So now we know why Raghav is upset! - Page 3

Originally posted by: inlieu

Their approach was totally wrong and now they are angry and taking their frustration out on others instead of introspecting. Keerti was angry with Raghav and went and got married, came back looking like a zombie. She wasn't even proud to announce Sunny as her husband.

All three of them got angry and let their angry take over common sense. Sunny was having a field day.

Yeah totally, Amma, Raghav & Keerthi all acted out in anger & frustration. Pallavi asked the right questions but the timing was all wrong. Before Mandar she was on the right track, but that got side tracked. Sunny now got what he wanted. He will now move to execute the 2nd part of his plan, acquisition of wealth. The Rao family does not have conversations they only yell & scream.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Instead of giving her regular boring bhashan can she blast them

Abbey chup

She lied to me

You locked her

You were forcing her

What did I do

Nah aise Nahi bolegi , Pallavi effectively loses her power of speech as seen numerous times in D house, now here also (read writers). Now she will try to pacify MIlL & hubby 😃!!

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Raghav shouldve known about his sister as well and to what extent she could’ve gone to have her way . So blaming Pals is not the solution here. Amma and Raghav spoilt Keerti to the extreme and now they are not able to tackle her so they took the easiest way to blame the bahu . They know she has no one to go to hence this torture . I don’t want Pals to give any kinds of explanations to RR bcoz this time she’s not at fault . I’m not a fan of Pals but RR and Amma is wrong this time to blame her for Keertis deeds

I agree with you that raghav and amma are unable to handle keerti and taking their frustation out on pallu

Insaan apni galti easily nahi accept karsakta hai isiliye their mistake accept karne ki bajay pallu pe blame daal rahe hai

But i cant agree that they are torturing pallu because they know she has no one to go

Raghav is not that cheap and amma is cool saas

And pallu is independent woman she can live alone she dont need any one to survive

Raghav and pallu love eachother dont want to live separately

They can have arguments, fights,misundersatndings but they will solve together

Originally posted by: Shakti1604

Nah aise Nahi bolegi , Pallavi effectively loses her power of speech as seen numerous times in D house, now here also (read writers). Now she will try to pacify MIlL & hubby 😃!!

Toh farq kya PD and PRR mein

Oh haan Pallavi said na she is still Pallavi So her core values remain the same 😡

Ae pagal ladki you should try to explain and pacify only when you really are at fault

Originally posted by: jakkula.sirisha

I agree with you that raghav and amma are unable to handle keerti and taking their frustation out on pallu

Insaan apni galti easily nahi accept karsakta hai isiliye their mistake accept karne ki bajay pallu pe blame daal rahe hai

But i cant agree that they are torturing pallu because they know she has no one to go

Raghav is not that cheap and amma is cool saas

And pallu is independent woman she can live alone she dont need any one to survive

Raghav and pallu love eachother dont want to live separately

They can have arguments, fights,misundersatndings but they will solve together

Anyway I’m not a big fan of pals since mandar track but today she got bashed for no fault of hers. It’s easy to blame a DIL and Amma no matter how cool she’s had a hand for this scenario as well and so does RR so no they can’t put the entire blame on Pals now . Their daughter is not saint and if she had taken any decision it should be her who should Be responsible for her misery not Pals .

Originally posted by: Shakti1604

It's actually Amma's strictness & Raghav's overtly protective attitude led to this disaster. They should have brought out Sunny's wicked face in front of Keerthi rather than this locking in the room & getting her married approach. Pallavi bearing the brunt for no fault of hers. Today she did not even try to defy Raghav, Keerthi tricked her.

But this situation is very normal in households where someone else gets blamed for someone else's decisions. DIL is an easy target for blame, unfortunately!! Here poor Pallavi became a victim of Keerthi's situation.

In other shows, yes, but here she's not treated like a typical DIL and default scapegoat. Amma and Raghav never looked at her in that light, so I won't say that she's an easy target because she's the DIL, not on this show. Even in D-house, some of them treated her like that but some like Ayi, Kaka, Nikhil, and eventually Mansi never treated her like that.

I am really hoping they are trolling us with the EK style dialogues.

Originally posted by: farheenbachani

Yes but neither raghav nor amma understood that its their fault. Why woukd they? She tried to explain numerous times that we should stay calm and handle this in our way and bring truth out to keerti but neither one listened and ofcourse mandhar scenario happened so she couldnt do much ofcourse.

Let’s see if they realize their mistake.

Do we not remember how she was when it came to punishing Mandaar's murderer? She used no tact and was not calm at all until R-P both ended up in jail. She was right in seeking justice but she wasn't tactful with Keerti and went ahead and antagonized her because she was angry that time (which she had the right to be). That was her approach.

