This is not a misunderstanding!!!

Hello beautiful people 💕

I have a question for you all today, why do we use the word “misunderstanding” for Sairat’s current situation?? I don’t see any misunderstandings at all. Virat created this situation and refuses to clear things up from the Hirani’s bday poolside conversation until the recent handholding of the Him & Pakhi. He wants to be in this situation and doesn’t want to take the initiative needed for this to be over. Instead he wants to prove a point by manhandling, locking, shouting, insulting and taunting. Somehow he’s not able to take no for an answer so he will get it by being an ass. Anyone who’s in love and wants a good marriage and relationship will attempt to clear misunderstandings once things get bad. A mature and sane person will let it go and try to move on if the object of their affection rejects. Only crazy, obsessed, and abusive person will try and punish someone for saying no to them. Virat Chavan is a narcissists in the highest grade. He’s pushing for what he wants and is refusing to accept his wife’s rejection which’s making him turn into a criminal lately. I see no misunderstandings between these two. Virat’s actions assures Sai that what she’s thinking is the absolute fact and I honestly don’t blame her for thinking this way. It’s what he’s intentionally showing her. Misunderstandings are when someone sees something and takes it in a way that’s not what’s intended. I believe everything Virat does is actually intentional. He doesn’t think anyone should be questioning his actions and behaviours not even his wife. He believes he is entitled to do whatever he wants and be close to Pakhi and be her best friend even after knowing that she loves him and wants to break his marriage. He’s respectful towards her because he enjoys the attention she provides him. narcissistic and selfish people don’t usually care where the attention is coming from as long as it’s coming. The reason why Virat doesn’t get away from Pakhi and probably never will and he’s not clearing the misunderstandings is the attention she gives him. He enjoys that and wants Sai to be alright with it and not question him about it at all. He wants her to love him just the way he is in general and with Pakhi by his side loving him. 🥰 Sai’s personality won’t allow her to do what’s want of her. She’s not built that way. She will question, reject and defend herself as much as possible. I see no misunderstandings so can we all please stop calling this misunderstandings??

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I have always maintained...the way Virat made the promise...his conduct with patralekha, his leniency in Patralekha's interference in his married life till date, he has never clarified things clearly...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I have always maintained...the way Virat made the promise...his conduct with patralekha, his leniency in Patralekha's interference in his married life till date, he has never clarified things clearly...

The problem is Virat thinks just coz he has declared that he only sees pp as "friend" and wants her to move on with samrat, everything is done. So if Sai raises pp despite his declaration he simply gets angry. But he refuses to realize that Sai is asking a different question- she wants to know,if Virat has genuinely moved on or if he is doing this just for soceital norms. She wants to know what happened in the past that made him give pp a vaada. What has changed that he has broken it- is it just a samjhauta. shes asking if virat pp are doing all this merely as a compromise despite still harboring feelings for each other n in both their current actions, that belief is only strengthened. Because virat refused to clarify. He is lying to everyone about pp's intentions and is being blind to pp's fakeness even now. How come virat genuinely believes that pp went from crying n begging him to divorce Sai to now buying gifts to celebrate her reunion with samrat. No one flips so quickly! Sai can see through pp- she can see Pp is only trying to make virat jealous n does not actually want to move on n virat is supporting pp in taunting Sai, protecting her- his favoritism and soft corner to pp makes Sai feel so insecure...and now Virat looks like he cant watch pp-samrat because he has gone to their bedroom in middle of the night to interrupt the couple like pp did when she was irked by Sai bring in Virats life, n he is trying to move away by applying for transfer- which will make Sai feel like he is affected by pp-samrat so much because he still loves pp.

Virat keeps telling Sai to look past his words n at his actions. Well she is doing that- looking past his words about pp but his actions that make it seem like he has a soft corner for pp that will always be there, a place in his heart. And no wife could stand that. Its a blow to her self respect to feel like shes a second choice to her husband- that too a forced zimmedari/bojh one. Everytime she tries to move past it n behave like a wife and believe that the bygone is bygone, something happens to remind her of virat-pp n makes her question her place/importance in virats life.

I dont understand why Virat never asks a simple question to himself- why Sai will raise pp again n again if she is convinced by his declaration/explanation. Is it just zidd as he says? Like seriously! Sai is a smart girl. So why would she be so fixated on pp n him unless something was bothering her so deeply.

after his current behavior towards pp n her , Sai has only more reason to believe he is NOT over pp genuinely.

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

I always thought he’s just dumb for not getting rid of Pakhi and this stupid misunderstandings but I’m coming to the conclusion that he doesn’t want to clarify because that would mean he loses Pakhi and her attention for good. I no longer believe he minds it, no actually I believe he wants and enjoys her attention and doesn’t want to lose it.

How I see Virat is...he sees things from his perspective...Even initially when he thought he no more loves Pakhi and is trying to move on with Sai, in his head, Pakhi also automatically would be moving on.. He thinks vaada is no more for him, so should Sai also let it go...In his head he thinks if he fell in love with Sai, Pakhi would too with Samrat.. He has zero introspection skills...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I have always maintained...the way Virat made the promise...his conduct with patralekha, his leniency in Patralekha's interference in his married life till date, he has never clarified things clearly...

Like father like son that's it

My only issue is Sai would be made to love this douchebag ..

Hard to believe local audience of India watches such crap only shows their mindset.. Pardon if I have hurt anyone 🙏

This show should've gotten shut itself the day he ousted her and it was normalised 👎🏼

Virat has to just say one line to Sai. The vaada business is over. Done and dusted and even Patralekha knows that.

This is a carefully constructed web of non disclosures and miscommunications constructed by the great Mr. Virat Chavan😆 How much time would it have taken for Virat to take Sai somewhere and have an honest and open conversation about the vaada and clear off things once in for all. But his expectations from Sai are sky high, like she needs to understand his actions and ignore his words said in the past. Unfortunately, his deeds are such that forget Sai, any passerby would not believe that he loves Sai and has forgotten Pakhi. Infact today, he went the full length and compared Sai to Pakhi and told her why everyone loves Pakhi and how they never will love Sai👏

Originally posted by: Shaome

Like father like son that's it

My only issue is Sai would be made to love this douchebag ..

Hard to believe local audience of India watches such crap only shows their mindset.. Pardon if I have hurt anyone 🙏

This show should've gotten shut itself the day he ousted her and it was normalised 👎🏼

Indian society thinks that husband has complete rights over his wife and wife should always be beneath their husband. If a man does wrong, that is a small mistake and should be forgiven. That is the mentality of many and that is why shit shows like Ghum that promote abuse and patriarchy is getting such high ratings. TRP aunties will never find anything wrong with Virat's behavior. Instead they will find fault with Sai. And makers are feeding right into that toxic mentality.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Indian society thinks that husband has complete rights over his wife and wife should always be beneath their husband. If a man does wrong, that is a small mistake and should be forgiven. That is the mentality of many and that is why shit shows like Ghum that promote abuse and patriarchy is getting such high ratings. TRP aunties will never find anything wrong with Virat's behavior. Instead they will find fault with Sai. And makers are feeding right into that toxic mentality.

Diya aur baati hum ,pratiggya were also SP show... If I'm NOT those shows were topped in Chart for years having different concept in 2011-2018 ..Hard to believe we are watching shit in 2021