Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 68 - Page 79

Originally posted by: subbuappu

I stopped connecting to her long back... Its not that I hate her character but I still can't connect her attachment towards D fam more than her brother... Had she known Mandar truth and how aayi saves her and protected her would have made sense.. but nah... And it's more like some others opinions also drive you away from character like i was rooting for P to apologize to RR for not trusting him during Mandar track that too after they confessed about their love but people kept saying that RR is not bothered about it..Then why should she apologize??? but here RR always immediately apologize of something wrong happens...

Only thing I am ok today with Pallavi is her saying that she wants him to stop doing illegal activities that might put someone life in danger... But I am again not ok with someone dictating how he should do his business... They should discuss and come to one point where both can agree or atleast an ok point if not completely satisfactory...

Even I stopped connecting to Pallavi after mandaar track. Nowadays whatever she does seems preachy. I was also expecting her to say sorry to Raghav in that Mandaar track but what she did was rkbk. After putting raghav in so much pain she was still justifying herself. Also she come across as hypocrite to me she was still saying "meri kaku" after what sulochana did with kriti. She never said sorry to kriti for what sulochana did with her when it was also her fault. She did not confront her aai when aai knew about devyani's murder all along. Also I cannot stand aai anymore. She is always giving gyaan to all but she is the one who needs them. She does not mind the wrong deshmukh does but become righteous ki devi when any of rao's does it.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Nice one Jean.. saw it for the first time... The monent i saw this VM, i rushed to see the telugu title song of this serial which ofcourse is Ketan's first show too😊.. the lyrics of it was wonderful too...

Really? It was the Telugu version of this serial that he debuted in? I never knew that! What was it called?

Originally posted by: Savun

Even I am bored of it. Why always ml has to change and fl is always shown right? Is there any show where ml change the fl?

I can only think of Sasural genda phool... the ML family is loving... I saw that show on and off and there the FL is intelligent but not is a i can do all FL type... Even then the ML didn't try to change her... Liked the light hearted scenes in it

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, it's rare but there are a couple and those are gems: Punar Vivaah (which was done more subtly) and Patiala Babes (less subtle 😉).

Punar vivah??? In what way ML changes her?? In that both are ok types right?? Not self righteous or arrogant...

Originally posted by: inlieu

Of course, no one is going to call this out but if it were Amma then all hell would break loose. 😆

Right Jean!!! Is this not double standards??? I will say that one has the rights to give advise only when follows it in their own life!! Thats why its said that its easy to say words, but to follow and adapt to it - not easy at all!! Pallavi for me still has to grow in maturity, she has not learnt to put herself in others shoes fully. She does that at times, at times she conveniently does not as because for her whats wrong is wrong. As rightly said world is not always black and while and most imp - situations play a very imp role in people's actions. This needs to be understood and not judged always.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

I dont like this habit of hers at all!! For everything run to that house???? When will u learn to sort out your issues by urself?? And whom are u seeking council from?? The woman who knew such a big truth and hid it from you, is that not equivalent to lying!!!!!!!!!!!

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I know initially some one was showcasing this show as promoting widow remarriage. If someone like that sees this show now, they will be dead set against marrying a widow. This show now shows a widow cannot cut cord of her initial marriage and would always be connected to the 'other family' at the cost of her current family.

I can put up with many stupid things in the show just please put an end to the dfam dependency. If they have to be shown on screen, please let them be shown via Amrutha and Farhad love story.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

I can only think of Sasural genda phool... the ML family is loving... I saw that show on and off and there the FL is intelligent but not is a i can do all FL type... Even then the ML didn't try to change her... Liked the light hearted scenes in it

This was a very good script indeed till about 65%.

Originally posted by: Ruhi.007

It may be a very difficult path now to change his business from illegal to legal. I know people in general export import do some sort of hera pheri but diamond smuggling is not that simple. There are a lot more checks and restrictions. As a don he would have developed and nurtured a network of corrupt people. From the smallest peon on the ground to powerful officials to ministers. It would not be easy for the RR to decide one-day that he is going legal. Whatever may be the motivation, people surrounding him may not allow him. For the corrupt, his money could be an important source of income. They might be banking on it to deal with some other black characters on their side. He would have to deal with blackmail, life threats, jail not only for himself but his employees as well.

Any of his own trusted members may rebel and they would be justified in saying - you did not think all of this was wrong earlier, why should we risk our life now by refusing to pay a small bribe just because your wife is not ok with this. His business is the livelihood of many people. Would he be ok to risk it all for the right way?

Thanks for bringing this up! This is the main point - it's not easy to change overnight. Easy to say but really really tough to do! It will take time and even if he were to pay all the customs duties and fines, he would have to reorganize his business process to replace the ones he had. That takes ages for any organization. Like you said, it would have a huge impact on his network and if he decides to become 'good' he will make a lot of enemies who will resent him for losing out on income or opportunities. Also, nothing will prevent the cops or other bad guys from coming after him once he stops bribing officials or keeping the police in his pocket. They know his past dealings so he's going to end up in jail. Making a clean break is near impossible.

Originally posted by: Ruhi.007

Yepp I also think that pallavi built up a too good raghav in her mind than he is. But such is love and she has always been shown as naive in love 🙄

Think they both understand that he loves her enough to sacrifice his life for her or go to jail to protect her life. When it is a case of life and death, for sure he comes through but would he do the same for her integrity or her principles or their happiness.Imo he would, hopefully the makers do as well. Would he understand how important her integrity is to her and does she understand how important money is to him. Should be an interesting track if done well.

He will understand, actually he does understand what her integrity means to her but hasn't found a way to balance that with his entrepreneurial drive and eagerness to earn money. That's why he hid everything from her and doesn't want her to interfere in his business - he knows she won't approve of some of his methods. She should have understood his drive by now after he revealed his past, but let's see where this goes. She's taking it personally and making it about herself.

I wonder if he ever asked her to choose between her morals and him, she'd say her morals. Whereas he'd always choose her over his money. Let's see if this changes for them both by the end of the track.

Originally posted by: Ruhi.007

Anyway, Swachh Raghav Abhiyaan begins.

Love this phrase, can I please use this 😊😊

Of course you can. I will be using this a lot in the coming days, so feel free to join. 😉

Originally posted by: inlieu

Really? It was the Telugu version of this serial that he debuted in? I never knew that! What was it called?

Yes.. you didn't know it??? I thought you did... It is called "Agnisakshi". He was the cop brother to FL in it... He was replaced later... It's available on hotstar... Let me check the episode in which you can see him...

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Punar vivah??? In what way ML changes her?? In that both are ok types right?? Not self righteous or arrogant...

She was flawed and considering how old that show is, it was impressive that they had a flawed FL. She used to make mistakes, she lied to him about her ex, she was over possessive about her son, she could be quite rigid in her refusal to see another perspective sometimes, throw tantrums, etc. 😆

The ML didn't announce a rehab mission but he helped her grow subtly.

He had flaws too (but which ML didn't?). I found they were both believable. Oh yeah, Geeta ji was the MIL there. I loved her!