I am loving this cold virat👍👍

I know a lot are cribbing on the increased Sanrakhi scenes ..

But the 4 minutes of Sairat was so good .. a lot of us think virat should have clarified to Sai .. Agree he is at fault too ..

But Sai needs to be given a taste of her own medicine ..

she says anything….

Now virat is behaving exactly like she says their marriage is supposed to be ..

a business arrangement .. then why is she getting upset ..

She’s explaining samrat’s point clearly to virat .. but has she tried looking at her husband’s side ..

She always ignores virat’s feelings or takes it for granted .. for the last one month .. everybody has been taking him for granted .. now finally it seems he has given up ..

I hope he doesn’t relent to Sai so easily with her cutesy talks ..

Sai has to differentiate between her father and husband .. both of them are guardians .. but expectations from both is different..

The precap shows she’s treating how she would treat her dad when he was unwell ..

Yes virat is physically unwell but a lot has been brought about because of his mental stress

Me too. I hope he continues to be so for a longer period. He bore a lot of pain without cribbing or complaining all these days. He deserves to get the right kind of acknowledgement for his feelings,patience and unconditional love he nourished in his heart for Sai.

You are right. Sai could understand the point of view of every one other than Virat.

I hope Sai revisits her anniversary day and understand how hurtful her behaviour was. I want her to apologise and confess. Both.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Me too. I hope he continues to be so for a longer period. He bore a lot of pain without cribbing or complaining all these days. He deserves to get the right kind of acknowledgement for his feelings,patience and unconditional love he nourished in his heart for Sai.

You are right. Sai could understand the point of view of every one other than Virat.

I hope Sai revisits her anniversary day and understand how hurtful her behaviour was. I want her to apologise and confess. Both.

More than confessioni want a change in her behaviour.. she has to grow up .. she cannot be a child in this relationship.. she has To stop

Thinking of virat as her father substitute.. till

Now she has not been awoken sexually by virat .. that will

Only come when she longs for him .,misses him ., feels incomplete without him

Originally posted by: msin

I know a lot are cribbing on the increased Sanrakhi scenes ..

But the 4 minutes of Sairat was so good .. a lot of us think virat should have clarified to Sai .. Agree he is at fault too ..

But Sai needs to be given a taste of her own medicine ..

she says anything….

Now virat is behaving exactly like she says their marriage is supposed to be ..

a business arrangement .. then why is she getting upset ..

She’s explaining samrat’s point clearly to virat .. but has she tried looking at her husband’s side ..

She always ignores virat’s feelings or takes it for granted .. for the last one month .. everybody has been taking him for granted .. now finally it seems he has given up ..

I hope he doesn’t relent to Sai so easily with her cutesy talks ..

Sai has to differentiate between her father and husband .. both of them are guardians .. but expectations from both is different..

The precap shows she’s treating how she would treat her dad when he was unwell ..

Yes virat is physically unwell but a lot has been brought about because of his mental stress

There is a saying jubaan or talwar dono ka use soch samajh ke karna chahiye kyunki dono kaam ek hi karte hai hurt karne ka talwar se mila wound bhar bhi jaata hai lekin jubaan se mila wound turn into something worst coz it hurt emotionally & mentally.

From day one when virat met her ,she kept on insulting virat on various occasions he kept on letting it go but now she crossed d line , she needs to be taught a lesson .

KJ was no doubt a gem but sai being d only child raised without a mother got pampered too much from KJ that he started covering up her faults , initially while approving KJ's VRS virat did mentioned how pissed off he is from Sai's behaviour that time KJ just cover it up by telling about jagtap but it's not fair if u r in some problem it don't give u license to insult other , u can't insult an on-duty officer that 2 he is not at fault , if anyone else would be at virat's place then instead of VRS ,Kamal sir would had gotten termination or suspension.

After every fight virat alway made d first move to patch up but this time when he dint , so hitted sai , I wonder how she forgot that virat broke his relationship with her & it was she who instigated him that he don't keep his words, anniversary ka yaad raha but apna khud ka behaviour yaad nhi rha.

I hope virat continue this behaviour & stop being a punching bag of sai, makers don't bring any sympathy track for sai to make virat guilty .

