Hum dono bhi alag hai

Most important takeaway line from the episode .

Its true. Even though they have fallen in love with each other ,and have made efforts to be deserving of the other person's affections.......it still doesnt change the fact that they are two very different personalities. They compliment each other but dont mirror each other.

Their personnas have always been clashing. They may have started to undertand the other but they cant exactly change into another person completely and neither should they. When you are completely opposite of each other , you make it work by fitting in and creating dt space for yourself in the other person's life.......a space that doesnt change dt person completely.....but just enough dt both of you can coexist happily. Dts what they need to do too.

Anywys so this has set the tone for the future track.

Lets see how it goes from here.

I was apprehensive about watching today's episode after yesterday's moral science lecture and the pre-cap but honestly loved today's episode and Raghvi 's conversation...

For me highlight of the episode was Raghav politely yet firmly told pallavi to not interfere in his business and let him deal his own way..

Pallavi looked little shocked, may be because since their marriage Raghav has more often than not has listened to her and given in to her, has let her take the call...so this was the first time he stood by what he believed and didn't give any explanations or justification to her or try to pacify her...he just obliged for telling lie to her , which he should have...

There was one hindi song my fav too, it goes something like this

Apne rangoaye bin

Mere rang mein ghul jao

Apni dhoop bhojhaye bin

Meri chao mein aajao

Chalo yun karein

Tum ..tum bhi raho

Mein.. Mein bhi rahunn

Humm…hum bhi rahenn

Teno milke saath chale

Saathi janam janam

U me aur hum

I agree with u two different people, with two different ideologies, different mind set, different ways of looking at things and solving the problem can have a beautiful strong relationship together if they give each other the space, freedom , most importantly respect and support each other when need arises...

Originally posted by: d.padmini

I was apprehensive about watching today's episode after yesterday's moral science lecture and the pre-cap but honestly loved today's episode and Raghvi 's conversation...

For me highlight of the episode was Raghav politely yet firmly told pallavi to not interfere in his business and let him deal his own way..

Pallavi looked little shocked, may be because since their marriage Raghav has more often than not has listened to her and given in to her, has let her take the call...so this was the first time he stood by what he believed and didn't give any explanations or justification to her or try to pacify her...he just obliged for telling lie to her , which he should have...

There was one hindi song my fav too, it goes something like this

Apne rangoaye bin

Mere rang mein ghul jao

Apni dhoop bhojhaye bin

Meri chao mein aajao

Chalo yun karein

Tum ..tum bhi raho

Mein.. Mein bhi rahunn

Humm…hum bhi rahenn

Teno milke saath chale

Saathi janam janam

U me aur hum

I agree with u two different people, with two different ideologies, different mind set, different ways of looking at things and solving the problem can have a beautiful strong relationship together if they give each other the space, freedom , most importantly respect and support each other when need arises...

First and foremost....

I loveeeeeee this songs too and the lyrics are just so good

Much earlier in this show , I had made a post on this song......reflecting the parallels then.

And this still applies here. One need not change oneself and still should be able to be in sink and flow wid their counterpart like the song says.

Nice post !!

They are different people and will always have difference of opinions and thoughts.. Disagreeing is also part of life but you should always be there for your partner , the support system. Couples do need that space and they are adults who can take care of their own business and make their own decisions.

I need clarification- when RR reasoned with her and Pallavi said I don’t agree with you but will try to understand you what does she mean she doesn’t agree ? She doesn’t agree that there can be differences of opinions or was she thinking that he will just follow what she says ..

Originally posted by: Priya516

Nice post !!

They are different people and will always have difference of opinions and thoughts.. Disagreeing is also part of life but you should always be there for your partner , the support system. Couples do need that space and they are adults who can take care of their own business and make their own decisions.

I need clarification- when RR reasoned with her and Pallavi said I don’t agree with you but will try to understand you what does she mean she doesn’t agree ? She doesn’t agree that there can be differences of opinions or was she thinking that he will just follow what she says ..

Right.....as partners disagreements and conflicts are common but even when you dont agree wid each other's perspective , you hv to learn to trust and respect the other person's decisions and give them their space .

