Words and actions when both are not understood in a relationship...

He went to the room... couldn't see her lying in the hospital bed... heartbroken, is about to leave the room... she feels her Aaba's presence in him. Hayeee that was beautiful.

In GC too she had turned her head as she didn't want to see him... 🥺

You maybe didn't mean it but she felt it that way.
It's time you learn to control your words and action.
Bad mein toh pachtana aur baajna tujhe hi hota hai.

I actually loved that she said she should have left him right after he recovered. 😳
He was shocked to know that she stayed because he asked her not because she wanted to.
Though we all know she too wanted to stay. 😉

"Mein tumhe soch samajh kar roka hai par tumhe yeh baat kabhi samajh nahin aati." 😒
He was actually saying "You don't understand that I love you." 😒
Well Veeru, your wife only understands words not actions. 😆 Sometimes I even doubt if she understands words. 🤔 She understands only what she wants to understand. 😆
That's a lot of understand. 🤣🤣

No Veeru you can't just expect her to let it go and come back. Talk about it. Understand each other. Why this happened ? What you actually meant ? What she felt ?... 😳

And no Sai... you aren't in the hospial because of him. You can say that because of his words and action you lost your mind and didn't realize you were in the middle of the road. But the accident didn't happen because of him. But well you are excused because right now you are angry and hurt and when you are angry and hurt you accuse him of a lot of things. 😳

She considers him khaas. And he was surprised to know that she considers him khaas. 😳
The lack of communication is destroying their relationship. Better the kidddos understand this fast.

Kind of liked how she said "Galti aapki soch thi. Aapki soch mein zeher hai. Aapki soch ghaatiya hai." He should think twice because doing the same mistake again.

But also felt bad for him... it felt like all the good things in him was flushed down the toilets because of his insecurities and jealousy. 😭

"Mein tumhare liye possessive ho gaya tha Sai."
"Kyun ? Aisa toh nahin ke humara rishta asli pati patni jaisa ho ?"
"Toh kyun nahin hai. Humara rishta bhi aisa kyun nahin hai ? Sai mein dil se chahta hoon ki humara rishta bhi baki pati patniyon jaisa ho."
This was a confession. 😲 He said he wants this marriage to work like a normal marriage. 😲
So if after that Sai's wall doesn't break then what will ? Why can't his efforts and his words be enough ? 🤔 Veeru actually needs to tell her now that his vaada to Pakhi is broken long ago and he now loves her. And then if the wall doesn't break then he should take a break from being the lover boy. 🥱 Because I am tired of this Veeru. I miss the old Veeru. 😒
Also he should maybe give her some time to think about what to do. 😳

"Har cheez aapke chahne se nahin hoti. Mein kya chahti hoon woh bhi mayne rakhta hai." 👏
That was nice. Of course she has the right to take her own decisions and decide what she wants.
I just hope she was talking about not forgiving him and not going back to CN. 😳
Hope it wasn't about not wanting a real husband and wife relationship because if so then Veeru needs to stop running behind something where he is racing alone. 😒

I liked how Ashwini tried to make her understand why Virat is getting possessive. 👍🏼
And Mohit saying that his brother was wrong but is remorseful was good too. 👍🏼

"Sai ke paas rukhne ke liye mujhe tumse na toh ijazat lene ki zaroorat hai nahin salah." 🤣
Didi khud ki hi beizzati karwati rehti hai. 🤣

No band baja of Didi... and I feel like tomorrow also it won't happen. 🤢
Phir writers bhool jaayenge that they had to blast a bomb at her. Didi phir se bach jaayegi. 🤢

Lovely post as always Ray.....❤️

I am yet to see the entire episode, but I have seen only clips, like very few😳

But seems the episode in total is heartbreaking🥺

Poor Sairat, cuz both are equally victim. For me it's not Virat or Sai in a situation,cuz whatever mistake or action either one will do, the result is experienced by both.

If it's something which touches the heart, it's both of them smiling happily with lots of unnoticed love in their eyes, but if it's something which breaks the heart, they both fall deep in pain.

Yes, the mistake was huge, but mistakes gain a value in life when lesson is learnt from them.

The biggest thing for me would be, both, sorry, I am ready to get bashed for this sentence, but not only Virat, both Sairat should for one moment think where are they exactly going wrong ,that every person, whether Pakhi, whether Ajinkya seems to be a threat to their realtionship even if the actual case isn't.

