Mein karoon toh rasleela tum karo toh character dheela - Page 3

See the thing is no one can love you like your parents or your own family be it siblings, husband and children. But the question is not how much someone loves you. Sai is extremely unlucky that she never got a family apart from her Aaba who also died when she was still a teen. But she is extremely lucky to have people who aren't her own family members but who still love her. Life is not made of only parents, siblings, husband and children. Life is full of people you meet during your life journey. I am not even counting Virat as her husband but her guardian. The love she received from her guardian was way more than one could imagine. Even her small wishes were fulfilled by him. She is lucky enough to have a MIL who loves her like a daughter and supports her in everything. I am sure 80% of the women have either a very bad relationship with their MIL or are just cordial. But she has a MIL like a mother. She never had siblings but Mohit and now Sam are willingly ready to be brothers to her. Usha Maushi always considered her as her own daughter but apart a few times when Chavans insulted her, she hardly considered her as a family member. If you take everyone's efforts who aren't even your family for granted and don't value them then you are ungrateful. And sometimes I feel Sai doesn't want to accept that she actually has so many people around. I believe it's because she had only her Aaba for 18 years and she doesn't understand that other peoole can also love you and you can love them back. Friends, in-laws, colleagues, pets... let alone Virat, she gets confused about all her relationships. When angry Usha Maushi is no one to her. Ashwini is sometimes like her mother but then she will say "Mere koi aapne nahin hai". She will remember Virat's goodness when she is happy but will forget everything when sad. I hope she will realize that she needs to open her heart to understand about relationships and love.

Sai has to open up her heart to realise that whatever Virat has done uptil now is out of love and not responsibility. But, sadly she's turning a blind eye. And, I agree to what you mentioned about in laws and the first relation is from the spouse and for that too she has to accept Virat as a husband.

Relationships are complicated, though Ashwini loves her as a mother, she wasn’t able to do anything when Virat told her to leave CN. Same with Mohit, his relationship is through Virat, she is his Vahini. Sai's repeated loop about leaving CN makes all these relationships temporary.

She is alone apart from Virat, take him away and all her relationships go away too 😭 her outlook is sad. Sometimes it’s the dialogue that cause more debate than is necessary. I think the sentiment she expressed to Samrat was good but her words weren’t well chosen, this is the usual case for Sai

Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

Well i have a different take on sai behaviour with virat's family. Although she doesn't consider them her own but she generally does care for them and does all in her rights to not hurt his family. As her true nature of being angry lady, and brash girl only came out infront of her aaba and now virat. And in that process she hurts him more and more.

About pakhi i think she would be happy with divorcing samrat and leaving chavan nivas but when she will see the cafe kand and sai misunderstanding virat, she would have a hope to seperate sairat through sai this time and manipulate her. That's why she will choose to be Samrat's wife and not divorce him thinking that if she cant get her love than virat will also not get his love.

I agree with you but I think it will be Samrat who will take a 360° turn and will change his mind about the divorce since he might realise that Virat has moved on.

Green - Anger is nobody's friend. It not only harms others but us too. Sai is going through pain only because of her anger. When she's angry she doesn't realise what she's doing or saying and poor Virat has to bear everything. Is it fair for him? In her anger she doesn't give him a chance to speak up. Right now Virat's ignorance and his bitterness is hurting her too. Even today when Virat said there's no relation between them she showed him attitude as if she's not bothered.

Not 100% sure but she meets Virat at the cafe and asks his decision and he says he loves Sai. She starts her drama and Virat keeps his hand on her and at that very moment Sai enters. And, as usual she misunderstands him.

Originally posted by: fj08

Relationships are complicated, though Ashwini loves her as a mother, she wasn’t able to do anything when Virat told her to leave CN. Same with Mohit, his relationship is through Virat, she is his Vahini. Sai's repeated loop about leaving CN makes all these relationships temporary.

