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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I feel for Virat there is no denying that...but I also realise its his doing, his lack of interest or for that matter his running away from talking out about his past mistakes... He does not want to talk.. Bas samjho mere actions ko samjho.. Him saying I want to have this marriage with Sai , when she was at her lowest, does it guarantee he loves her or that the deal is closed or that there is no love in him for Pakhi.. Sai is too adamant on having a marriage of love, where she has not come in between two lovers..Right now she feels that she is coming in between and when she mentions that I will unite them, she simply means she would unite them by not coming in between and not by getting them married..

@bold 😂😂. Why does he feel words are no longer needed I dont understand. He had so many words before the wedding, during the wedding and after the wedding. Looks like he used up all the quota of words he was allotted 🤣🤣. Such a mess he has created due to his immaturity 😂

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes he has to identify that the root of the problem is Sai’s complete ignorance of what happened in his past. It is difficult for a woman to know that she is not the first. Husband has to make them very secure by assuring their space and right on them.

Virat does enjoy her haq on him but doesn’t express it. His thinking is like why to spoil the Present by digging up the past. In this pursuit he behaves as if there is nothing related to pakhi. In brushing it off he is actually embracing it more… because sai thinks that he is not clear in his heart. She needs to hear there is nothing now.

We all sympathize more with sai because she is the one who was told not to expect. She would have otherwise been just fine with him. Her life would have been a normal one, filled with virats love and affection. Just because of his words during the wedding and her own respect for virats words she is chained . She can’t show her love directly.

if virat comes closer to her, what will she think? Either she will think that he is settling for less because he is a good man or she is settling for less, loveless marriage. Now after yesterday’s evil yoga teachers recollection of Laila majnu story, she is in sacrificial mode 😳 atleast ask the man for his consent when you decide to gift him away 😔

PS: for a moment I felt the shame of a married man when virat looked at his brother and friend when sai declared their marriage is a farce and just a deal. Neil potrayed it very well. It is such a sensitive and private topic !! I felt more for him here than for the inevitable heartbreak 💔

Hey what I understood there was, when Virat spelled out how the man could not confess her love to the woman and she got married to someone else, the man committed suicide.. SHe thought it to be Virat and Pakhi's story..And honestly Sai does think Samrat is not coming back or right now at this point its just she who is between them..and no Samrat, Samrat has already made that decision by leaving her, courtesy her dialogues to Virat after HArini's confrontation..Now when she says she will unite them, it was not because yoga teacher said so, it was because after Virat's story where he mentioned guy dying because the girl got married was followed by a glimpse of the very "perfect" relationship the two shared, she realised she has come between the two of them and Pakhi does implement the same as well..

By saying I will unite them it did not mean by getting him married to Pakhi, but by not coming in between them. By not being the third person in their relationship.. She was not sacrificial..she anyway thinks she is not his love and this marriage is not forever..and also she gets affected by Pakhi's sob stories...EVen recently Virat was all mum to her sob stories.. See the whole confrontation that she witnessed between Pakhi and Virat did it to her...these are triggers that keep taking her back to reality that she thinks is reality..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Hey what I understood there was, when Virat spelled out how the man could not confess her love to the woman and she got married to someone else, the man committed suicide.. SHe thought it to be Virat and Pakhi's story..And honestly Sai does thing Samrat is not coming back or right now at this point its just she who is between them..and no Samrat, Samrat has already made that decision by leaving her, her dialogues to Virat after HArini's confrontation..Now when she says she will unite them, it was not because yoga teacher said so, it was because after Virat's story where he mentioned guy dying because the girl got married was followed by a glimpse of the very "perfect" relationship the two shared, she realised she has come between the two of them and Pakhi does implement the same as well..

By saying I will unite them it did not mean by getting him married to Pakhi, but by not coming in between them. By not being the third person in their relationship.. She was not sacrificial..she anyway thinks she is not his love and this marriage is not forever..and also she gets affected by Pakhi's sob stories...EVen recently Virat was all mum to her sob stories.. See the whole confrontation that she witnessed between Pakhi and Virat did it to her...these are triggers that keep taking her back to reality that she thinks is reality..

yeah May be. Let them do what they want but I should not come in between kind. Got it 👍

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Hey what I understood there was, when Virat spelled out how the man could not confess her love to the woman and she got married to someone else, the man committed suicide.. SHe thought it to be Virat and Pakhi's story..And honestly Sai does think Samrat is not coming back or right now at this point its just she who is between them..and no Samrat, Samrat has already made that decision by leaving her, courtesy her dialogues to Virat after HArini's confrontation..Now when she says she will unite them, it was not because yoga teacher said so, it was because after Virat's story where he mentioned guy dying because the girl got married was followed by a glimpse of the very "perfect" relationship the two shared, she realised she has come between the two of them and Pakhi does implement the same as well..

