Not again Pallavi - Page 3

Originally posted by: d.padmini

After all what has happened and is happening at Deshmukh's house , the way VD, mandaar and all are behaving I expected Pallavi to learn lesson and distance herself from D-family but no she is still obsessed with them ..

I didn't like the fact, my POV , the way she said , cooking is my responsibility now.....like really.. why she has to take that responsibility ? Why she has to get involved in D-family affairs in the first place...

here ur inlaw made a plan so that u can spend time with ur husband, ur husband wants to spend time with u; u urself want to be with him but then one phone call and u forget everything and want to rush back home...

The way Raghav said magar pallavi, I felt so bad for him, she still gives the D-family priority and still expects rao to understand..will that ever change??

For once can't she tell Amrutha to manage one meal, there were many occasions where aayee was not there after pallavi's marriage, didn't they manage then, why she has to manage everything in D-house?

Totally agree with you. If they had to use an excuse, why use the cooking excuse, Amruta could have said, that her Aai is knocking constantly asking to meet with Kaku and she doesnt know what to do etc. and that their plan will be exposed etc, that would be more feasible and Raghav would understand too that she has to leave.

But to say Pallavi come and cook and then poor Raghav is like But Pallavi and she is like i have to go, still has to do her farz.....I mean that was just i guess because they wanted Raghav to know they need a cook. They had no other way to pass that information to him so they cooked up this plan but it just made her look like she is prioritizing D house again especially Mansi and Sulo as they wanted food. Like are they little kids? Cant they not make some toast and have it with butter or whatever...

Also they could have cut out that line of Raghav's where he says but Pallavi and just said something like, do you have to cook everyday or something and she could have mentioned they are looking for someone but at the moment she cooks as she has to make food for Aai especially. Forget everyone else. Then he could have said, yeah how is she etc. Hope she is well and so forth and Please take care......etc. Would have been so much better then the whole i have to go make food and then making Raghav feel bad that she couldnt stay....so where is all her guilt?

Sorry I’m not wanting RaghVi scenes that are inserted just for the sake of appeasing the fandom. As I said it’s about communication and meaningful talk for me. The thing is iRaghVi scenes are always rushed and that’s jarring for me. Maybe it’s the choice of the CVs and writers to lamely it this way. Im just stating my opinion on what I like as a viewer that’s all. To each his :her own. Mind you I do like the romantic scenes and can enjoy them yet somehow they seem to be lacking. I will always be here for Raghav. Yes, I get it that they were playing cover up still it didn’t sit well with me. And I know it’s not the issue about ordering food, still I felt it could’ve been managed some other way. When they can show a message creatively why not this. I badly wanted a heart to heart between RaghVi. Sigh , if wishes were horses and of pigs could fly!!😆

Originally posted by: joliefemme

What past actions are we talking about here?? She's apologetic for putting D fam before her own family and she won't do it again. She's clearly told that once this Mandar chapter ends, she will try to be more selfish. Itna chota cheez pe itna grudge people are keeping when Raghav himself doesn't care about it anymore.🤪

Well i don't think she has ever mentioned it specifically that she regrets putting D fam before her own family. She has always said that how she shouldn't have given importance to mandaar over her own family.

She is yet to realize that how wrong she was to get swayed away by VD and give in to that kasam . VD was the same guy who threw her out of the house at midnight , insulted raghav and pallavi continously after marriage , refused to give blood to her ailing husband and then locked the house when her husband was dying to talk to her. I never saw p commenting about that even once . Also few days back P was shown getting emotional when mansi called her pallu . I mean thats ridiculous . After all the shit that mother daughter duo have pulled on her and raghav how can you get emotional about this . Imo that's disrespectful to raghav and her own self respect.

Originally posted by: fria319

Same. I don’t think anyone enjoys it. If there’s one thing everyone agrees on is hating D fam. 🤣

But in general it’s like, this is what family does? She’s accepted them as her family , so why wouldn’t she worry about feeding them?

Idk about anyone else but even the family I have beef with, I still check in on them? I still invite them to gatherings etc. I still care for them when they need my help.

I think in general caring and taking care of people is one of Pallavi’s love languages. This is how she shows her affection and love.

I agree. Though they don't deserve it, Pallavi does things for them and that's her choice. I will point fingers when she does questionable things but today was not such an instance. I so want them to address the fact that everyone in that family needs to know how to cook. It's a basic life skill 🤪

Originally posted by: Looneygirl

Sorry I’m not wanting RaghVi scenes that are inserted just for the sake of appeasing the fandom. As I said it’s about communication and meaningful talk for me. The thing is iRaghVi scenes are always rushed and that’s jarring for me. Maybe it’s the choice of the CVs and writers to lamely it this way. Im just stating my opinion on what I like as a viewer that’s all. To each his :her own. Mind you I do like the romantic scenes and can enjoy them yet somehow they seem to be lacking. I will always be here for Raghav. Yes, I get it that they were playing cover up still it didn’t sit well with me. And I know it’s not the issue about ordering food, still I felt it could’ve been managed some other way. When they can show a message creatively why not this. I badly wanted a heart to heart between RaghVi. Sigh , if wishes were horses and of pigs could fly!!😆

I understand where you come from. Post confession most of their scenes are interrupted and as a viewer it does impact the viewing experience.. according to me today's scene there was no way out except that she had to go back.

I'm hopeful that they will get time to talk once Raghav comes to the D house. Just think about it - Raghav coming in as a cook and Pallavi is the only one in the family that goes to the kitchen. Kitna time milega saath main..

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I understand where you come from. Post confession most of their scenes are interrupted and as a viewer it does impact the viewing experience.. according to me today's scene there was no way out except that she had to go back.

