Heartbreaking. - Page 9

Originally posted by: Shaome

It was painful to watch.. For Sai it was a journey of love and so much pain that she didn't even want to relive that moment. For Virat it was a journey love, breath and his reason to live..

Both are right from their perspective.. Sai is back to in her shell.. It's so hard any woman to accept when her husband's keep on reminding him that he cheated on her.

She wouldn't be so angry if she did not hear all those rubbish from yoga teacher and the story.

The wall is so thick ,now both SaiRat can break it rebuild their love in a all new form..

With Samrat's entry she will misunderstand him even more ...but I am keen on knowing how she realises that how virat loves her..

I have zero hopes from the writer.. Instead overhyping they should concentrate on the story and execution..

They have to come with a solid storyline.Zimmedari farz are Bering over stretched

Bold - 💯 they have to concentrate on strengthening the plot instead of blindly copy pasting.

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Again blasted is a poor choice of words from my part.. I meant more in terms of calling out her BS. It's not like he never called out Pakhi for her behavior. He fails to do it infront of Sai.. which is very important.

Pakhi threatening to leave the house is a frequent occurrence and if he was worried about it, he wouldn't have called her out at all, ever. He has showed Pakhi her place many times, but not infront of Sai.

The onus lied with him to put things in perspective when Pakhi was talking about him breaking her hopes and dreams in front of his wife.

I want him to be prudent in heeding to his wife's nuances in such matters.

I am a person who supports Virat to the fullest.. I just want him to have candid communication with Sai and explain his entire past and the Waada etc..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I agree. He should elaborately tell everything begining with yoga camp. Sai deserves to know his past.

Still I wonder why Sai could not distinguish between the looks he gives to her and to Pakhi which are widely different? In yesterday episode Sai tells Virat that girls do realise very fast. Then Why she is not feeling the unmistaken love in Virat’s eyes for her? Did he ever look at Pakhi that way? No.

I wish when Virat withdrew himself ,Sai would recollect all the happenings of one year and decide for herself.

I think she does feel it and that is what is making her fearful..She is not able to understand her feelings, his feelings and she has no one like Sunny to talk to..Even for Virat if you look at it, It was Sunny who made him understand he loves Sai and Virat did not understand it himself...Infact for that matter Sunny made him realise that Sai could be jealous of Pakhi and hence behaves this way , while all along Virat was totally clueless..Then again when Sunny says Sai loves him , he denied to believe and also called it Bakwaas..Its because of Sunny that he has reached this space or would have kept on thinking its zimmedaari...The first time he got upset with Amey, there was no zimmedaari there...but did he realise? No..

How would she know how he looked at Pakhi when they were together...How is she to gather if he is just restraining himself from giving those looks to Pakhi because he is in a marriage and she as well is..How is she to forget the deal the vaada, when that waada is always looming around her room to ridicule her to call out Virat for cheating her..That is why I say its very important for her to know the details of relationship that Virat has with Pakhi even before jumping to confession.. Just on her birthday Pakhi was talking about her dreams, him ditching her him making her cry on a daily basis and Virat stood there mum.. WHat is Sai to think those waadas and khwaaishes were? Did he clarify there was never such thing even in their private room.. She is not able to realise because she wants to protect herself from heartbreak.. She still believes that he is in love with Pakhi and just trying to compromise himself.. On top of that Pakhi keeps going on and on about how he is cheating her...

Looks are not just enough for young girls like her..specially her who have been told that there is a live long love for another person on their marraige day and who has never witnesses the love a husband and wife share ever in her life..The first time she saw it when she came across Pulkit and was overwhelmed with it.. She holds high regards for love between a man and woman and she holds Virat's and Pakhi's love to be that..She sees everything Virat does for her as care and concern..And when she sees him giving those looks to her she gets scared and conscious and the moment she tries to accept it, something or the other w.r.t. Virat's past comes into picture.. You see even after the confrontation she witnessed between Virat and Pakhi, she said I had forgotten all this, I was in my dream world for some time now and now I have been awaken from my sleep...

We know Virat does not love Pakhi, we know the conversation he had with Pakhi..but does Sai know ??

1) Tells her while taking marriage vows that this shaadi is nothing but a deal while looking sadly at Pakhi.. Also do remember Sai says its a deal only when she sees him saying that while doing his saat pheras, the first time he said that she did not say anything or retaliate with her leaving him.

2He asked her to get trained by her .

3) Asked her to behave with her.

4) Called her his pyaari cheez.

5) Called her his pyaar then Dost.

6) Got back to call her Dost and then asking Sai to befriend her...just before holi and kidnapping.

7)And now Sai sees him sometimes getting angry and irritated with her.

8) Witnesses waada talk.

