What does the hand holding mean to Sai? - Page 5

Originally posted by: _charu_

Well it cud be anything. Sai may misunderstand further and she can bring it up anytime .. at this point I don't understand what exactly will satisfy her.

Lastly can virat trust Sai by sharing anything like that.no offence but Sai is not a secret keeper.she used information provided by virat in past multiple times in front of family .Asshe doesn't have filter on her tongue..

Originally posted by: vimeo

The clarification for this kiss was on their first night after marriage I suppose, ain't it? That time Virat himself thought he loved Pakhi and so was it during Valentines. At least he hadn't moved on by then... It was only later. So he felt obligated to explain to Pakhi. Now he is not explaining to Sai ( I feel) because he feels if he reveals Pakhis truth to Sai, Sai is bound to misunderstand. Not only misunderstand but also Sai is quite capable of announcing this to the complete CN and the neighbours also. So keeping in mind Pakhis reputation (I feel he is still has guilt over the turn of events in Pakhis life and the fact she hasn't been able to move on) I feel he hasn't revealed anything to Sai. Because he still feels he owes that much to Pakhi his friend.

Then he is assuming there...just like Sai is assuming his love for Pakhi...Just because he "assumes", Sai can tell the neighbours about it , even though she did not tell the neighbours about how much she is tortured at CN, how she has been manhandled my the IPS officer husband...How her friend has been beaten up by the IPS husband ,and has been recently locked by her IPS husband, how she is manhandled by her husband...That assumption is his problem.

As a husband he has to clarify what he started..As a husband he owes it to Sai...As he claims to love Sai, he owes it to his wife, because his "friend" has always always always interfered in his relationship with Sai...has always always always abused her...and he is the reason behind it...So he should feel guilty there as welll...Also if he keeps prioritising what he owes to his friend, over what he owes to his wife...the relationship is not going to work...BECAUSE of him.....

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Then how is Sai at fault here...when she is getting jo clarity at all...and in all this We should wait for her to realise her love ...baba...

I agree he is assuming but he is basing it in what he has seen she will do.

I also agree that he has to come clean as well if he wants a relationship with Sai.

But given the circumstance they are in its better Virat keeps his mouth shut and go separate ways. Leave some cooling period and then they can show a leap where they can come clean. Otherwise its too boring for the audience going round and round. Sai keeps claiming deal marriage but she still interferes in everything. Same with Virat. He says something and does something else.

Originally posted by: vimeo

The clarification for this kiss was on their first night after marriage I suppose, ain't it? That time Virat himself thought he loved Pakhi and so was it during Valentines. At least he hadn't moved on by then... It was only later. So he felt obligated to explain to Pakhi. Now he is not explaining to Sai ( I feel) because he feels if he reveals Pakhis truth to Sai, Sai is bound to misunderstand. Not only misunderstand but also Sai is quite capable of announcing this to Samrat, the complete CN and the neighbours also. So keeping in mind Pakhis reputation (I feel he is still has guilt over the turn of events in Pakhis life and the fact she hasn't been able to move on) I feel he hasn't revealed anything to Sai. Because he still feels he owes that much to Pakhi his friend.

This is my perspective. And I don't think he ia entirely wrong, that too knowing Sais nature and her lover for sacchai and truth.

Originally posted by: vimeo

I agree he is assuming but he is basing it in what he has seen she will do.

I also agree that he has to come clean as well if he wants a relationship with Sai.

But given the circumstance they are in its better Virat keeps his mouth shut and go separate ways. Leave some cooling period and then they can show a leap where they can come clean. Otherwise its too boring for the audience going round and round. Sai keeps claiming deal marriage but she still interferes in everything. Same with Virat. He says something and something else.

Since he has zero retrospection skills, he does not think Sai only revealed about pakhi when she was insulted by Pakhi and his family for trying to accompany him on on a trip with her husband when he was go with his Bhabhi..She found it shameful and outrageous... SHe was called names because she was going on chupke chupke with her own husband...And next time also she was triggered...Both the times, Virat had hidden facts/things from her... Any marriage when it turns into real, needs the past to be discussed and buried and not always outside the bedroom door and inside the room unannounced..

Between, I was rewatching the episode and felt that KBA's verbal diarrhea is something Sai has to analyze. Most of it is BS. If Sai understands that most of what pakhi talks is rubbish, things will be clear.

With virat i have no hope, that he undestands Pakhi. In cafe, she told him clearly whats in her mind but the guy isnt ready to accept 😡

In KD, i guess there is a conversation between sai and pakhi after Virat leaves , where Pakhi talks BS again about Virat not able to see Sai as his wife, and his care of her was brotherly. More than Sai, I want Virat to hear it and tear her apart for the kind of insecurities she has been sowing in Sai's mind. She talks rubbish 🤢 I am so done with that woman.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Because then he was bound by vaada😂. He don't want pakhi to believe that he was not being true to her vaada. Now he is not even comfortable in talking about his past with sai because he wants to erase whatever he & pakhi shared in past🤣. And if he says pakhi still didn't move on then sai may blame him first for letting pakhi lead on him for which he has no answers. As far I understood he is extremely uncomfortable in talking about his past with anyone & he closes the topic with just one sentence like 'that was all in past not now 'be it to sai or samrat. Somewhere I feel he is ashamed of the equation he shared with pakhi in past. He regrets everything he did. . He regrets his past is what all I understood. I might be wrong too.

