Originally posted by: msin
I wrote something .. and it got deleted.. I found the episode interesting..
Essentially the story is about them ..virat and Sai both are good folks .. they don’t want to hurt others .. and are sorted in their career goals .. but yes both have their inner complexities.. which may be according to their upbringing ( virat ) and circumstances ( Sai )
Loved the way you put it....
Virat cares more about Sai than she does for virat .. He sees to her welfare .. and keeps her happiness above his family .. He is self centred enough to not do enough for his mother or even father .. but he does go the extra mile for Sai and there in comes his insecurities.. because she does not seem to reciprocate..
Sai’s care and love is seen when she cares about his family .. she’s doing it more because they are his family .. so any breakage in relationship with him .. she distances herself from his family too ..
@bold I disagree. Virat is more expressive and he certainly was the one who pushed the accelerator on the relationship - understandable since he has few close relationships. But subsequently, it has been Sai who has borne the bulk of the relationship - she has been very understanding of his weakness towards his family despite the harassment she faces at their hands, she has been tolerant of the presence of her husband's ex-lover who keeps interfering in their relationship. From this point onwards, it might be Virat's efforts that keeps the marriage alive. Perhaps their relationship will be like a rocking boat, where each side takes turn to steady the ship.
I try telling repeatedly in this forum that people’s faults are so not easily washed away .. otherwise there would be no pain in society .. Marriage is a trial n error .. couples keep on making mistakes , they fight .. if the love is there they make up .. again fight again make up .. till they start understanding each other a little better
Either virat will improve or Sai will learn to overlook his faults .. if they are going to stay with each other but it won’t happen immediately.. there will be many knee jerk moments ..
I agree 200%. People take years to work past their flaws....or to look past their spouse's flaws. Marriage even turns toxic for a while, spouses play the blame game, take each other for granted, wallow in self-pity. Considering SaiRat have been married for under a year, their progress is actually going at breakneck speed.