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Hello everyone.

Thank you Nitu for inviting me in this group.

I too found Samrat behaving quite wierdly. In the initial episodes he never took a stand for both Devi tai and Mohit. It was Virat who stood by Deviyani Tai. And, now suddenly he's turned into a savior for Sai. I guess he's venting out his frustration by behaving rudely with Pakhi. And, the sad part is he's not giving a chance to Virat to explain himself but is ready to give a chance to Pakhi. Infact, when Pakhi told him that Virat had been rejecting her from the day they got engaged he should have guessed that it's Pakhi who's clinging onto her past instead of Virat. He finds himself in Sai's shoes but both Samrat and Sai are so blinded in doubt that they fail to figure out that Virat has moved on. And, I hated when he told Virat that he finds more closeness with Sai than him. How can one have such a close bond with his brother's wife who he knew only for a few days and not to his cousin who he grew up with? Samrat is a total disappointment.

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Thank you for this space and invite nitu. ❤️

Previously in all their fights, Virat used to take the first step to diffuse the situation by saying sorry or by pampering her. Now he is refusing to act like that so she is more agitated with his behaviour because she always took his love and care for granted. She is not even thinking about how hurt he is with her every day taunts and accusations. She doesn't have any filter on her words and not even want to introspect. That guy really don't deserve this daily torture after all his selfless actions. Everyone talks about how MAHAAN Sai is, how lucky this family is to get Sai etc... But everyone forget that he is the reason why she is still alive and he is the one who took her responsibility when she don't have anyone on her side.

I was wondering why she is saying again and again that he is not happy with Samrat return and Samrat's reunion with Pakhi. Now I got it, as Nitu said Sai and Samrat are messing up their minds with their own assumptions.

I honestly lost interest on the show. I am really waiting for a seperation. These two became too toxic for each other.

Your post is perfect.

Red - Absolutely correct. She has got so used to Virat running behind her, apologising for his mistakes that she started to take him for granted. And, now when the tables turned he became a two timer, unhappy for Samrat's return since her ego got hurt. When has she tried to diffuse a fight? Never. Infact she's the cause of all the figths.

Green - Agree. Sai's supporters and including her forget whatever Virat has done for her selflessly. So 😢.

Maroon - Yes, both Samrat and Sai are messing up their minds as well as their life.

When he locked her, she took it like a challenge but before everyone she presented him like a abuser. I am no way supporting Virat's act but can't support her playing victim card conveniently.

When he questioned her character, whether it's out of jealousy or what ever the reason, the way he manhandled Ajinkya was totally wrong. Now everyday she says that Virat means nothing to her and this marriage is a deal but she wants to know why he is holding Pakhi's hand in the cafe. He refuses to answer so every single day she calls him two timer, characterless and what not. Is this not called domestic abuse??? Just do a role reversal and see. He said so many times clearly that he is not committed to anyone and Pakhi is just a friend but she refuses to believe him and accuses him. Is he accountable for pakhi's feelings???

Is Sai's heart is made up of glass so everyone needs to protect her and her feelings and Virat's heart is made up of stone so anybody can hit it with hammer???

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

When he locked her, she took it like a challenge but before everyone she presented him like a abuser. I am no way supporting Virat's act but can't support her playing victim card conveniently.

When he questioned her character, whether it's out of jealousy or what ever the reason, the way he manhandled Ajinkya was totally wrong. Now everyday she says that Virat means nothing to her and this marriage is a deal but she wants to know why he is holding Pakhi's hand in the cafe. He refuses to answer so every single day she calls him two timer, characterless and what not. Is this not called domestic abuse??? Just do a role reversal and see. He said so many times clearly that he is not committed to anyone and Pakhi is just a friend but she refuses to believe him and accuses him. Is he accountable for pakhi's feelings???

Is Sai's heart is made up of glass so everyone needs to protect her and her feelings and Virat's heart is made up of stone so anybody can hit it with hammer???

Did anyone watch this interview? Did you guys anything odd here . I saw some comments on other platform where Neil is being criticized for being unprofessional. I was wondering if I am missing something

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUFEdTEqdWl/?utm_medium=copy_link

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

When he locked her, she took it like a challenge but before everyone she presented him like a abuser. I am no way supporting Virat's act but can't support her playing victim card conveniently.

When he questioned her character, whether it's out of jealousy or what ever the reason, the way he manhandled Ajinkya was totally wrong. Now everyday she says that Virat means nothing to her and this marriage is a deal but she wants to know why he is holding Pakhi's hand in the cafe. He refuses to answer so every single day she calls him two timer, characterless and what not. Is this not called domestic abuse??? Just do a role reversal and see. He said so many times clearly that he is not committed to anyone and Pakhi is just a friend but she refuses to believe him and accuses him. Is he accountable for pakhi's feelings???

Is Sai's heart is made up of glass so everyone needs to protect her and her feelings and Virat's heart is made up of stone so anybody can hit it with hammer???

I had even mentioned about both Sai and Pakhi in one of my posts where I have mentioned if Pakhi is Pakhi is intolerable then same goes with Sai too. Sai too is not less. She too loves playing the victim card, doesn't want to accept her mistakes,rectify them and apologise. If Pakhi is stuck with her past how come Virat is responsible? Why is Sai holding him respondible? Even today she got on my nerves. She kept on ranting about Samrat and Pakhi union and how he was feeling jealous. Isn't she crossing her limits?

And, you're right about where you said that Sai's heart is made of glass that it should be protected and Virat's heart is made of stone that can be hit with a hammer. This is ridiculous.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Did anyone watch this interview? Did you guys anything odd here . I saw some comments on other platform where Neil is being criticized for being unprofessional. I was wondering if I am missing something

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUFEdTEqdWl/?utm_medium=copy_link

I watched the iv at the time it aired. I found nothing to be bashed 🤔. The answers were quite normal and his POVs mostly. It was not related to the show and mostly it was based on his thoughts and same with Ayesha. Nowadays people are too intolerant and love to twist person's narratives. So what to do.

P.S. I must say Neil and Ayesha has better compatibility than him and his fiancé😆

Originally posted by: AninditaB

I watched the iv at the time it aired. I found nothing to be bashed 🤔. The answers were quite normal and his POVs mostly. It was not related to the show and mostly it was based on his thoughts and same with Ayesha. Nowadays people are too intolerant and love to twist person's narratives. So what to do.

P.S. I must say Neil and Ayesha has better compatibility than him and his fiancé😆

We have another member joining us … welcome Stardust …

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

We have another member joining us … welcome Stardust …

Thank you for welcoming me...so glad to find a place to discuss things and put my POV across.