They need to bridge the gap, not throw ropes at each other across the river and do stunts by balancing on them. Give time and reduce the space, not ignore the space. ❤️

Loved your update Ray❤️

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Lovely post as always Ray.....❤️

I am yet to see the entire episode, but I have seen only clips, like very few😳

But seems the episode in total is heartbreaking🥺

Poor Sairat, cuz both are equally victim. For me it's not Virat or Sai in a situation,cuz whatever mistake or action either one will do, the result is experienced by both.

If it's something which touches the heart, it's both of them smiling happily with lots of unnoticed love in their eyes, but if it's something which breaks the heart, they both fall deep in pain.

Yes, the mistake was huge, but mistakes gain a value in life when lesson is learnt from them.

The biggest thing for me would be, both, sorry, I am ready to get bashed for this sentence, but not only Virat, both Sairat should for one moment think where are they exactly going wrong ,that every person, whether Pakhi, whether Ajinkya seems to be a threat to their realtionship even if the actual case isn't.

They need to bridge the gap, not throw ropes at each other across the river and do stunts by balancing on them. Give time and reduce the space, not ignore the space. ❤️

Loved your update Ray❤️

That's exactly what I thought while watching the episode. We always blame Virat for not using spasht sabd. But didn't he make it clear many times he wants to give their relationship a chance. I know that everything started because of his vaada to Pakhi but isn't his confession more important than saying that the vaada doesn't hold anymore. There were so many times we were irritated that he couldn't tell her that Pakhi is forgotten long ago and we know her behavior makes it look like their love is still their but what about Virat's actions and words. She didn't realize it yet that he has distanced himself from Pakhi, how he always takes her side instead of Pakhi's, how he blasts Pakhi when she goes wrong, how he confesses to her how important she is, how he tries to make her happy from small to big things. So it's maybe time she thinks a little bit... maybe she actually should go with Pulkit to understand things... let alone understanding Virat's feelings, when will she understand hers? Why Pakhi affects her so much? Why she is jealous of her? Why the vaada affects her ? Why she likes when he does something for her? Why she expects things from him?

Both really need a break I guess... take two days and think about their importance in each other's life.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That's exactly what I thought while watching the episode. We always blame Virat for not using spasht sabd. But didn't he make it clear many times he wants to give their relationship a chance. I know that everything started because of his vaada to Pakhi but isn't his confession more important than saying that the vaada doesn't hold anymore. There were so many times we were irritated that he couldn't tell her that Pakhi is forgotten long ago and we know her behavior makes it look like their love is still their but what about Virat's actions and words. She didn't realize it yet that he has distanced himself from Pakhi, how he always takes her side instead of Pakhi's, how he blasts Pakhi when she goes wrong, how he confesses to her how important she is, how he tries to make her happy from small to big things. So it's maybe time she thinks a little bit... maybe she actually should go with Pulkit to understand things... let alone understanding Virat's feelings, when will she understand hers? Why Pakhi affects her so much? Why she is jealous of her? Why the vaada affects her ? Why she likes when he does something for her? Why she expects things from him?

Both really need a break I guess... take two days and think about their importance in each other's life.

Haan Ray😳

I am not saying this based on today's episode, cuz I have not seen it properly. ❤️

I am just saying as a neutral person, and I am saying this for Sairat.

It's always said na, "ek haath se taali nahi bajti hai".

It applies well here. Efforts, mistakes, apology shouldn't be one end. Virat and Sai, together, or with a break ,as in, like PD ka ghar hi sahi. Take some time, where their thoughts are not surrounded by family, friends, etc. It should be just them in those thoughts. Contemplate, ignore the unnecessary points like Pakhi entering the room, or Ajinkya was her dance partner etc. Just think about each other. Think where they are doing wrong,Virat should decide why can't Sai get his actions, or sai should think why can't she get over his words although his actions which she is understanding, which she is umkmowingly reciprocating, what exactly is making her think the other way. Put the other way, or old school with technology, type it and send an email dudes. You can't speak, fine, write it off. Or use a median who you both trust, get what is bothering you out if the system.

Forever blaming, (applies to both) and forever forgiving and forgetting won't help.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

He went to the room... couldn't see her lying in the hospital bed... heartbroken, is about to leave the room... she feels her Aaba's presence in him. Hayeee that was beautiful.

