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Show ke imbalance ki wajah se fans ka mansik santulan bigad raha hain 😆

Originally posted by: gata

her strength has always been her sense of righteousness , she always did the correct thing , at the moment it feels that when it comes to Raghav she has failed him by not doing the right thing ,i think of it as doublestandard ,

Yep it does feel dt way. She has to do ryt by everyone except Raghav and now Amma too. Her sense of righteousness seems to be tilted to one side only these days .

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Yeah... On point... I gave benefit of doubt to Pallavi until they confessed as Raghav was at fault and he has to win Pallavi with his efforts... It would have been looked good had Pallavi rejected or didn't feel anything for Raghav at all but now seeing only Raghav feeling and yearning for Pallavi where Pallavi is only on Kartavya mode, i don't find any intensity in her love which I see in het kartavya...

Dt would hv been better . Even before Mandar came into picture , I had the feeling dt Raghav would probably realise his love for Pallavi bcz of this separation and so would Pallavi. But since the confession happened before it , now it just looks bad dt Raghav is the one alwys yearning for her and inspite of big dialogues..... Pallavi harbours no deep emotions for him

Raghav is deeply in love with Pallavi and he knows how to manage his priorities. Pallavi says she loves Raghav but we don’t see her in love . We don’t see her talk about her duties as a wife and as a DIL.. she is on single mode as a daughter. She is always on a single track . I don’t think as a humans we get to just focus on a single relationship and women esp have it in us to handle both in-laws and maikas. We do prioritize our husband and in-laws over the maikas most times .

But we don’t see Pallavi talking to her husband or MIL with a phone in her hand .. she needs to organize poojas to get to see her husband. She doesn’t call him or go see him if he is upset when you know you have done something that is not right.
Most importantly she forgets about the award ceremony and I am not sure how a wife can do that .. if your husband is getting an award you would be happy and would be the first one to get ready and be there with the person you love thru the whole show. But here she forgets because she is attending to her ex husband’s burn issues .
We definitely need a redemption track for Pallavi and only then it will make it back on track otherwise it will be cringy to watch without her feeling sorry or repenting for her actions against her husband and his family. She cannot definitely give lecture about Farz anymore . That would be OTT to hear from someone who has no idea about farz of a wife or a DIL.

Originally posted by: fria319

I think she 100% forgot about the vaada she made to Sanki. Which is why she was like “why didn’t u pick me up”. I also don’t understand why she couldn’t just call and talk to him. Why can’t she go to rr mansion for dinner ? She has to be around Mandar 24/7? In what state of mind is she in where she thinks that’s ok ? Like I get Pallavi has this huge sense of insaaniyat, kartavya, farz. She has immense goodness but where in all of that means u have to be someone’s caretaker , all the while forsaking all your VERY important relationships. Raghav was right to call her out on patni farz but it doesn’t even look like it registered to her. Amma and Aayi need to school her on what patni farz even is. I think she thinks it just means give your husband hugs. 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

She doesn’t treat Raghav with the haq and respect of a husband. If she did, she wouldn’t do this to him. Yes she’s maintained she’s only Raghavs wife, he is her husband. But it ends there. She only says it and cannot fulfill it.

See this what making her character so inconsistent and hard to deal wid. One days she does this whole crying session on pyaar kartavya and what not and when Milind told her to break it off , she was all no and baba se saath aisa nai kr skti. Den next day she is angry on Raghav fr not picking her up.....I mean what even

Aama or Aayi or koi bhi Pallavi ko kuch bhi sikhane ki kosish karta bhi hai toh it falls on deaf ears. She will act like she knows better.

@ bold ,:🤣🤣🤣

Dts my problm too....her love is limited to words only. Her actions dont convey it at all. Bas main Raghav ki wife hoon bolne se sab thik nai ho jta.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

See this what making her character so inconsistent and hard to deal wid. One days she does this whole crying session on pyaar kartavya and what not and when Milind told her to break it off , she was all no and baba se saath aisa nai kr skti. Den next day she is angry on Raghav fr not picking her up.....I mean what even

Aama or Aayi or koi bhi Pallavi ko kuch bhi sikhane ki kosish karta bhi hai toh it falls on deaf ears. She will act like she knows better.

