If Sai goes back will it still be a deal marriage - Page 3

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

@bold - Apt suggestion..

This can be told, but do the Chakrams have the brains to accept and act accordingly.. the way they still treat Ashwini and Karishma clearly states otherwise.. I somehow felt yesterday that fear can only instill thoughts of compassion in them.. the way they feared when Pulkit said he shall register a police complaint against them..

If they can't accept then they should get their own medicine.. Now sai and virat still respect them but if theu can't respect sai as virat's wife sairat should also stop give them and their house rules importance too..and virat as a police officer should warn them to stop harassing his wife otherwise they will take legal action.. Bohot ho gaya ghar ki bado ko samman dena..they needs to get a legal notice to put themselves in place as we know how much they fear to go to jail..

Originally posted by: sadiltl

She loves him and so forgives him! More easily too than when ousting happened. That’s what love does to people. People build their marriages on the ruins, mostly with care next time, so they don’t wreck again!!

Last time, virat stops her by his haq declaring it as no deal from his side. Now sai if willingly goes to him then it should be a no deal for her too..

I hope they don’t go circles as in KD. They are definitely at a much better place if they come together now. Even confession can be possible 👍

Originally posted by: sadiltl

yeah as @msin keeps pointing out., they need to be more physical. They are in a stalemate now. Actions that show their attraction towards each other is needed. So much can be communicated 🤗. In real no arranged marriage will have a confession 🤭. Here deal is added to that so it becomes difficult. So my suggestion to sairat after this track is to end the deal and try to be more closer physically. 🤘

I just went and edited my post... sorry about that! My point was that they need verbal communication, because while normally actions speak louder than words, they have the vaada hanging over their relationship. I agree that being more physical will help push Sai a step closer to accepting her own and Virat's feelings... but, at the end of the day, she will still be confused (once again between Virat's actions and his words) until the deal marriage is ended.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

yeah as @msin keeps pointing out., they need to be more physical. They are in a stalemate now. Actions that show their attraction towards each other is needed. So much can be communicated 🤗. In real no arranged marriage will have a confession 🤭. Here deal is added to that so it becomes difficult. So my suggestion to sairat after this track is to end the deal and try to be more closer physically. 🤘

ha .. I do mean this .. as of this moment they both are very good friends.. .. if they continue like this it will graduate into a platonic relationship.. this has to stop …

Originally posted by: msin

ha .. I do mean this .. as of this moment they both are very good friends.. .. if they continue like this it will graduate into a platonic relationship.. this has to stop …

I disagree that they are in a platonic relationship. The sexual tension is very evident to me. But Virat is not going to do anything until he feels that Sai is comfortable unless they both get caught up in the moment like with the ladoo or holi scene.

Originally posted by: tptwi

I disagree that they are in a platonic relationship. The sexual tension is very evident to me. But Virat is not going to do anything until he feels that Sai is comfortable unless they both get caught up in the moment like with the ladoo or holi scene.

Yes the tension was evident till the hospital drama .. but after that .. the easy going way to put things in a back burner has put them in a stalemate.. they need to break this

Originally posted by: tptwi

I just went and edited my post... sorry about that! My point was that they need verbal communication, because while normally actions speak louder than words, they have the vaada hanging over their relationship. I agree that being more physical will help push Sai a step closer to accepting her own and Virat's feelings... but, at the end of the day, she will still be confused (once again between Virat's actions and his words) until the deal marriage is ended.

i don’t know whether I am going tangential here, but Men and women find different ways to address their insecurities. I am talking after reading some self help books on relationships. Virats insecurities can be addressed only if she comes closer to him. Afterall he loves her. It is hard for a lover, male or female to staY away from not expressing their love physically. Sai’s fears just like any woman needs emotional support/talk. Only words comfort her. That’s the problem. They have different expectations 😳 the original writer leena looks like a writer with good experience of life. She is kind of addressing all these aspects one by one.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

i don’t know whether I am going tangential here, but Men and women find different ways to address their insecurities. I am talking after reading some self help books on relationships. Virats insecurities can be addressed only if she comes closer to him. Afterall he loves her. It is hard for a lover, male or female to staY away from not expressing their love physically. Sai’s fears just like any woman needs emotional support/talk. Only words comfort her. That’s the problem. They have different expectations 😳 the original writer leena looks like a writer with good experience of life. She is kind of addressing all these aspects one by one.

Very interesting point! I agree with you, but I also still think that both of them need verbal affirmation from each other. One particular example I can think about Virat off the top of my head is during the college festival fight. By asking her why she came rushing to the hospital and then back home with him, and now is still here... he was trying to push her to admit that she believes this marriage is real. Both of them want the other to admit it... both of them are acting as real husband wife, the love is there, the feelings are there... but the label is missing...

Originally posted by: tptwi

Very interesting point! I agree with you, but I also still think that both of them need verbal affirmation from each other. One particular example I can think about Virat off the top of my head is during the college festival fight. By asking her why she came rushing to the hospital and then back home with him, and now is still here... he was trying to push her to admit that she believes this marriage is real. Both of them want the other to admit it... both of them are acting as real husband wife, the love is there, the feelings are there... but the label is missing...

2 incidents where virat has let out his feelings abd Sai should reflect on ..

1 he did not like .. she was hugging her friends but he only got a pair chhoona .. he was visibly upset when she made the oldie reference .. any reasonable person can see that

2 during the ajinkye fight .. he sai I don’t like u talking with her , dancing with her .. and today you were keeping ur head on his shoulders ..

so if she starts going back she can understand where is he talking back .. Sai is 19 .. still unused to the ways of marriage and all
But she has to start reading her husband beyond his hunger for food abd all .. she claimed she can read him very well .. to pakhi n family .. she understands his morality and sense of duty .. but does she understand his feelings for her ..

karishma infact could read him more clearly ..

Originally posted by: msin

2 incidents where virat has let out his feelings abd Sai should reflect on ..

1 he did not like .. she was hugging her friends but he only got a pair chhoona .. he was visibly upset when she made the oldie reference .. any reasonable person can see that

2 during the ajinkye fight .. he sai I don’t like u talking with her , dancing with her .. and today you were keeping ur head on his shoulders ..

so if she starts going back she can understand where is he talking back .. Sai is 19 .. still unused to the ways of marriage and all
But she has to start reading her husband beyond his hunger for food abd all .. she claimed she can read him very well .. to pakhi n family .. she understands his morality and sense of duty .. but does she understand his feelings for her ..

karishma infact could read him more clearly ..

I think we have had this conversation before, but I don't think that the problem is that she doesn't understand him. She sees that he is acting in a way that is more than a zimidari....perhaps she even sees that he loves her. But, she is unable to label it as the love that a husband gives to a wife due to the vaada, Pakhi, and her own insecurities that these two things have created for her. That is why she is always so confused and has said on multiple occasions that she doesn't get Virat... because his actions show that he is her husband, but in her mind..how can this be true? So, there really needs to be a conversation once and for all where they clear all of this up...