In GC too she had turned her head as she didn't want to see him... 🥺

You maybe didn't meant it but she felt it that way.
It's time you learn to control your words and action.
Bad mein toh pachtana aur baajna tujhe hi hota hai.

I actually loved that she said she should have left him right after he recovered. 😳
He was shocked to know that she stayed because he asked her not because she wanted to.
Though we all know she too wanted to stay. 😉

"Mein tumhe soch samajh kar roka hai par tumhe yeh baat kabhi samajh nahin aati." 😒
He was actually saying "You don't understand that I love you." 😒
Well Veeru, your wife only understands words not actions. 😆 Sometimes I even doubt if she understands words. 🤔 She understands only what she wants to understand. 😆
That's a lot of understand. 🤣🤣

No Veeru you can't just expect her to let it go and come back. Talk about it. Understand each other. Why this happened ? What you actually meant ? What she felt ?... 😳

And no Sai... you aren't in the hospial because of him. You can say that because of his words and action you lost your mind and didn't realize you were in the middle of the road. But the accident didn't happen because of him. But well you are excused because right now you are angry and hurt and when you are angry and hurt you accuse him of a lot of things. 😳

She considers him khaas. And he was surprised to know that she considers him khaas. 😳
The lack of communication is destroying their relationship. Better the kidddos understand this fast.

Kind of liked how she said "Galti aapki soch thi. Aapki soch mein zeher hai. Aapki soch ghaatiya hai." He should think twice because doing the same mistake again.

But also felt bad for him... it felt like all the good things in him was flushed down the toilets because of his insecurities and jealousy. 😭

"Mein tumhare liye possessive ho gaya tha Sai."
"Kyun ? Aisa toh nahin ke humara rishta asli pati patni jaisa ho ?"
"Toh kyun nahin hai. Humara rishta bhi aisa kyun nahin hai ? Sai mein dil se chahta hoon ki humara rishta bhi baki pati patniyon jaisa ho."
This was a confession. 😲 He said he wants this marriage to work like a normal marriage. 😲
So if after that Sai's wall doesn't break then what will ? Why can't his efforts and his words be enough ? 🤔 Veeru actually needs to tell her now that his vaada to Pakhi is broken long ago and he now loves her. And then if the wall doesn't break then he should take a break from being the lover boy. 🥱 Because I am tired of this Veeru. I miss the old Veeru. 😒
Also he should maybe give her some time to think about what to do. 😳

"Har cheez aapke chahne se nahin hoti. Mein kya chahti hoon woh bhi mayne rakhta hai." 👏
That was nice. Of course she has the right to take her own decisions and decide what she wants.
I just hope she was talking about not forgiving him and not going back to CN. 😳
Hope it wasn't about not wanting a real husband and wife relationship because if so then Veeru needs to stop running behind something where he is racing alone. 😒

I liked how Ashwini tried to make her understand why Virat is getting possessive. 👍🏼
And Mohit saying that his brother was wrong but is remorseful was good too. 👍🏼

"Sai ke paas rukhne ke liye mujhe tumse na toh ijazat lene ki zaroorat hai nahin salah." 🤣
Didi khud ki hi beizzati karwati rehti hai. 🤣

No band baja of Didi... and I feel like tomorrow also it won't happen. 🤢
Phir writers bhool jaayenge that they had to blast a bomb at her. Didi phir se bach jaayegi. 🤢

The episode was too emotional. Both Virat and Sai expressed their feelings indirectly. Both of them have to be vocal and retrospect their feelings and why they their actions and words effect them so much. We always find fault with Virat but isn't it the same with Sai too? And, this is not the first time that she has blamed Virat . When her Aaba was shot she blamed Virat and not only that she called him a murderer. So, it's not surprising that she blamed him for the accident. In both the cases he wasn't at fault. She was so angry that without thinking twice she ran on the road only to get hit by a passing car. Right now everyone will say she was angry and in anger you say and do things which we regret later. Virat too does the same,but atleast he apologises upon realising his mistake. Sai also has told many things to him out of anger but will she apologise this time or her actions and words will get overshadowed by Virat's unplanned accident?

Virat has openly confessed this marriage is not a deal and if Sai hasn't yet understood then I don't know how Virat will make her understand. But, if she's not willing to give him a chance then I guess he should stop running behind her. He deserves better than this and he has much better things to do rather than wasting his energy and time. He too has his self respect.

