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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var


Lol but she ends up saying what is on her mind truly at that moment..and then covers up lamely imo. Others are too dumb to catch on or shove it under the rug..

Yes she did say that Imlie is attention seeking yesterday..

  1. she is not required or rather her presence is no longer required at the TH
  2. Imlie will have to leave this TH one day
  3. behave yourself
  4. Attention seeking behavior
  5. why didn't Imlie protest when asked to wear the dress/makeup for the dance
  6. champi
  7. chai

Anything I left do include... 🤣 should keep a running tab on the laundry list of Dd ka misdeeds..

+Sindoor mangalsutra

Moti Roti 😂 how can we miss it 🤗


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: raaz19

Okay since I have finally managed to gather my tho💭 I will just so that the only conclusion I could draw from the episode and the whole shot in the story was that the makers were trying to show us that the biggest damage that will come as a storm in imlie and Aditya journey is there lack of communication over the dislike one person has shown to there relationship. If today’s behaviour is anything to go by Maline will jerk leave any stone unturned until she has what she wants at her disposal.

One could feel the indifference and neglect that Aditya was showing imlie and with it the hurt he threw her way. Just because she ignored Maline behaviour did not mean he should have checked in if she was okay. The very fact that he allowed Maline to think this was okay will be the cause of the crack in there relationship because it these small things that often do much more damage then outward dislike. I am sorry but just because it took him a long time to find his soulmate in imlie it doesn’t mean that she should take the risk to protect it. Protection doesn’t always have to be verbal his gestures are enough and today when he listens to Mithi and imlie and then focused back to what he knew of the woman was just plain 🤓 for the very fact that he himself once said that once feelings and opinions change and what we once knew what the truth no longer makes logical sense. So why is he not willing to accept that the woman he dated and married is not what she said she was.


He was so proud of his doom on interest with Maline but in the end that was not the truth of his own relationship because they where actually far more different then he realised until he met imie and spent time with her. Those differences became apparent and was what drove them apart. But him being a ostrich and not sharing does very flaws with Maline makes her believe that her relationship was far more valuable and today gave her the power to keep rank in his family and his relationship too.

The whole role of power play may be smart but at the end the matter of the heart is far more delicate. It may just be me but the worst thing for imlie right know is she is among people whom she considers her own yet she is all by herself. The scene was such a highlight of that fact for it both showed the lack of love and warmth she so yearns for and deserves. Today I wound say even Aditya made her feel so because he maybe present with her physical but emotionally I would say he was on another planet. He doesn’t realise he is doing it until she is gone.


this little act has at least reaffirmed imlie believe that one is far better of alone because know they have at least shown her there true colours. As they say the sailing sun can spark from afar yet one shadow is once making of a path that lets one leap to faith of freedom. When the choice is one of love and trust why would she compromise for it lays all within acceptance. She was so right to question this belief with her Sita Maya today for her faith has been her driving force for so long that today she wishes that power be washed out with the warmth of the love that matters to her the most.😎


Glad that the blanket of warmth was at least offered to her today by her mother whom became both her shield and council.


As for today’s episode I have to hold my breath till the thread is up to see if it’s worth the risk to watch once more for I don’t see Aditya making any changes today if what we have been getting so far has to be a measure of upcoming events 🤣

okay my rant is officially over 🤣🤣



Spot on, Raaz ji! Kya likha hai aapne ❤️


@bold: I feel the exact same. Maybe the writers don't intend to show Adi taking Imlie's trust for granted in the little things, but this is what is coming across to the viewers. He called Imlie immature when she's the one dealing with every situation in the most dignified and graceful manner. Him not suspecting that Malini could, in fact, still have feelings for him and may have lied when he'd directly asked her is not justified at all. Sure, it's not his fault Malini has trouble moving on, but if Malini's staying in his house, then this fact can obviously create friction among the three of them. He should understand that...

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Whatever765


LOL! So try next time muting and just looking at her emoting! You will feel she herself is zoned out..

🤣🤣 I need to try this ..

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Posted: 4 years ago

You have said it so well spot on with the whole Maline cannot move on phase ❤️ she is indeed in denial and has been since he has told her of his truth but most of all his desires and dreams. The very fact that she is not part of that makes her feel insufficient but most of all she cannot understand why he would not want or desire her. In her self esteem she believes and has been told so by her family that any man would want her. The fact that her father never could be truthful to his flaws also plays a role in her character because she believes that one should stick with what the know. But Aditya has moved on and has shown he wants to win his choices and with it his happiness.


He has shown her and told her that he feels the safest and secure when he is with imie and imlie alone. For he is the man he wants to be and is within and he doesn’t have to filter that to be what he believes Maline may need. It had thus allowed him to bring across his hurt and fears and somehow has also helped him claim the truth that he hid for so long . The pain with was always his inner demon struggling to do right by everyone.

But Maline denial and lack of acceptance shows clearly that she understands what she is doing and why. Before when she walked away and caused self harm we could relate to her because she was shown to be a victim of broken dreams and the willingness to move on was hard because of her home. Today she is both wiser and aware of Aditya feelings and the pain she will gain for this is her own flaw to own.


it’s just sad to see that everyone feels her acts are justified and can be hidden as ill health when we all an see that it’s just plain jealousy. I may be on my own but why should imlie be the one to always accept her wounds and allow them to heal with time. Just because with time we can learn to walk with them doesn’t mean they hurt us any less. For the scars never lessen but the pain does increase especially if the hurt is caused but one you deemed your own. Today imlie is at a cross road where she is in pain on both sides and so for can see no end. As Aditya has told her not to forget there love so symbolically showing her his trust and at other end she has to attain this by showing her sister that her love was never hers to own form the start it was imlie instead.

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