Hmm.....Pallavi said she doesnt agree wid him fully. Now what part of it she doesnt agree to is not clear but I feel that she didnt agree to the part that their business is different , so the principles hv to be different . Also she might not hv agreed to the part that Raghav needs to shoulder the responsibilty of his whole family alone. Either of these two.

Yup, they both are unique individuals in their own way, each with their own strength & weaknesses, which is why when they come together they perfectly compliment each other. Rest, every marriage is full of various differences of opinion, as long as each can give space to one another & agree to live & let live, we are good to go!! I just hope the tone remains balanced in the coming episodes too.

Originally posted by: Priya516

Nice post !!

They are different people and will always have difference of opinions and thoughts.. Disagreeing is also part of life but you should always be there for your partner , the support system. Couples do need that space and they are adults who can take care of their own business and make their own decisions.

I need clarification- when RR reasoned with her and Pallavi said I don’t agree with you but will try to understand you what does she mean she doesn’t agree ? She doesn’t agree that there can be differences of opinions or was she thinking that he will just follow what she says ..

No, I don't think she expects Raghav to follow what she says, because by now she knows Raghav usually does what he feels is right depending on how he reads the situation. Yes he might accommodate for his loved ones, but only until a point. Like today he firmly & clearly told Pallavi that he doesn't owe any explanation for what he does or how he does. I feel Pallavi disagreed on the way he went about to find the thief in their home & the stark contrast which Raghav brought up between their business & how it's run. Pallavi feels whatever be the business probably the basic rules to run it must be same, which is obviously honesty & transparency. Of course she was hurt by the lie, but she did not prod him on later. He also apologised. Ideological differences are very interesting to watch as long as the balance is maintained & the characters don't push their opinions overbearingly. Baaki, let's see how the cvs handle this.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Most important takeaway line from the episode .

Its true. Even though they have fallen in love with each other ,and have made efforts to be deserving of the other person's affections.......it still doesnt change the fact that they are two very different personalities. They compliment each other but dont mirror each other.

Their personnas have always been clashing. They may have started to undertand the other but they cant exactly change into another person completely and neither should they. When you are completely opposite of each other , you make it work by fitting in and creating dt space for yourself in the other person's life.......a space that doesnt change dt person completely.....but just enough dt both of you can coexist happily. Dts what they need to do too.

Anywys so this has set the tone for the future track.

Lets see how it goes from here.

Totally agree. I love the fact that he said that because in real life everyone is different. Doesnt mean that what I like is what my husband will like and what i do or how i deal with something is what my husband will. That makes us human. Him telling her that to let him deal with his business the way he likes because he also has a responsibility to them all. And he doesnt interfere in the way she runs her sari shop. I also liked the fact that he cut her conversation short and said, sort of calmly and politely that running a sari shop and running jayati jewels is not the same...LOL

And she said I will try and see it from your point of view but you shouldnt have lied, which was a really good statement because I say that to my husband all the time. Deal with things however but never lie to me.

The only thing is, will Pallavi understand Raghav when he does tell her the truth?

Originally posted by: Shakti1604

No, I don't think she expects Raghav to follow what she says, because by now she knows Raghav usually does what he feels is right depending on how he reads the situation. Yes he might accommodate for his loved ones, but only until a point. Like today he firmly & clearly told Pallavi that he doesn't owe any explanation for what he does or how he does. I feel Pallavi disagreed on the way he went about to find the thief in their home & the stark contrast which Raghav brought up between their business & how it's run. Pallavi feels whatever be the business probably the basic rules to run it must be same, which is obviously honesty & transparency. Of course she was hurt by the lie, but she did not prod him on later. He also apologised. Ideological differences are very interesting to watch as long as the balance is maintained & the characters don't push their opinions overbearingly. Baaki, let's see how the cvs handle this.

it will be interesting to see how they handle this .. Disagreements can be made agreeable but hope they don’t change character traits in a person ..

Nice post . It’s proven fact tat cvs can’t handle any track 😆