SaiRat- Insults, Confusion, and Heartbreak- My Take - Page 2

Originally posted by: vimeo

I like ur posts bcoz u try to figure out why both Virat and Sai are doing what each is doing unlike the others who always talk abt Sais feelings Sais beizzati and Sais everything. A relationship cannot be about one person alone and it takes two hands to clap! So whatever position Sairat are in right now is of their own making!

But somehow even though I have always felt that Sai has bern very rude and arrogant and disrespectful towards Virat (mind u not CNivasis!), I somehow can't accept the fact that Virat called out Sais treatment of him as beizzati. He should have used words like uski bartau mucho kitni chot poncha hai - not beizzati. Somehow I feel wrong choice of words. Its I feel its more of hurt than insult.

If he means that dialog where Sai says that Virat is trying to sail on two boats at the same time, then I can absolutely agree that it was insult but other things are more hurtful words than insulting ones!

Up until yesterday's episode, I also thought that beizzati was the wrong use of word. But, when they used it again in today's episode (insult), I thought about it more deeply. What does beizzati mean? It means disrespect. Virat feels as though his love and this relationship have both been disrespected by Sai, and it is the hurt that has resulted from that which is causing him to behave in this way. I agree that it would have been better for the makers just to use the word "hurt" instead, but today when Virat said that he will never forget how Sai made him feel as a result of this insult, it once again became clear that he is referring to the heartbreak which I have already discussed in my post!

In terms of Sai being rude and arrogant towards Virat, those are just her defense mechanisms. That is her protecting herself from her own heartbreak. She does not act that way with anyone else, because she is not so afraid of losing anyone else and she is not so confused about the reality of her relationship with anyone else. She hides her vulnerabilities behind the deal marriage and her rough exterior- exactly what Virat is now doing.

Amazing analysis 💟

I so so wish and pray that post this rough phase, SaiRat come out stronger. 🤞🤞

They deserve only love and happiness😭

I hope Vankar sahab ko akkal aa jaaye aur woh apne yaari meiin kachra phailana band karde. He said that this show is his baby, I hope he doesn't do anything that will ruin his baby show.

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Amazing analysis 💟

I so so wish and pray that post this rough phase, SaiRat come out stronger. 🤞🤞

They deserve only love and happiness😭

I hope Vankar sahab ko akkal aa jaaye aur woh apne yaari meiin kachra phailana band karde. He said that this show is his baby, I hope he doesn't do anything that will ruin his baby show.

@bolded: Thank god I don't have a father like Vankar 🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

Thank you! What is your name by the way?

Meghna .. and yours ??

Originally posted by: tptwi

@bolded: Thank god I don't have a father like Vankar 🤣

Thank you god🙏

Love you Appa💟

He was telling how special this show is for him. He acknowleged the love SaiRat get. Then why does he do all the sorts of clownery is what I am thinking since I saw that IV.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Good post Pooja and thanks for informing me.

I have a doubt and want you to clear.,

Sai asked Samrat to talk to Pakhi .

Sai ensured Samrat to realise how he failed as a son to Manasi by neglecting her ,giving preference to his hurt and pain.

She misunderstood Virat thinking that he was snubbing her because he was hurt by Samrat’s refusal to listen to him.

Then why is she not asking Samrat to give a chance to Virat to explain his version? Samrat May agree or not..She should have tried atleast.

For Sai Virat and his feelings always come last in the priority list. Nothing new. I thought she will evolve with time and I hope also.

I agree with all you said about Virat’s pain. Yes. He was hurt because Sai did not value his effort and attempt to make the day special and how! He was more hurt for her rudeness than her dialogue claiming him to be a two timer.

And how could Sai expect him to come back to normalcy like they used to be in other fights? Did she erase annual day and the hotel room confrontation from her mind?

If so she would never be able to understand Virat’s pain.

Unpopular opinion

Ayeshu got much needed respite due to less work load. So I don’t mind Sairat getting only 4 minutes. She worked round the clock when she was injured and Neil was sick. Again we will get Sairat centric episodes during confession ...So no problem.

I agree that Ayesha needed rest, so glad that this overdose of Pakhi was able to get her that.