I'm hopeful that they will get time to talk once Raghav comes to the D house. Just think about it - Raghav coming in as a cook and Pallavi is the only one in the family that goes to the kitchen. Kitna time milega saath main..

Hahaha perfect recipe for lots of burnt food iykwim😳

Originally posted by: Phoenix_Fire123

Well i don't think she has ever mentioned it specifically that she regrets putting D fam before her own family. She has always said that how she shouldn't have given importance to mandaar over her own family.

She is yet to realize that how wrong she was to get swayed away by VD and give in to that kasam . VD was the same guy who threw her out of the house at midnight , insulted raghav and pallavi continously after marriage , refused to give blood to her ailing husband and then locked the house when her husband was dying to talk to her. I never saw p commenting about that even once . Also few days back P was shown getting emotional when mansi called her pallu . I mean thats ridiculous . After all the shit that mother daughter duo have pulled on her and raghav how can you get emotional about this . Imo that's disrespectful to raghav and her own self respect.

I would ask you to see episode 160 - Pallavi talking with amruta on the terrace. She clearly said she was foolish to put Mandar before Raghav and her family. She said clearly she missed the event that was so important to Raghav. Episode 162 - conversation between Pallavi and aai - she said she fell into a hole and realised how deep it was. She called herself a thick head to not listen to aai, amma and Raghav. She said her zid has hurt raghav but she wasn't able to apologise to Raghav. She's feeling heavy hearted.

I don't think expecting a proper apology is required considering where their relationship stands today. The makers have clearly shown that Pallavi regrets her choices and will be more mindful in the future.

As far as the kasam goes, her going back to her home leaving behind the kasam (she didn't even remember it once) showed how little she thought of that kasam.

Mansi hasn't done anything wrong with Pallavi except her taunts or smaller scheming here and there so she is someone who can be forgiven if she's repenting (others having done much worse are given clean chit). There is nothing disrespectful if you forgive someone who is repenting.

After that instance, she's not gone soft on mansi again. I will not defend Sulochana.

Originally posted by: chokri

I ignore her these days..keeps me sane and my bp low.

Good point and right thing to do! I used to get worked up the week Pallavi missed her hubbys award function and started doing bhashans later. Now I am chill and enjoying romance as popcorn for the 5mins we are fed daily and also focusing on camera, angles, direction etc and fast forwarding the D episodes. Keeping my BP low as well when i skip them altogether!!

Poor Raghav!!

Originally posted by: farheenbachani

Totally agree with you. If they had to use an excuse, why use the cooking excuse, Amruta could have said, that her Aai is knocking constantly asking to meet with Kaku and she doesnt know what to do etc. and that their plan will be exposed etc, that would be more feasible and Raghav would understand too that she has to leave.

But to say Pallavi come and cook and then poor Raghav is like But Pallavi and she is like i have to go, still has to do her farz.....I mean that was just i guess because they wanted Raghav to know they need a cook. They had no other way to pass that information to him so they cooked up this plan but it just made her look like she is prioritizing D house again especially Mansi and Sulo as they wanted food. Like are they little kids? Cant they not make some toast and have it with butter or whatever...

Also they could have cut out that line of Raghav's where he says but Pallavi and just said something like, do you have to cook everyday or something and she could have mentioned they are looking for someone but at the moment she cooks as she has to make food for Aai especially. Forget everyone else. Then he could have said, yeah how is she etc. Hope she is well and so forth and Please take care......etc. Would have been so much better then the whole i have to go make food and then making Raghav feel bad that she couldnt stay....so where is all her guilt?

Exactly

@bold..or else when he said but pallavi , which is obvious because he wants to spend time with her ..she could have been a little more considerate, sensetive to his feelings, a little assurance from her , may be even I want to but I can't , or sorry I need to go but will meet u soon would have done wonders...

Here Raghav was all emotional but I didn't see any guilt or emotions from her side..it was again all about responsibility and that is what I didn't like..

How was her act today any different from those days when she is used to run to D-house for mandar...

Her guilt , that heaviness In her heart she was speaking to aayee about hawa mein filter..when she is with Raghav I don't see any difference in her attitude towards him, there is no remorse or guilt... nothing...then what did she realise and if she has , as per her monoluges, it is not coming through her action.

Originally posted by: d.padmini

Exactly

@bold..or else when he said but pallavi , which is obvious because he wants to spend time with her ..she could have been a little more considerate, sensetive to his feelings, a little assurance from her , may be even I want to but I can't , or sorry I need to go but will meet u soon would have done wonders...

Here Raghav was all emotional but I didn't see any guilt or emotions from her side..it was again all about responsibility and that is what I didn't like..

How was her act today any different from those days when she is used to run to D-house for mandar...

Her guilt , that heaviness In her heart she was speaking to aayee about hawa mein filter..when she is with Raghav I don't see any difference in her attitude towards him, there is no remorse or guilt... nothing...then what did she realise and if she has , as per her monoluges, it is not coming through her action.

Exactly....Totally agree with you. She could have been a bit more empathatic and felt his pain too but she was like normal, oh i have to go etc. Then goes to get her scarf and puts it on and was ready to leave but Raghav wanted a few extra secs with her.

And even when saying goodbye, she didnt say a word. Even I love you would have been nice. Seems like these two have forgotten those three words, even the signal seems to have disappeared.

Well that was our Lollipop scene for today. Tomorrow will be Raghav entry during sari on fire and that will be our lollipop scene.

The day after will continue with that nautanki and then half way into yellow shirt and another lollipop scene in kitchen.

and so on...everyday we will get two mins of filler and till now no one has investigated anything even Pallavi is busy dealing with massages, cooking, cleaning, eating ladoo and together with Amruta cursing Mandhar. I mean Amruta was right, why should she tie Rakhi.....and what is pallavi's plan. She wants to act like she is with him but then what? What is she planning to do?