Sai Bai 💔 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

lekin agar shadi real hogayi to sai interfere karne ni degi use 😅 .

Vo toh Sai pehle din se hi nahi karne de rahi thi but virat janab ne pura field open karke rakha tha pakhi k liye..aage bhi Sai interfere nahi karne degi but what abt Virat? Khud ke love realisation ke baad jo banda apni ex ko rokta nahi apni biwi ki insult karne se, vo banda biwi ke love realisation ke baad kya badal jayega?

And if he changes then that means he changed just only because his love was reciprocated otherwise what, let biwi get humiliated by his ex?

If Samrat who just came 2 days back is getting irritated with both Virat and pakhi's taunts to Sai, so how much irritation, anger should Sai feel when she not only heard their taunts on regular basis but also witnessed Virat-pp balcony talks, pool talk, pakhi feeding scene, pakhi interfering in their personal matter, hand holding, pakhi standing outside their door, virat standing like mannequin to pakhi's nurse comment.

👏 100% spot on. Therein lies the problem. Virat needs to realize that love or no love between him n Sai- pp cannot meddle in his matters/affairs the way she does and talk to Sai the way she does and get away with it. He needs to take a stand for whats right n openly call pp out publicly.

Originally posted by: deepzz

Vo toh Sai pehle din se hi nahi karne de rahi thi but virat janab ne pura field open karke rakha tha pakhi k liye..aage bhi Sai interfere nahi karne degi but what abt Virat? Khud ke love realisation ke baad jo banda apni ex ko rokta nahi apni biwi ki insult karne se, vo banda biwi ke love realisation ke baad kya badal jayega?

And if he changes then that means he changed just only because his love was reciprocated otherwise what, let biwi get humiliated by his ex?

Tbh Sai doesn't deserve all this. I just wish she for once is allowed to be happy, seeing her sad ruins the entire mood of the show

Something that I feel like everyone seems to forget is that Sai has been sheltered all her life by her Aaba, on the basis that she's never really witnessed or lived in such a large family. Plus she's still so young; only nineteen!

I understand that many people would not see that as an issue, however her understanding and maturity isn't quite where it needs to be - especially to navigate a life with her in-laws. This is how some young women end up finding themselves dependent and without the ability to make independent choices.

Another thing to consider is that Sai does not have the support to actually grow/evolve. Sometimes I personally feel that her being able to go to college is conditional, and could be taken away at a moment's notice should she "act out" or something. I know that Virat is adamant that she continue studying, but what happens when he inevitably leaves on his transfer? Will she be allowed to go, or will she end up being forced to sit at "home" because it's easier to control her that way?

I look at Sai, and see someone who has tried to adapt to a new way of living, but she is not one to be held back. She will answer back if she feels in any way threatened or attacked.

The current track of her realising her love will never be as smooth as anyone hopes. Sai still feels held under duress - she doesn't have anywhere else to go should Virat leave. He's her guardian, who married her only as a promise to her Aaba; so how could she truly believe that his feelings have changed? Virat himself married her under duress - and she doesn't quite get that feelings can evolve, especially when it hasn't for her (yet). It also absolutely doesn't help that Virat is still so close to Patralekha. Which man has a close friendship with his ex and hides it from his wife - and yet expects that she be okay with it because he is?

Sigh. Sai and Virat can be that couple who do find their way to each other; however it's not just on Sai to realise she loves him. Virat has to be willing to understand the woman he loves as well. Until then, these misunderstandings will only grow and fester into wounds that may never fully heal.

^Apologies for the above rant. Sai is my precious child that I want to wrap up in cotton wool and take away. Virat does not deserve her, he needs to really grow up and push his ex to the side. She clouds his judgement every single time.

I was trying to watch it but gosh too dragging and repetitive..Actually both are trading on the thin between ego and self respect..So it's coming across so toxic.. None of them being introspective..love proves when when the actual testing the time arrives.. Virat again let Pakhi interfere in his marriage because he is angry with his wife..i guess if anyone likes to continue watching Ghum has to get used to with the fact that whenever Virat is angry with Sai he would allow others interference.. Actual culprit would be never called out..

