Heartbreaking. - Page 11

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold well said. He should atleast understand now that Sai is still in that mandap with his vaada, Pakhis taunts, crying, talking about her eternal love story day in and day out reverberating in her ears 😢. Expect for a few situations he has never shut Pakhi up when she talks BS, how is she supposed to read his mind 🙄.

@bold italic- I manifested this scene and so was disappointed that makers did not call out Virats hypocrisy. It was a good time to show him the mirror 🙄 on how Sai feels each time his dost strolls into their room to start fighting.

And this disconcerting familiarity I never understood how p knows so much about Virat. For goodness sake, she didn't even know his last name or what he does. Makers really wanted to portray this as some Amar prem where as it turned out to be like a 1 night stand without s*x🤣🤣

@red LoL 🤣🤣

They did do yoga though....does that substitute for half s*x? 🤣

By disconcerting familiarity, I meant how comfortable they are with each other...the liberties they takes with each other. Walking into each other's room, Pakhi bringing food for him in his room, Virat holding her hand in excitement..etc😡

@green Yeah that manifestation did not work. When Ashwini came to Virat's bedroom when he was with Pakhi, I was slightly excited. But she is useless...she did give it to Pakhi (which she deserved) but cannot see her own son's faults in this...🤔

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold all this after Pakhi clearly told him multiple times she feels more for him than a friend and wants the same in return. Anyone in Virats place would stay miles away from her after her shameless mere pyaar breakdown in his room 🙄. Not to forget how she was boasting about participating in the skit for Virat and no one else since he is special to her. I still recall sais painfully uncomfortable look she gave Virat 😢

Yep. The fact that he knows about Pakhi's obsession for him makes it all the more crazy. Even someone with minimum IQ would know to stay away. I really don't know what to make of it - because it defies logic.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

@red LoL 🤣🤣

They did do yoga though....does that substitute for half s*x? 🤣

By disconcerting familiarity, I meant how comfortable they are with each other...the liberties they takes with each other. Walking into each other's room, Pakhi bringing food for him in his room, Virat holding her hand in excitement..etc😡

@green Yeah that manifestation did not work. When Ashwini came to Virat's bedroom when he was with Pakhi, I was slightly excited. But she is useless...she did give it to Pakhi (which she deserved) but cannot see her own son's faults in this...🤔

@bold don't give ideas to didi. Anyways her story and narration of their less than 2 hour story keeps changing and more scenes get added 🙄. Sai will leave Veeru immediately if Didi says this 🤣🤣

@ italic this was definitely a trigger for Sai even from the initial days of marriage. But sadly Virat let Pakhi behave as per her wish 🙄. Come to their room and unnecessarily fight with sai for which Sai was reprimanded for insulting Didi 🙄

Originally posted by: Nja91

I think virat feels like if he never brings up pp or recalls/clarifies about pp that chapter eilo get deleted but sadly for the chapter to be deleted he needs to tell his wife everything from A to Z. Sunny knows everything but Sai doesn't....

Virat wants Sai to realize that he wouldn't do so much for her including plead her to no leave ONLY out of zimmedari.

But Sai is stuck on the fact that he wouldn't make a promise of never allowing a woman into his life/heart and tell her not to have expectations fr him if he ONLY had a crush on pp.....to her he has already loved someone n thats final. So no matter what the outcome he has already loved , he cant love again.

So i understand both their povs.

But i feel the onus is on virat- instead of denying, making light, brushing aside, hoping to forget the past, he needs to explain it all to Sai. He needs to confront n speak about it rather than trying to brush it away.

Explain that vaada was out of love for samrat, not pp. It was a bad choice of words in a desperate time. That there was NO love, only infatuation with pp. He told pp once- that they never even had a relationship, thats why virat never "fought" for her in the first place...he liked her but nothing came of it, he moved on now. But Sai does not understand it like that. Sai doesn't know anything. All she knows is that they were these "love birds" that have had a tragic separation n unrequited love. She just wants to get herself out from being in between. What they do afterwards with their messy situation, given that pp is his vahini is their lookout ....

I think at many points because pp is married to samrat, Sai has tried to gauge if she is ready to move on but she has seen that she is obsessed with virat....

So she just wants to not be in the middle of it.

But she battles her heart because the easiest thing would be to just leave....go to hostel. But she falls weak. She cant leave virat or CN coz they have all become her family. She did what she didnt want to- get attached to them.

@ bold - yes, virat is always running away from past or talk about his past with pp.... trying to avoid... contrary makes sai more suspicious / convinced... that he has feeling for pp... even now.

@ green: a must needed clarification before he confesses .... otherwise there is no meaning of his words.... it is not going to be registered in sai's heart.... even though.... she might already have feelings for virat.... she is not going to accept .... it...until virat clears that vaada - pp past and present to pp, samrat & sai!