You said it 👏 it's exactly this. He can't erase that's why he doesn't wanna bring it up bec it's over from his side . As of now , no amount of verbal clarification will convince sai..

Otherwise virat as a character is Dumbo of the highest order. He doesn't realize how his actions come across. He is too soft with pakhi , and the manhandling part when he loses it ..disgusting ..he actually thinks pakhi will give a chance to samrat 😆 . pakhi strokes his ego and he enjoys it 🤢 she does it so smartly and ambiguously that virat is unable to catch it. He is only focused on winning the argument against sai🤢

Originally posted by: vimeo

The clarification for this kiss was on their first night after marriage I suppose, ain't it? That time Virat himself thought he loved Pakhi and so was it during Valentines. At least he hadn't moved on by then... It was only later. So he felt obligated to explain to Pakhi. Now he is not explaining to Sai ( I feel) because he feels if he reveals Pakhis truth to Sai, Sai is bound to misunderstand. Not only misunderstand but also Sai is quite capable of announcing this to Samrat, the complete CN and the neighbours also. So keeping in mind Pakhis reputation (I feel he is still has guilt over the turn of events in Pakhis life and the fact she hasn't been able to move on) I feel he hasn't revealed anything to Sai. Because he still feels he owes that much to Pakhi his friend.

This is my perspective. And I don't think he ia entirely wrong, that too knowing Sais nature and her lover for sacchai and truth.

If we reverse the role, will Virat be happy if Sai had done the same? Whatever be the reason, if one wants to earn trust, they first have to be honest. Sai knows about Pakhi and always knew about Pakhi. How many times has she made it as an issue unless Pakhi hasn’t started it herself? The first time that Pakhi left to her parent’s house, it was Pakhi who instigated Sai to say that Pakhi was leaving because Virat supported her. Even after the pool incident, Sai was made to confront since Pakhi kept poking her.

The thing is that if he wants Sai to understand him, wants Sai to believe him, then he has to come clean with whatever happened. He is obligated to his friend and not to his wife? Doesn’t he owe this to his own wife whom he wants to reciprocate his feelings? I am sorry to say that if Virat thinks that Sai would go announce it to everyone, then he would never be able to be honest with her and he shouldn’t live with her at all IMO.

Be it Sai or Virat, their opinion about each other shouldn’t be a reason for them to be honest with the other. If Sai thinks that Virat will grow mad and hence she needs to hide that she stayed with a guy in the night out of emergency, will it be okay? If she thinks that he will react the same way as in the case of Amay, Aniket or Ajinkya? That is not how a spouse should think. They should be honest at all times.

At the moment Virat is trying to protect Pakhi whom he always protects and will always protect too. He is also doing all this due to his stubbornness this time that he wouldn’t give her any clarifications. Well, fair enough if he thinks that he can also act stubborn but it is only going to be at the cost of their relationship. They both are facing issues because of both of their mistakes to some extent. She will have to try to listen and believe what he is saying and he will have to come clean about his past and most importantly act honest.

Originally posted by: laksh

If we reverse the role, will Virat be happy if Sai had done the same? Whatever be the reason, if one wants to earn trust, they first have to be honest. Sai knows about Pakhi and always knew about Pakhi. How many times has she made it as an issue unless Pakhi hasn’t started it herself? The first time that Pakhi left to her parent’s house, it was Pakhi who instigated Sai to say that Pakhi was leaving because Virat supported her. Even after the pool incident, Sai was made to confront since Pakhi kept poking her.

The thing is that if he wants Sai to understand him, wants Sai to believe him, then he has to come clean with whatever happened. He is obligated to his friend and not to his wife? Doesn’t he owe this to his own wife whom he wants to reciprocate his feelings? I am sorry to say that if Virat thinks that Sai would go announce it to everyone, then he would never be able to be honest with her and he shouldn’t live with her at all IMO.

Be it Sai or Virat, their opinion about each other shouldn’t be a reason for them to be honest with the other. If Sai thinks that Virat will grow mad and hence she needs to hide that she stayed with a guy in the night out of emergency, will it be okay? If she thinks that he will react the same way as in the case of Amay, Aniket or Ajinkya? That is not how a spouse should think. They should be honest at all times.

At the moment Virat is trying to protect Pakhi whom he always protects and will always protect too. He is also doing all this due to his stubbornness this time that he wouldn’t give her any clarifications. Well, fair enough if he thinks that he can also act stubborn but it is only going to be at the cost of their relationship. They both are facing issues because of both of their mistakes to some extent. She will have to try to listen and believe what he is saying and he will have to come clean about his past and most importantly act honest.

He is incurring a lot of Karma wrath. thats all I could say. His stars are bad 😲