I want anupama in some trendy clothes - Page 5

Originally posted by: anu_jha

A person should evolve himself/herself with time, because except change itself nothing is constant in this Universe. Anupama should also evolve herself and she will definitely do it. Her journey has just begun.

But my issue here is different. Why taking pallu over head is called regressive. I also take pallu over my head, whenever my in-laws visit us or we visit them. But I am not regressive and my in-laws are also not regressive. I do it to show respect to them. Yes, I can show respect to them by doing other things also. But Still I do it because I know how much they value it. It is totally a personal choice. Nobody can force me to take the pallu, but I chose to do it. How can it be regressive.

Sorry if i hurt your feelings ! Glad to know that you do it purely out of respect! I am seeing ladies around me who is taking palla only because of mother in law's fear and i find it very regressive to force someone to do it without their will/wish.

Regressive word is only for those who force/expect from their bahu/beti to act in certain way!

Simply cos anupama can look much better with self care.

I think you got me wrong Sweet Tania. . Jana ki had posted that to make Vanraj envious at what he lost Anupama has to dress in different clothes. My point was it was not change of clothes that us required for him to be envious.

As Surabhi pointed out it is more in her change of outlook that I think the CVs should concentrate.

She did not stand twiddling her fingers in the cafe when Vanraj was insulting her, she pointed out that his ego was prompting him to take decisions that made no business sense. From someone who shi v ered at his glares to defy his diktats and speak up for herself is progress. Ones outlook is defined by choices be it life decisions or personal decisions like clothes. One has to dress whatever one feels comfortable in. If Capri is comfortable wear it but don't wear it everywhere!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Sorry if i hurt your feelings ! Glad to know that you do it purely out of respect! I am seeing ladies around me who is taking palla only because of mother in law's fear and i find it very regressive to force someone to do it without their will/wish.

Regressive word is only for those who force/expect from their bahu/beti to act in certain way!

I agree with you that it should not be forced. It should be completely a personal choice.

Waah re progressive soch of super progressive ppl lol pakka and pallu is orthodox ..pichdapan..purani soch???? Seriously???????? Can't a woman or girl wear saree and b progressive too??? Leggin kurta suit.. wester dresses hi prove karenge k hum progressive hain bhai Humare kapde progressive nahi hai????? Humari soch tabhi modern kadpo se maani jayegi?????? Rahi baat dance teachers ki toh go n watch checkout in different schools ,jaha mostly dance teachers saree hi pehnte hain , saree se problem kya hai bhai??????? Anuj likes Anupama the way the She, Anupama Ko getup change karke , makeover se khud Ko prove karne ki zarurat nahi, maine bhi bhot single mothers Ko dekha hai jo ek acche post mein hai , simple attire or simplicity mein , or most important they all r happy in their life

Originally posted by: abhilashaa23

Waah re progressive soch of super progressive ppl lol pakka and pallu is orthodox ..pichdapan..purani soch???? Seriously???????? Can't a woman or girl wear saree and b progressive too??? Leggin kurta suit.. wester dresses hi prove karenge k hum progressive hain bhai Humare kapde progressive nahi hai????? Humari soch tabhi modern kadpo se maani jayegi?????? Rahi baat dance teachers ki toh go n watch checkout in different schools ,jaha mostly dance teachers saree hi pehnte hain , saree se problem kya hai bhai??????? Anuj likes Anupama the way the She, Anupama Ko getup change karke , makeover se khud Ko prove karne ki zarurat nahi, maine bhi bhot single mothers Ko dekha hai jo ek acche post mein hai , simple attire or simplicity mein , or most important they all r happy in their life

You have taken everything in wrong context !

Lol It’s was never about western cloth, it’s all about evolving with time , that’s it!

I am seeing ladies around me who is taking palla only because of mother in law's fear and i find it very regressive to force someone to do it without their will/wish.

Regressive word is only for those who force/expect from their bahu/beti to act in certain way!

Ofcourse I am calling all those people regressive who forces their bahu /beti to live and wear clothes in certain way only! And I will continue to call them regressive because this is not we women deserve and we are not anyone’s kathputli jo society and sasural wale decide karege ki palla rakhna hai ki nahi , suits pehenne hai ki nahi , evolve hone ka freedom milega ki nahi!

Sirf Aj nai har jahah main unn sab logo ko pichda hua bolugi ji ki wajah se women balika vadhu banti hai, jinki wajah se women ki life saree and pale mai bandh kar reh jati hai , jinki wajah se women ghar ke bahar apna astitva nahi bana paati hai ! Yeh sab mere liye bahot zyada regressive, pichde hue hai and rahege !

Regarding saree , as it’s cleared numerous times that nobody called saree is bad thing here so I will not give justification more on it .

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Aur Rajasthan jo Ladies city mein rehte hue lehnga kameej pehan ke aur upar pallu daal. Ke morning Walk ke liye nikalti hai woh Ladies bhi bade ghar officer ki wife hoti hai. Unko aaj kisi nahin bola ki lehanga pehan ke kyon morning Walk pe jaa rahi ho

Main Jaipur mein ek saal rahi hoon aur beech mein jaati rehti hoon

I Dont belong to Rajasthan. I belong u.p side

Aap kahan belong karte hain?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Main Jaipur mein ek saal rahi hoon aur beech mein jaati rehti hoon

I Dont belong to Rajasthan. I belong u.p side