Pallavi needs to feel what Raghav is feeling. - Page 2

That entire fiasco

Was shown to bring back Mandar and Mandar only . And now Mandars ex is with him 24/7 taking Care of him like his wife or mother while his entire family sitting idle . Completely idiotic and illogical plot

Originally posted by: d.padmini

For pallavi to feel what raghav is feeling she first needs to acknowledge Raghav's feeling and more so raghav ..she at the moment is so much into her farz and insaniyat that she might not even notice or pay attention to Raghav being with some other girl or raghav drifting away from her ...

Till now even for a second she has not thought about raghav feelings, even we he specifically in clear words told her how much he is missing her, she did not acknowledge it ...

. What is more irritating is she is playing victim card ...her dialogue in the scene with kaka were so annoying , ...I am sandwiched between pyaar and farz ..how ? Who told u to ? It's u who have choosen to be sandwiched...then why complain ...if CVs think that by giving these kind of dialogue to pallavi she will gain sympathy of audience, then they are in some parallel world.....with each passing day pallavi is becoming more unrealistic , we cannot understand or relate to her or feel for her anymore

Exactly this! Word for word!

Raghav could be wasting his liver away and Pallavi wouldn't raise an eyebrow. She's too tied up in a web that she created herself. Raghav has fully communicated his worries to her, he even apologized for feeling insecure when that wasn't warranted. Pallavi has turned a deaf ear to him and for that reason the audience cannot and will not sympathize with her. Sympathy chorro, humare paas toh empathy bhi nahi bachi.

You're absolutely right that we cannot understand nor relate to Pallavi anymore. She isn't in a circumstantial dilemma, this isn't happening to her by fate, she has paved the way for this to happen to her and she keeps accepting whatever else is thrown at her. If she spent even five minutes of her day reflecting on what all Raghav has said to her, then I'd be the first to cut her some slack. But so far we haven't seen her thinking back to Raghav's words or his hurt at all. She's going off on a random tangent about "farz aur pyaar ek hojaye"... behen, ek hi the, aapne khud zabardasti alag kiye hain .Raghav was your pyaar and farz, both, and he wasn't even remotely as demanding as the farz you're caught up with at D-house. Hell, he's not even expecting anything at the pyaar end. I would've reamed her out if I was the spouse in this scenario, but all Raghav said was "I miss you, please come home soon" as if yeh kisi casual Goa trip pe gayi hai.

If the story's general setting was different, if Pallavi was shown as a bechari orphan and bechari widow from the get go, then she'd get brownie points for this nonsense. Siku's trying to tell us that an independent woman who overcame the baggage of being a widow, who worked day and night to put food on the family's table, who easily stood up to the don of Hyderabad, that same woman is now so bloody bechari that she's unable to take a stand for herself and her marriage... yeah, try again please!