What does the hand holding mean to Sai? - Page 6

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Then he is assuming there...just like Sai is assuming his love for Pakhi...Just because he "assumes", Sai can tell the neighbours about it , even though she did not tell the neighbours about how much she is tortured at CN, how she has been manhandled my the IPS officer husband...How her friend has been beaten up by the IPS husband ,and has been recently locked by her IPS husband, how she is manhandled by her husband...That assumption is his problem.

As a husband he has to clarify what he started..As a husband he owes it to Sai...As he claims to love Sai, he owes it to his wife, because his "friend" has always always always interfered in his relationship with Sai...has always always always abused her...and he is the reason behind it...So he should feel guilty there as welll...Also if he keeps prioritising what he owes to his friend, over what he owes to his wife...the relationship is not going to work...BECAUSE of him.....

@bold I completely agree with this.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Between, I was rewatching the episode and felt that KBA's verbal diarrhea is something Sai has to analyze. Most of it is BS. If Sai understands that most of what pakhi talks is rubbish, things will be clear.

With virat i have no hope, that he undestands Pakhi. In cafe, she told him clearly whats in her mind but the guy isnt ready to accept 😡

In KD, i guess there is a conversation between sai and pakhi after Virat leaves , where Pakhi talks BS again about Virat not able to see Sai as his wife, and his care of her was brotherly. More than Sai, I want Virat to hear it and tear her apart for the kind of insecurities she has been sowing in Sai's mind. She talks rubbish 🤢 I am so done with that woman.

Hotstar caption today was...Pakhi goes Berserk with a khatarnaak thumbnail..And I was like she is always berserk..

I mean after asking thrice about why their beds are separated...She says, I am not saying anything to Sai..I am not interfering in her personal matter...then why is she talking to me so rudely Virat...🤪

I cant even call her KBA now, since Virat compared his wife with her..😭

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Sai is not at fault especially after the way virat gives leverage to his bf. His lack of courage to accept his own actions costing sai. He is just being selfish by putting all the blame on her for not understanding him.

I am sorry but I have a different view about this. I understand all the issues and roadblocks for Sai to believe it but she doesn’t even try to hear or consider his words. He had said even yesterday that it was long ago and it all changed long ago. She never even once thought that could be true too. She never even once thought if he was telling the truth. There are two sides of a coin and she isn’t willing to look at the other side at all. I don’t even want Sai to confess to Virat if Virat is going to prioritise Pakhi over his own wife but I also want Sai to pause and think whatever Virat has been telling her. She has made up her mind and is not at all willing to change her views. She has concluded without even reconsidering based on whatever he has been trying to say. If she does that, he will also be able to open up to her but the more she says that he has feelings for Pakhi disregarding all his words, the more he is going to get upset or angry that she isn’t even willing to listen to him. It is like fighting a lost battle if we look at it from Virat’s POV too.

Let me ask you one simple question. Has Sai always been truthful to Virat? So why is it Sais pov is understood and not Virats? Virat needs to explain I agree. But thinking from his perspective he will not be able to be guilt free till Pakhi moves on. Though he loves Samrat he hasn't revealed the truth to him because he still hasn't realised that Pakhi is delusional. He wants to give Pakhi a chance to move on. He thinks like him even she can move on in life. If he reveals that Pakhi is still stuck in the past Samrat will not give a chance to Pakhi. Virat feels if Pakhi tries to understand Samrat she will surely be happy with him because Samrat is a much better guy than him. He really wants Pakhi to move on and he wants to give her a chance. He will realise how delusional and crooked ahe is only later.

About Sai and his relationship he knows Sai wont accept him and so he wants to move away. Which I think is the best for all right now because everyone's emotions are running high and no one is thinking rationally.

Originally posted by: _charu_

You said it 👏 it's exactly this. He can't erase that's why he doesn't wanna bring it up bec it's over from his side . As of now , no amount of verbal clarification will convince sai..

Otherwise virat as a character is Dumbo of the highest order. He doesn't realize how his actions come across. He is too soft with pakhi , and the manhandling part when he loses it ..disgusting ..he actually thinks pakhi will give a chance to samrat 😆 . pakhi strokes his ego and he enjoys it 🤢 she does it so smartly and ambiguously that virat is unable to catch it. He is only focused on winning the argument against sai🤢

@bold Exactly 💯.

Originally posted by: laksh

I am sorry but I have a different view about this. I understand all the issues and roadblocks for Sai to believe it but she doesn’t even try to hear or consider his words. He had said even yesterday that it was long ago and it all changed long ago. She never even once thought that could be true too. She never even once thought if he was telling the truth. There are two sides of a coin and she isn’t willing to look at the other side at all. I don’t even want Sai to confess to Virat if Virat is going to prioritise Pakhi over his own wife but I also want Sai to pause and think whatever Virat has been telling her. She has made up her mind and is not at all willing to change her views. She has concluded without even reconsidering based on whatever he has been trying to say. If she does that, he will also be able to open up to her but the more she says that he has feelings for Pakhi disregarding all his words, the more he is going to get upset or angry that she isn’t even willing to listen to him. It is like fighting a lost battle if we look at it from Virat’s POV too.

