Originally posted by: Rollingdeep
Can I just say one thing that I didn’t like how he called the jewellers for imlie? Maybe it’s me but he only did that cos Didi said she felt bad …m… eventhough he knows that all this is not important to her and she doesn’t believe in all this . I felt it was unnecessary. He could have just said that he knows she doesn’t hold all this as important and that would have nailed the scene IMO
Again disagree.. he called them because even if it is not important for her it is her haq as the bahu of the family as he himself said sirf kartaveya nibha rahe hain and he doesn't want imlie to ever ever feel lesser the anyone esp when it comes to these things.. it is important for him to give her good memories to give her what she deserves.. which is what he again cleared that he knows imlie kabhi kuch nahi mangegi but just caz someone isn't asking doesn't mean they don't deserve it and should get it..that he himself forgets caz her dil and zarf(the urdu word) is so bada ke they always give her the short end
It may not be important for them but the society is superficial which is what didi is and that is what he told her ke he knows for her it is nothing but he doesn't want anyone to ever put her down based on the superficial.things that she doesn't have gehne etc. Watch the subsequent scene..it is her maan bahdhana and he did. She may not want it as such ke parwah nahi hai kya karna hai but regardless every girl has a wish that she gets something as a token as a shagun bas woh ek baat paakki feeling hi hoti hai . If not laalch woh khushi woh special feel hona. And that is what adi did. Ke kaide se sab imlie ka hi hai as she is the bahu his mother did wrong by giving it to malini which was hers so he is just making it up
I found it beautiful and it is not the materialistic aspect as was clear by what he said baar baar even even he recapped it to her he immediately firmly said HUM nahi maante aise but hum also wants you to have it caz it is yours.. again that yaad aspect shined that token aspect that she deserves to be showered with love ..it was more a token of love than material thing caz Imlie ke liye bhi wohi matter karta hai.. adi's small action to give her some good memory related to a tangible thing. I got flashback of the other scene where he felt thenoain acutely ke she doesn't even have a happy memory regarding her joda and imlie refused..again worth noticing is how she gave him a look ke nahi chahiye and his request ke plz rakh lo na rakh logi..h knows nahi maane gi..but he Never wants anyone to taunt her ever on these bekaar ki things and make her feel chota.or even call her gandi things caz she doesn't have these..
Plz remember this is the girl who only got trauma in regards to her wedding day her wedding outfit etc and again that pain was what he was trying to erase.. I capped it and am posting in a bit but it stood out the way he watches her when imlie with so much pride said hum toh ussi waqt saj gaye jab humare pati ne kahan ooka humpe vishwaas Hai.this is the girl we are talking about here even though she is in middle of jewels and could have picked them all and he wouldn't have objected for her nothing at all matters except her husband's faith..it was a slap on face of didi and even radha who were like she only wants this for monetary reasons.. who were trying to show her as greedy but apne hi chappat pad gayi.
Again small scene but said way too much about their bond.. she picked the most expensive one for didi which I know imlie was trying to be all sweet ke heera denge but woh didi ko twisted slap hi padh gaya ke she accused imlie of hiding the necklace caz of it's monetary worth.. but nope when she had the diamonds she didn't picked anything caz none of it was her motive ever..all she wants is pyaar and vishwaas as adi said again and again
Idk for my sanity I only watched first half of the episode and rest quickly skimmed through and I personally loved adi imlie bits brief but say a lot about what they are..
I also felt that didi ka sapna also will play out even then she is only feeling they are unbreakable.. really praying they remain unbreakable and keep stepping over every hurdle aise.
Once again aaj ka key was hum saath toh kya baat..the 2nd half became too disjointed though with them forgetting imlie exists but am gonna pretend I didn't see and I guess Monday ko kar leinge token mention
Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago