Virat fuels Pakhi's behaviour towards Sai - Page 2

Sai has shown her composure when she is emotionally mess ..but Virat is extremely self consumed in pain.. He just can't think straight..

If he expects Sai to take easily his friendship with Pakhi then what about he did with Sai when she was with Ajinkya.. If I am not wrong he couldn't even see Sai flirting with aamey and He went to check with Ajinkya to her college 😕

Isn't he being double standard

Virat is garbage. Not even a ML, but rather the secondary antagonist. Constantly abusive, a liar, and hypocrite. I f*cking hate him. Like seriously. I hope Sai moves on.

Protagonists are now Sai and Samrat (my new favorite character).

Sometimes I don't mind him scolding Sai like today because of her childish behavior but sometimes he is unnecessary rude to her. 😕

What I hate the most is Virat who doesn't stop Pakhi. Today he could have clearly shut her mouth "Mind your own business" or "I have the right to question her because it was my transfer that was canceled but who the hell are you to question her ?" Sometimes his silence mode is too irritating. 🥱

I agree that he and others fuels Pakhi’s behaviour and that has actually given Pakhi so much courage to keep attacking Sai. She knows when to actually attack Sai and that if she does it too, she will only get support and not be stopped by anyone.

Virat didn’t like Ashwini or Samrat siding with Sai which is understandable but how can he let Pakhi talk like that to Sai? Just one sentence is all it takes. Stay out isince it is mine and Sai’s fight. Well, when it has come in front of everyone, it is difficult not to expect anyone to not come in between. But Virat never thinks that no one else but only Pakhi jumps into the picture and it is she who always uses such opportunities to try to put down Sai.

Him staying quiet every now and then whenever he is upset with Sai only means that he won’t be able to stop people from walking over her whenever he is upset with her. We have always noticed that any setback in their relationship has brought out the worst in Virat which is not at all a good trait. Sai will always be subjected to insults by someone or the other and Virat might either join them or might stay quiet.

I don’t know if it has got to do with respect or valuing or not but him, his emotions, his hurt takes precedence over everything else which is not a good sign. It is like things will be fine if he is happy with her and if he is not happy with her, Sai can’t rely on him. His love certainly lacks a few elements. Whether or not we have issues with our spouse, a partner would never allow another person to insult their spouse. This point was brought by a person in my thread today which is very true.

Virat is not there yet and I don’t know when will he even reach that stage.

It can be looked at in two ways.

Either he just doesn’t care or can’t feel how Sai must be feeling whenever Pakhi or someone attacks her. He is not able to feel her pain. Only if he can even feel how hurtful it must be for Sai, only if he himself feels her pain, only if Pakhi’s words hurt him too whenever she attacks Sai, will he be able to jump in or shut up Pakhi.

Or the second thing where his emotions overpower him so much that he turns blind and deaf to everything around him whenever he is upset with Sai. This had happened even during the ousting. He was in his own zone and all he did was questioning Sai and not even paying attention to anything anyone was saying or may be just ignoring everything.

Either ways he fails to feel bad for Sai, fails to support Sai which is not a good trait at all. His concern for Sai vanishes at times like this. Sai is in the process of realising her love but when she actually realises her love and then when Virat does all this, it is going to get very hurtful for her. She has always looked at Virat to see if he would support her or shut Pakhi up but was let down by him many times. If she is let down by him after she has realised her love, it is going to be very painful.

I am reminded of the confrontation day when Virat didn’t do anything when Pakhi called Sai even a nurse and Sai kept looking at him expectantly. But the same Virat tried to help Sai when she was about to trip and she had refused to take his help. It shows what care and concern he would extend and what care and concern matters the most to Sai. What is the use of such care and concern when he doesn’t care and stay mums whenever her honour gets trampled.

Yea, it does look that he doesn’t care about his wife’s dignity.

