Virat’s anger is justified... - Page 3

Do people really think virat holding pp hands is "casual" and can be compared to Sai hugging her friends and touching them. she is the girl who he supposedly loved and had a past with n has now bevome his bhabhi but still harbors lustful intentions for him which he is aware of. Theres is nothing platonic or friendly about virat-pp relationship. They are already stuck living in the same house with virats wife bearing the brunt of toxic didis toxicity. The least he can do is maintain a physical distance from her. Yet he thinks its ok to hold her hand , even casually?! And he swings like a pendulum- one day he tells her not to come to his room, swats her hand away, next day he himself is holding her hand sometimes even while he is hugging his wife, or standing too close for comfort whispering in her ear! Matlabb aisa swing karta hai banda. Not to mention walking into pp's room at night in the past or allowing pp to do the same just coz he feels like "his" intentions are "pure" so everyone needs to understand it but if his wife even mentions a boys name, hell will break lose from his end. He makes Sai his wife go through the pain of living with his ex 24x7 and walking into their private space and he has a problem with wife's friend dropling off notes n cupcakes for her n sitting next to her because he has "hallucinated" that they were kissing/canoodling or whatever 🙄 He even has the gall to actually look surprised when Sai states that the issue is not the pillows between us but a full fledged person.

Honestly i DO understand virats reasons for insecurity and i know he truly loves Sai n cares for her and i feel for him when he is stuck between a rock n hard place but there is really NO defense for his maniac behavior n "physical assault" n his rage no matter what. He crosses all lines. And there is absolutely NO comparison of what he has done with any of Sai's mistakes. Because thankfully Sai has never been shown this crazy. Brash, stubborn, yes but never maniacal! . Ajinkya can actually charge him for assault. Virat has screwed up big time. And thankfully even the character himself will soon realize it.

Seriously, its in equal parts appalling as well as ridiculous to read the opinions of certain people on this forum. 🙄 Thankfully majority people on this forum are people who are truly rational, sensitive, funny, clever and logical and I love reading all their povs.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Do people really think virat holding pp hands is "casual" and can be compared to Sai hugging her friends and touching them. she is the girl who he supposedly loved and had a past with n has now bevome his bhabhi but still harbors lustful intentions for him which he is aware of. Theres is nothing platonic or friendly about virat-pp relationship. They are already stuck living in the same house with virats wife bearing the brunt of toxic didis toxicity. The least he can do is maintain a physical distance from her. Yet he thinks its ok to hold her hand , even casually?! And he swings like a pendulum- one day he tells her not to come to his room, swats her hand away, next day he himself is holding her hand sometimes even while he is hugging his wife, or standing too close for comfort whispering in her ear! Matlabb aisa swing karta hai banda. Not to mention walking into pp's room at night in the past or allowing pp to do the same just coz he feels like "his" intentions are "pure" so everyone needs to understand it but if his wife even mentions a boys name, hell will break lose from his end. He makes Sai his wife go through the pain of living with his ex 24x7 and walking into their private space and he has a problem with wife's friend dropling off notes n cupcakes for her n sitting next to her because he has "hallucinated" that they were kissing/canoodling or whatever 🙄 He even has the gall to actually look surprised when Sai states that the issue is not the pillows between us but a full fledged person.

Honestly i DO understand virats reasons for insecurity and i know he truly loves Sai n cares for her and i feel for him when he is stuck between a rock n hard place but there is really NO defense for his maniac behavior n "physical assault" n his rage no matter what. He crosses all lines. And there is absolutely NO comparison of what he has done with any of Sai's mistakes. Because thankfully Sai has never been shown this crazy. Brash, stubborn, yes but never maniacal! . Ajinkya can actually charge him for assault. Virat has screwed up big time. And thankfully even the character himself will soon realize it.

Seriously, its in equal parts appalling as well as ridiculous to read the opinions of certain people on this forum. 🙄 Thankfully majority people on this forum are people who are truly rational, sensitive, funny, clever and logical and I love reading all their povs.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Do people really think virat holding pp hands is "casual" and can be compared to Sai hugging her friends and touching them. she is the girl who he supposedly loved and had a past with n has now bevome his bhabhi but still harbors lustful intentions for him which he is aware of. Theres is nothing platonic or friendly about virat-pp relationship. They are already stuck living in the same house with virats wife bearing the brunt of toxic didis toxicity. The least he can do is maintain a physical distance from her. Yet he thinks its ok to hold her hand , even casually?! And he swings like a pendulum- one day he tells her not to come to his room, swats her hand away, next day he himself is holding her hand sometimes even while he is hugging his wife, or standing too close for comfort whispering in her ear! Matlabb aisa swing karta hai banda. Not to mention walking into pp's room at night in the past or allowing pp to do the same just coz he feels like "his" intentions are "pure" so everyone needs to understand it but if his wife even mentions a boys name, hell will break lose from his end. He makes Sai his wife go through the pain of living with his ex 24x7 and walking into their private space and he has a problem with wife's friend dropling off notes n cupcakes for her n sitting next to her because he has "hallucinated" that they were kissing/canoodling or whatever 🙄 He even has the gall to actually look surprised when Sai states that the issue is not the pillows between us but a full fledged person.