She is alone apart from Virat, take him away and all her relationships go away too 😭 her outlook is sad. Sometimes it’s the dialogue that cause more debate than is necessary. I think the sentiment she expressed to Samrat was good but her words weren’t well chosen, this is the usual case for Sai

Exactly. I find Sai complicated too.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

See the thing is no one can love you like your parents or your own family be it siblings, husband and children. But the question is not how much someone loves you. Sai is extremely unlucky that she never got a family apart from her Aaba who also died when she was still a teen. But she is extremely lucky to have people who aren't her own family members but who still love her. Life is not made of only parents, siblings, husband and children. Life is full of people you meet during your life journey. I am not even counting Virat as her husband but her guardian. The love she received from her guardian was way more than one could imagine. Even her small wishes were fulfilled by him. She is lucky enough to have a MIL who loves her like a daughter and supports her in everything. I am sure 80% of the women have either a very bad relationship with their MIL or are just cordial. But she has a MIL like a mother. She never had siblings but Mohit and now Sam are willingly ready to be brothers to her. Usha Maushi always considered her as her own daughter but apart a few times when Chavans insulted her, she hardly considered her as a family member. If you take everyone's efforts who aren't even your family for granted and don't value them then you are ungrateful. And sometimes I feel Sai doesn't want to accept that she actually has so many people around. I believe it's because she had only her Aaba for 18 years and she doesn't understand that other peoole can also love you and you can love them back. Friends, in-laws, colleagues, pets... let alone Virat, she gets confused about all her relationships. When angry Usha Maushi is no one to her. Ashwini is sometimes like her mother but then she will say "Mere koi aapne nahin hai". She will remember Virat's goodness when she is happy but will forget everything when sad. I hope she will realize that she needs to open her heart to understand about relationships and love.

Ye sai Joshi ka tareeka hai virat ko guilty mehsoos karne ka , whenever there is a fight she comes up with this.

U know it's a mental disorder , no where I m calling sai paagal coz every mental disorder is not related to paagalpan .

Some people do live with their real family but still feel they r alone , no one loves & cares about them . They fight with this strange feeling where they do get love but they fail to accept it .

Sai ki problem parental issue se related where she feels she can never have a family why coz her family broke after her mother's death when she was just a newly born, later KJ died , GC people rejected to be her family which made her believe she can never have a family.

Virat , Ashwani kitna bhi kar le sai ke liye humesha kam hi hoga .

Sai want d same unconditional love which KJ used to give but it's not possible coz no-one can replace ur parent.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Ye sai Joshi ka tareeka hai virat ko guilty mehsoos karne ka , whenever there is a fight she comes up with this.

U know it's a mental disorder , no where I m calling sai paagal coz every mental disorder is not related to paagalpan .

Some people do live with their real family but still feel they r alone , no one loves & cares about them . They fight with this strange feeling where they do get love but they fail to accept it .

Sai ki problem parental issue se related where she feels she can never have a family why coz her family broke after her mother's death when she was just a newly born, later KJ died , GC people rejected to be her family which made her believe she can never have a family.

Virat , Ashwani kitna bhi kar le sai ke liye humesha kam hi hoga .

Sai want d same unconditional love which KJ used to give but it's not possible coz no-one can replace ur parent.

Exactly my point. It's not like Sai doesn't have anyone or she isn't loved. She is not ready to accept it. She lived in that bubble that she only has her Aaba as family for 18 years. I hope in the future she will see the world differently. We all grow up and get mature. We see things differently. What's impossible when we are a teen becomes possible when adult.

lol ! Miguet aapke nadaan sapne poore ho gaye.. Sai is back in her dupatta 😆 btw! nice post as usual

Beautiful post as always!! I'm feeling so bad for SaiRat but secretly also enjoying it, it's just a treat to watch angsty SaiRat. Their chemistry is something else! Loved the episode! Sai-Sam-V's chemistry is a treat to watch and even Yogi's acting is improving. It takes some time to get in the role I suppose...