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Posted: 4 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

The lack of sensible monologues is hurting the story.

Yesterday, it was so obvious what was gnawing at her mind.....despite Shivani and Sunny trying to maker her see Virat's love, she is unable to understand and hence deal with the cafe hand-holding. Virat was listening to all this.....and yet he did not introspect? If he had other concerns, what were they and why did he feel it could not be addressed properly? I can understand him wanting to move away....but surely it is not possible that he is still completely blind that the cafe incident is bothering her in someway....since he heard it from the horse's mouth ...??

Similarly, Sunny has been more open about Virat feelings than he has ever been...he literally told Sai that Virat has been trying to confess his love. It is hard to imagine thar Sai didn't even pause to think? I understand if she still wants to protect herself.....and not give in until she knows the whole truth of what happened at the cafe...but Sunny's words !ist have affected her in some way?

All these episodes, Virat has been acting morose or rude and Sai has been doing the deal marriage jaap. What is going on in the inner workings of their heart?

Bold.. Sai will think..definitely. After Sunny and Shivani finished their session,we don’t see Sai give them final answer. She was shown,silent..Usually it will be Sai who will have the final word but here she didn’t . That indicates the starting point of Sai’s introspection, She May not immediately give it a thought but once Virat leaves,her thoughts will overpower her and force her to analyse her feelings and then what Shivani and Sunny said...hopefully we may get monologues...

About Virat,he is in a complicated situation created by himself only. Had he not gone to the cafe he would have been saved but on second thoughts it helped him clear up matters with Samrat and partially to Sai. Pakhi is a gone case and nothing will go into her thick head..

Yes he heard what is bothering Sai but he just could not think about clearing up everything ,mainly the reason for handholding. He is apprehensive of the outcome ..he doesn’t want Pakhi’s wierd proposal to be out in the open before his family and Samrat. I am not saying he is right completely but I feel in his place his fears are reasonable going by his emotional persona and his guilt towards Pakhi ā€˜s state.


Other than that I think Virat wants Sai to love him unconditionally. He doesn’t want her to get influenced by Sunny or Shivani. And he wishes to see Sai accept him irrespective of his past with Pakhi. In a way he expects Sai to have implicit belief in him...

After hearing from Sai herself,now he did not have any inclination to force her to love him.

All this while Sai is more effected by Pakhi’s version or her presentation of her place in Virat’s life.

Once Sai realises her love I am sure she will understand where she stands in Virat’s life ..Pakhi factor may not bother her then.

Edited by ltelidevara - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Bold.. Sai will think..definitely. After Sunny and Shivani finished their session,we don’t see Sai give them final answer. She was shown,silent..Usually it will be Sai who will have the final word but here she didn’t . That indicates the starting point of Sai’s introspection, She May not immediately give it a thought but once Virat leaves,her thoughts will overpower her and force her to analyse her feelings and then what Shivani and Sunny said...hopefully we may get monologues...

About Virat,he is in a complicated situation created by himself only. Had he not gone to the cafe he would have been saved but on second thoughts it helped him clear up matters with Samrat and partially to Sai. Pakhi is a gone case and nothing will go into her thick head..

Yes he heard what is bothering Sai but he just could not think about clearing up everything ,mainly the reason for handholding. He is apprehensive of the outcome ..he doesn’t want Pakhi’s wierd proposal to be out in the open before his family and Samrat. I am not saying he is right completely but I feel in his place his fears are reasonable going by his emotional persona and his guilt towards Pakhi ā€˜s state.


Other than that I think Virat wants Sai to love him unconditionally. He doesn’t want her to get influenced by Sunny or Shivani. And he wishes to see Sai accept him irrespective of his past with Pakhi. In a way he expects Sai to have implicit belief in him...

After hearing from Sai herself,now he did not have any inclination to force her to love him.

All this while Sai is more effected by Pakhi’s version or her presentation of her place in Virat’s life.

Once Sai realises her love I am sure she will understand where she stands in Virat’s life ..Pakhi factor may not bother her then.

@red Hopefully!

@bold Exactly - and that is his biggest drawback in this issue . Even the strongest relationship need reassurance during testing times. If the reasons for his silence is related to his fear of how Sai will react.... I would definitely prefer that these issues are addressed....this track has potential for that.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I was waiting for your review since yesterday neeraja.


And you're so right..Sai bai is too attached to this family and virat without realizing how toxic they are for her.


Also samrat is asked to shut up and not interfere between sai virat (I hated they did that..first time someone was speaking for sai) ..but no one says a word to pakhi didi when she goes on and on..taunting and spitting venom at sai? WHY????


The double standards vankar has for his favorite didi is disgusting.


And virat is a loser if he still doesn't understand that pakhi is the problem and the root of sais insecurity..then he doesn't deserve a confession.


Jahan bhi jaana hai..let him go.Without him,soon sai will move out of toxic CN to hostel and get some peace of mind.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepzz

If Samrat who just came 2 days back is getting irritated with both Virat and pakhi's taunts to Sai, so how much irritation, anger should Sai feel when she not only heard their taunts on regular basis but also witnessed Virat-pp balcony talks, pool talk, pakhi feeding scene, pakhi interfering in their personal matter, hand holding, pakhi standing outside their door, virat standing like mannequin to pakhi's nurse comment.

