Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 56

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Infatuation happens when you aren't in love with anyone Bondu ko abhi aur koi infatuation nehi hoga. Kisne bola Bondu ko infatuation nehi Hua? 😆 8 Saal pehle initially ANIRUDH ek infatuation hi tha Bondu ka 🤣 Now it has developed into much deeper feelings. Pre leap Bondita was infatuated only.

no i was saying ki thoda realistic dikhaaana hota and hyptotheticall like u talked about anirudh feelings for mao and mini-i was saying maybe koi 8 years bondita ke growing years the usmein kisi ko admire karte(liki ani admired mano lekin uska useke loya pauyr accpet karna,zbkp kehna was eally wrong
0 dikhaate toh kya hum bash karte use

like u talked about the context of anirudh

likle she was alone there away from her sakha babu and maybe koi hota jisle uski saath ek bond banti toh

kyunki life unpredictable hoti -makeors ne voh dikhaaya nahi but realistically we could assume or not

kya hum use bash karte

nahi karte

isliye i am saying feelis feelings hai

Originally posted by: Kri18

Pehle precap nahi Dia ab episode,

Is Wale episode me lagta hai ya toh Anirudh Bondita Ko wapis KN bhej dega ya phir , Som ,TRC , CC sab milke Rudhita ka ek chutki Sindoor wali shaadi me naagin dance karenge .

Most probably...but I feel som ko thappad padna is sure....I feel binoy bachayega aur sacch boldega ki bon ne usko bachaya naki maarne ki koshish ki....apart from BV no other show is uploaded yet..... stupid voot 😒 🙄

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Shaadi nahi hui , bon look is out she is without sindoor

Maybe usne lagane se mana kar diya ho...ya ussne ani ko rokh diya ho shaadi karne se.... because she wants pyaar waali shadhi and not majboori one like pre-leap🧐🧐🤔🤔🤔

Originally posted by: Kri18

Pehle precap nahi Dia ab episode,

Is Wale episode me lagta hai ya toh Anirudh Bondita Ko wapis KN bhej dega ya phir , Som ,TRC , CC sab milke Rudhita ka ek chutki Sindoor wali shaadi me naagin dance karenge .

But seriously, hai kya iss epi mai jo itna secrecy maintain kar rahe jai

Originally posted by: Katy4566

no i was saying ki thoda realistic dikhaaana hota and hyptotheticall like u talked about anirudh feelings for mao and mini-i was saying maybe koi 8 years bondita ke growing years the usmein kisi ko admire karte(liki ani admired mano lekin uska useke loya pauyr accpet karna,zbkp kehna was eally wrong
0 dikhaate toh kya hum bash karte use

like u talked about the context of anirudh

likle she was alone there away from her sakha babu and maybe koi hota jisle uski saath ek bond banti toh

kyunki life unpredictable hoti -makeors ne voh dikhaaya nahi but realistically we could assume or not

kya hum use bash karte

nahi karte

isliye i am saying feelis feelings hai

Abbey Jo bhi ladka Bondu K pass geya hoga during her London stay Bondu se Sakha Babu Ki story sun sun K Pak geya hoga thus only her Chomu friend survived 😆 Baki sab bhag Gaye 🤣

Jokes apart, I am getting what you are trying to say but in ITV female leads aren't allowed to get infatuated with anyone other than the hero n in some cases villain. 😆 This is implied rule of ITV 🤔

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Feelings are feelings.... Sometimes you don't even know why on earth you feel soft towards a certain person. I have seen after breakup people wondering what made them fall in the 1st place 😆 So Anirudh's experience with Mini n Mano I find quite natural as I personally believe he was in love with the idea of love with Mini, he was kinda habituated with the idea of marrying Mini as he himself confessed "Meri aadat jo woh kharab hai" this one line explains MiniRudh for me. Manorama was outright infatuation. In blast episode when he went to Bondita 1st instead of Manorama that scene itself explained Mano's position in his life. Before marrying Mano he was infatuated but after marrying Mano he kinda got diverted to Bondita again that's what we call infatuation because love lasts where infatuation gets vanished and that's exactly why Ani wasn't much bothered about Mano after blast episode. However just like you I want Anirudh to TELL all these things to BONDITA.

I agree, feelings are just feelings... you have no control over them but what we do have control over is our understanding of those feelings and how we define them to ourselves.

Like the example you just mentioned, many people date and break up then wonder why they even fell in love in the first place? These people usually do not analyze or understand themselves properly so they confuse their emotions and label it as love, they have these wrong notions about how love should be and they keep meeting the same string of characters again and again and again until they finally gain that clarity that whatever they felt so far had never truly been love, it was just driven by other emotions like lust, infatuation, loneliness, etc etc.

If they take time and just look within then they will figure out what made them do what they did, what is the actual truth of their emotions.

That's exactly what I meant in regards to Anirudh. This guy has not fallen in love to even understand it, he THINKS he has experienced love but he hasn't and he still does not realize the fact that what he felt was not love, at least, I don't believe he has actually reflected over these experiences. He is very quick to call Mini, the love of his life and Mano, his ZBKP but I have yet to see him look back and realize it wasn't what he thought at all.

I am not sure if we might get him telling Bondita about all this but I would love for that to happen, because it is needed for them to move on to the next stage in their relationship. She needs to know to understand him better as a man.

Originally posted by: .Rinnie.

I agree, feelings are just feelings... you have no control over them but what we do have control over is our understanding of those feelings and how we define them to ourselves.

Like the example you just mentioned, many people date and break up then wonder why they even fell in love in the first place? These people usually do not analyze or understand themselves properly so they confuse their emotions and label it as love, they have these wrong notions about how love should be and they keep meeting the same string of characters again and again and again until they finally gain that clarity that whatever they felt so far had never truly been love, it was just driven by other emotions like lust, infatuation, loneliness, etc etc.

If they take time and just look within then they will figure out what made them do what they did, what is the actual truth of their emotions.

That's exactly what I meant in regards to Anirudh. This guy has not fallen in love to even understand it, he THINKS he has experienced love but he hasn't and he still does not realize the fact that what he felt was not love, at least, I don't believe he has actually reflected over these experiences. He is very quick to call Mini, the love of his life and Mano, his ZBKP but I have yet to see him look back and realize it wasn't what he thought at all.

I am not sure if we might get him telling Bondita about all this but I would love for that to happen, because it is needed for them to move on to the next stage in their relationship. She needs to know to understand him better as a man.

Absolutely 👍🏼 Well said 👏 No wonder I love talking to you 😆 People are quick to fall and sometimes even more quick to move on but they never really ponders upon those WH questions before it's too late. Sometimes we confuse our needs with our desires in the same way we get confused between love and infatuation.

I feel Anirudh NOW knows this. He knows more than what he shows 😆 Yeah even I doubt we will get this but as you mentioned, it is NEEDED for them to grow. Bondita needs to know this. Anirudh needs to speak up which obviously he wouldn't because he knows how much possessive Bondita is about him 🤪 🤣 That's why I want Bondita herself to raise this topic and ask him 😎

Originally posted by: castlebones

But seriously, hai kya iss epi mai jo itna secrecy maintain kar rahe jai

Babaji ka thullu hain just for a change..😛

Good night peeps..🤗❤️

Mujhe shadi track chahiye 😭 yar ... Ekta show already marriage track started 😕i don't know why people are tagging that show on barrister babu tag