Originally posted by: vimeo

Let me ask you one simple question. Has Sai always been truthful to Virat? So why is it Sais pov is understood and not Virats? Virat needs to explain I agree. But thinking from his perspective he will not be able to be guilt free till Pakhi moves on. Though he loves Samrat he hasn't revealed the truth to him because he still hasn't realised that Pakhi is delusional. He wants to give Pakhi a chance to move on. He thinks like him even she can move on in life. If he reveals that Pakhi is still stuck in the past Samrat will not give a chance to Pakhi. Virat feels if Pakhi tries to understand Samrat she will surely be happy with him because Samrat is a much better guy than him. He really wants Pakhi to move on and he wants to give her a chance. He will realise how delusional and crooked ahe is only later.

About Sai and his relationship he knows Sai wont accept him and so he wants to move away. Which I think is the best for all right now because everyone's emotions are running high and no one is thinking rationally.

When the hidden truth is the reason for the roadblock between Virat and Sai, isn’t it best to be shared?

I have always tried to understand the POV of both. If Sai had done the same, I would have said the same for her as well. I said this even when she hid the truth about Devi Pulkit marriage to him. If she acts dishonest in the relationship, she will have to face the consequences.

Similarly if Virat does, he also has to face the consequences.

I understand whatever you are saying about Virat thinking for Pakhi and Samrat. I have a different opinion on this too. I still feel that Virat should have disclosed the truth about Pakhi to Samrat or atleast should have said that whatever he said was his side of the truth and he can talk fo Pakhi and then decide.

How fair is it for him to even decide on behalf of his brother? Just for him to come out of his guilt or let’s say because he wants Pakhi to get a fair chance, he thinks it is okay for him fo hide the truth about Pakhi from Samrat? The lady has been trying to get close to him even after the cafe meet without one ounce of shame and he wants his brother to live his life with her without letting him know about her truth?

Let’s say he doesn’t want to spoil a girl’s life, what about his brother’s then? Didn’t Virat share with Sai that he has someone else in his life and he has a commitment before getting married to Sai? Why did he do that? So that Sai is aware of what kind of relationship they are starting. Doesn’t Samrat deserve to know the same? He has left it for Pakhi to share it to him then he can also share it with Sai at the same time assuming that Pakhi would have anyway let Samrat know her truth.

Sai accepting him and not accepting him also depends on how he acts too. If he continues to side with Pakhi, she will never be able to give him a benefit of doubt too. I too want her to think about what Virat has been telling her that it was all in the past. But that doesn’t mean that Virat will continue to put down Sai ganging up with Pakhi and at the end cry that Sai doesn’t understand him. Sai has to do certain things from her side and Virat also has to do certain things for Sai to feel assured of whatever he is claiming.

Just by views.

Originally posted by: laksh

I am sorry but I have a different view about this. I understand all the issues and roadblocks for Sai to believe it but she doesn’t even try to hear or consider his words. He had said even yesterday that it was long ago and it all changed long ago. She never even once thought that could be true too. She never even once thought if he was telling the truth. There are two sides of a coin and she isn’t willing to look at the other side at all. I don’t even want Sai to confess to Virat if Virat is going to prioritise Pakhi over his own wife but I also want Sai to pause and think whatever Virat has been telling her. She has made up her mind and is not at all willing to change her views. She has concluded without even reconsidering based on whatever he has been trying to say. If she does that, he will also be able to open up to her but the more she says that he has feelings for Pakhi disregarding all his words, the more he is going to get upset or angry that she isn’t even willing to listen to him. It is like fighting a lost battle if we look at it from Virat’s POV too.

she will see the other side when something moves her mental block aside. Virat leaving her will move it! Till then she will not realize it.

Originally posted by: laksh

I am sorry but I have a different view about this. I understand all the issues and roadblocks for Sai to believe it but she doesn’t even try to hear or consider his words. He had said even yesterday that it was long ago and it all changed long ago. She never even once thought that could be true too. She never even once thought if he was telling the truth. There are two sides of a coin and she isn’t willing to look at the other side at all. I don’t even want Sai to confess to Virat if Virat is going to prioritise Pakhi over his own wife but I also want Sai to pause and think whatever Virat has been telling her. She has made up her mind and is not at all willing to change her views. She has concluded without even reconsidering based on whatever he has been trying to say. If she does that, he will also be able to open up to her but the more she says that he has feelings for Pakhi disregarding all his words, the more he is going to get upset or angry that she isn’t even willing to listen to him. It is like fighting a lost battle if we look at it from Virat’s POV too.

This...prioritize..does he really prioritize pakhi over sai? I don't think so..that's why I wrote that pakhi strokes his ego and he enjoys it coz he wants to win against sai , sometimes frustrate her or instigate her to speak the truth that she is affected . I may be wrong though.

I couldn't find better words to describe virat supporting pakhi or not being able to take a stand for sai ..or even prioritize.. he intends to do none but he ends up speaking in favour of pakhi coz sai is talking against him. I am not talking abt the past coz in the past he supported pakhi over sai ..

I agree with the rest of the post completely 👏

Originally posted by: laksh

When the hidden truth is the reason for the roadblock between Virat and Sai, isn’t it best to be shared?

If its honesty...Cafe truth is not the only truth .....Howcome sai judge that pakhi is pretending to be happy with samrat ? when pakhi started shouting virat virat instead of samrat samrat in dahi handi. Toh sai must share this with virat and samrat ? Sai saw pakhi looking at virat during pooja , not anyone else..she can also do the honors and share everything wth samrat. Her senses work perfectly fine with pakhi but not with virat ? 😆 the best judge that she is , of right and wrong , she must be able to judge virat correctly.