Pallavi raghav rao, aagaya tumko lene ... - Page 4

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Baki sab theek hai

But why do you think Amma should need a redemption ?

See I am not saying what she was ryt but Raghav wasnt entirely right in the scenario either. He wasnt directly responsible for what happened to his father and brother but he indirectly did cause the turn of events. Dts why he was so guilt ridden . Amma 's forgiveness ans acceptance was enough for him and dt she did. Also once she accepted him......she has never turned back.....she has been standing by him through every thick and thin.

I dont think she ever needed any redemption but even if she did......she has redeemed herself.

Gonna jump in here bc I also agree that Amma never had enough of a redemption and I feel like no one ever talks about this and I love Amma but -

When their incident happened, Raghav as 17. Yet, his mother 1) didn't believe him 2) misunderstood him and 3) left him. For ten years. She was his mother. She was the parent. The onus was on her to understand him - that's what parents should do. Seventeen is a child in comparison to her age - she should've at least tried to see things from his perspective. It wasn't him that went and actually murdered his father & brother. She abandoned him bc she couldn't handle the shame and grief. That's on her.

I always felt she needed more redemption in the sense of she needs to admit that she shouldn't have ever left her son like that. And she needs to realize that a lot of his issues are a result of her abandoning him in such a crucial time. They have a lot of deep family trauma that was swept over by a single reconciliation without any further discussion. Raghav never makes a fuss of it because that's what he thinks he deserves. IDK maybe I need to watch that scene again, but I don't think they discussed any of their issues in the way they should have.

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

She is Pallavi Mandar deshmukh in all senses not Pallavi Raghav Rao… this is first time in ITV history that we are getting FL toxicity not ML… Atleast the shows I have watched so far..

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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Not able to handle this show...Pallavi is way too insensible towards Raghav..She would probably blame him for being irresponsible drunkard.. 😆

100% guarantee...that is what is going to happen...good i was getting too invested in the show... tomorrow will be make or break for me...

I saw pre-cap again...she runs after hearing Raghav's voice and stops seeing someone, is that VD? ..don't tell me he is going to remind pallavi of her promise and again manipulate her and stop her from meeting Raghav...or she herself remembers the promise she made to VD, steps back..leaving Raghav shouting/hurting himself , may be falling unconscious or may be Farahad as usual will come and take him back..

Originally posted by: d.padmini

100% guarantee...that is what is going to happen...good i was getting too invested in the show... tomorrow will be make or break for me...

I saw pre-cap again...she runs after hearing Raghav's voice and stops seeing someone, is that VD? ..don't tell me he is going to remind pallavi of her promise and again manipulate her and stop her from meeting Raghav...or she herself remembers the promise she made to VD, steps back..leaving Raghav shouting/hurting himself , may be falling unconscious or may be Farahad as usual will come and take him back..

Would that not be WOW...I am already done with this show!!

What if:

Tomorrow they show Pallavi wearing the ironed black net saree and going to RR mansion with Raghav?

She will come out of D Prison and go to RR. But then she will see he is drunk. So she will tell him he cannot drive, so she will take her scooty and he will ride pillion.
Once in RR mansion She will put him under the “shouw-wer” ( like Raghav says) and then we may get the scene in the gym with crunches?

Originally posted by: d.padmini

So as per the pre-cap, Raghav in his drunken state has come to pick her up, pallavi raghav rao aagaya tumko lene...

It's reaction to morning 's conversation pallavi was complaining to him, why didn't u come to pick me up reminding him about husband's farz...so he is their to fulfill husband's responsiblity ..but what about responsibility of wife...

And the million dollar question is..will she go with him ??

I don’t think Pallavi will go with Raghav. Now want Raghvi back

I wish u r right but more than their romantic scene , I want them to communicate, to voice their insecurities, Pallavi should understand in all her insaniyat it is Raghav who is suffering for no fault of his, she is ignoring his needs and desires which should be her priority, she has some responsibility towards him and his family too..

She was quick to remind raghav about his pati ka farz...but she has never given a thought about her farz as patni .. Raghav's patni.

Yes one might argue she stood by him, when his own mother was against him (which she keeps reminding him and doesn't let him forget) but then Raghav too went against his own image and self respect and almost gave in to VD's nonsense demand..

He has been understanding and amma has been so supportive...but she is taking all of this for granted..

So I want a reality check for her..before getting all romantic..

Raghav being raghav will melt with one sorry or even without it....but that doesn't justify pallavi forgetting such an important event in her husband's life and casually thinking oh I forgot..it wasn't a dinner date or movie which they can go some other day.. it was an event,where he was getting award which is kind of once in a life time event..

I would have given her the benefit of doubt had she pondered over missing the event, had they shown her seeing watch thinking she is getting late, had their been hint of helplessness , urgency, irritation or a monologue where she is dilemma of which one to give priority or she trying to make arrangements and trying to reach the venue , even if late...but there was nothing of that sort and this time there was no emotional blackmail or emotional manipulation by Mandar...he was just hurt...and he could have been taken care by anyone at home...she herself took the onus and responsibility ..it was her decision and not a forced one..

....which is not acceptable...

Here it looks so obvious that for her mandar and Deshmukh matter , they are her priority and raghav , his feeling, his public image . doesn't matter to her...

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After today’s episode I think Pallavi has become a deshmukh again.. how can she forget about the award ceremony and I don’t think she should go with Raghav and just stay in deshmukh house .. Raghav should prove Mandhar’s intentions by himself and she should feel for Raghav while staying at d house and should have a proper redemption arc after for a few episodes just like Raghav.. without proper redemption track whatever has been done would be hard to move from and accept them as a couple again.. right now I don’t see them as a married couple.. Pallavi is just not there in this marriage .. just my thoughts..

Originally posted by: hemantritu

I don’t think Pallavi will go with Raghav. Now want Raghvi back

good you still want Raghvi… at this point I don’t… I know they are a lead pair but the relationship is so toxic on so many levels… Raghav will be better off without her… I know it won’t happen in ITV… but honestly the way Pallavi is behaving so immature and so casual… he doesn’t deserve it..

Originally posted by: d.padmini

100% guarantee...that is what is going to happen...good i was getting too invested in the show... tomorrow will be make or break for me...

I saw pre-cap again...she runs after hearing Raghav's voice and stops seeing someone, is that VD? ..don't tell me he is going to remind pallavi of her promise and again manipulate her and stop her from meeting Raghav...or she herself remembers the promise she made to VD, steps back..leaving Raghav shouting/hurting himself , may be falling unconscious or may be Farahad as usual will come and take him back..

Yes, tomorrow is make or break for me as well.....spending to much time for this crap they are dishing out day by day :(