I liked how Ashwini asked her to ponder for the reason behind Virat's possessiveness and Mohit told her how Virat is guilty. But, Sai is stubborn that she will only see and what she wants to see and understand.

Didi aadat se majboor hai. Jan tak apni beizzati karwaleti usse chain nahi milta 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I feel we will have the blasting on Saturday since tomorrow Sai will go with Pulkit and Virat might return to Chavan Niwas alone, so she'll try to take advantage as usual but will get a shock from him. If the writers choose to ignore her blasting SaiRat fans will blast them🤣

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That's exactly what I thought while watching the episode. We always blame Virat for not using spasht sabd. But didn't he make it clear many times he wants to give their relationship a chance. I know that everything started because of his vaada to Pakhi but isn't his confession more important than saying that the vaada doesn't hold anymore. There were so many times we were irritated that he couldn't tell her that Pakhi is forgotten long ago and we know her behavior makes it look like their love is still their but what about Virat's actions and words. She didn't realize it yet that he has distanced himself from Pakhi, how he always takes her side instead of Pakhi's, how he blasts Pakhi when she goes wrong, how he confesses to her how important she is, how he tries to make her happy from small to big things. So it's maybe time she thinks a little bit... maybe she actually should go with Pulkit to understand things... let alone understanding Virat's feelings, when will she understand hers? Why Pakhi affects her so much? Why she is jealous of her? Why the vaada affects her ? Why she likes when he does something for her? Why she expects things from him?

Both really need a break I guess... take two days and think about their importance in each other's life.

Exactly. There were many instances where Virat has royally ignored her and given it back to her for insulting Sai. During her birthday celebration he litterelly held her hand for pushing and hurting Sai. I don't know how can Sai not see these small changes in Virat. He doesn't give a damn to her and still Sai feels Virat is in love with Pakhi. She too has overeacted so many times and even accused about extra marital affair but when Virat overeacted she goes on ranting about the deal marraige.

I think both need a break from each other. When they'll be apart maybe they'll pinder on where they have gone wrong and might try to mend their broken trust and relationship.

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Haan Ray😳

I am not saying this based on today's episode, cuz I have not seen it properly. ❤️

I am just saying as a neutral person, and I am saying this for Sairat.

It's always said na, "ek haath se taali nahi bajti hai".

It applies well here. Efforts, mistakes, apology shouldn't be one end. Virat and Sai, together, or with a break ,as in, like PD ka ghar hi sahi. Take some time, where their thoughts are not surrounded by family, friends, etc. It should be just them in those thoughts. Contemplate, ignore the unnecessary points like Pakhi entering the room, or Ajinkya was her dance partner etc. Just think about each other. Think where they are doing wrong,Virat should decide why can't Sai get his actions, or sai should think why can't she get over his words although his actions which she is understanding, which she is umkmowingly reciprocating, what exactly is making her think the other way. Put the other way, or old school with technology, type it and send an email dudes. You can't speak, fine, write it off. Or use a median who you both trust, get what is bothering you out if the system.

Forever blaming, (applies to both) and forever forgiving and forgetting won't help.

Yeah me too based on the entire journey of SaiRat But today realized that just like Sai we were waiting for Virat to tell that the vaada was over. Now it feels like even if he will say it loud she won't understand or accept it. She will think he is doing in majboori not because he genuinely has fallen in love.

They need to take a break then talk. Because so far they didn't communicate. As they didn't communicate, they didn't understand each other or fully trusted each other. Hiding things, hurting, misunderstanding... this things have become a habit now. 😕

Today's episode hurt deep... even though the past 2 days have been emotional, these two together in one frame in pain takes those scenes to another level altogether!

This is the second time Sai is in hospital, and when Virat is near her, she does feel Aaba's presence... or rather, the same calm, sense of home and love she used to in Aaba's presence - thanks for pointing it out, Ray! 😭

How he started off by saying she shouldn't have run... it felt natural, actually. How we would react when we see someone close to us hurt, first instinct is to mention the actual action that caused the hurt, not the underlying reason.

And then, ohh the pain in his eyes, words, gestures... and in hers...I was destroyed today.

Aai and Mohit are love... but the last shot of GCwala Virat Chavan... got goosebumps!!!