This time it's different. There is an aspect to the Rao family history that Pallavi doesn't know about which Amma and Raghav do, so until Pallavi discovers what it is, she'll be in the dark about how best to handle this. Frankly, I'd rather she stayed away from Keerti's matter in terms of her marriage. She can focus on Sunny if she wants to (we know it's inevitable).

As for Amma and Raghav's approach here.... ugh totally totally wrong.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

So far what I've seen in this show is no body accepts their own fault or that of their loved ones

Blame others bas yehi karte hain.

Khud ke girehbaan mein jhaankkar koi nai dekhta

Amma for 10 years I hate Raghav murderer of my brother and son

Keerti got this hatred for Raghav from Amma

Amma ko Pallu ne do baatein boli shanti se and she got that Raghav was not wrong and not to be blamed

She expected Keerti to forgive Raghav understand and accept him

Kaise? Did anyone speak to her and clear things for her NO

Enter Sunny

Raghav and Amma both wanna control her

You don't slap a young woman or anyone

Slapping has been so normalized in this show no poochh mat

Did they try to bring out Sunny's real side in front of her NO

Raghav you know Sunny is not right guy You give him 5 crores Why would he accept it when he has lifetime of lottery ticket Keerti

That time he was angry as Pallavi you didn't tell me Arre tera behen bhi toh terko aur tera Amma ko nai bataya

What sort of relation did Amma and Keerti have that she couldn't confide in her for the past two years

They dont speak with each other They just yell

Amma and Raghav try to co trol Keerti and her rebellion mode is on

Pallu beech mein phans gayi

So Keerti was locked in the room great idea Raghav id she would have tried to harm herself who would you blame then

Get her forcedully married

You think being married to someone can stop Keerti from being with Sunny

She can run away after marriage

She can run away on the day of the marriage

Mandap mein announce kare I don't want to marry

Tab kya karte

Why spoil Singapore wale ka or anyone else's.life

Keerti she has ruined her own life she doesn't listen to anyone but has anyone listened to her NO

Pallavi how can she be fooled by Keerti after seeing so much and please don't blame Sunny alone for all the shot that happened

Keerti did it willingly for her own selfish reasons

Work? She can tell rishtey wale aa rahe hain

Speak with your boss

Quit the job id they force you nahi jaana hai

But she had thought id was wrong for Raghav to lock Keerti in the room Obviously he was and that was going on in her mind

She thinks straight she doesn't lie so she thinks all are the same

She didn't think for once Keerti could be lying

She is a very filmi person and she didn't think of this trick

The diamond chori and Raghav's business was for Sunny not RaghVi

Sabke sab sample piece hain iss show mein

SunKi will end with Pallavi saving Keerti from sunny

Raghav Amma saying sorry to Pallavi ho gaya

Keerti se baat karo she has gone through so much in the past 10 years and even now she will

I want a proper family conversation all 4 Raos and Sunny cannot be redeemed it will give a wrong message that Sunny jaise log audhar jaayenge so at the end Keerti was ok to Fall for and be fooled by sunny

I love this Chahat. You are totally correct. I have been saying this for a while now, Amma and Raghav don't know how to handle Keerti. Forget about respect, they don't even take the time to understand her feelings, especially Raghav. He forced Pallavi to marry him just to get Amma and Keerti back but I don't see him spending any time trying to bond with Keerti or understand what her dreams and problems are. Never seen that. He manhandles her and hits her out of anger, do you think that will make her feel like listening to him even if he's being reasonable? She's well past just being rebellious! Today she felt humiliated when they put her in the cage as though she's an animal. She married Sunny out of desperation more than love. I don't think she truly loves him and I don't know if she realizes that or chooses to look the other way.

Pallavi saving Keerti is as bad as her getting Amma and Raghav to reconcile. The problem isn't her trying to help. No, I want Raghav to figure out himself how to deal with Keerti properly and try to mend fences. He's caused a lot of damage. Put everything aside, has he ever talked to her about how she must have felt growing up and try to find out why she cares so much for Sunny? It's easy to make Sunny seem like the one at fault, which he is, but he's not the only one. Keerti isn't a kid; if she listens to Sunny it's gotta be driven by something.

Amma did a terrible job of parenting her kids, it's so evident.

Originally posted by: Shakti1604

Nah aise Nahi bolegi , Pallavi effectively loses her power of speech as seen numerous times in D house, now here also (read writers). Now she will try to pacify MIlL & hubby 😃!!

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Toh farq kya PD and PRR mein

Oh haan Pallavi said na she is still Pallavi So her core values remain the same 😡

Ae pagal ladki you should try to explain and pacify only when you really are at fault

If she wants to explain anything it should just be about her perspective on where she sees flaws in Amma's and Raghav's way of dealing with Keerti, to share her point of view and give them an alternative angle to look at all this.

If she didn't abet Keerti's bhag ke shaadi, then why should she justify herself? No need.