In terms of Sai not asking Samrat to give Virat a chance. The only reason why Samrat is back in this house is because of Sai's love for Virat. She begged Samrat to come home for Virat. She knows how deeply shiva loves and missed his jeeva. Sai defended Virat to Samrat throughout their bedroom conversation. She told him that he never crossed the line with Pakhi, and as they were walking in the hall, she told him that Virat has been waiting for him this entire year- that not a day has passed by when Virat has not remembered him. She did not directly ask Samrat to hear Virat's side of the story, but everything she did say about Virat clearly shows how she feels about him. But, Sai is also able to relate to Samrat's pain. She is in a very similar situation to him. The past that is haunting her is also the past that is haunting him. Had Virat cleared up everything to her already, of course she would tell Samrat that and ask him to listen to Virat. But, as of now, Samrat's misunderstandings are also her's. So, while she has defended Virat and told Samrat not to doubt him, she is also deeply hurt and confused herself. It is not on her to clear this misunderstanding between the brothers. It has to be in between them.

Virat has always been first on Sai's priority list. Every time he has deeply hurt her and acted unacceptably with her, she has forgiven him. She has always placed him above her own self respect. She has tolerated the abuse of his family day and night just to be able to stay with him. There are infinite examples I can give you that show her care for him in the smaller details too. The reason she acts so harshly outwardly towards him is her own defense mechanism- that is her protecting her heart. She does not act that way with anyone else, because she is not so afraid of losing anyone else.... she is not so confused about the reality of her relationship with anyone else. People always say that her love for Virat is not visible, but to me, it is visible in everything she does. Virat occupies the place of her abba now. He is everything to her.

How could Sai expect him to come back to normalcy? Because that is what has always happened before. They both spew venom at each other in their anger, but they almost immediately forget about it. I have already said this in my original post, but in order for Sai to connect why the anniversary fight hurt him so deeply, she will have to understand that he loves her...that the past is behind him...that the vaada means nothing. These are not realizations that happen overnight. Her realization has already begun, and she needs time. She has no one to guide her...she is navigating this blindly. We cannot expect her to understand everything so immediately....

Originally posted by: msin

Meghna .. and yours ??

Beautiful name! I am Pooja 😊

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Thank you god🙏

Love you Appa💟

He was telling how special this show is for him. He acknowleged the love SaiRat get. Then why does he do all the sorts of clownery is what I am thinking since I saw that IV.

Because nothing compares to his love for his best friends!

Originally posted by: tptwi

@bolded: This is so beautiful!!!

In terms of Sai putting up a brave front, this is what she has always done! She broke down outside, and now she is going to cover up her vulnerabilities again. Even in the precap, it seemed clear to me that she was trying so hard to stay cheerful, and yet the tears were flowing. Anyways, let's wait on that before analyzing the most awaited fever scene 🤣

This track will finally be the one where she allows herself to be vulnerable, but she is going to break down entirely before that happens 😭

I wanted to like and laughing at this post 🤣🤣. Yes the most awaited fever scene. Hopefully they don't have more BS stored somewhere to unload tomorrow 🤣🤣.

I agree Sai is going to be in such a vulnerable state for the 2nd time since Aaba passed away 😢. And this time Virat has shut her off completely which is going to break her courage and she won't be able to out up a brave front anymore 🥺

Originally posted by: Rdigest

I wanted to like and laughing at this post 🤣🤣. Yes the most awaited fever scene. Hopefully they don't have more BS stored somewhere to unload tomorrow 🤣🤣.

I agree Sai is going to be in such a vulnerable state for the 2nd time since Aaba passed away 😢. And this time Virat has shut her off completely which is going to break her courage and she won't be able to out up a brave front anymore 🥺

They cannot stretch the fever scene anymore!!! More than that, I am eager for Cafe Kaand!!! 🤣

What you said about Sai's pain and abba's passing reminded me of Virat's dialogue when he is asking Sai for forgiveness after she gets back from the hospital. He says the real pain comes when someone you love voluntarily leaves you, not when they pass away... that was such foreshadowing for this track 😭