For God sake Ashwani don't turn up to virat to tell how only he is d wrong & justify Sai's behaviour like everytime anyways Ashwani hardly cares to see that even virat can get hurt .

I like brooding Virat… He is broken, beaten and confused.. he made mistakes, but he deserves a second chance.. I want Sai and Samrat to understand this..

He has become the villain in the whole fiasco.. Samrat dropped the bomb regarding the midnight phone call in front of Sai.. but conveniently forgot when speaking to his wife..

I don’t want him to go to the cafe either.. but he is going what to do😭

Originally posted by: msin

More than confessioni want a change in her behaviour.. she has to grow up .. she cannot be a child in this relationship.. she has To stop

Thinking of virat as her father substitute.. till

Now she has not been awoken sexually by virat .. that will

Only come when she longs for him .,misses him ., feels incomplete without him

Originally posted by: msin

More than confessioni want a change in her behaviour.. she has to grow up .. she cannot be a child in this relationship.. she has To stop

Thinking of virat as her father substitute.. till

Now she has not been awoken sexually by virat .. that will

Only come when she longs for him .,misses him ., feels incomplete without him

No need for Virat to awaken them, she just has to see him and feel for him differently. The feelings are dormant in her, something has to trigger them. Physical distance may be.

Originally posted by: msin

More than confessioni want a change in her behaviour.. she has to grow up .. she cannot be a child in this relationship.. she has To stop

Thinking of virat as her father substitute.. till

Now she has not been awoken sexually by virat .. that will

Only come when she longs for him .,misses him ., feels incomplete without him

I feel it's a little more complicated than that....my take could be incomplete.

Both are wrong at this point...and both are right too ....but the power to end the stalemate lies with Virat IMO

If we imagine even a normal marriage, an ex's constant interference, the sense of entitlement in accusing the husband of cheating, etc....it will cause havoc on any couple's relationship as I see it. It will be left to the appropriate partner to set boundaries, be firm with the ex (perhaps move out of the house) and give reassurance to the spouse. So SaiRat marriage is sitting on a minefield as it is.

I don't believe Sai is taking Virat for granted. She is confused about the situation as well as her feelings. Agreed she is not handling her confusion well. She is building a wall to safeguard her heart as well as putting up an indifferent attitude. If she had confronted Virat with straightforward questions and demanded to know the answers, this issue still may have long been resolved. That's what Sai could/should have done. But that will happen only when she is able to understand the situation or navigate her own vulnerable feelings. (Sometimes Sai's straight-forward questions are met with jalebis or silence...which will only heighten her misapprehensions). Unfortunately people around her are useless - Ashwini acts like her MIL and Usha mausi is on some old-fashioned train. Both are too simple-minded to guide her in this complex issue. She may be having a black & white outlook on love - but it's not something a plain, honest talk won't cure.

As for Virat, he fails to see the impact Pakhi's presence in his life is having on his marriage. It was Virat's blunder of not setting healthy boundaries with Pakhi that has led to Sai's doubts and fears. He tries to tell Sai in bits and pieces about his past...but does not take the initiative in actively reassuring Sai by being more open and or in showing Pakhi her place during crucial moments. It is extraordinary how he doesn't perceive the minefield they are standing on especially considering he knows what it feels like to be insecure (Ajinkya, Aniket) - but that's what it is.

Sai's flaws in her thinking may cause small issues in other aspects of their relationship.....but I don't believe the current problem in their relationship has got anything to do with it.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

No need for Virat to awaken them, she just has to see him and feel for him differently. The feelings are dormant in her, something has to trigger them. Physical distance may be.

Distance makes the heart grow fonder .. I hope it works for them

I remember this beautiful scene in KD, where Sai kind of throws herself into Virat's arms.

As you said, when she sees him with changed emotions she will 'want' him differently. Leena the writer potrayed the transition very organically and beautifully.

When she goes to meet him on his birthday, she get trapped and he rescues her like before. But the way she sees his actions are completely different. The way she looks at him and falls into his hands faking an injury clearly shows her progression!!

Leena definitely is a good one with understanding psychology of her characters!