@ bold ,:🤣🤣🤣

Dts my problm too....her love is limited to words only. Her actions dont convey it at all. Bas main Raghav ki wife hoon bolne se sab thik nai ho jta.

I'm holding out hope she can change LOL

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I personally believe that Raghav will always love Pallavi more. He is the more intense one and he has fallen head over heels. Pallavi may have said I love you but her intensity is less than Raghav's.

Just a personal feeling. Raghav, to me, has always been the intense, deep types. I always felt that he has the capacity to love intensely....his love won't be ordinary. Pallavi is still swinging between her past and present and isn't 100% there yet.

For Raghav, he can stop everything, and focus on Pallavi. He has no baggage. Unfortunately, she does have baggage and it only takes time and patience to get rid of that baggage. This time, it will be Raghav's maturity, intelligence and understanding that should get them out of this tricky situation but if he behaves irrationally, then they'll probably drift. He has to take things forward very carefully because the enemy this time is not an outsider, but someone Pallavi had once married. Tough situation, Raghav. Buckle up and handle things VERY CAREFULLY.

You are right abt Raghav being the more passionate lover. We all kind of expected dt. Dt ws a given. For Raghav everything is in excess , extreme , nothing in moderation . But dt said, I dont exactly expect Pallavi to become like him . Maybe not 100% but she can reciprocate atleast a 50% . And I dont mean it in a show off way. I mean I really dont see dt pain in her eyes or her actions. She seems pretty chilled out.

Yes Pallavi has baggage ,but that doesnt mean she will make her whole life abt dt. Honestly I know Raghav will step up for sure. But I dont want him to be her rescuer. I want her to be her own rescuer. And when she needs Raghav should be der. Her unreasonable love for her ex family has caused her present family a lot of pain and she needs to acknowledge dt at the least.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

At times ? Pallavi is always right......and she believes in dt too. So she never takes into account what others are trying to say. Even if you think they arent giving the right advice........you will atleast think over it once....if not instantly ....may be later. But here she does pay any heed to anyone's advice or concerns.

And Raghav's words toh mean nothing to her. She probably just assumes that its just his insecurity or something. But even if dts the case she never actually gave him any reasons not to be.

She can forget anyone and anything in the name of helping out Mandar . How would she feel if they did the same to her. Hell she ws so angry dt Raghav didnt take her home inspite of her promise but she didnt even think how Amma would feel on her breaking her promise . Promise to Baba weighs heavier than promise to Amma.

I would just disagree on one thing. I dont believe in freedom being given by your in laws or spouse . One should always hv the freedom to do what one wants.......no one has the right to give it or take it. But yes I do believe Amma has been too forgiving and loving to Pallavi . She even wanted her own daughter to be punished for Pallavi but Pallavi doesnt seem to acknowledge dt love or even reciprocate it.

People are demanding for Raghav's ex so that she will get it back even I wanted that too 😆 but now seeing her actions I would say there is no need of an ex because she will again start with her blame game and will give lectures on husband duties whereas she herself doesn't know anything about wife duties. For her it's just the sign language giving hug saying I love you is enough and her saying some certain dialogues for raghav but I couldn't see her implementing any of dialogues when it comes to her relationship with raghav.

And about amma's promise my POV Pallavi let her down today and it was kind of very disrespectful. Amma said to raghav that today Pallavi would come and this is Jaya Rao's promise even though Raghav somewhere deep down knows that she won't turn up but still he hoped that he will be proved wrong and amma will be successful in bringing her.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

The track is so faulty dt every day you can find something or the other to dislike.

But overall der is one thing dt constantly bothers me.

Why is der such an imbalance in love that Raghav and Pallavi hv for each other . If its a passionate love story ( as told by Siku) why do I see passion only from Raghav's end. He is the one pinning for her , he is the one making the efforts , he is the one who looks like he is abt to lose everything . Where is Pallavi's love ? Maybe its the hidden kind. Dikhna nai chahti wo. Par mujhe dekhna hai🤔

Der is also imbalance in the farz and karvatya cadre. Why is the kartavya only applicable to Mandar and D family and none towards Amma or Rao family. Not even including Raghav in this. Does Amma not deserve any of the farz ?

I hope they make Raghav or amma the voice of the viewers and bring out what all of us feel to Pallavi. That would be much needed relief to all of us .