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Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold exactly how could he not see she was upset is something I failed to relate to his character yesterday.

@bold italic- word, beautifully put ❤️❤️. This is exactly what Sai needs with so much going on around her , not to forget didis constant manifestations about their non existent love, dreams and kwaaishye and what not. What is the poor girl supposed to do😢.

Oh he was very insensitive..SOmeone who could not take Sai's and Ajinkya's performance together, expects her to be all normal hearing his love story and get excited because he got her gifts and cake on the same day, which also marks his declaration of love for the same lady whose stories she was hearing hours ago.. Sai kya koi bhi biwi would get angry!!

Yeah just recently she was told on her birthday the relation they had..We did not have Virat saying, no we did not have anything and I have cleared it to you.. He kept standing there making faces, what is Sai to assume there btw? And then she is being taunted by Patralekha for going on a trip and she gets it that Patralekha is insecure and jealous, because she is on the same board for that same man..Then when she forgets it yet again, there is another reminder of the beauty those two were before her...

She does not even know about the love between a man or a woman, she never witnessed it between her parents to understand the husband's love for his wife for that matter.... SHe has seen his physical attraction towards her and care and concern for her but then she also has a certain someone always standing outside her room or taunting her for even using her husband's money..While husband is on and on about, actions samjho...aankho mei dekho..

Virat himself could not believe Sai loves him when Sunny told him or for that matter, he loves Sai till Sunny told him!! And we expect Sai to know it all through his actions and jalebis!!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

There has been hardly any monologue from her side Pooja.. You know you need to look at her very basic dialogues to understand that she is getting affected by the closeness Virat and she has it in her head that he loves Pakhi..Pakhi just few weeks back on her birthday was crying and telling her how Virat has ditched her and he makes her cry..What as per has changed.. When you see Sai talking to Aai the other day when he was taking her to Pakhi's house, well she did say they are having a lover's tiff.. There would be so many things going on in her head.. At times when she gets overwhelmed she gets scared of him trying to get more close to her.. She has "his" promise of commitment towards Pakhi, she sees Virat getting physically attracted to her and she also is guilty for spoiling it all for Pakhi...And in all this Virat has never said that he "does not" love Pakhi..All he does commitment nahi hai, kyu nahi hai, no answer.. Mere actions ko samjho.. Then that goes for you as well..Uske actions ko samjho!! And unlike Virat she has no one to talk to w.r.t. him, when she is ready to give up on him, Virat atleast has Sunny!!

@bold this is exactly where I fail to understand. What is Pakhi expecting from Virat and how Did Sai ruin it for her 🙄. she keeps telling him you broke my dreams and kwaaishye and you are making me cry. What are these kwaaishye which were never shown and how did he make her cry 🤔. So if sai leaves Virat her kwaaishye will be fulfilled 🙄. Same goes for Sai aswell, what does she expect them to do if she were to step away and free Virat. I am having a tough time understanding what is going on in a 19 year olds mind here 😂.

Any kd viewer can tell did rono tell ek n before confession that this marriage is real or the vaada is no more, or emon just confessed it without thinking of the vaada and the deal part. Becoz if it happened without the clearance of the baadal and deal in kd it will not suit our Sai and ghum.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I agree.

It is not easy for Sai to accept the changing dynamics between them specially because of the reasons you cited and also due to Pakhi’s non stop reminders regarding her space in Virat’s life.

Virat unfortunately won’t give much thought to this and brushes off Pakhi’s presence in his life with monosyllables or single sentences. He needs to stress that by explaining what exactly happened at yoga resort and how he realised that he is not exactly in love with Pakhi.

Till then Sai wont connect the dots at all.

Virat’s move to distance himself will hopefully force her to analyse the journey so far. Eagerly waiting to reach that point ..

Yes he has to identify that the root of the problem is Sai’s complete ignorance of what happened in his past. It is difficult for a woman to know that she is not the first. Husband has to make them very secure by assuring their space and right on them.

Virat does enjoy her haq on him but doesn’t express it. His thinking is like why to spoil the Present by digging up the past. In this pursuit he behaves as if there is nothing related to pakhi. In brushing it off he is actually embracing it more… because sai thinks that he is not clear in his heart. She needs to hear there is nothing now.

We all sympathize more with sai because she is the one who was told not to expect. She would have otherwise been just fine with him. Her life would have been a normal one, filled with virats love and affection. Just because of his words during the wedding and her own respect for virats words she is chained . She can’t show her love directly.

if virat comes closer to her, what will she think? Either she will think that he is settling for less because he is a good man or she is settling for less, loveless marriage. Now after yesterday’s evil yoga teachers recollection of Laila majnu story, she is in sacrificial mode 😳 atleast ask the man for his consent when you decide to gift him away 😔

PS: for a moment I felt the shame of a married man when virat looked at his brother and friend when sai declared their marriage is a farce and just a deal. Neil potrayed it very well. It is such a sensitive and private topic !! I felt more for him here than for the inevitable heartbreak 💔

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold this is exactly where I fail to understand. What is Pakhi expecting from Virat and how Did Sai ruin it for her 🙄. she keeps telling him you broke my dreams and kwaaishye and you are making me cry. What are these kwaaishye which were never shown and how did he make her cry 🤔. So if sai leaves Virat her kwaaishye will be fulfilled 🙄. Same goes for Sai aswell, what does she expect them to do if she were to step away and free Virat. I am having a tough time understanding what is going on in a 19 year olds mind here 😂.

Imagine she has to listen to all this, these khwaaishein, the vaada of a life together , a woman's complaint to her husband, while the husband stands there listening to her...get blamed for coming in between them, taunted by that woman all the time and in all this she has to also understand her husband's love for her and the fact that he never promised Paakhi and he has clarified to her that he does not love her anymore... She also has to appreciate him for making efforts for celebrating the day , he promised her of no forever when moments back she was reminded about the moments he shared with Pakhi.. 👏

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Oh he was very insensitive..SOmeone who could not take Sai's and Ajinkya's performance together, expects her to be all normal hearing his love story and get excited because he got her gifts and cake on the same day, which also marks his declaration of love for the same lady whose stories she was hearing hours ago.. Sai kya koi bhi biwi would get angry!!

Yeah just recently she was told on her birthday the relation they had..We did not have Virat saying, no we did not have anything and I have cleared it to you.. He kept standing there making faces, what is Sai to assume there btw? And then she is being taunted by Patralekha for going on a trip and she gets it that Patralekha is insecure and jealous, because she is on the same board for that same man..Then when she forgets it yet again, there is another reminder of the beauty those two were before her...

She does not even know about the love between a man or a woman, she never witnessed it between her parents to understand the husband's love for his wife for that matter.... SHe has seen his physical attraction towards her and care and concern for her but then she also has a certain someone always standing outside her room or taunting her for even using her husband's money..While husband is on and on about, actions samjho...aankho mei dekho..

Virat himself could not believe Sai loves him when Sunny told him or for that matter, he loves Sai till Sunny told him!! And we expect Sai to know it all through his actions and jalebis!!

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@italic this was a golden opportunity he didn't utilize and call her bullshit out that they didn't even know their last names so where did all these dreams and kwaaishye come from. This would have atleast cleared the Laila majnu story which p keeps telling Sai 😂

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Imagine she has to listen to all this, these khwaaishein, the vaada of a life together , a woman's complaint to her husband, while the husband stands there listening to her...get blamed for coming in between them, taunted by that woman all the time and in all this she has to also understand her husband's love for her and the fact that he never promised Paakhi and he has clarified to her that he does not love her anymore... She also has to appreciate him for making efforts for celebrating the day , he promised her of no forever when moments back she was reminded about the moments he shared with Pakhi.. 👏

sometimes I wonder if someone had recorded pakhi virat face off after he comes back from GC during devkit wedding track and the most recent one after Sai’s accident. Just play that to sai. She will jump on him 😅

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes he has to identify that the root of the problem is Sai’s complete ignorance of what happened in his past. It is difficult for a woman to know that she is not the first. Husband has to make them very secure by assuring their space and right on them.

Virat does enjoy her haq on him but doesn’t express it. His thinking is like why to spoil the Present by digging up the past. In this pursuit he behaves as if there is nothing related to pakhi. In brushing it off he is actually embracing it more… because sai thinks that he is not clear in his heart. She needs to hear there is nothing now.

We all sympathize more with sai because she is the one who was told not to expect. She would have otherwise been just fine with him. Her life would have been a normal one, filled with virats love and affection. Just because of his words during the wedding and her own respect for virats words she is chained . She can’t show her love directly.

if virat comes closer to her, what will she think? Either she will think that he is settling for less because he is a good man or she is settling for less, loveless marriage. Now after yesterday’s evil yoga teachers recollection of Laila majnu story, she is in sacrificial mode 😳 atleast ask the man for his consent when you decide to gift him away 😔

PS: for a moment I felt the shame of a married man when virat looked at his brother and friend when sai declared their marriage is a farce and just a deal. Neil potrayed it very well. It is such a sensitive and private topic !! I felt more for him here than for the inevitable heartbreak 💔

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Originally posted by: Rdigest

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@italic this was a golden opportunity he didn't utilize and call her bullshit out that they didn't even know their last names so where did all these dreams and kwaaishye come from. This would have atleast cleared the Laila majnu story which p keeps telling Sai 😂

I feel for Virat there is no denying that...but I also realise its his doing, his lack of interest or for that matter his running away from talking out about his past mistakes... He does not want to talk.. Bas samjho mere actions ko samjho.. Him saying I want to have this marriage with Sai , when she was at her lowest, does it guarantee he loves her or that the deal is closed or that there is no love in him for Pakhi.. Sai is too adamant on having a marriage of love, where she has not come in between two lovers..Right now she feels that she is coming in between and when she mentions that I will unite them, she simply means she would unite them by not coming in between and not by getting them married..