Exactly. This is why I have never felt that Sai never did anything for this relationship. Not just has she tolerated the harassment of the family members, she has tolerated these too and has let these go always. She has reacted whenever she couldn’t take it but she has also been more patient than it actually is visible. Just because she is loud mouthed, we cannot ignore what all has she ignored. We cannot ignore that even after such a behaviour from Virat, to have not stood by her and joined hands with PP too to insult her, she had still always cared for him, has respect for him and let all these things go. She has been much more patient than even Virat if we come to think about it because Virat bears her bruntness, her brashness but she bears him taking other’s side, she bears his indifference and change in attitude just because he is upset or angry with her (during Amay incident, ousting), she tolerates his friendship with Pakhi. She tolerates his changing avatar, tolerates him calling her immatured and bacchi and at the same time calling Pakhi samajhdhaar, tolerates all the unreasonable expectations from her, tolerates his anger, him getting irritated too. Her tolerance and patience level is not at all visible only because Virat is not loud mouthed but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t do anything. We all know his patience level and about his anger, his unfair expectations and behaviour too.

Edited by laksh - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Bold.. Sai will think..definitely. After Sunny and Shivani finished their session,we don’t see Sai give them final answer. She was shown,silent..Usually it will be Sai who will have the final word but here she didn’t . That indicates the starting point of Sai’s introspection, She May not immediately give it a thought but once Virat leaves,her thoughts will overpower her and force her to analyse her feelings and then what Shivani and Sunny said...hopefully we may get monologues...

About Virat,he is in a complicated situation created by himself only. Had he not gone to the cafe he would have been saved but on second thoughts it helped him clear up matters with Samrat and partially to Sai. Pakhi is a gone case and nothing will go into her thick head..

Yes he heard what is bothering Sai but he just could not think about clearing up everything ,mainly the reason for handholding. He is apprehensive of the outcome ..he doesn’t want Pakhi’s wierd proposal to be out in the open before his family and Samrat. I am not saying he is right completely but I feel in his place his fears are reasonable going by his emotional persona and his guilt towards Pakhi ā€˜s state.


Other than that I think Virat wants Sai to love him unconditionally. He doesn’t want her to get influenced by Sunny or Shivani. And he wishes to see Sai accept him irrespective of his past with Pakhi. In a way he expects Sai to have implicit belief in him...

After hearing from Sai herself,now he did not have any inclination to force her to love him.

All this while Sai is more effected by Pakhi’s version or her presentation of her place in Virat’s life.

Once Sai realises her love I am sure she will understand where she stands in Virat’s life ..Pakhi factor may not bother her then.

@bold: This my favourite line. In love also means having implicit belief. That's lacking in Sairat. They always believe the worst in each other!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Exactly. This is why I have never felt that Sai never did anything for this relationship. Not just has she tolerated the harassment of the family members, she has tolerated these too and has let these go always. She has reacted whenever she couldn’t take it but she has also been more patient than it actually is visible. Just because she is loud mouthed, we cannot ignore what all has she ignored. We cannot ignore that even after such a behaviour from Virat, to have not stood by her and joined hands with PP too to insult her, she had still always cared for him, has respect for him and let all these things go. She has been much more patient than even Virat if we come to think about it because Virat bears her bruntness, her brashness but she bears him taking other’s side, she bears his indifference and change in attitude just because he is upset or angry with her (during Amay incident, ousting), she tolerates his friendship with Pakhi. She tolerates his changing avatar, tolerates him calling her immatured and bacchi and at the same time calling Pakhi samajhdhaar, tolerates all the unreasonable expectations from her, tolerates his anger, him getting irritated too. Her tolerance and patience level is not at all visible only because Virat is not loud mouthed but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t do anything. We all know his patience level and about his anger, his unfair expectations and behaviour too.

I kind of always have said that him getting materialistic things , surprises, being lovey dovey in the room is good , but what is important is that he should not participate in the abuse that happens with Sai.. She has lived it for the whole one year.. Too much for a wife to bear...extremely too much.. I said yesterday in some post, Love apni jagah, patni ka sthaan apni jagah... Sai hardly got the sceond one..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I appreciate the attempts to be positive. I am trying too. I really do want Sairat together. But these days the dialogues, screenplay and direction are falling short of making this track palatable. The precap for example has me so upset. Pp is upto her usual crap but once again virat is looking like he is standing there mute , allowing pp to say crap to Sai. If Virat is upset /angry at Sai, does that give licence for his ex to barge in to their room to pull some rubbish stunts or talk tauntingly to her in front of the whole family. If she could communicate to everyone via text to invite them for her parents anniversary, surely she can text virat instead of going to Sairat's room once again if its SO frickin important. Does it look good to see pp in virats room n for virat to allow it especially after it has been openly declared that virat pp past is the reason Samrat left....i hope that Virat will ask pp to leave even if politely but looking at his expressions in precap it looks like he will either stay mute or worse- join pp in taunting Sai. Isnt he a smart ACP who should be able to read peoole. Here he knows exactly how pp feels - yet he cant call her out in public/in front of Sai. In private he tells her that he has moved on and looks upset by her clinginess and in oublic he is out to protect her even at the cost of hurting Sai, making Sai look bad.

This is exactly why I am not convinced (just like Sai isnt) that he genuinely loves Sai I think he is merely habituated to her, feels affectionate towards her and his ego is hurt by her not reciprocating his feelings immediately....but if he truly loved her he wouldn't stand by and watch her get abused/taunted in front of him by his ex no less.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Cheer up people....one of their earliest fights. I love their expression.

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