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Posted: 4 years ago

Shukriya Sidharth for everything.. ❤❤

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Posted: 4 years ago

Abhi maine yeh padha ki fans already yeh guess kar rahe hai ki next birth m sid boy hoga ya girl aur iss baar uspe drool karne ka chance fanboys ko milega ya fangirls ko.. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😂😂

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Posted: 4 years ago

Shukriya Siddharth 💕 Om Shanti 🙏

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: shalu79

Prayer meet was really enlightening. İt did help a bit.

BK Shivani said

1) we should never say Sid ke saath galat hua we can say humare saath bura hua but not with him.

2) we should not say this was not the time n he had so much to achieve or see. As it will be disrespectful to his aatma who choose to leave..as he is on bigger journey n Parmatama may have assign him bigger task.

We should send positive vibes towards aatma.

I agree with what she said but I think..it will take time for us to attain it.

We have try to stop negative thoughts but this ache..this pain will be there.💔

Thankyou for this, Shalu. This is absolutely beautiful. I particularly like the part where it says it will be “disrespectful to the aatma who chooses to leave”.

In our homes when there is a demise, we are not even permitted to cry since it is believed to put the aatma in a quandary and lament and bound to earth thereby prolonging its journey. So, we chant prayers to help the aatma in its onward journey. So, what they say resonates well with it.

Sidharth was an excellent and fulfilled person and his soul had indeed achieved the dautya/ obligations of this birth. It is set to achieve much more in its onward journey.

I knew his aatma was meant for more, but this from the BK community gives me immense relief. Thanks again.

Edited by Uma2010 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Ritzie

Sorry about that. I just wanted to see if this can even give some of us even a moment of smile. I am not good with words but I still wanted to help people heal in some way.

no no I’m glad u shared it.. I’m jus saying it would be nice one day in future for all to come together and have a sidnaaz marathon
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Posted: 4 years ago

I would also suggest unsubscribing/unfollowing all handles that mean no more to you. We are grieving as it is. We do not need any negative information from any person or media, family member or friend ya jo bhi. Or else it will mess up our own healing process.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I would also suggest unsubscribing/unfollowing all handles that mean no more to you. We are grieving as it is. We do not need any negative information from any person or media, family member or friend ya jo bhi. Or else it will mess up our own healing process.

You are right Uma. The last few days were so harrowing it was easier to lean onto any information however false it felt even to the ears. It felt like any information is better than the deafening silence that was all around plus the sinking hollow feeling inside. Now when mind and heart are finding its peace these news handles have once again proven what emotional and vulnerable fools we are to fall for their nonsense.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: divaprincess

Kuch mahino m ek baby born hoga, uska naam sidharth nhi hoga, chehra bhi alag hoga, parivaar bhi alag hoga, sab kuch badal jaega but ek cheez same rahegi wo hai unke sanskaar and karm.. Wahi sabko khush rakhna, wahi sabko hasana.... Wo sab same rahega.. ❤❤

Absolutely Beautiful and so delicately put ❤️
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Camlin

But for SidNaaz, it felt like everyone was waiting for a closure. It felt so wrong and so… cathartically confusing to know it’s not going to have an end. It’s it.

Healing is a back and forth process. Shehnaz professedly performed last rites that is the right of a beloved (so we are told- I don’t know much about such rites, since in my community we don’t have anything particularly of the kind, except temporary abandonment of adornments) and though surely that is not the closure we sought, nothing can attest further legitimacy to their relationship than that. I hope people understand its indication and neither inflate that nor underestimate it and gain peace from it, and respect the relationship, the closure , the rituals and then give it space and privacy. Let her grow and survive in the way she thinks best for herself. May all of us recover in our own time 🙏

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Posted: 4 years ago

The path followed by Sidharth’s Mom is very much similar to what I have been following since my very birth. When you are born into a belief you reach a stage where things become oppressive. You start to question why you are being pressured into following something when your rebelling teenage mind wouldn’t believe in. I went through that stage. And so one of my elder cousins encouraged me to read Life is Fair by Brian Hines. And that was what cemented my belief in spirituality. If anyone is at all interested in really knowing the laws of cause and effect you can give it a try.

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