Not to contradict you.. but few points put inlineâŠ
masin, I am working on a fan fiction in which Kirti gets to express her feelings in words instead of just her cartoonish facial expressions on the show. Kirti is a working woman (she still goes to the office as far as I know), and her earnings allowed her AmmÄ to live with dignity when she disapproved of Raghav. Now, AmmÄ is fine with spending Raghav's ill-gotten money and dolling up with her new daughter Pallavi; thus, Kirti is expected to live in Raghav's home as an afterthought of the family, take expensive gifts from Raghav, who slaps her if she tells him off, and allow him to plan her wedding. Shouldn't Kirti be angry?
Raghav used to subsidize their expenses without them knowing and Kirti used to run to Raghav whenever there is any issue ⊠be it Amma in hospital or jail.. even now for her sake Raghav was ready to sacrifice himself and jail without hesitation and without a second thought about his reputationâŠ
Raghav did slap kirti but once when she was trying to elope⊠I am not sure whether raghav slapped her when she spoke ill about him just before her birthday⊠but she instigated him a lot..(I am not defending him but I felt that Kirti is also not that saint)
Kirti was fine with Sunny's idea to live together without marriage, except that AmmÄ and Raghav wouldn't approve. AmmÄ used to tell Raghav that she trusts Kirti; Kirti doesn't have to tell her who her male friends are; if Kirti needs protection from Akash, she has AmmÄ and Raghav should desist from matchmaking ... and now, that same AmmÄ is disrespecting the fact that Kirti is taken. Never mind that Sunny is a loser and he was ready to violate Kirti with his drugged pasta; Kirti has every right to feel offended that her decision - hers alone - isn't respected.
Yes Amma told Raghav to not to interfere in Kirtiâs life and she trusts her and she has no boyfriendâŠ
Kirti was in process of running away when Amma first got to know that Kirti had a boyfriend .. secondly she wanted to go in Live-in relationship
thirdly the guy she claims to be her bf, has insulted amma just few days ago.. she did not like the guy ..
and Amma did blame Raghav at that point that due to irresponsible (nalayak) him, she lost her well-behaved (layak) daughter .. then Pallavi made her see another side of coin.. and then only she accepted Raghav..
also, Kirti took pride and even boasted to Sunny about the fact that Raghav is way too possessive for her and doesnât like any guy who even look at her (typical big brother trait)
she only got pissed when she got to know that Raghav tried to buy him off .. and later became happy when Raghav agreed for the match .. so she always had this yo-yo personality ⊠its not like her wishes are not respectedâŠ
Why is there one rule for Pallavi choosing Raghav who has committed intentional crimes against her and others (plus drunk driving on at least two occasions),
I donât recall Raghav drunk driving, first time Farhad was driving when he picked Pallavi from the road,
recently also he took a driver along after award function fiascoâŠ
may be I missed any occasion but do mention thatâŠ
and another rule for Kirti choosing Sunny who accidentally hit someone while driving drunk, and drove away?
The problem is not with only running away, there are other flaws as well.. he is rude to Kirti.. where Kirti was desperately trying to save him, he never once tried to back her up and even made plans to flew the country leaving her behind..
one cannot compare Raghav and Sunny .. Raghav does a lot of mistakes but he owns up to them⊠he doesnât run away like a coward Sunny..
The show could have made Kirti responsible for the hit-and-run without losing her positive character traits. I wish the creative team had made the effort.