If Sai goes back will it still be a deal marriage

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai has been given an honourable way out .. this time there are no poor gadchiroli folks who try to weaken her .. by saying a wife’s place with her husband

pulkit has repaid back Sai with a back up support .. we all were cribbing why Devyani pulkit story had so much footage because it was the building block pulkit Sai relationship.. even the half hearted kidnapping cemented this more ..

She has his support to stay back abd rebuild her life .. become a doctor.. and get a suitable partner when it’s time ..

Now why should she chose to go back to virat .. and if she choses to go back to him .. can she call it a deal marriage .. because.. in her mind she feels virat loves pakhi .. so even then it will be better if pakhi n virat get to come together .. considering now it’s one year .. of Samrat MIA .. if Virakhi unite .. it’s ok for Paapi too .. as she waited for 1 year for Samrat to return .. how long should she wait ..

So Sai should think and do accordingly.. She should be under no compulsion or delusion as to why is she going back to Virat .. it has to be for both of them .. Just them


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Posted: 4 years ago
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This is high time if she wants to stay this time she should b clear to herself and virat that she is staying because she loves him and she is here to stay as his wife and not just as a charity..and he also should be clear to her that he care for her because she is his wife and love of his life and not a zimmedari..and they should clear this to his family too so that before telling her something disrespectful they should keep that in mind that she also has full right on this house as daughter in law and virat's wife..she isn't just someone outsider they blv or not she is a part of family and she is virat's legal family..

Edited by Momrin - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

Sai has been given an honourable way out .. this time there are no poor gadchiroli folks who try to weaken her .. by saying a wife’s place with her husband

pulkit has repaid back Sai with a back up support .. we all were cribbing why Devyani pulkit story had so much footage because it was the building block pulkit Sai relationship.. even the half hearted kidnapping cemented this more ..

She has his support to stay back abd rebuild her life .. become a doctor.. and get a suitable partner when it’s time ..

Now why should she chose to go back to virat .. and if she choses to go back to him .. can she call it a deal marriage .. because.. in her mind she feels virat loves pakhi .. so even then it will be better if pakhi n virat get to come together .. considering now it’s one year .. of Samrat MIA .. if Virakhi unite .. it’s ok for Paapi too .. as she waited for 1 year for Samrat to return .. how long should she wait ..

So Sai should think and do accordingly.. She should be under no compulsion or delusion as to why is she going back to Virat .. it has to be for both of them .. Just them



@bold- i am quoting from my own post in another thread-


in todays episode I really felt bad for sai. At the same time I was angry on her because we all know that even after this she will return to CN. She has options now, she can go to pulkit' house, she can go to hostel but she wont, she will return to CN for more torture.

So in my eyes if virat is pathetic husband then sai is equally pathetic girl for forgiving virat everytime. There is not an ounce of romance in sairat, infact, it is the most toxic relationship I have ever seen on itv. And the shocking thing is they like to live in this toxic relationship only. Virat is brute and sai is masochist.

Edited by Bechain_Bulbul - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Agreed . If she is going back she needs to be clear as to why she wants to go back to him . They need to show some progression . It doesn’t make sense to bring up deal marriage after this . If it’s just a deal , it’s better to end it now than later . If support is what she is looking for then she has that in Pulkit . If she is looking for family then she has some CN members who will be her family even after her divorce. If she going back out of sympathy then Virat deserves more than this . The only reason she should go back is if she wants Virat else it’s better for both of them to go separate ways .


Regarding Virat Pakhi , Pakhi has lost Virat and he is no longer interested in her so if she decides to move on from Samrat then she has only one option ie to look for a different guy . Virat shouldn’t get into any rebound relationship as he is still in love with Sai . He should take his time to move on and go with the flow for now .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai needs to get out of deal thing now.

She should give some space and time to her ration with virat. Wanting to go back to him or no can be decided after she recovers and mayb take few months. It's not like they do not have issues between them. They lack communication. They Let the stupid didi come between them directly or indirectly.

They both need to figure out and most importantly, virta needs to stop getting petty attention seeker and tell her that deal with didi is off.