When in yesterday's episode sai started to say to that stranger woman about her deal marriage I remembered welcome movie.

Remember that scene from welcome movie where uday bhai ask to one of his goons to narrate the story of how that goon's leg got broken and he starts like a tape recorder...."ek bar uday bhai ko bahut gussa aa gaya tha....." He does it without fail in front of everyone.🤣

I imagined sai doing that... Playing her recorded message about deal marriage in front of everyone she comes across.🤣🤣🤣

Imagine- sairat in a shop

Virat- sai ye yellow dress tumpar achhi lagegi.

Salesman- yes mam aap apna size bata dijiye main right size mein nikalwa leta hoon. By the way aap dono bahut cute lagte hain sath mein, what a lovely couple.

Virat- sai, bata do....

Sai- hamari shadi asli shadi nahi hai, wo toh ek deal hai, virat sir be meri zimmedari uthai hai...😳

Virat- arre sai, ye sab nahi, inhe dress ka size bata do

Sai- oh!😳

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold true.

She needs to know about their past and Virat has to share it with her. I think he is not comfortable sharing it with her. He doesn’t want to ruin the chance or make her upset. He had come to know from Sunny that Sai gets affected when he talks with Pakhi, so he probably thinks that if that is the case, how will he be able to tell her about their past. He is worried that it would upset Sai, might be worried how she would react to it if he shared about it and hence instead of sharing his past with her, he is trying to confess his feelings for her through his words and gestures which is pleasant and which is something a person will feel nice when they hear rather than hearing unpleasant things like his past.

He just has to take a chance in this case and not fear of anything else. The chances of him losing her is more when he doesn’t open up. He just doesn’t realise that yet.

Hmm...I think this could be the reason he is so hesitant to talk about his past. It intrigues me why he doesn't open up on his past - he keeps the issue drag till it all explodes into the open - like during Harinee birthday.

He is reading the situation completely wrong. He has to rip off the bandage. Tell Sai everything about his past. Allow her to ask as many questions and be honest in answering all those. If she is to be his wife she is entitled to know everything.

I think if they had a normal marriage things may still have sorted out despite Virat's jalebi-giving tendencies. Sai would have cornered him and beaten the crap out of him 😆(metaphorically) - and he would have been forced to come clean. Now, Sai doesn't feel she has the right to question him - so instead she clams up at his jalebis.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold there's was not even a past story really to narrate. He can actually tell what exactly the silly yoga girl said and that sunny baba told him he was in love🤣 and they never spoke until the wedding. 2 minutes the story will finish and we can see Sai rolling on the floor 😂. Seriously if not Virat I want sunny to reveal their 2 hour story which Didi makes it look like Janam Janam kaa rishta waala Amar prem kahani. Atleast she will understand Didi is dilusional 🙄.

@italic word. He needs to man up. If he had the courage to spew all that BS during the wedding he needs the same courage to clear up the mess he created.

If virat can't confess , he can at least clear.out.to sai that pakhi means nothing to him. Kya woh bhi mushkil.hai?

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Today's episode was heart wrenching💔.

I don't have much inputs, but the situation is like, Neither can be blamed or both are to be equally blamed. Nothing in between.

Their fights have always added to progression of their relationship, but this fight was a different one. More than fighting with each other, they, especially Sai, were fighting with their inner demons, insecurities and emotions. I hope this fight turns out to be a beneficial one for their relationship just like the previous ones.

I so so wish that Sai get a close confidante with whom she can share all her feelings and insecurities sans filter. Just like how Sunny is for Virat.

Neil was fab as always. And Ayesha, DAMNNN, the girl is improving with each episode and how. Ayesha was undoubtedly, the queen in today's episode.

It is soo frustrating to see people blame Sai this harshly. Why the f*ck do people forget that she is JUST A 19 YO FREAKING ORPHANED TEENAGER. This age is meant for enjoying life, and how easily people expect her to behave like a wife, when her husband has not cleared any of her misunderstanding. That girl didn't even get time and space to grieve for her father's demise. Baba, some people really get on my nerves.

My take.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold true.

She needs to know about their past and Virat has to share it with her. I think he is not comfortable sharing it with her. He doesn’t want to ruin the chance or make her upset. He had come to know from Sunny that Sai gets affected when he talks with Pakhi, so he probably thinks that if that is the case, how will he be able to tell her about their past. He is worried that it would upset Sai, might be worried how she would react to it if he shared about it and hence instead of sharing his past with her, he is trying to confess his feelings for her through his words and gestures which is pleasant and which is something a person will feel nice when they hear rather than hearing unpleasant things like his past.

He just has to take a chance in this case and not fear of anything else. The chances of him losing her is more when he doesn’t open up. He just doesn’t realise that yet.

@bold this is what confused me, if he is worried he doesn't know how Sai would react and so is not sharing, how come he did not notice the hurt when the yoga lady was blabbering 🤣. His character is contradicting