9) He tells her he is not committed to her. Nothing about the love and vaada.

10) She is always outside the door and still taunts Sai..sometimes questions Virat for breaking her heart.

What as per Sai has changed between them ??

He said I want that marriage , but he also after that said, she is his zimmedaari not once many times..What is she to believe that he wants the marriage and is also a zimmedaari to him..How does she need to get it that this marriage would be because of love when his overbearing ex keeps accusing him and her as some jilted lover and all he does is okay fine, say whatever you want to, without even clarifying it to Sai that there were no such khwaaishein and talks of relationship that she keeps blabbering about..

Does Sai even know that this love story is just a two day old, where Pakhi and him shared number , he lost her number and Pakhi went to block him and they directly met at Samrat's marriage..?

Does she even know that they had hardly spent time to discuss love or life?

Does she know Pakhi was anyway marrying Samrat, Virat or no Virat in picture?

Does she know whatever they had in between them has been clarified by Virat to pakhi that its no more, she to him his just his elder brother's wife and would remain so, Sai or no Sai in picture?

She probably thinks they were in love, spent some good time with each other and got separated because of her..She does not even know the reason of their separation. A wife with whom the husband wants to move on, does not even deserve to know the whole story of the past that keeps looming around her room and accusing her of having rights on her won husband when he is not around... Does she not deserve to know all this, before she is told that she is loved by her husband... Any wife deserves this..A wife who is always blamed by the ex for using her husband's money, accused of having haq on her, not just by the ex but also by the family members before understanding the actions of her husband..

I would have been at Virat's side had he cleared all these questions raised here and still made such efforts and Sai denied to acknowledge them.. But right now even If I want I cant side him as such, because of the complications he has developed around her and her emotions.. I also believe he need not even tell her he loves her, but just that there is no love in him for Pakhi not even platonic.!! Because she thinks by being with her he is cheating Pakhi...who is always crying outside her room..

Looks are not enough when the base of relationship was set with such harsh terms and conditions.. It was not Sai who came up with those terms, but Virat...And the onus is on him to nullify those terms and conditions in as clear words as they were set, when he decides to move on with her..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I think she does feel it and that is what is making her fearful..She is not able to understand her feelings, his feelings and she has no one like Sunny to talk to..Even for Virat if you look at it, It was Sunny who made him understand he loves Sai and Virat did not understand it himself...Infact for that matter Sunny made him realise that Sai could be jealous of Pakhi and hence behaves this way , while all along Virat was totally clueless..Then again when Sunny says Sai loves him , he denied to believe and also called it Bakwaas..Its because of Sunny that he has reached this space or would have kept on thinking its zimmedaari...The first time he got upset with Amey, there was no zimmedaari there...but did he realise? No..

How would she know how he looked at Pakhi when they were together...How is she to gather if he is just restraining himself from giving those looks to Pakhi because he is in a marriage and she as well is..How is she to forget the deal the vaada, when that waada is always looming around her room to ridicule her to call out Virat for cheating her..That is why I say its very important for her to know the details of relationship that Virat has with Pakhi even before jumping to confession.. Just on her birthday Pakhi was talking about her dreams, him ditching her him making her cry on a daily basis and Virat stood there mum.. WHat is Sai to think those waadas and khwaaishes were? Did he clarify there was never such thing even in their private room.. She is not able to realise because she wants to protect herself from heartbreak.. She still believes that he is in love with Pakhi and just trying to compromise himself.. On top of that Pakhi keeps going on and on about how he is cheating her...

Looks are not just enough for young girls like her..specially her who have been told that there is a live long love for another person on their marraige day and who has never witnesses the love a husband and wife share ever in her life..The first time she saw it when she came across Pulkit and was overwhelmed with it.. She holds high regards for love between a man and woman and she holds Virat's and Pakhi's love to be that..She sees everything Virat does for her as care and concern..And when she sees him giving those looks to her she gets scared and conscious and the moment she tries to accept it, something or the other w.r.t. Virat's past comes into picture.. You see even after the confrontation she witnessed between Virat and Pakhi, she said I had forgotten all this, I was in my dream world for some time now and now I have been awaken from my sleep...

We know Virat does not love Pakhi, we know the conversation he had with Pakhi..but does Sai know ??

1) Tells her while taking marriage vows that this shaadi is nothing but a deal while looking sadly at Pakhi.. Also do remember Sai says its a deal only when she sees him saying that while doing his saat pheras, the first time he said that she did not say anything or retaliate with her leaving him.

2He asked her to get trained by her .

3) Asked her to behave with her.

4) Called her his pyaari cheez.

5) Called her his pyaar then Dost.

6) Got back to call her Dost and then asking Sai to befriend her...just before holi and kidnapping.

7)And now Sai sees him sometimes getting angry and irritated with her.

