Pallavi not attending award function = insulting her husband in public - Page 2

Originally posted by: sneha_17

Is Pallavi just a guest here? what’s the emergency?

Why a wife called upon a stage to present the award?

Do you think it’s just another award? I feel this more than that

No idea as I don’t think that far ahead but yeah I did wonder why do I keep reading that people are saying Pallavi is called to present award🤔

Originally posted by: sneha_17

no I am not hurt, love is more important in your view

Love without respect is a curse in my view. I would like to sacrifice a 100 love over respect. For me, husband and wife should adore and respect each other.

I am ready to live my life alone by finding happiness in every small things and receive love with respect from people around me even though I am not their first priority as none of them is my first priority I can change my priority as situation demands

Why to love someone and suffer when you are not their priority and live whole life second guessing.

this kind of incident leaves crack which won’t get fixed with time and even they grow old together, this crack will exist

@bold: Love this as it’s what I say about me being a priority to my family and friends.

I agree with you that priority has to be there but alongside it it’s about understanding. Priorities will change as relationships develop, as commitments change whether it’s family, work or social etc so there needs to be understanding. If there is lack of understanding then yes cracks will show as otherwise each one will be shouting me, me, me and neither will be the priority.

As for second guessing, you would only do that if you didn’t trust each other. So it’s all about combination of prioritising, trusting and understanding.

Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

@bold: Love this as it’s what I say about me being a priority to my family and friends.

I agree with you that priority has to be there but alongside it it’s about understanding. Priorities will change as relationships develop, as commitments change whether it’s family, work or social etc so there needs to be understanding. If there is lack of understanding then yes cracks will show as otherwise each one will be shouting me, me, me and neither will be the priority.

As for second guessing, you would only do that if you didn’t trust each other. So it’s all about combination of prioritising, trusting and understanding.

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Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

No idea as I don’t think that far ahead but yeah I did wonder why do I keep reading that people are saying Pallavi is called to present award🤔

In precap it was clearly shown that the host calls Pallavi on stage to present the award and Raghav pain eyes awaiting Pallavi. For the First time Amma also not happy with Pallavi not being there

Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

@bold: Love this as it’s what I say about me being a priority to my family and friends.

I agree with you that priority has to be there but alongside it it’s about understanding. Priorities will change as relationships develop, as commitments change whether it’s family, work or social etc so there needs to be understanding. If there is lack of understanding then yes cracks will show as otherwise each one will be shouting me, me, me and neither will be the priority.

As for second guessing, you would only do that if you didn’t trust each other. So it’s all about combination of prioritising, trusting and understanding.

sorry no offense, Raghav deserves better, no one whether it man or woman don’t deserve to be insulted just to be in love

Originally posted by: sneha_17

In precap it was clearly shown that the host calls Pallavi on stage to present the award and Raghav pain eyes awaiting Pallavi. For the First time Amma also not happy with Pallavi not being there

I see. I stopped watching precaps few weeks back so will just wait and see what happens.

The writing for Pallavi's character has gone so trash worthy in this track, now that we viewers are feeling so suffocated & annoyed. I don't get her dialogues anymore especially after her kartavya rant the other day. She claims to love Raghav, but falls silent in expression in front of Mandar & D family (today's precap she does lash out at Mandar, but does any good come out of it, needs to be seen).The makers are presenting her to be such a yo-yo in order to give Mandar center stage. She stages an elaborate puja to meet her legally wedded husband? Hesitates to pick Raghav's call, but takes Mandar's call late at night.VD calling her the bahu of the family, dude you threw her out & she is legally someone else's wife, you can't stop her husband from meeting her. Aayi lost her steam conviently today.Like seriously what are the writers thinking? The viewers forget the previous episodes is it?

Raghav seems to have bounced back today, I just hope he stays that way.My point is there was no need to make Pallavi like this, she could have been smart & handled all this intelligently,which I am sure the viewers would have liked. I'll give this track a week more & then go on a break till the story changes for the better. I would rather have a fresh storyline instead of seeing this Mandar & family. This track doesn't seem to have done wonders for the TRP either.

Originally posted by: sneha_17

Pallavi not attending award function is directly insulting her husband and his hardwork.

Wife not giving importance to her husband achievements is just murdering their relationship.

I don’t want Raghav to get drunk and go to Deshmukh house and any more long for Pallavi. I want Raghav to ignore Pallavi exists and send divorce papers with a note you failed as wife best wishes to succeed as daughter.

No one in the world deserves this treatment for being in love and respecting his wife wishes.

showing good man taken for granted will only make man to think not to treat wife with respect

Plzzz he should sent divorce papers...

She totally failed as a wife...simple as that...

A broken man will always be broken

Separation is much needed now.

Originally posted by: sneha_17

sorry no offense, Raghav deserves better, no one whether it man or woman don’t deserve to be insulted just to be in love

We all see things from a different perspective so no need for me to take offence. That’s the whole beauty of having these debates/discussions. If it’s all done in a nice friendly way then it’s all good.

Originally posted by: sneha_17

Pallavi not attending award function is directly insulting her husband and his hardwork.

Wife not giving importance to her husband achievements is just murdering their relationship.

I don’t want Raghav to get drunk and go to Deshmukh house and any more long for Pallavi. I want Raghav to ignore Pallavi exists and send divorce papers with a note you failed as wife best wishes to succeed as daughter.

No one in the world deserves this treatment for being in love and respecting his wife wishes.

showing good man taken for granted will only make man to think not to treat wife with respect

Exactly I too want him to shock pallu by sending divorce papers

It’s too much now