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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Dee10

Someone genuinely please help me understand this because no matter how much I try to think about this, practically, I still don't see the sense in it.

The famous coffee kaand in future!

I am really trying my level best to understand Virat! I promise, I really do but I just can't.

Just saw the precap now.

So didi and his "love" story is right now the hot topic in CN. Everything is out in the open!

Virat knows very well that both Sai and Samrat are not happy with how things are between didi and him!. Virat claims to really really love Sai and of course, his Jeeva is his lifeline. SO which human in the right mind would accept to meet his life's most controversial person in private away from home! When you love someone/ something don't you try to protect it from damage? Shouldn't he be saying something in lines that all 4 of us (Sai and Samrat included) should talk somewhere in private without family intervention? Because this is no longer about them but whatever decisions will be made will impact all of them. This will also be him trying to prove his point to Samrat and Sai that there is no "didi and him". In this case, he is like "aa bael mujhe maar" to Sai and Samrat. Virat is not supposed to be this dumb! While I understand his anguish and harshness towards Sai because Sai was brutal in whatever she said but, why is he not seeing that he is the sole reason for that savageness towards him! he heard the conversation between Sai and Samrat and Sai literally said that Virat has never expressed anything to her. Confession and clarification are 2 different things. If he hasn't clarified everything with Sai and didi together, how can he expect Sai to accept his confession (thus the sailing in 2 boat quote from Sai). Yes, he has not cheated on Sai physically but he didn't even support her when she needed it the most either. the guy forgot to draw boundaries between him and didi. and even if once in a while he did, those were still weak boundaries because even now didi takes a stroll in his and Sai's bedroom as if she is taking a walk in the garden. Virat is literally the type of person who wants both heads and tails. He wants to keep everyone happy and while that intention is good, it's not feasible. These kinds of people damage not only themselves but also their relationships and others around them.

Sorry... I think I just started ranting, but Virat has confused me in levels I never thought I could be confused. Now I have a headache

Bold: I know it looks ridiculous but probably Virat probably agreed to meet her since their past is out in the open and he wants to sort out "new mess". He probably doesn't want family members to see them talking alone. He probably wants to permanently close the door before announcing it to the world. Yes, I agree that he never made his boundaries strong. However I am now hoping that this conversation would set the tone for how he sees Pakhi and how he sees Sai.

But yes, any sane person would not want to meet his ex who is his vaini outside in a coffee shop. There is no logical reasoning behind it.

No point having a headache over this. Have a nice cup of strong coffee 😊

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Posted: 4 years ago
#22

This is a different level of stubbornness. When we have openly started claiming that we FF all the Pakhi scenes, makers are hell bent on serving more of her to us. Do they really think that it will make us watch her or is it some sort of revenge for all the trending against her? End result will only be more FF, and eventual exit. Why will somebody watch something they dont like and are being forcefully served the same on repeated basis.
Understandable that Samrat and Pakhi scene was important at this stage, but at the cost of cutting the main lead couple out to mere 3-4 mins? Their stand is also important at this stage. There is so much harping about ā€œchar zindigiyanā€ā€¦ But where? The focus was all on two. Mohit and Sonali barely get screen space in the most crucial scenes, but out of all episodes where they are struggling for SS between these two couples, they had to bring in that scene??? Aaj kaise yaad aa gayi?
Again on account of a being a self proclaimed sadist, even the minimal scene, I liked the indifference of Virat. I agree that no one is at fault completely, both dealing with their own insecurities.

Edited by sherry_24 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#23

How much damage the makers are doing by giving so much SS to Samrakhi or whatever. And 100 times over, we need Samrakhi as a parallel track but not at the cost of the leads.

I noticed the way they portray Pakhi is actually quite quite cheap, sorry, for the want of a better word. Fully made up, pallu half over the blouse, she looks like a person who wants to entice ...you know what I mean?? It is not giving us the feel of a sad woman. Added to that, her dialogues and her attitude. Clearly, she says she cannot forget her ex, that her husband's brother!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
#24

All the dialogues went over my head.. SaiRat conversation were angsty and as usual it was beautiful.. I liked Sai's stance on relationships based truth and honesty ..but I didn't understand how Samrat comes in between all these.. Poor girl she has no one to guide her that indeed she is going in a wrong direction.. she could sense goodness in all but her own husband who has been always trying his level best to make her happy

Shoddy dialogues are the only thing this track is becoming unbearable for me..

Again virat used the word "insult" but by Neil's expressions he felt dejected because Sai insulted his love, Virat can bear worst from Sai and he was even ready to live a loveless marriage with her but he couldn't bear the very thought of drifting away from her.. Expressions doesn't match with dialogues.. Poor girl She was crying when he left and unable to fathom what's must be going wrong..

Her character development is going down and down.. I can relate to her as 19 years old teen but NOT a clueless person.. Writers should give her better dialogues because this track is brought to make her realize that she is a wife of a man..

I liked Samrat-Pakhi scene until he said that Pakhi is a brave girl.. He was trying to bring her into reality that Virat has moved ..but alas dogs tail never can be straighten she replied back Sai never can keep virat happy.. What happiness she was referring.. 🤢I found Samrat bit selfish because he was yet again ready to leave his family and his widow mother for an woman he hardly knows..he is too delusional like his wife that even after all these he still thinks Pakhi wants to give another chance to their marriage 🤢🤪

However both Samrat and Virat are true gentlemen.. Samrat let Pakhi stay in the room and chose to sleep at guest room....