Honestly i DO understand virats reasons for insecurity and i know he truly loves Sai n cares for her and i feel for him when he is stuck between a rock n hard place but there is really NO defense for his maniac behavior n "physical assault" n his rage no matter what. He crosses all lines. And there is absolutely NO comparison of what he has done with any of Sai's mistakes. Because thankfully Sai has never been shown this crazy. Brash, stubborn, yes but never maniacal! . Ajinkya can actually charge him for assault. Virat has screwed up big time. And thankfully even the character himself will soon realize it.

Seriously, its in equal parts appalling as well as ridiculous to read the opinions of certain people on this forum. 🙄 Thankfully majority people on this forum are people who are truly rational, sensitive, funny, clever and logical and I love reading all their povs.

@ 1st bolded: This is spot on. I just wrote something similar on another post. In my opinion, Virat's biggest problem (maybe 2nd biggest after the fact that he lacks no control over his emotions), is that he cannot look at situations from other people's perspective... namely Sai's. He only thinks about the fact that he himself loves Sai and has no feelings towards Pakhi, but he does not even consider how all of this impacts Sai. Even forgetting the vaada, which he once again made in the impulse of his emotions, which woman would be ok with a random lady entering her bedroom at random hours at night, trying to feed her husband, and shamelessly basically declaring her love for him?? On top of it all, Pakhi is not some random woman... she is the woman that in Sai's mind shared a deep love story with Virat... none of this is okay. It cannot be even close to compared with Sai's FRIENDSHIP with AJ. Yesterday, Virat was in no state to comprehend any of this, but it has been almost a year of their marriage now, and he should have realized all of this a very very long time ago.

When Sai brought up Pakhi yesterday, that could have been a groundbreaking moment for them to finally tackle all of these issues once and for all. Neil and Ayesha would have killed it. But, alas makers need drama, and I'm still too thankful that they didn't show suicide to be able to fully complain about this missed opportunity.

@2nd bolded: I completely agree with this as well. I do understand what resulted in this explosion and why it happened. And, I do feel for him in many ways. But, there is absolutely no excuse for nor justifying the way in which he came across yesterday. Once he comes back into reality, even he himself will realize what he has done, and he will regret this for the rest of his life.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

@Bold Respecting the mods notice that personal attacks should be reported but not responded . Tagging the mods to understand if the highlighted part comes under personal attack . I am trying to understand if it’s ok to comment on other people’s opnion as ridiculous just because it differs from their opinion

And Who is attacked by this post?

I have made a general comment that i have find the opinion of certain people ridiculous and appalling. That is merely stating my personal reaction to their posts. I have not namecalled, attacked or insulted anyone or prevented them for stating their opinion.

Originally posted by: Nja91

And Who is attacked by this post?

I have made a general comment that i have find the opinion of certain people ridiculous and appalling. That is merely stating my personal reaction to their posts. I have not namecalled, attacked or insulted anyone or prevented them for stating their opinion.

I have also not called out on any forum member specifically. I have merely made a generic comment.

Are we comparing two scenarios which are totally different without taking the situation into picture . When Virat asked Pakhi not to touch him was when he was alone with her in the hall or in the hospital room . He had a reason to do so as he knew it can be misunderstood when anyone sees them alone in a room in a closed space . When Virat held Pakhi’s hand , it was infront of all to either stop her from spoiling the surprise. Are these two situations same ?

Virat and Pakhi are ex but they were also friends ( for Virat and he believed it was the same for Pakhi ) . They are SIL and BIl and live under same roof . What’s wrong if a BIL went to his SIL room once or twice . Even when he went to his room he knew his limits and stood near the door . Why can’t ex be friends . After he knew about Pakhi’s feelings did he go to her room or invite her to his room . Didn’t he ask her to knock before coming to his room . I would like fo remind people here that Virat was the one who asked Pakhi to get out of the room when Sai was in GC . He knew his limits and never saw his SIL in a wrong way .

I never saw anyone justifying Virat’s behavior but the fact doesn’t change that two different situations are compared and it’s not apple to apple comparisons

Originally posted by: Nja91

And Who is attacked by this post?

I have made a general comment that i have find the opinion of certain people ridiculous and appalling. That is merely stating my personal reaction to their posts. I have not namecalled, attacked or insulted anyone or prevented them for stating their opinion.

Seriously Guys,

Do not be a part of attacking and moral policing. There is no need for anyone to explain to the other. Just Report it. Since this is turning into picking on one other, Topic Closed.

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