I too feel that he might stop Sai from speaking anything to Pakhi in the upcoming episode. Samrat is back and Sai is also not wrong in whatever she is saying. Virat should be the one who should know about Pakhi better and he is either ignoring or unable to see Pakhi’s true colour and when Sai does it, it should help him in seeing what Pakhi is trying to do but he would instead be more focussed on Sai insulting Pakhi because he is upset with Sai. It has got more to do with continuing to be upset with Sai and showing his anger on Sai than saving Pakhi too.

I have always felt that Virat is an opinionated person. Plus his age, his role in Sai’s life as a guardian, as a person who has taken her responsibility, he has taken way more liberty with Sai to put her in place or to correct her whenever he feels that she is wrong. There has been times Sai has been wrong but sometimes it is the judgement about Sai or opinion about her that has been a reason while reprimanding Sai. He has an opinion about her and he ends up relating that with Sai’s actions. All this has been another reason why he corrects Sai always and not Pakhi. Yes, he doesn’t care what Pakhi does, she is not important to him but I feel that he ends up stopping Sai when she speaks something to Pakhi and not Pakhi when she speaks crap to Sai due to this reason too.

Yeah virat has never prevented pakhi from insulting sai, rather he has always enabled it by shouting at sai if she tries to say anything back to pakhi. What on earth is this? Even if virat and sai have issues between each other or hurt each other, why is it that virat actively allows pakhi to get involved and hurt sai?

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Sometimes I don't mind him scolding Sai like today because of her childish behavior but sometimes he is unnecessary rude to her. 😕

What I hate the most is Virat who doesn't stop Pakhi. Today he could have clearly shut her mouth "Mind your own business" or "I have the right to question her because it was my transfer that was canceled but who the hell are you to question her ?" Sometimes his silence mode is too irritating. 🥱

Scolding is one thing. But how can he allows a particular person mock her wife. That's the problem Virat is not understanding. He allows pakhi to interfere in his matter. Couldn't he say Pakhi to stay away from him n sai.

In fact Virat is weird person. Pp already said she can't move on from him. Still he didn't tell the truth to his brother.

Originally posted by: Madhukk86

ditto

Scolding is one thing. But how can he allows a particular person mock her wife. That's the problem Virat is not understanding. He allows pakhi to interfere in his matter. Couldn't he say Pakhi to stay away from him n sai.

In fact Virat is weird person. Pp already said she can't move on from him. Still he didn't tell the truth to his brother.

That's the issue I always had with Virat. But I guess I have understood him now. He is the kind of person who doesn't like to argue and confront. So when it goes overboard, he will lash out. And when he does it it's the best thing about the show. Every time he bashed his family and Pakhi we all enjoyed it. But usually he keeps calm even when he is being insulted. We blame him for lashing out at Ashwini and Sai but if we see he lashes out when he can't take it anymore. All the shit Sai threw at him, there were a lot of times he didn't reply back. So I guess his patience level is high but when it breaks it's like tsunami. But as viewers we have expectations from him. One of them is that we want him to always go against people who insult his wife.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Sometimes I don't mind him scolding Sai like today because of her childish behavior but sometimes he is unnecessary rude to her. 😕

What I hate the most is Virat who doesn't stop Pakhi. Today he could have clearly shut her mouth "Mind your own business" or "I have the right to question her because it was my transfer that was canceled but who the hell are you to question her ?" Sometimes his silence mode is too irritating. 🥱

Exactly! As a husband he has full right to scold sai and argue with her, and she can argue with him back. What I don't get is why does virat give pakhi free reign to interfere between him and sai and let her insult sai? Why does he not tell pakhi to not interfere between him and his wife in front of sai and the family members so as not to condone family and pakhi's interference and humiliation towards sai. It makes no sense. He can shut sai up if she tries to retaliate to pakhi's insults, but his mouth stays shut when pakhi is spitting venom at sai. Why such a difference in his behaviour between the two? Shouldn't he afford sai that much little respect that when this third person keeps trying to wiggle her way in between them, he puts a full stop to the interference and tells the third person to not speak between husband and wife and to not insult his wife? It makes no sense to me anymore.