Precap : Sai bai cutely kissed his pati being a good boy. .it was like she kissed her Aaba who is angry at her ..Sai bai that's your husband lol šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

Edited by Shaome - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: Shaome

All the dialogues went over my head.. SaiRat conversation were angsty and as usual it was beautiful.. I liked Sai's stance on relationships based truth and honesty ..but I didn't understand how Samrat comes in between all these.. Poor girl she has no one to guide her that indeed she is going in a wrong direction.. she could sense goodness in all but her own husband who has been always trying his level best to make her happy

Shoddy dialogues are the only thing this track is becoming unbearable for me..

Again virat used the word "insult" but by Neil's expressions he felt dejected because Sai insulted his love, Virat can bear worst from Sai and he was even ready to live a loveless marriage with her but he couldn't bear the very thought of drifting away from her.. Expressions doesn't match with dialogues.. Poor girl She was crying when he left and unable to fathom what's must be going wrong..

Her character development is going down and down.. I can relate to her as 19 years old teen but NOT a clueless person.. Writers should give her better dialogues because this track is brought to make her realize that she is a wife of a man..

I liked Samrat-Pakhi scene until he said that Pakhi is a brave girl.. He was trying to bring her into reality that Virat has moved ..but alas dogs tail never can be straighten she replied back Sai never can keep virat happy.. What happiness she was referring.. 🤢I found Samrat bit selfish because he was yet again ready to leave his family and his widow mother for an woman he hardly knows..he is too delusional like his wife that even after all these he still thinks Pakhi wants to give another chance to their marriage 🤢🤪

However both Samrat and Virat are true gentlemen.. Samrat let Pakhi stay in the room and chose to sleep at guest room....

Precap : Sai bai cutely kissed his pati being a good boy. .it was like she kissed her Aaba who is angry at her ..Sai bai that's your husband lol šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

Agree with every thing here.. This is going over my head.. The writing is so so so pathetic that I cant event rant enough!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
#26

Sai is not implying that virat is flawed or not a good man when she says Samrat is a good man. Sai has a soft corner for Samrat because she knows the pain he feels- having a spouse being in love with someone else. So i think what she means is to console virat that samrat is a good guy, eventually he will understand. And its not easy for someone to live apart from family so if Samrat has stayed away it shows the extent of his hurt. She wants virat to talk to samrat n sort out the issue. She understands that virat may be hurt by her words but she hasn't realized that she is the reason that he wants to leave. She thinks he is leaving because of samrat. In her mind, their argument was like many others in the past n she doesn't expect indifference from him because this is something they have gone over multiple times in past too with no resolution. Sai raises pp because she is insecure and virat gets defensive , shuts her down.

So for Sai this situation is Virats reaction to Samrst being back n not wanting to talk to his shiva...n she thinks he is taking it out on her.

So i get sai's pov completely. I dont see her as behaving contradictory. She is not understanding where virat stands since day 1. He made a promise to pp and in Sai's eyes that is ultimate. She has moments of indiscretion where she loses herself in her emotions but she catches herself and reminds herself to not fall in love with virat because its a dead end. He has already loved another woman and having feelings for such a man is sureshot heartbreak and even morally wrong in Sai's eyes because he told her not to have expectations abd he didn't hide that from her. He told her not to expect anything and thats why she gets pissed at him too when he does things that make her melt because shes like - "stop doing these things that make me feel like a wife when ultimately you will never regard me as one". In order for her to truly believe in virats love and this marriage being 100 % legit she needs to hear the full truth from virat. But he has not given her that. Only bits/pieces n his actions towards pp are contradictory too. One day he is preventing pp from touching him, next day he is soft spoken and silent when pp taunts Sai. One day he sides with Sai, rebukes pp for pushing Sai or accusing her of baseless things like doing drugs/alcohol, but then Sai hears his tragic love story from him/yoga instructor and now with Samrat back to divorce pp and Virat like an idiot is gonna go on a date with pp to the cafe and get himself caught in an awkward position either holding hands/hugging/touching her/god knows what which will again make Sai more insecure šŸ™ˆ

Samrat/Virat are not making full sense to me. Pp- i care 2 hoots about so she can go to hell.

Samrat- Sai scenes are the only ones I watched.

Samrat pp I didnt watch because i refuse to watch any pp scenes without Sairat in them because its inconsequential. I cant tolerate her. So if other cast members have scenes with her, sadly i will still skip. so no comments on what he is saying to pp. But if samrat agrees to give pp a chance, when its clear she has not moved on - then he is definitely an idiot and god help him.

And Virat- i understand his hurt, his pain, his guilt, but he has clearly heard Sai speak to samrat about how she doesn't know how virat feels n precap shows how hurt she is as she talks about how difficult it is to live with her etc....he has also clearly heard how Samrat is hurt by the truth being hidden. Samrat also trusts in Virat like Sai n knows he wont cheat anyone. So what hurt him is that he hid the truth. That he made a decision on behalf of samrat which he has no jurisdiction over. It was absolutely not ok for virat to allow samrat to enter a bond of marriage based on a lie! So if Virat chooses to go on a private date with pp to a cafe without telling Samrat or making sure Samrat is around so he also is on the same page n he is witness to virats convo with Pp then he is definitely stupid! No other word for it.

Virat can certainly be indifferent to Sai until Sai realizes his importance in her life and until his anger/hurt melt a little but the way he is behaving with pp - agreeing to meet her etc is completely unnecessary.

With Sai, i dont agree with all her reactions- but her actions/words are consistent and make sense to me.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#27

Used all the episode time and watch just the sairat bit multiple times 😳

Overalll sentiment on the forum seems to be that too much time is being given to Pakhi and Samrat but is that how the general audience is perceiving this week too? Arent they the TRP audience?

Its difficult to see Virat so broken down, its a double whammy for him between Samrat's accusations and Sai's disregard for his feelings. Sai is justified in her thoughts but she needs to understand Virat’s point of view too. If she doesn’t fight for her relationship then she will lose the one person consistently in her corner.

Edited by fj08 - 4 years ago

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