible.

Originally posted by: Simmi988

Oh come on!

Sai has herself insulted Virat so many times in front of his family and even random strangers

When she does it, all pseudo feminists hail her has independent and brave, and if Virat stays quite because he is hurt and confused, he is blamed

Sai is 19 but Virat is not 50. How many 27 year olds go through what Virat went through

He can be quite then when devi tai saying to pakhi akso . Why he is saying sai overdramatic. According to him whatever devi said to pakhi she should not say but pakhi can say anything to Sai it us ok sai should not react . He should keep quiet na that time aksi it's nit releted to him

You only respond to people you care about and love

He doesn’t care enough about Pakhi to react to her

Originally posted by: Simmi988

Doesn’t that go for Sai?

Forget loving, if she respects Virat, why is torturing him about Pakhi.

why is her feeling subject what Virat thinks? She should be nice to him, irrespective of what Virat does at the cafe.

Sai does talk some unnecessary stuff about him having feelings for Pakhi. But her behaviour and actions aren't inhuman and haughty as Virat's have been towards her. She's been angry and upset since the cafe incident, where he was spotted holding hands with his ex, but she didn't show her anger or hatred openly, she tried asking him what happened there, but when he refused to divulge the details, she's hurt but still she doesn't intentionally hurt him like he does. My main issue with Virat is, in his anger over her stubbornness and inability to understand his feelings, he's become even more stubborn and insensitive towards her emotions.

This tit for tat which he's doing, isn't a mature behaviour. As an elder in the relationship, being a mature IPS officer he should know better.