Sai needs to be more restrained in her approach an avoid few events of drama. The surprise baba with harmoniom could have been done by taking one person in confidence and the stupid drug drama could have been avoided. Accha karna hai... Acchi baat hai.... But that can be done with shaanti as well.



The distance should make virat bit of a better person an stop being sooo stupid with jumping the gun.... Ghar se nikalo..mm khana mat do... Kamre mein kya kar rahi thi... That is worse than teenage jealousy.... And infact, even the supposed hormonal teenagers behave rationally at times of need.

He needs to stop the jalebi tales an be the seeda gathia.


Pakhi, u say can be with virat, but she first needs a psycho analysis. She has some serious issues in her mind. Even she needs space an time and a ton lot of councelling. She acts like a lost case with sole aim of seperate virat an sai an then she does not know wat else she will do. Single agenda in life kinda thing. And even that will not lead to any finality.

She is unfit to be with anyone at the moment.



Vaise, we keep on making plans and posts an hopes for the ITV and they do some other shot altogether. 😂😂😂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Momrin

This is high time if she wants to stay this time she should b clear to herself and virat that she is staying because she loves him and she is here to stay as his wife and not just as a charity..and he also should be clear to her that he care for her because she is his wife and love of his life and not a zimmedari..and they should clear this to his family too so that before telling her something disrespectful they should keep that in mind that she also has full right on this house as daughter in law and virat's wife..she isn't just someone outsider they blv or not she is a part of family and she is virat's legal family..


We all wish this would happen. If it was real life then a man who has accused his wife having affair with someone and wife after suffering from all this and still deciding on going back to husband's place, they must talk clearly about their feelings. They should discuss what led to this whole life threatening situation amd atleast now confess their feelings but no they will be back again to the misunderstandings and confusion amd act as if nothing happened.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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It’s quite a conundrum isn’t it?? Should Sai go back to Virat or not?? We all know she is going back, cos it’s the KD way.. 😆

When she finally goes, will she be claiming this to be a deal marriage?? The answer solely depends on Virat now, he must move mountains… to convince her that he acted like a maniac when rage and jealousy blinded him… apologize n seek redemption… after Sai forgives him… he should clarify his past relationship and the vaada being a blunder.. and finally he must break off all ties with Pakhi in front of Sai. Only then Sai can consider this marriage a real one.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul


We all wish this would happen. If it was real life then a man who has accused his wife having affair with someone and wife after suffering from all this and still deciding on going back to husband's place, they must talk clearly about their feelings. They should discuss what led to this whole life threatening situation amd atleast now confess their feelings but no they will be back again to the misunderstandings and confusion amd act as if nothing happened.

Well said.. I know It's fiction but their is a limit even if It's fiction.. There are many other way to stretch show but no they will follow typical unnecessary misunderstanding rout to stretch..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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She loves him and so forgives him! More easily too than when ousting happened. That’s what love does to people. People build their marriages on the ruins, mostly with care next time, so they don’t wreck again!!


Last time, virat stops her by his haq declaring it as no deal from his side. Now sai if willingly goes to him then it should be a no deal for her too..


I hope they don’t go circles as in KD. They are definitely at a much better place if they come together now. Even confession can be possible 👍


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Momrin

This is high time if she wants to stay this time she should b clear to herself and virat that she is staying because she loves him and she is here to stay as his wife and not just as a charity..and he also should be clear to her that he care for her because she is his wife and love of his life and not a zimmedari..and they should clear this to his family too so that before telling her something disrespectful they should keep that in mind that she also has full right on this house as daughter in law and virat's wife..she isn't just someone outsider they blv or not she is a part of family and she is virat's legal family..


Exactly my point .. things have to be clearly said from both sides .. Sai cannot come back .. and then say in the next arguments.. it’s a deal marriage I will go back .. then I have no Haq on virat sir , he’s doing kindness to an orphan ..

Some of the reasons this blew up so badly was because of virat’s insecurities..which was triggered by lack of clarity in their marriage status


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