8) Witnesses waada talk.

9) He tells her he is not committed to her. Nothing about the love and vaada.

10) She is always outside the door and still taunts Sai..sometimes questions Virat for breaking her heart.

What as per Sai has changed between them ??

He said I want that marriage , but he also after that said, she is his zimmedaari not once many times..What is she to believe that he wants the marriage and is also a zimmedaari to him..How does she need to get it that this marriage would be because of love when his overbearing ex keeps accusing him and her as some jilted lover and all he does is okay fine, say whatever you want to, without even clarifying it to Sai that there were no such khwaaishein and talks of relationship that she keeps blabbering about..

Does Sai even know that this love story is just a two day old, where Pakhi and him shared number , he lost her number and Pakhi went to block him and they directly met at Samrat's marriage..?

Does she even know that they had hardly spent time to discuss love or life?

Does she know Pakhi was anyway marrying Samrat, Virat or no Virat in picture?

Does she know whatever they had in between them has been clarified by Virat to pakhi that its no more, she to him his just his elder brother's wife and would remain so, Sai or no Sai in picture?

She probably thinks they were in love, spent some good time with each other and got separated because of her..She does not even know the reason of their separation. A wife with whom the husband wants to move on, does not even deserve to know the whole story of the past that keeps looming around her room and accusing her of having rights on her won husband when he is not around... Does she not deserve to know all this, before she is told that she is loved by her husband... Any wife deserves this..A wife who is always blamed by the ex for using her husband's money, accused of having haq on her, not just by the ex but also by the family members before understanding the actions of her husband..

I would have been at Virat's side had he cleared all these questions raised here and still made such efforts and Sai denied to acknowledge them.. But right now even If I want I cant side him as such, because of the complications he has developed around her and her emotions.. I also believe he need not even tell her he loves her, but just that there is no love in him for Pakhi not even platonic.!! Because she thinks by being with her he is cheating Pakhi...who is always crying outside her room..

Looks are not enough when the base of relationship was set with such harsh terms and conditions.. It was not Sai who came up with those terms, but Virat...And the onus is on him to nullify those terms and conditions in as clear words as they were set, when he decides to move on with her..

hai log nahi..Sai must be thinking that Pehla pyar hI pyar Hota hai . She being a teenager ,must be impressed by love stories read or watched which is natural but in reality there is no rule that people can not change and move on from their first love. Here Pakhi is not even his love ...we all know it. Sai doesn’t know..

Even if Virat tells his version of yoga story there is a chance that she may think he is changing facts to convince her and stick to their marriage. Sai believes Virat should not change specially not because of her..

So at this point I don’t think Virat clearing the Vada helps in any way. I think moving away from her is better option which eventually will happen as per KD.

Virat kal cake aur saare decorations ka murder karega🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I agree with everything you said but I also feel after hearing Sai say in today’s episode..vaqt ke sath Mausam badalna acha lagta

hai log nahi..Sai must be thinking that Pehla pyar hI pyar Hota hai . She being a teenager ,must be impressed by love stories read or watched which is natural but in reality there is no rule that people can not change and move on from their first love. Here Pakhi is not even his love ...we all know it. Sai doesn’t know..

Even if Virat tells his version of yoga story there is a chance that she may think he is changing facts to convince her and stick to their marriage. Sai believes Virat should not change specially not because of her..

So at this point I don’t think Virat clearing the Vada helps in any way. I think moving away from her is better option which eventually will happen as per KD.

But at least when he clears his stance, every stance in that case and then there is nothing to blame as far as he putting all his efforts in this relationship is concerned.. Things that are not cleared in relationship have the tendency of coming back again and again, till they are cleared.. Like in my last para, I mentioned, if he clears it and yet Sai is stuck with her theories then that's her demon to fight and not his..Then thats her doing and her path to follow.. and then them being separate is right..Atleast then Sai or anyone cannot come up with theories like oh you were in love with someone else and you never said otherwise.. Separation or no separation Sai needs to have a clear detail of the relationship that has been sitting on her head and had created havoc in her life for last one year... I do not mind the separation, of course their relationship needs it, but I mind Virat not clearing his stance on the vaada and his feelings with Pakhi.... This is one issue that can creep into their relationship anytime they face a weak moment.. My viewpoint!!

Baaki I also think Sai needs some one for herself like Virat has in Sunny Without Sunny Virat would not have reached here, not this soon!!

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Virat kal cake aur saare decorations ka murder karega🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold 😂😂. Why does he feel words are no longer needed I dont understand. He had so many words before the wedding, during the wedding and after the wedding. Looks like he used up all the quota of words he was allotted 🤣🤣. Such a mess he has created due to his immaturity 😂

@bold 🤣🤣

Don’t think he has used them all up. He still have some quota left to share wierd love stories at lovers point before he plans to confess his love and also to use word like zimmedari 🤣🤣.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat has been very insensitive and hypocritical as far as this aspect is concerned.