By saying I will unite them it did not mean by getting him married to Pakhi, but by not coming in between them. By not being the third person in their relationship.. She was not sacrificial..she anyway thinks she is not his love and this marriage is not forever..and also she gets affected by Pakhi's sob stories...EVen recently Virat was all mum to her sob stories.. See the whole confrontation that she witnessed between Pakhi and Virat did it to her...these are triggers that keep taking her back to reality that she thinks is reality..

Tagging you since I saw the two of you were discussing on these points.!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Hey what I understood there was, when Virat spelled out how the man could not confess her love to the woman and she got married to someone else, the man committed suicide.. SHe thought it to be Virat and Pakhi's story..And honestly Sai does thing Samrat is not coming back or right now at this point its just she who is between them..and no Samrat, Samrat has already made that decision by leaving her, her dialogues to Virat after HArini's confrontation..Now when she says she will unite them, it was not because yoga teacher said so, it was because after Virat's story where he mentioned guy dying because the girl got married was followed by a glimpse of the very "perfect" relationship the two shared, she realised she has come between the two of them and Pakhi does implement the same as well..

By saying I will unite them it did not mean by getting him married to Pakhi, but by not coming in between them. By not being the third person in their relationship.. She was not sacrificial..she anyway thinks she is not his love and this marriage is not forever..and also she gets affected by Pakhi's sob stories...EVen recently Virat was all mum to her sob stories.. See the whole confrontation that she witnessed between Pakhi and Virat did it to her...these are triggers that keep taking her back to reality that she thinks is reality..

@bold - I don't know where I said This ,but the story Virat narrated was so out of place. Which part of that story resembled SaiRats story 🤦. Coming to Sai coming in between v and p, she did not since Virat married her after Pakhi was already married to Samrat. Hope someone calrified this to her.

So true, Virat story and the crazy lady's talks Didi make her feel that way, but I don't think she would have ever acted on those words either.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold - I don't know where I said This ,but the story Virat narrated was so out of place. Which part of that story resembled SaiRats story 🤦. Coming to Sai coming in between v and p, she did not since Virat married her after Pakhi was already married to Samrat. Hope someone calrified this to her.

So true, Virat story and the crazy lady's talks Didi make her feel that way, but I don't think she would have ever acted on those words either.

It was momentary but then also in a way that I would not come in between their love. And honestly she hardly is seen aggressive towards Pakhi these days. Even on her birthday she first wanted them to go talk in the room and not the corridor and later on left them together to talk..After promising Pakhi, she has given her rights up on Virat..But then again they are so subtle that it will get difficult for us to understand!!

Originally posted by: msin

I really feel virat should step back .. he’s already done too much for Sai .. if she still feels it’s a deal .. then he should stop behaving like a real husband .. behave like a friend .. .. he should actually let her move on to hostel .. it will be good for both of them .. since Sai is adamant it can never be a real marriage..

Well I wouldn't blame her....

Pakhi has interfered too much in their relationship....and Virat has really done nothing to reassure Sai...Even if theirs was a normal marriage, it would have created huge problems ....

The simplest and ideal way out of this is for Virat to come clean on his past ....talk to Sai about starting fresh in their relationship...

But obviously that's not gonna happen. But I agree to your point about separation. Both have been needing that for a long time...

Originally posted by: Rdigest

I was also glad Sai brought up the silly story which Virat narrated. It was in no way a story you tell your wife you are trying to wooh whom you also told about the silly Vaada 🙄

Seriously, I was rolling my eyes at his 'story'. As it is ACP has jalebis instead of brain in his head....upar se Sunny gives such ridiculous ideas.

The story about girl getting married to someone else, Majnu killing himself......what was that even?

People saying virat cleared his stand many times still sai didn't understand him. When did he cleared? Only one time he said he wants their marriage to be real that too at bad timing. But he again came to saying zimmedari like he said yesterday. He says I'm ur gurdian,I'm ur husband, our relationship is zimmedari. Where is the consistency. What should sai believe which part of his words is true. Whenever he served jelabies in clearing things sai asks cross questions to get clarification but instead of answering them he diverts the topic. She already mentioned him celebrating anything for her is him doing his zimmedari when he celebrated her birthday. When she said he celebrated her birthday because she is orphan he didn't cleared her by saying no I did it because u r my wife. So for sai he agreed to the orphan comment. Now again he compared him celebrating her birthday & anniversary. For sai both r same. He is doing all these out of pityness for her not out of love. Moreover sunny told it is his plan not virat's so for her virat didn't think all these on his own but his friend has to told him to do these things for her happiness. And virat being a good man doing all these to make her happy not because he loves her. In morning she heard his past love story from him (acc to her) in evening she sees him giving her anniversary surprise by him telling u like surprises right. So how should she react? Gifts & surprises r enough to make one realise love? What about the security & assurance in relationship?