Someone genuinely please help me understand this because no matter how much I try to think about this, practically, I still don't see the sense in it.
The famous coffee kaand in future!
I am really trying my level best to understand Virat! I promise, I really do but I just can't.
Just saw the precap now.
So didi and his "love" story is right now the hot topic in CN. Everything is out in the open!
Virat knows very well that both Sai and Samrat are not happy with how things are between didi and him!. Virat claims to really really love Sai and of course, his Jeeva is his lifeline. SO which human in the right mind would accept to meet his life's most controversial person in private away from home! When you love someone/ something don't you try to protect it from damage? Shouldn't he be saying something in lines that all 4 of us (Sai and Samrat included) should talk somewhere in private without family intervention? Because this is no longer about them but whatever decisions will be made will impact all of them. This will also be him trying to prove his point to Samrat and Sai that there is no "didi and him". In this case, he is like "aa bael mujhe maar" to Sai and Samrat. Virat is not supposed to be this dumb! While I understand his anguish and harshness towards Sai because Sai was brutal in whatever she said but, why is he not seeing that he is the sole reason for that savageness towards him! he heard the conversation between Sai and Samrat and Sai literally said that Virat has never expressed anything to her. Confession and clarification are 2 different things. If he hasn't clarified everything with Sai and didi together, how can he expect Sai to accept his confession (thus the sailing in 2 boat quote from Sai). Yes, he has not cheated on Sai physically but he didn't even support her when she needed it the most either. the guy forgot to draw boundaries between him and didi. and even if once in a while he did, those were still weak boundaries because even now didi takes a stroll in his and Sai's bedroom as if she is taking a walk in the garden. Virat is literally the type of person who wants both heads and tails. He wants to keep everyone happy and while that intention is good, it's not feasible. These kinds of people damage not only themselves but also their relationships and others around them.
Sorry... I think I just started ranting, but Virat has confused me in levels I never thought I could be confused. Now I have a headache
Bold: I know it looks ridiculous but probably Virat probably agreed to meet her since their past is out in the open and he wants to sort out "new mess". He probably doesn't want family members to see them talking alone. He probably wants to permanently close the door before announcing it to the world. Yes, I agree that he never made his boundaries strong. However I am now hoping that this conversation would set the tone for how he sees Pakhi and how he sees Sai.
But yes, any sane person would not want to meet his ex who is his vaini outside in a coffee shop. There is no logical reasoning behind it.
No point having a headache over this. Have a nice cup of strong coffee š
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