He has NEVER made Sai secure wrt his past love either by his actions or words. He let Pakhi spew venom in the past and even now Pakhi shows so much haq on the husband - as if it is her right to be angry/heartbroken over his 'bewafai'. As Sai's husband, he never shuts Pakhi up nor warns her to not say such inappropriate stuff. How will Sai think of herself as his wife then?

Whenever his past has come up between them, he has never been open about it. Just a few cryptic sentences here and there or complete avoidance. Even normal married couple would need a lot of reassurance in the circumstances they are in.

I badly wanted a blow up after the Ajinkya episode - that Sai should question Virat left, right , centre on his pyaarosti with bhabhi, walking into each other's rooms without even knocking, midnight rendezvous between ex-lovers, their disconcerting familiarity with each other... unfortunately my manifestations never came true. He cannot behave however he likes in a relationship.

Ther strange thing is he of all people should be sensitive of her feelings given how insecure he gets at the mere thought of Sai's friendship with a guy.

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Pooja, rdigest, sadiltl, asmi

I agree with everything you have said. Virat knows how Sai likes simple things and he loves it about her. All these celebration, tham jam is not going to help in anyway, he is not doing whatever is needed to save his relationship. Only thing that could make Sai realise what he feels for her is him clarifying about his past to Sai and also stand up against or confront Pakhi whenever she talks ill about Sai or whenever she accuses him that he has cheated her or whenever she tells that Sai has come in between them. Only when she can see him denying all claims of Pakhi can she even see that they don’t have anything between them. Only when Sai is reassured that there is nothing between him and Pakhi, that he doesn’t have any feelings for Pakhi, that he is not trying to act like an husband to Sai because they got married or out of obligation, will Sai be able to understand that she means something to him, he wants to give a chance to their relationship. Sai is not one who values materialistic things and this party is not going to make her feel their journey of togetherness. The moment when Virat showed her the photos, claiming that it was them together, Sai’s cluelessness, her hurt, her confusion said it all. They were together but she never was a part of it, she never even let her to be a part of it as per his expectations to not have expectations from him. It looked as though he was rubbing salt on her wounds because what he is claiming to be their journey of togetherness, she was living under an impression that he was fulfilling his responsibility, he has some other commitment, she was told that he cannot be her husband and she cannot be his wife. In that journey, she had only tried to ensure that she sticks to her end of the deal and the whole journey was painful to her because it would have taken a lot of courage and determination to not waiver, to not consider or look at their marriage as a real one, to not develop any expectations from him, to not fall for him, she had chided herself, brushed aside any kind of feelings that developed within her. She used to ask herself if she had started to like him and would not even let herself to think any further in those lines. Time and again she was made to feel as if she had come in between him and his love either by him in the initial days of their journey or by Pakhi till today which Virat fails to condemn or correct.

He wants to celebrate the journey because he had let himself to be a part of that journey, he could allow himself to have feelings for her and to also have expectations from her but she was told that this was all a sham at the beginning of the journey, she was told that he cannot give a place to her in his heart or life, had asked her not to have expectations from him as a wife and hence she never let herself to be a part of that same journey, never allowed herself to have any feelings for him or have any expectations from him. The whole journey was painful for her and he wanted to celebrate that. His story at the lovers point and his silence when the yoga instructor spoke about Pakhi wounded her just in the morning and she was expected to celebrate wedding anniversary which was made a deal by him and not her.

@bold 👏👏

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Niraja your post as usual sums up trauma of both without bias.

Breaking hearts is very apt title.

Only thing I always get confused and want you to answer please.. How could Sai think of uniting Pakhi with Virat ? As much as I know Sai Joshi values marriage as a sacred institution. She herself is committed to her marriage bond and follows all her duties with honesty.Even if she thinks of moving out from her marriage,

How could she assume that if she is not there in Virat’s life he and Pakhi can tie the knot? Did she forget that still there is chance for Samrat to return? She herself is hopeful I think.

If Pakhi is unmarried or if Samrat died,yes..she can think in those lines but not at present .,

I always wonder what made her oversimplify such complicated situation and wish to unite Virat with Pakhi..

I think she knows in her heart that Samrat left because of virat pp n if everything virat has told her about Samrat is true he has definitely left to let virat pp be together. She feels that virat is holding back to pp only because she is now samrats wife n because he has her responsibility....so as much as she respects the bond of marriage she also thinks love surpasses all. I dont think she intends to get virat pp married. she only wants to take herself out of the equation n let them do whatever they want for "their love".