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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Jean, a thought just crossed my mind. We have seen raghav repeatedly asking for forgiveness from Amma for his mistake. Has he ever said sorry to keerti for taking away her father and brother.


I dont think he has ever. He has never spoke openly with her as he has once with Amma.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Jean, a thought just crossed my mind. We have seen raghav repeatedly asking for forgiveness from Amma for his mistake. Has he ever said sorry to keerti for taking away her father and brother.

No, this aspect has never been addressed from what I remember. Gaping hole in the story unless they deliberately want to let this play out and tackle this topic later.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: RainFire125


I dont think he has ever. He has never spoke openly with her as he has once with Amma.

Yep, that's right.

He has never really approached her in a friendly, non-authority way.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: inlieu

No, this aspect has never been addressed from what I remember. Gaping hole in the story unless they deliberately want to let this play out and tackle this topic later.

So neither amma nor Raghav thought her as part of the family that went through a tragedy. No wonder she thinks only Sunny is her family.
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Jiarao

So neither amma nor Raghav thought her as part of the family that went through a tragedy. No wonder she thinks only Sunny is her family.


She has been ignored, she has not been handled well from a human perspective, that does not however justify her acts, but I can understand what has pushed her. The point here is not all are strong in mind to think logically as to why my family is behaving this way. So her turning to Sunny and doing what she is - is very understandable even though its wrong. Its tough to handle our minds at such situations when people behave as not expected with us. Very rare people withstand that and not tumble over to the wrong side.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: RainFire125


She has been ignored, she has not been handled well from a human perspective, that does not however justify her acts, but I can understand what has pushed her. The point here is not all are strong in mind to think logically as to why my family is behaving this way. So her turning to Sunny and doing what she is - is very understandable even though its wrong. Its tough to handle our minds at such situations when people behave as not expected with us. Very rare people withstand that and not tumble over to the wrong side.

Absolutely. Not everyone is Raghav Rao.People have different coping mechanisms and Keerti needed a secure home in her growing years. If only Amma and Raghav loved her enough to keep their problems aside and provided her with a family she wouldn't have fallen prey to Sunny's schemes.

Keerti has done some unforgivable things and she should be held responsible for them. However both Amma and Raghav and even Pallavi have played a part in pushing her to the dark side and they should take responsibility of their actions too.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Absolutely. Not everyone is Raghav Rao.People have different coping mechanisms and Keerti needed a secure home in her growing years. If only Amma and Raghav loved her enough to keep their problems aside and provided her with a family she wouldn't have fallen prey to Sunny's schemes.

Keerti has done some unforgivable things and she should be held responsible for them. However both Amma and Raghav and even Pallavi have played a part in pushing her to the dark side and they should take responsibility of their actions too.


Yep, the major lacking aspect is proper communication. If they would have conversed, I think she would have thought 1000 times before going against her brother. Now, its like she has seen her importance in their life and she just wants to rebel in the worst possible way to teach them a lesson or get their attention, And that's what she has done!! Her mind would have analyzed and recognized Sunny much early on, but due to how she was treated, well she is a rebel now. And this is very very common. Every human needs to be handled in a diferent way and they could have shown this, OR maybe they will in the future.


But I dont trust the CVs to do this great job, LOL

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Posted: 4 years ago

So read a few posts on this page agree


i did not even like the way Amma-Raghav patch up was handled


Raghav has been crying pleading beggind for amma to forgive him to understand him nothing

Pallavi speaks to her once and amma has hriday parivartan


Those lost years there was no proper scene of Raghav and amma


For me some part or max part of hatred that kirti has comes from amma

amma was unforgiving for 10 years

mere pati mera beta ko maara

keerti ka kya?

kirti se anyone asked how things are going?

how are you cpoing with the pain of losing half your family

she lost the same as Raghav should i say more

a girl losing her father she lost that security blanket

she lost 2 brothers

raghav did he know of the emotional trauma she went through if she was troubled at school


he had his hardships keerti it has been tough

she never got to be that teenager

she grew up before her time

she matured before her time

what must be her frame of mind that a guy like sunny got to her

sunny is no where near raghav but he is shown as a cheaper fake of raghav as in being rude and arrogant

that boy pretended to give her what she wanted from the real

some sort of belonging he gave her importance


we need t know how sunny keerti happened

kirti being so against raghav going down this path has happened as a process and not overnight

sunny has her in the palm of his hand and he had closed his fingers around her

she needs Raghav and amma's love and understading patience They cannot bring her out unharmed but maybe before she's all broken


bada bhai hai iska matlab nahi hai ki tum uska life decison le sskta hai help her make the right ones don't make them for her

don't lock her in her room give her the right amount of space but also within the range where she can't be harmed


more to come

i had such high hopes to see keerti raghav but sunny sab kharab kar diya

but it has to go all bad all dark then a new light can come

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: RainFire125


Yep, the major lacking aspect is proper communication. If they would have conversed, I think she would have thought 1000 times before going against her brother. Now, its like she has seen her importance in their life and she just wants to rebel in the worst possible way to teach them a lesson or get their attention, And that's what she has done!! Her mind would have analyzed and recognized Sunny much early on, but due to how she was treated, well she is a rebel now. And this is very very common. Every human needs to be handled in a diferent way and they could have shown this, OR maybe they will in the future.


But I dont trust the CVs to do this great job, LOL

These CVs have a record of handling sensitive issues in a very insensitive manner. Things like harassment are joke to him .

Keerti will probably turn into a complete vamp planning and plotting against her sister in law.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: RainFire125


Yep, the major lacking aspect is proper communication. If they would have conversed, I think she would have thought 1000 times before going against her brother. Now, its like she has seen her importance in their life and she just wants to rebel in the worst possible way to teach them a lesson or get their attention, And that's what she has done!! Her mind would have analyzed and recognized Sunny much early on, but due to how she was treated, well she is a rebel now. And this is very very common. Every human needs to be handled in a diferent way and they could have shown this, OR maybe they will in the future.


But I dont trust the CVs to do this great job, LOL

You're totally right. The lack of proper communication is always a problem with the Raos and in matters like this where it's most important, we see that it's non-existent most times.

She started out with seeking attention, then pushing and rebelling, and now things are out of control. Her conscience hasn't been bothering her for no reason but she eventually ignored it and went ahead with trying to cause trouble for her brother and hurting him.

I think they will address it because this has been built up in parallel over the past few weeks and we never really got to hear Keerti's perspective on how she felt growing up after the tragedy + fallout in their family.

Before, she was being rebellious about going away/marrying Sunny but she didn't directly do anything that would harm her family members or hurt them. That changed with the divorce paper matter and when she went along with Sunny's collaboration with Mandaar. Still, the CVs made it a point to show her dilemma before and while doing it and also what pushed her over the edge. It wasn't random and is going to be used as the basis for showing where Raghav and Amma are going wrong and making her feel betrayed.

They will have to make it convincing enough, otherwise the audience won't buy her 'redemption', especially because she crossed the line recently in a way that nearly destroyed her brother's life. He may forgive her more easily than the audience can and I won't be surprised if some of the audience can't accept her turning back to the light side unless there's a proper redemption arc.

Like you I don't expect the CVs to do this properly. It will likely be half-baked and not really convincing.


I personally hope she gets redeemed before Sunny can really hurt her, but she's already been subject to a lot of c**p on the show (scandal, abuse, etc.). She needs to atone and then really turn over a new leaf to make something out of her life.

Edited by inlieu - 4 years ago

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