Hypocrisy much by the CN..they were all happy on learning Virat's transfer cancellation but since Sai has done it they would jump on throwing taunts at her.. Didn't expect that Mansi.. If Pakhi gets to talk between husband and wife then why she had stopped Samrat..

We all were waiting for the track but it's getting toxic and unbearable .. Festivals looked so gloomy and boring to watch... They somewhat missed the poignant..

I feel both should be understood but not one of them by us. Atleast I feel so.

Sai

What every one needs to remember is that Virat is Sai’s choice . She gave him the place her Aba held in her life. Why did she do so? She won’t do it by impulse. She must have genuinely felt close to him by heart. So who are we to judge whether Virat deserves her or not? We are just spectators watching their journey ..

Sai forgave Virat on many occasions and preferred to return to him and that again is her choice since Sai Joshi could never be stopped from leaving even by Virat if she really wants to leave. She can find many ways to do so.

Sai is not able to believe that Virat is in love with her and she is right in her place. Her mental block is his relationship with Pakhi that still haunts her despite Samrat’s return into her life.

Why would she immediately agree to Shivani and Sunny’s version ? She still did not get over the handhold by Virat in cafe ..that scene stayed in her mind and she did not get any valid explanation for that from Virat.

So I wonder why people say they are irritated with Sai for not showing progression or change of heart ! At this point of time Sai still is not clear regarding her feelings for Virat..Once she realises her love for him in his absence she will overlook everything to reach him and say I love you..

Virat

Virat is immersed in his own grief caused by rejection by Sai,the pressure of clearing up things before Samrat and handling the obsession of Pakhi in cafe.

He is a one woman man and he never looked beyond Sai once he realised his feelings for her.

Unfortunately he couldn’t come clean about handholding before Sai and he has reasons for it. If he tells Sai that Pakhi proposed to him in cafe Sai May over react who knows? Sai is a no nonsense girl so she may chose to reveal Pakhi’s reality to Samrat which Virat doesn’t want. For Virat Pakhi’s reunion with Samrat is very much essential to get rid of his guilt that he might be the reason for her present condition.

I stand by Virat in his decision to move away from Sai. Sometimes distance and silence work towards betterment of relations.

I have the patience to watch Sairat journey with utmost dedication and interest. Looking forward to the pristine moment of Sairat realisation .

You quoted my feelings exactly though I am irritated with their drag feast but I know it's Sairat journey and anyways both of them are flawed which happens in real life too

Sai is narrow minded and Virat ki Loyalty ki dukan. So loyal to Hug his wife and hold his Ex gf come Bhabi's hand so that she doesn't feel bad🤗 kitna understanding banda hai.

If Sai had seen them in the house holding hands baat alag thi but living under same roof if your husband goes to hangout with his Ex that too when he is so unwell and holding hands, I m sure it's narrow mindedness of Sai to think they have something. As a wife she should have graciously joined PP n Samrat to get taunts from PP for interfering their 'date' and Samrat being a spectator to make His own wife feel the third wheel. But who is Narrow minded here ? Sai Ofcors.

Sai speaking to some random guy gives free pass to Virat for questioning her character but Virat can hang out with Patralekha his Ex whenever he wants and Sai Should understand this.

Even if she sees them hugging each other she should be cool because how can u judge your partner if they r in such close proximity, so narrow minded😭

Honestly people have no idea how exhausting it can be for a person to see their partner's ex continuously interfering on everything they do or say or behave and get away with it easily everytime..

Sai is all alone in the house and that is the truth. Mohit Shivangi Aai can love her but no one takes stand for her there is only Virat who can take strong stand for Sai but he prefers to stay quiet whenever Sai is insulted.

Sai Should divorce this scumbag